Connect with Male therapists in San Mateo, CA

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Brad Benedict

LMFT
15+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Brad Benedict, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

All Rula providers are licensed and hold a master’s or doctorate degree required for practice.

California
Specialties
Infidelity
Men's Issues
Relationship Issues
Spirituality
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Directive
Approachable
Collaborative

I was there, too. There was a time when I was extremely lost in life. But therapy changed the direction of my life forever. Because I went through it, I will get you through it, too. Whether you’re coming to me for personal growth, relationship struggles, or healing from trauma through EMDR, we can work together to get you past the problem.

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Eduardo Gonzalez

LCSW
3+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Eduardo Gonzalez, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

All Rula providers are licensed and hold a master’s or doctorate degree required for practice.

California
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Family Conflict
Relationship Issues
School Issues
Style
Outcome-oriented
Approachable
Supportive

I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker who provides a safe, nonjudgemental space for clients to be themselves and work towards changes that matter to them the most.

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Samuel Semanda

LMFT
4+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Samuel Semanda, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

All Rula providers are licensed and hold a master’s or doctorate degree required for practice.

California
Specialties
Anger Management
Anxiety
Depression
Relationship Issues
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Insightful
Attuned
Collaborative

I'm an LMFT, and I warmly welcome you as you begin this work together. In an intersubjective approach, I focus on how your experiences and our therapeutic relationship unfold in the room, creating safety, meaning, and momentum.

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Keith Nelson

LCSW
22+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Keith Nelson, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Keith has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from San Jose State University.

California
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Relationship Issues
Stress
Substance Use
Style
Responsive
Approachable
Collaborative

I have been practicing for more than 20 years as a licensed therapist. I have experience in public and private clinics, supervisor and management roles. I have also been involved with research. I enjoy the outdoors, my family and pets, and growing through the challenges life offers and appreciating the journey as I age!

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Kevin Bagwell

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LPCC
1+ years

Licensed Professional Clinical Counselors (LPCCs), like Kevin Bagwell, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Kevin has a Master of Science (MS) in Human Services Counseling from National Louis University.

Pasadena, CA
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Relationship Issues
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Responsive
Candid
Collaborative

I know therapy might feel intimidating or overwhelming. Thank you for considering it, and I hope you give it a try. I work with individuals and families dealing with relational conflict, anxiety, depression, and trauma. I use a client-centered, eclectic approach tailored to your needs and meet you where you are.

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Joseph Garcia

LMFT
3+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Joseph Garcia, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Joseph has a Master of Arts (MA) in Marriage and Family Therapist from Touro University Worldwide.

California
Specialties
Addiction
Autism or Asperger's Syndrome
Career Counseling
Parenting
jobStress
Style
Outcome-oriented
Approachable
Collaborative

I’m a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist dedicated to providing a supportive, respectful, and nonjudgmental space where clients can feel heard and understood. My approach is collaborative and practical, helping individuals navigate life challenges, strengthen coping skills, and improve relationships.

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Jeff Kelly

LCP
21+ years

Licensed Clinical Psychologists (LCPs), like Jeff Kelly, hold a doctoral degree and are trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Jeff has a Doctor of Psychology (PSYD) in Clinical Psychology from Azusa Pacific University.

California
Specialties
Depression
Style
Insightful
Approachable
Supportive

I am a psychologist who has been licensed since 2005. Prior to that, I was practicing therapy as an MFT-INTERN. I have worked in both private practice and hospital settings. I help my clients identify and change patterns in their lives that contribute to the reasons they sought therapy. I may be able to help you.

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Mike Denn

LCP
16+ years

Licensed Clinical Psychologists (LCPs), like Mike Denn, hold a doctoral degree and are trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Mike has a Doctor of Psychology (PSYD) from Trinity College of Graduate Studies.

Camarillo, CA
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Style
Exploratory
Gentle
Collaborative

My approach to therapy is called Rational Living Therapy. My focus is to make you better, not just feel better.

Available virtually

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Gamaliel Polanco

LCSW
13+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Gamaliel Polanco, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

All Rula providers are licensed and hold a master’s or doctorate degree required for practice.

