How to find the right therapist in San Bernardino, CA

When choosing a therapist in San Bernardino, CA, it's best to reflect on what you’re looking for and ask yourself which of the following criteria are most important to you: Do they accept your insurance? Do you need a therapist who specializes in a specific mental health concern such as depression, anxiety, or trauma? Are you looking for someone to work with you individually? Or are you looking for someone to support you as a couple or family? Would you be more comfortable partnering with a therapist of a certain race, gender expression, sexual orientation, religious, or cultural background?

Can I use my insurance?

Yes! Therapists on the Rula platform are in-network with most major insurance plans. Rula patients typically pay $15 per session, although your individual cost may vary based on your insurance benefits and deductible. We’ll work with your insurance to confirm your estimated per-session cost before your first appointment. Ready to get started? Click here to browse available therapists who accept your insurance.

How do I know if therapy is right for me?

There’s no right or wrong reason to start therapy. Whether you’re seeking help navigating a life transition or managing symptoms of anxiety or depression, therapy is an effective treatment for many types of concerns – all you need is an open mind and a general sense of what you’d like to explore with a therapist. Still unsure? Head to our blog to learn more.

How soon can I meet with a therapist?

Therapists in Rula’s network are available to meet as soon as tomorrow. Click here to explore therapists and book your first session in minutes.

What should I consider when choosing a therapist?

It depends on your personal preferences and goals. Whether you’re seeking a therapist who specializes in certain mental health conditions, shares your ethnic background, or is available to meet at your preferred time – Rula makes it easy to search and filter by what matters most to you. If you don’t feel like your first choice was a match, don’t worry – we’ll help you switch to a different therapist in our network. Check out our blog post for more pointers on finding your best-fit therapist.

How do I know if I need therapy or psychiatry?

If you’re experiencing severe symptoms that interfere with your daily functioning, you may want to consider starting with a psychiatric provider who can assess your needs and prescribe medication if deemed necessary. If your symptoms are mild or moderate, therapy may be a better starting point. No matter where you begin your journey – your provider will work with you to develop a personalized treatment plan that’s based on your individual needs and concerns. Still unsure? Visit our blog to learn more about the differences.

Does Rula offer in-person appointments?

Currently, Rula offers in-person therapy in some states. For those living in other states, there are many benefits to online therapy!

Can Rula help me find a therapist?

Absolutely. Rula’s network of 10,000+ licensed providers represent more than 80 clinical specialties and a diverse range of backgrounds – making it easier to find the care you need. Once you provide us with some basic information, we’ll generate a curated list of in-network therapists who are licensed in your state and accepting new patients. From there, you can filter by what matters most to you and explore individual biographies until you find a match. Ready to get started?

What types of care can I access through Rula?

Providers in Rula’s network specialize in individual therapy, couples therapy, family therapy, and psychiatric care (i.e., medication management).

Who is eligible to access care through Rula?

Individuals aged 5 and older are eligible to receive care in any state where Rula is available.

How will I meet with my therapist?

Rula specializes in online therapy – giving you the flexibility to meet with your therapist from wherever you’re most comfortable. We’ll send you an appointment reminder containing a secure link to your scheduled Zoom session approximately 24 hours before your session.

Connect with Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) in San Bernardino, CA

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30+ Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) therapists

Quality care comes first at Rula

We regularly review providers to ensure quality

30+ Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) therapists

Ron Gellis, LCP

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCP

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40+ years

Licensed Clinical Psychologists (LCPs), like Ron Gellis, LCP, hold a doctoral degree and are trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Ron has a Doctor of Philosophy (PHD) from Florida Institute of Technology and a Masters of Arts (MA) from Columbia University.

Rancho Santa Margarita, CA

Specialties

Addiction

Aging

Divorce

Grief

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Directive

Spiritual

Motivational

I have been a Christian and Licensed Clinical, Forensic, and Sports Neuropsychologist for many years. I have served in the Navy and am passionate about working with Veterans, First Responders, and their Families. I played D1 soccer, ran 20 marathons, taught scuba as well was an award-winning underwater photographer.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Nicolette Munoz

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Nicolette Munoz, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Nicolette has a Master of Arts in Marriage and Family Therapy from Chapman University.

