How to find the right therapist in San Francisco, CA

When choosing a therapist in San Francisco, CA, it's best to reflect on what you’re looking for and ask yourself which of the following criteria are most important to you: Do they accept your insurance? Do you need a therapist who specializes in a specific mental health concern such as depression, anxiety, or trauma? Are you looking for someone to work with you individually? Or are you looking for someone to support you as a couple or family? Would you be more comfortable partnering with a therapist of a certain race, gender expression, sexual orientation, religious, or cultural background?

Can I use my insurance?

Yes! Therapists on the Rula platform are in-network with most major insurance plans. Rula patients typically pay $15 per session, although your individual cost may vary based on your insurance benefits and deductible. We’ll work with your insurance to confirm your estimated per-session cost before your first appointment. Ready to get started? Click here to browse available therapists who accept your insurance.

How do I know if therapy is right for me?

There’s no right or wrong reason to start therapy. Whether you’re seeking help navigating a life transition or managing symptoms of anxiety or depression, therapy is an effective treatment for many types of concerns – all you need is an open mind and a general sense of what you’d like to explore with a therapist. Still unsure? Head to our blog to learn more.

How soon can I meet with a therapist?

Therapists in Rula’s network are available to meet as soon as tomorrow. Click here to explore therapists and book your first session in minutes.

What should I consider when choosing a therapist?

It depends on your personal preferences and goals. Whether you’re seeking a therapist who specializes in certain mental health conditions, shares your ethnic background, or is available to meet at your preferred time – Rula makes it easy to search and filter by what matters most to you. If you don’t feel like your first choice was a match, don’t worry – we’ll help you switch to a different therapist in our network. Check out our blog post for more pointers on finding your best-fit therapist.

How do I know if I need therapy or psychiatry?

If you’re experiencing severe symptoms that interfere with your daily functioning, you may want to consider starting with a psychiatric provider who can assess your needs and prescribe medication if deemed necessary. If your symptoms are mild or moderate, therapy may be a better starting point. No matter where you begin your journey – your provider will work with you to develop a personalized treatment plan that’s based on your individual needs and concerns. Still unsure? Visit our blog to learn more about the differences.

Does Rula offer in-person appointments?

Currently, Rula offers in-person therapy in some states. For those living in other states, there are many benefits to online therapy!

Can Rula help me find a therapist?

Absolutely. Rula’s network of 10,000+ licensed providers represent more than 80 clinical specialties and a diverse range of backgrounds – making it easier to find the care you need. Once you provide us with some basic information, we’ll generate a curated list of in-network therapists who are licensed in your state and accepting new patients. From there, you can filter by what matters most to you and explore individual biographies until you find a match. Ready to get started?

What types of care can I access through Rula?

Providers in Rula’s network specialize in individual therapy, couples therapy, family therapy, and psychiatric care (i.e., medication management).

Who is eligible to access care through Rula?

Individuals aged 5 and older are eligible to receive care in any state where Rula is available.

How will I meet with my therapist?

Rula specializes in online therapy – giving you the flexibility to meet with your therapist from wherever you’re most comfortable. We’ll send you an appointment reminder containing a secure link to your scheduled Zoom session approximately 24 hours before your session.

Connect with Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) in San Francisco, CA

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Quality care comes first at Rula

We regularly review providers to ensure quality

30+ Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) therapists

Quality care comes first at Rula

We regularly review providers to ensure quality

30+ Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) therapists

Vanessa Michelle Lopez-Velazquez

LPCC

Licensed Professional Clinical Counselors (LPCCs), like Vanessa Michelle Lopez-Velazquez, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Vanessa has a Master of Science (MS) in Professional Clinical Counsellor from California State University, Northridge.

California

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Grief

Relationship Issues

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Exploratory

Spiritual

Collaborative

I believe that every human being has a unique purpose in this life. My goal as a therapist is to create a safe environment where you can be yourself and explore who you are with curiosity and compassion. Together, we’ll work through life’s challenges and help you build a life that feels authentic, empowering, and in alignment with your purpose.

Next appointmentSaturday, Apr 25th

Available virtually

Vannesa Arrivillaga-Rauda

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT

•

1+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Vannesa Arrivillaga-Rauda, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Vannesa has a Master of Clinical Health Services in Marriage and Family Therapy from University of Phoenix.

Redlands, CA

Specialties

Anxiety

Coping Skills

Life Transitions

Mood Disorders

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Insightful

Attuned

Collaborative

My focus has been on trauma, and I have worked with children, couples, and families navigating the challenges of trauma.