California
Specialties
Addiction
Men's Issues
Mood Disorders
Schizophrenia
Spirituality
Style
Directive
Spiritual
Motivational

Walking through life's journey can be difficult. Two are better than one, lest one falls the other can help them up. I'm honored that you would allow me to walk by your side.

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Richard Ibrahim

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT
9+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Richard Ibrahim, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Richard has a Masters of Arts (MA) in Clinical Psychology from Azusa Pacific University (2017.

California
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Grief
Psychosis
Stress
Style
Responsive
Gentle
Motivational

I work with young adults and older adults using a holistic approach to help my clients make progress and improve their quality of life.

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Sarkis Anthony Vartan

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LCSW
21+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Sarkis Anthony Vartan, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Sarkis Anthony has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from California State University, Stanislaus, Turlock, California.

Turlock, CA
Specialties
Anxiety
Career Counseling
Depression
Family Conflict
Relationship Issues
Style
Insightful
Attuned
Collaborative

With more than 35 years of behavioral health experience, I help adults navigate anxiety, depression, relationship challenges, life transitions, and stress. My approach is warm, insightful, and collaborative, combining practical strategies with deeper self-understanding to support meaningful change.

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Colin Ebeling

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Colin Ebeling, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Colin has a Masters of Arts (MA) Counseling Psychology from Emphasis in MFT - Pacifica Graduate Institute.

California
Specialties
Adoption
Anxiety
Depression
Grief
LGBTQIA+
Style
Exploratory
Warm
Affirming

You don’t have to have everything figured out before reaching out. I help adults navigate anxiety, depression, grief, relationships, identity, and life transitions with warmth and curiosity. Together, we’ll explore the patterns shaping your life and help you feel more grounded, connected, and fully yourself.

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Craig Meisner

LMFT
12+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Craig Meisner, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Craig has a Master of Science (MS) in Marriage and Family Therapy from University of Phoenix.

San Clemente, CA
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)
Relationship Issues
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Exploratory
Warm
Curious

Feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or distressed? I help clients discover and navigate the path to recovery, renewed strength, and healing from stressed relationships and issues surrounding mental health.

Available virtually

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Joel Herrera

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT
16+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Joel Herrera, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Joel has a Master of Arts (MA) in Counseling Psychology from National University.

California
Specialties
Anxiety
Coping Skills
Depression
Relationship Issues
Self Esteem
Style
Exploratory
Approachable
Affirming

I believe the journey to greater mental health is a worthy process. Everyone's path is different, and yet we are all on the same journey. My intention is to invite open, genuine conversations that help you connect with your truth.

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Rocco Cademartori

LCSW
9+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Rocco Cademartori, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Rocco has a Master of Social Work (MSW) in Mental Health/ Adults from California state University, Stanislaus.

Stockton, CA
Specialties
Anxiety
Style
Outcome-oriented
Approachable
Empowering

Welcome to all! I’ve been a Licensed Clinical Social Worker for the past 8 years. I am confident that I can help you improve your situation and assist with emotional and mental healing. Change has to occur in the counseling process for any type of clear benefit. Supporting you with your desired treatment is my pleasure and responsibility.

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Neil Babins

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LMFT
9+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Neil Babins, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Neil has a Master of Arts (MA) in MARRIAGE AND FAMILY THERAPY from Northcentral University.

Crestline, CA
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Relationship Issues
Self Esteem
Stress
Style
Exploratory
Approachable
Curious

My experience and training have shown me that our ways of thinking and feeling are due to years of self-authored truths. Our perceptions, interpretations, and beliefs about who we are keep us trapped. Together, we will chip away at how to re-author yourself in a non-judgmental setting.

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Fernando Huerta-Perez

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Fernando Huerta-Perez, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Fernando has a Masters of Arts (MA) in Marriage & Family Therapist from Alliant International University, Fresno.

Bakersfield, CA
Specialties
Anger Management
Anxiety
Depression
Parenting
Suicidal Ideation
Style
Insightful
Approachable
Collaborative

I am passionate about helping people work through life's challenges and achieve meaningful personal growth. I strive to provide a supportive, compassionate environment where clients feel heard, understood, and empowered. My goal is to help individuals overcome obstacles, build on their strengths, and become the best versions of themselves.