California

Specialties

Addiction

Anxiety

Depression

Grief

Relationship Issues

Style

Exploratory

Candid

Collaborative

I’m a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist based in California. I believe therapy works best when clients can sense the humanity of their therapist, knowing they are working with someone authentic, empathetic, and deeply invested in their growth. I believe it’s important for clients to experience their therapist as a real human being.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 21st

Available virtually

Karim Khalil

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT

•

2+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Karim Khalil, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Karim has a Master of Science Psychology (MSPSY) in Marriage And Family Therapy from The Chicago School of Professional Psychology.

Irvine, CA

Specialties

Anxiety

Coping Skills

Panic Attacks

Stress

Style

Exploratory

Candid

Curious

I work with Adults and specialize in anxiety and stress disorders using Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) to help my clients explore their emotions, develop coping skills, and achieve positive life changes.

Next appointmentFriday, Apr 24th

Available virtually

Armando Ruan

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Armando Ruan, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Armando has a Master of Science Psychology (MSPSY) Marriage and Family Therapy from Azusa Pacific University.

California

Specialties

Anxiety

Coping Skills

Depression

Self Esteem

Stress

Style

Responsive

Warm

Collaborative

Welcome — I'm glad you're here. I help individuals navigate life's challenges with clarity, compassion, and support. Whether you're feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or simply seeking growth, therapy can be a powerful space for change and healing. If you're ready to take the next step, I'd be honored to support you.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 21st

Available virtually

Chyna Hill

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Chyna Hill, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Chyna has a Doctor of Philosophy (PHD) in Social Work from University of Southern California, a Master of Social Work (MSW) from University of Southern California and a Master of Arts (MA) in Africana Women's Studies from Clark Atlanta University.

California

Specialties

Career Counseling

Life Transitions

Pregnancy, Prenatal, Postpartum

Racial Identity

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Exploratory

Candid

Collaborative

Feeling overwhelmed, even though you’re holding everything together? I work with women who are navigating trauma, stress, and life transitions. Together, we focus on understanding patterns and building a path forward that actually feels sustainable.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 21st

Available virtually

Guy Washington

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCP

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16+ years

Licensed Clinical Psychologists (LCPs), like Guy Washington, hold a doctoral degree and are trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Guy has a Doctor of Psychology (PSYD) from California School of Professional Psychology and a Master of Arts (MA) from Chapman University.

Sacramento, CA

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Relationship Issues

Substance Use

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Exploratory

Attuned

Collaborative

I prefer an integrative approach to treatment, as there is no one model or technique that fits everyone. Therefore, it is imperative to connect and collaborate with clients to better understand their needs.

Next appointmentMonday, Apr 27th

Available virtually

James Mark Manley

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like James Mark Manley, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

James Mark has a Master's in Counseling (MC) in Counseling Psychology from National University.

California

Specialties

Divorce

Family Conflict

Infidelity

Parenting

Relationship Issues

Style

Directive

Attuned

Motivational

Sometimes, a thoughtful conversation with the right person can make all the difference. As an experienced therapist, husband, and father, I bring both professional training and real-life wisdom to help you navigate life’s challenges. Together, we'll slow things down, understand what is happening, and identify a practical path forward.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Esther Torres

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Esther Torres, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Esther has a Masters of Arts (MA) Marriage and Family Therapy from United States International University.

San Diego, CA

Specialties

Addiction

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Relationship Issues

Style

Exploratory

Warm

Collaborative

Hello, and thank you for visiting my page. I help individuals navigate their challenges and work toward improving their mental health, fostering healthier connections, and improving overall well-being.

Next appointmentWednesday, Apr 22nd

Available virtually

Robey Patrick

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Robey Patrick, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Robey has a Doctor of Philosophy (PHD) in Spanish Literature from Ohio State University, a Master of Arts (MA) in Spanish Literature from Pennsylvania State University - Hershey and a Master's in Counseling (MC) in Psychology from National University.

California

Specialties

Child Abuse or Neglect

Cultural Stress

Grief

LGBTQIA+

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Outcome-oriented

Attuned

Affirming

I am a compassionate therapist who strives to create a welcoming and affirming space for all. My practice is specialized in helping people process trauma head-on, using the somatic and mindfulness-based modality of Brainspotting.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Kim Tran

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Kim Tran, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Kim has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from California State University, Long Beach.

