Stephen Kisslinger

My communication style

My clients find me to be kind, understanding, insightful, and flexible, while also client-goal-focused. We often laugh in session, but not to avoid or discount pain. Clients say they feel heard, understood, and valued. I share truthful feedback with clients even when it is hard to hear. I try to "speak the truth in love, listen in love, or both".

My journey to mental healthcare

I knew I wanted to work helping people since I was young. At first, I thought this would be as an MD. Later, I realized that my best gifts are in communication. I was ordained and served as a minister for 13 years. I realized I wanted additional focus and training in helping people through therapy. This led to a doctorate and a therapy career.

My goals for you

Goal setting comes more easily to some folks than others. Some clients have a clear idea of what they want to accomplish. Others develop that focus as they talk about themselves and their concerns with me. I do encourage clients to make at least one short-term goal in the first session, even if that is to think about their goals between sessions.

Our first session

A process of getting to know each other and agreeing on expectations for therapy. An opportunity to ask questions, not just answer them. Someone who truly cares about and respects them, and wants to help them experience healing and growth.

I identify as...

• Male
• Caucasian or White
• Christian