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Paul Kalkin, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in California

Paul Kalkin

Accepts United Medical Resources (UMR)
Individual therapy

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LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Paul Kalkin, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Paul has a Masters of Arts (MA) in Counseling Psychology from California Institute of Integral Studies.

Available virtually|CA
Specialties
ADHD
Anxiety
Depression
Life Transitions
Relationship Issues
Style
Insightful
Candid
Curious

Hi there, I'm Paul!

I am a California LMFT practicing since 2012 and a candidate analyst in a Lacanian psychoanalytic school. I work with anxiety, relationship problems, conflicts of identity, ADHD, and all life transitions. The work I offer is not coaching; it's a weekly commitment to challenging, but riveting conversations.

My focus

I work with adults who want to be more thoughtful about their choices, willing to examine their role in repetitive struggles in their relationships or professional life. Clients who see me typically seek depth, clarity, and long-term shifts in how they relate to others and their work. They tend to discover patience, passion, endurance, and courage.

My approach

My approach is psychoanalytic and psychodynamic, informed by interpersonal and cognitive methods when useful. I focus on recurring patterns, defenses, and contradictions. This is not advice-driven therapy or quick symptom relief (though that can happen). It is intense, often challenging work aimed at structural change, but still supportive.

Expertise

Focus populations

BIPOC
First Generation American/Immigrant Parents
LGBTQIA+
Educators
Gay
Queer
+ 6 more

Therapy types

  • Individual Therapy

Ages served

  • Adults

Practice

Accepted insurance providers

  • United Medical Resources (UMR)
  • Aetna
  • Aetna - Medicare Advantage
  • Alignment Health Plan - Medicare Advantage
  • All Savers

Languages spoken

English

Education

Masters of Arts (MA) in Counseling Psychology from California Institute of Integral Studies.

Sessions

60 minutes
Virtual sessions

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