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David Serbin

LPCC
6+ years

Licensed Professional Clinical Counselors (LPCCs), like David Serbin, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

All Rula providers are licensed and hold a master’s or doctorate degree required for practice.

California
Specialties
ADHD
Addiction
First Responders
Style
Practical
Warm
Motivational

I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT #147386) and Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor (LPCC #15666). Through therapy, I work with clients to help them see the positive storylines in their lives. I believe that each client has the main ingredient for success in therapy: hope.

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Pauldeep Gill

LMFT
4+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Pauldeep Gill, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Pauldeep has a Masters of Counseling (MC) in Psychology from National University.

Sacramento, CA
Specialties
Addiction
Style
Outcome-oriented
Approachable
Collaborative

I have been in the mental health field for over 10 years working with addiction, anxiety, depression, and trauma. I have a masters degree in counseling psychology and am licensed in the state of California as a Marriage and Family Therapist. I love helping people heal and empowering them to achieve anything they want.

Available virtually

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Reynaldo Manalo

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT
6+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Reynaldo Manalo, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Reynaldo has a Master in Counseling (MC) from California State University, Fresno.

Fresno, CA
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Life Transitions
Stress
Suicidal Ideation
Style
Outcome-oriented
Approachable
Collaborative

Therapy is a wonderful way to begin your journey to create change in your life. Whether this change is to process experiences or something specific for your needs, I am here to work with you. My therapy stance integrates Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy and Post Modern Therapy, as each person's journey is unique.

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Arthur Zinke

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT
13+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Arthur Zinke, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Arthur has a Doctor of Philosophy (PHD) in Family Studies from Loma Linda University and a Master of Science (MS) in Marital and Family Therapy from Loma Linda University.

Redlands, CA
Specialties
Anxiety
Career Counseling
Depression
Grief
Relationship Issues
Style
Outcome-oriented
Candid
Motivational

My approach to therapy is open, honest, relaxed, encouraging, and educational. I enjoy empowering clients to meet their goals and get the most out of their lives.

Available virtually

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Victor Vasquez

LCSW
6+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Victor Vasquez, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Victor has a Master of Social Work (MSW) in Mental Health from University of Southern California.

California
Specialties
Anxiety
Behavioral Issues
Coping Skills
Depression
Self Esteem
Style
Insightful
Approachable
Collaborative

I believe therapy should feel safe, authentic, and tailored to each person’s unique experiences and goals. My approach is focused on helping clients better understand themselves, strengthen emotional resilience, and create meaningful changes in their daily life.

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Chandra Potnuru

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT
4+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Chandra Potnuru, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Chandra has a Master of Science (MS) in Marriage and Family Therapy from Friends University and a Master of Science Psychology (MSPSY) from Martin Luther Christian University.

West Sacramento, CA
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Relationship Issues
Spirituality
Style
Exploratory
Spiritual
Curious

I help individuals, couples, and families navigate life's complexities and relationship challenges.

Available virtually

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Tosh Fritsch

LMFT
20+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Tosh Fritsch, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Tosh has a Master's in Counseling (MC) from Sonoma State University.

California
Specialties
ADHD
Anxiety
Parenting
Trauma and PTSD
Video Game Addiction
Style
Directive
Warm
Empowering

With over 26 years of experience, I have dedicated passionately more than half of my life to supporting children, individuals, couples, and families through the challenges and opportunities that life presents.

Available virtually

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Joshua Siskin

LMFT
16+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Joshua Siskin, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Joshua has a Master of Arts (MA) in Marriage and Family Therapy from Phillips Graduate Institute and a Master of Science (MS) from University of California, Davis.

Van Nuys, CA
Specialties
Anxiety
Life Transitions
Style
Outcome-oriented
Attuned
Collaborative

I focus on improving daily functioning and fulfillment in all areas of life, helping clients cope with anxiety, depression, and low self-worth. A relationship of mutual respect and appreciation is the key to successful therapy, and I trust we can develop this as I assist you in becoming the person you were meant to be.

My Therapist is very empathetic, understanding and listens to my feelings/needs while allowing me to reflect on my situations without any interruption or judgment. He has acted as a great sounding board that provides me (and has provided my son) with different perspectives while acknowledging our own feelings and mental state

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