Next appointmentFriday, May 8th

Available virtually

Dr. Monique Hicks

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT

•

8+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Dr. Monique Hicks, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Dr. Monique has a Master of Arts (MA) in Marriage and Family Therapy from Grand Canyon University.

California

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Grief

Style

Responsive

Spiritual

Collaborative

I utilize a range of interventions and techniques tailored to you. I have extensive experience working with all populations. If you are experiencing difficulties or want to learn techniques to obtain emotional, spiritual, and mental stability, I am here to assist you in attaining your therapeutic goals.

Next appointmentMonday, Apr 27th

Available virtually

Nicolette Munoz

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Nicolette Munoz, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Nicolette has a Master of Arts in Marriage and Family Therapy from Chapman University.

California

Specialties

Addiction

Anxiety

Depression

Grief

Relationship Issues

Style

Exploratory

Candid

Collaborative

I’m a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist based in California. I believe therapy works best when clients can sense the humanity of their therapist, knowing they are working with someone authentic, empathetic, and deeply invested in their growth. I believe it’s important for clients to experience their therapist as a real human being.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 21st

Available virtually

Jennifer Rauch

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW

•

3+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Jennifer Rauch, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Jennifer has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from California State University Long Beach.

Carlsbad, CA

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Relationship Issues

Self Esteem

Style

Outcome-oriented

Candid

Collaborative

I am an LCSW with over 20 years of experience in the mental health field and I would love to help you find your way through life's problems. I provide counseling services to older youths and adults facing problems at school, work, or in their personal lives. I primarily use CBT as a tool to help my clients reach their goals in a timely manner.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Robey Patrick

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Robey Patrick, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Robey has a Doctor of Philosophy (PHD) in Spanish Literature from Ohio State University, a Master of Arts (MA) in Spanish Literature from Pennsylvania State University - Hershey and a Master's in Counseling (MC) in Psychology from National University.

California

Specialties

Child Abuse or Neglect

Cultural Stress

Grief

LGBTQIA+

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Outcome-oriented

Attuned

Affirming

I am a compassionate therapist who strives to create a welcoming and affirming space for all. My practice is specialized in helping people process trauma head-on, using the somatic and mindfulness-based modality of Brainspotting.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Joshua Duke

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Joshua Duke, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Joshua has a Master of Arts (MA) in Clinical Psychology from Antioch University Los Angeles.

California

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Style

Exploratory

Candid

Curious

You feel unmotivated and stuck. Your life feels like a lukewarm bath; not warm enough to get comfortable, not cold enough to make you want to get out. The monotony feels alienating, affecting your relationships, your job, and how you view yourself. Within you is a desire to discover an authentic and passionate journey. Now is the time to start.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Gloria Gonzales

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT

•

6+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Gloria Gonzales, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Gloria has a Master of Science Psychology (MSPSY) in Clinical Psychology/Latino Counseling from Antioch University.

Ventura, CA

Specialties

Cultural Stress

Grief

Life Transitions

Relationship Issues

Style

Directive

Candid

Curious

I work with individuals, families, co-parents, and couples. My hope is to help you heal and live an abundant life filled with happiness. I believe our trials and mishaps can give us wisdom as we go through life. Every day is an opportunity to learn, heal, and change.

Next appointmentThursday, Apr 23rd

Available virtually

Alease Hamlin-Rossi

Recognized for high quality patient care

LPCC

•

2+ years

Licensed Professional Clinical Counselors (LPCCs), like Alease Hamlin-Rossi, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Alease has a Master of Clinical Health Services in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Walden University.

Riverside, CA

Specialties

Alcohol Use

Anxiety

Depression

Personality Disorders

Substance Use

Style

Responsive

Candid

Supportive

I specialize in military culture and work with clients navigating stress, anxiety, addiction, depression, motivation, self-esteem, and confidence. My experience includes supporting probationers, forensics, foster care, and military populations. I treat everyone with respect, sensitivity, and compassion.

Next appointmentFriday, Apr 24th

Available virtually

Daniel Melin

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Daniel Melin, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Daniel has a Master of Science (MS) in Marriage and Family Therapy (MFT) from Texas A&M University Central Texas, a Doctor of Ministry (D MIN) in Family Ministry and Counseling from Southern Baptist Theological Seminary and a Master of Divinity (MDIV) from New Orleans Baptist Theological Seminary.

California

Specialties

Anxiety

Parenting

Relationship Issues

Sleep or Insomnia

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Outcome-oriented

Spiritual

Collaborative

Starting therapy is an act of wisdom. I specialize in working with individuals navigating anxiety, depression, and trauma. I use a client-centered approach, tailoring each session to your needs and goals. I'm here to provide a safe and supportive environment that meets your needs.