Huntington Beach, CA

Specialties

Anxiety

Cultural Stress

Depression

Life Transitions

Style

Exploratory

Candid

Empowering

I am an LCSW licensed therapist who uses a guidance-based approach to help clients create meaningful change, improve quality of life, and find purpose. I offer a compassionate and collaborative safe space for diverse backgrounds. As a Reiki Master, Quantum Healing Practitioner, and sound bath healer, I integrate energy healing into holistic wellness

Next appointmentSunday, May 10th

Available virtually

Vannesa Arrivillaga-Rauda

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT

•

1+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Vannesa Arrivillaga-Rauda, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Vannesa has a Master of Clinical Health Services in Marriage and Family Therapy from University of Phoenix.

Redlands, CA

Specialties

Anxiety

Coping Skills

Life Transitions

Mood Disorders

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Insightful

Attuned

Collaborative

My focus has been on trauma, and I have worked with children, couples, and families navigating the challenges of trauma.

Next appointmentFriday, May 8th

Available virtually

Miriam Munzarova

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Miriam Munzarova, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Miriam has a Master's in Counseling (MC) from JFK University and a Doctor of Medicine (MD) from Lekarska Fakulta (1994).

California

Specialties

ADHD

Anxiety

Grief

Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Responsive

Attuned

Affirming

Are you silently carrying deep emotional pain, grief, betrayal, anxiety, or the scars of childhood trauma? Please do not dismiss your pain today and offer yourself a little act of love and compassion. Your wounds want to be validated, understood, and healed.

Next appointmentThursday, Apr 23rd

Available virtually

Gloria Gonzales

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT

•

6+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Gloria Gonzales, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Gloria has a Master of Science Psychology (MSPSY) in Clinical Psychology/Latino Counseling from Antioch University.

Ventura, CA

Specialties

Cultural Stress

Grief

Life Transitions

Relationship Issues

Style

Directive

Candid

Curious

I work with individuals, families, co-parents, and couples. My hope is to help you heal and live an abundant life filled with happiness. I believe our trials and mishaps can give us wisdom as we go through life. Every day is an opportunity to learn, heal, and change.

Next appointmentThursday, Apr 23rd

Available virtually

Joel Herrera

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Joel Herrera, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Joel has a Master of Arts (MA) in Counseling Psychology from National University.

California

Specialties

Anxiety

Coping Skills

Depression

Relationship Issues

Self Esteem

Style

Exploratory

Approachable

Affirming

I believe the journey to greater mental health is a worthy process. Everyone's path is different, and yet we are all on the same journey. My intention is to invite open, genuine conversations that help you connect with your truth.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 21st

Available virtually

Dr. Monique Hicks

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT

•

8+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Dr. Monique Hicks, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Dr. Monique has a Master of Arts (MA) in Marriage and Family Therapy from Grand Canyon University.

California

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Grief

Style

Responsive

Spiritual

Collaborative

I utilize a range of interventions and techniques tailored to you. I have extensive experience working with all populations. If you are experiencing difficulties or want to learn techniques to obtain emotional, spiritual, and mental stability, I am here to assist you in attaining your therapeutic goals.

Next appointmentMonday, Apr 27th

Available virtually

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A closer look at Rula’s mental health providers in California

Specialty

Our providers specialize in a wide range of mental health needs, so you get care that truly fits you.

75

clinical specialties represented

Gender

You deserve a provider who understands your identity. Rula providers offer care that’s inclusive and affirming.

10

gender identities represented

Race & Ethnicity

Our providers represent a variety of backgrounds and cultures. Find providers who share or respect your lived experiences.

10

ethnicities represented across Rula providers

Therapy

Whether it’s stress, relationships, or personal growth, our therapists help you navigate what matters.

5,247

offer therapy

Psychiatry

Medication can be a key part of care. Our psychiatric providers offer expert guidance on what’s right for you.

90

offer medication management

Hundreds of thousands of patients have found affordable, in-network mental health care with Rula

Insurance

After you select a provider, we’ll send you a personalized cost estimate before your first session—so you’ll know what to expect.

$15 / session

typical cost patients pay through Rula

Nationwide coverage:

After you select a provider, we’ll send you a personalized cost estimate before your first session—so you’ll know what to expect.

100+ insurance plans accepted

140M total lives covered

Millions of sessions completed

Network

We hold providers to high clinical standards so you can trust the care you receive.