Next appointmentWednesday, Apr 22nd

Available virtually

Alexander Anderson

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Alexander Anderson, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Alexander has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from California State University Stanislaus.

Folsom, CA

Specialties

Alcohol Use

Anxiety

Depression

Mood Disorders

Substance Use

Style

Directive

Warm

Supportive

I provide compassionate, evidence-based support to help individuals navigate life's challenges and strengthen their emotional well-being. My practice is grounded in empathy, collaboration, and a commitment to empowering clients toward lasting growth.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 21st

Available virtually

Miriam Munzarova

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Miriam Munzarova, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Miriam has a Master's in Counseling (MC) from JFK University and a Doctor of Medicine (MD) from Lekarska Fakulta (1994).

California

Specialties

ADHD

Anxiety

Grief

Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Responsive

Attuned

Affirming

Are you silently carrying deep emotional pain, grief, betrayal, anxiety, or the scars of childhood trauma? Please do not dismiss your pain today and offer yourself a little act of love and compassion. Your wounds want to be validated, understood, and healed.

Next appointmentThursday, Apr 23rd

Available virtually

Lindsay Hannan

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Lindsay Hannan, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Lindsay has a Master of Social Work (MSW) in Gerontology from California State University, Chico.

California

Specialties

Chronic Illness

Grief

Life Transitions

Older Adult

Stress

Style

Exploratory

Approachable

Supportive

Considering therapy is a big step, and it's normal to feel nervous or unsure. Opening up can feel vulnerable and overwhelming. My goal is to create a safe, welcoming space where you feel truly heard and supported as we work toward what matters to you.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Karim Khalil

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT

•

2+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Karim Khalil, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Karim has a Master of Science Psychology (MSPSY) in Marriage And Family Therapy from The Chicago School of Professional Psychology.

Irvine, CA

Specialties

Anxiety

Coping Skills

Panic Attacks

Stress

Style

Exploratory

Candid

Curious

I work with Adults and specialize in anxiety and stress disorders using Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) to help my clients explore their emotions, develop coping skills, and achieve positive life changes.

Next appointmentFriday, Apr 24th

Available virtually

Jason Astorga

Recognized for high quality patient care

LPCC

Licensed Professional Clinical Counselors (LPCCs), like Jason Astorga, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Jason has a Master in Counseling (MC) Counseling from San Diego State University.

San Diego, CA

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Stress

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Exploratory

Warm

Motivational

I’m Jason Astorga, a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor (LPCC) providing remote services across California. Taking the first step toward support can feel overwhelming, and I’m glad you’re here. My client-centered approach focuses on creating a safe, supportive space where we can work together toward growth and healing with compassion.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

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A closer look at Rula’s mental health providers in California

Specialty

Our providers specialize in a wide range of mental health needs, so you get care that truly fits you.

75

clinical specialties represented

Gender

You deserve a provider who understands your identity. Rula providers offer care that’s inclusive and affirming.

10

gender identities represented

Race & Ethnicity

Our providers represent a variety of backgrounds and cultures. Find providers who share or respect your lived experiences.

10

ethnicities represented across Rula providers

Therapy

Whether it’s stress, relationships, or personal growth, our therapists help you navigate what matters.

5,250

offer therapy

Psychiatry

Medication can be a key part of care. Our psychiatric providers offer expert guidance on what’s right for you.

90

offer medication management

Hundreds of thousands of patients have found affordable, in-network mental health care with Rula

Insurance

After you select a provider, we’ll send you a personalized cost estimate before your first session—so you’ll know what to expect.

$15 / session

typical cost patients pay through Rula

Nationwide coverage:

After you select a provider, we’ll send you a personalized cost estimate before your first session—so you’ll know what to expect.

100+ insurance plans accepted

140M total lives covered

Millions of sessions completed

Network

We hold providers to high clinical standards so you can trust the care you receive.

15,000+

licensed providers

Match

The right provider makes all the difference. We help you find someone who truly fits your needs—the first time.

98%

of searches result in an exact match

Progress

Care should make a difference. Our approach helps you track progress you can feel.

93%

of patients report feeling better after treatment through Rula

Additional therapy specialties and modalities

Sex Therapy Trauma and PTSD Anxiety EMDR Dialectical (DBT)

Psychiatry Couples Family Children therapy Preteen therapy Teen therapy

Male therapists Female therapists Spanish-speaking therapists Black or African American therapists Asian therapists Hispanic or Latinx therapists

Navigating online therapy for Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

Still looking for a Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) therapist in San Francisco, California?

You're sitting across from your partner in your San Francisco apartment, the evening fog pressing against the windows, both of you quiet after another argument that faded into silence. The words you want to say are right there, but reaching out feels impossible. You're not failing at love. Rula connects you with Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) therapists in San Francisco who help couples and individuals recognize the attachment patterns keeping them stuck.

EFT works by identifying the negative cycles that take over your closest relationships, then building new ways of responding that create emotional safety and closeness. Rula's network includes over 21,000 licensed providers, and you can filter specifically for therapists trained in this approach. Getting started takes minutes: sign up, browse curated EFT specialists, choose someone who fits, and schedule your session. You can meet via telehealth from anywhere in San Francisco or connect with a provider in person. Appointments are available as soon as tomorrow.

Living in San Francisco already puts financial pressure on relationships, so therapy shouldn't add more stress. With insurance, Rula patients typically pay between $0 and $25 per session. Self-pay options, including payment plans and HSA/FSA, are also available for those without coverage. Among Rula patients, 94% found a provider they feel comfortable with, and 93% report feeling better after receiving care. You can reach for each other again. Start with one session.

FAQs

How much does Emotionally Focused Therapy cost with insurance in San Francisco?

San Francisco's cost of living is among the highest in the country, so affordable therapy matters here more than most places. Rula helps by keeping costs low: patients with insurance typically pay between $0 and $25 per session, with an average of $15. If you don't have coverage, self-pay options are available, including payment plans and the ability to use HSA or FSA funds.

Can I do EFT sessions online from San Francisco, or do I need to go in person?

Rula offers both telehealth and in-person EFT sessions, so you can choose what works best for your schedule. For many people in San Francisco, telehealth removes the challenge of getting across the city during rush hour just to make an appointment. If you prefer face-to-face sessions, in-person options are also available. Either way, you can schedule an appointment in as little as three minutes, with openings as soon as tomorrow.

How do I find an EFT-trained therapist in San Francisco through Rula?

When you sign up with Rula, you can filter providers by specialty, including Emotionally Focused Therapy. This saves you from searching through the Bay Area's many general practice listings to find someone with specific EFT training. Rula's network includes over 21,000 licensed providers across more than 180 clinical specialties, so finding the right fit is straightforward. Among Rula patients, 94% found a provider they feel comfortable with.

Is Emotionally Focused Therapy only for couples, or can individuals benefit from EFT in San Francisco?

EFT was originally developed for couples, but it is also effective for individuals working through attachment challenges like anxiety in relationships or fear of emotional closeness. In a city like San Francisco, where people often feel isolated despite being constantly surrounded by others, understanding your attachment patterns can be meaningful. Rula's network includes EFT therapists who work with both couples and individuals, and 94% of patients found a provider they feel comfortable with.

What should I look for in an Emotionally Focused Therapy therapist in San Francisco?

Look for a therapist with specific EFT training or certification, not just someone who lists it among many approaches. In a metro area like San Francisco where thousands of therapists practice, narrowing your search matters. Rula lets you filter by modality so you can find providers with genuine EFT expertise. The network includes over 21,000 providers representing more than 180 clinical specialties, helping you find the right match without endless searching.

How many EFT sessions will I need before I start feeling better?

Many people begin noticing shifts in how they communicate and connect within the first few sessions. Rula patients typically report starting to feel better after just three sessions. In San Francisco, where the pace of daily life can strain even strong relationships, those early changes often feel significant. Your therapist will work with you to set goals, and 93% of Rula patients report feeling better about their symptoms after receiving care.

What happens in a first Emotionally Focused Therapy session through Rula?

Your first EFT session typically focuses on understanding the patterns that bring you in, whether that is recurring arguments with a partner or difficulty forming close connections. Your therapist will ask about your relationship history and what you hope to change. For San Francisco patients juggling demanding schedules, knowing that the initial session is a conversation, not a test, can make starting easier. Rula patients typically meet with a provider within five days of signing up.

Can Emotionally Focused Therapy help with the relationship strain that comes from living in San Francisco?

Yes. The financial pressure, long work hours, and fast pace common in San Francisco can create distance between partners even when both people care deeply. EFT specifically targets these kinds of disconnection patterns by helping you recognize when stress is driving your reactions and building safer ways to respond. Rula makes accessing this support straightforward, with appointments available as soon as tomorrow and 93% of patients reporting they feel better after receiving care.

Quality care comes first at Rula

Quality care comes first at Rula

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A closer look at Rula’s mental health providers in California

Specialty

75

Gender

10

Race & Ethnicity

10

Therapy

5,250

Psychiatry

90

Hundreds of thousands of patients have found affordable, in-network mental health care with Rula

Insurance

$15 / session

Network

15,000+

Match

98%

Progress

93%

Additional therapy specialties and modalities

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