15,000+

licensed providers

Match

The right provider makes all the difference. We help you find someone who truly fits your needs—the first time.

98%

of searches result in an exact match

Progress

Care should make a difference. Our approach helps you track progress you can feel.

93%

of patients report feeling better after treatment through Rula

Additional therapy specialties and modalities

Sex Therapy Trauma and PTSD Anxiety EMDR Dialectical (DBT)

Psychiatry Couples Family Children therapy Preteen therapy Teen therapy

Male therapists Female therapists Spanish-speaking therapists Black or African American therapists Asian therapists Hispanic or Latinx therapists

Understanding online emotionally focused therapy

What is emotionally focused therapy and how does it work?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) has been shown to be effective in both individuals and couples. It helps people identify and share feelings in new ways. By learning to navigate emotions as a couple or family, your connections can deepen and communication can improve. Online EFT sessions can create a space to better understand your automatic reactions and patterns of relating that may cause pain or problems. With support and guidance, you can reshape entrenched habits into healthy exchanges full of understanding and warmth. The goal is to foster secure, lasting bonds across all your closest relationships.

Emotionally focused therapy may not be the best treatment for your needs. It's important to understand the process and discuss this treatment method with a mental health professional.

Common issues addressed by EFT

EFT can treat relationship distress, attachment issues, and emotional distress. It helps couples and families navigate conflicts, deepen emotional intimacy, and build more resilient, supportive relationships. EFT is also beneficial for people looking to understand their emotional responses and improve personal interactions.

Benefits of online EFT

Online EFT offers the convenience of attending therapy sessions from your home, making it accessible to couples or family members in different locations. It can provide a safe, private environment to explore sensitive relationship dynamics. The online format also broadens access to specialized EFT therapists who may be licensed in your state, but aren’t located in your area.

What to expect during an online EFT session

During an online EFT session, therapists may guide couples or families through discussions and exercises that focus on understanding and expressing emotions. Sessions aim to identify negative interaction patterns and replace them with healthier ways of connecting. The virtual setting allows for flexibility in scheduling, making it easier for all participants to engage in therapy together.

Choosing the right EFT therapist

After you've booked your first session, Rula verifies your insurance coverage and follows up with a cost estimate, including any required copayments.

FAQs about online EFT

How effective is online EFT compared to in-person sessions?

Online emotionally focused therapy can be effective, particularly when therapists successfully create a virtual space conducive to emotional openness. Many therapists on the Rula platform have experience adapting emotionally focused therapy techniques for online formats. While some may prefer in-person interactions, others find online therapy more convenient and less intimidating, which can help make sessions more effective.

Is EFT right for me (or us)?

EFT can aid those struggling with emotional disconnects or conflicts in close relationships. Working individually or jointly with a partner or relatives, EFT offers the possibility of growth and harmony. By building an understanding of underlying feelings and needs, an EFT therapist strives to nurture meaningful connections with care and compassion.

How should I prepare for online EFT sessions?

Emotionally focused therapy involves examining your feelings and relationships. Letting loved ones know you are starting EFT can help them understand this personal work. Be ready to explore emotional reactions and habits in your closest relationships. Though intense feelings may arise when relationship challenges surface, your therapist will facilitate healing with empathy. Progress often requires sitting with discomfort to reach an understanding so you can make connections with those you care about most.

How long does EFT typically last?

The duration of emotionally focused therapy varies, but it’s generally considered a time-limited approach, with many couples or families experiencing improvements within 8 to 20 sessions. The specific length of therapy depends on the unique needs and goals of the participants.

Are there any requirements for participating in online EFT?

You'll need a private, quiet space for uninterrupted video sessions along with a dependable internet connection and a device with a working webcam and microphone. You can commit to the process by keeping appointments, doing techniques at home, journaling progress, and regularly discussing challenges with your therapist.

Quality care comes first at Rula

Quality care comes first at Rula

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A closer look at Rula’s mental health providers in California

Specialty

75

Gender

10

Race & Ethnicity

10

Therapy

5,247

Psychiatry

90

Hundreds of thousands of patients have found affordable, in-network mental health care with Rula

Insurance

$15 / session

Network

15,000+

Match

98%

Progress

93%

Additional therapy specialties and modalities

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