How to find the right therapist in California

When choosing a therapist in California, it's best to reflect on what you’re looking for and ask yourself which of the following criteria are most important to you: Do they accept your insurance? Do you need a therapist who specializes in a specific mental health concern such as depression, anxiety, or trauma? Are you looking for someone to work with you individually? Or are you looking for someone to support you as a couple or family? Would you be more comfortable partnering with a therapist of a certain race, gender expression, sexual orientation, religious, or cultural background?

Can I use my insurance?

Yes! Therapists on the Rula platform are in-network with most major insurance plans. Rula patients typically pay $15 per session, although your individual cost may vary based on your insurance benefits and deductible. We’ll work with your insurance to confirm your estimated per-session cost before your first appointment. Ready to get started? Click here to browse available therapists who accept your insurance.

How do I know if therapy is right for me?

There’s no right or wrong reason to start therapy. Whether you’re seeking help navigating a life transition or managing symptoms of anxiety or depression, therapy is an effective treatment for many types of concerns – all you need is an open mind and a general sense of what you’d like to explore with a therapist. Still unsure? Head to our blog to learn more.

How soon can I meet with a therapist?

Therapists in Rula’s network are available to meet as soon as tomorrow. Click here to explore therapists and book your first session in minutes.

What should I consider when choosing a therapist?

It depends on your personal preferences and goals. Whether you’re seeking a therapist who specializes in certain mental health conditions, shares your ethnic background, or is available to meet at your preferred time – Rula makes it easy to search and filter by what matters most to you. If you don’t feel like your first choice was a match, don’t worry – we’ll help you switch to a different therapist in our network. Check out our blog post for more pointers on finding your best-fit therapist.

How do I know if I need therapy or psychiatry?

If you’re experiencing severe symptoms that interfere with your daily functioning, you may want to consider starting with a psychiatric provider who can assess your needs and prescribe medication if deemed necessary. If your symptoms are mild or moderate, therapy may be a better starting point. No matter where you begin your journey – your provider will work with you to develop a personalized treatment plan that’s based on your individual needs and concerns. Still unsure? Visit our blog to learn more about the differences.

Does Rula offer in-person appointments?

Currently, Rula offers in-person therapy in some states. For those living in other states, there are many benefits to online therapy!

Can Rula help me find a therapist?

Absolutely. Rula’s network of 10,000+ licensed providers represent more than 80 clinical specialties and a diverse range of backgrounds – making it easier to find the care you need. Once you provide us with some basic information, we’ll generate a curated list of in-network therapists who are licensed in your state and accepting new patients. From there, you can filter by what matters most to you and explore individual biographies until you find a match. Ready to get started?

What types of care can I access through Rula?

Providers in Rula’s network specialize in individual therapy, couples therapy, family therapy, and psychiatric care (i.e., medication management).

Who is eligible to access care through Rula?

Individuals aged 5 and older are eligible to receive care in any state where Rula is available.

How will I meet with my therapist?

Rula specializes in online therapy – giving you the flexibility to meet with your therapist from wherever you’re most comfortable. We’ll send you an appointment reminder containing a secure link to your scheduled Zoom session approximately 24 hours before your session.

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30+ therapists who accept Aetna

Quality care comes first at Rula

We regularly review providers to ensure quality

30+ therapists who accept Aetna

Olga Deaton

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT

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1+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Olga Deaton, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Olga has a Master of Arts (MA) in Clinical Psychology / Marriage and Family Therapist from Azusa Pacific University.

Ontario, CA

Specialties

Anxiety

Behavioral Issues

Depression

Life Transitions

Stress

Style

Insightful

Attuned

Collaborative

I help adults navigate life's challenges and achieve emotional well-being. I integrate evidence-based practices to create a safe, empathetic environment where you feel heard and understood.

Next appointmentThursday, Apr 23rd

Available virtually

Alease Hamlin-Rossi

Recognized for high quality patient care

LPCC

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2+ years

Licensed Professional Clinical Counselors (LPCCs), like Alease Hamlin-Rossi, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Alease has a Master of Clinical Health Services in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Walden University.

Riverside, CA

Specialties

Alcohol Use

Anxiety

Depression

Personality Disorders

Substance Use

Style

Responsive

Candid

Supportive

I specialize in military culture and work with clients navigating stress, anxiety, addiction, depression, motivation, self-esteem, and confidence. My experience includes supporting probationers, forensics, foster care, and military populations. I treat everyone with respect, sensitivity, and compassion.

Next appointmentFriday, Apr 24th

Available virtually

Shahrzad Sepanlou

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Shahrzad Sepanlou, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Shahrzad has a Masters of Arts (MA) in Clinical Psychology from Chicago School of Professional Psychology.

Irvine, CA

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Family Conflict

Relationship Issues

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Responsive

Warm

Supportive

I am Sheri. I work with adults and couples who are ready for meaningful change but don’t know where to start. Together, we explore old patterns with curiosity and compassion so you can move toward healthier choices and deeper connections. I offer a calm and supportive space where healing becomes possible, and growth and joy feel achievable.

Next appointmentMonday, Apr 27th

Available virtually

Jason Astorga

Recognized for high quality patient care

LPCC

Licensed Professional Clinical Counselors (LPCCs), like Jason Astorga, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Jason has a Master in Counseling (MC) Counseling from San Diego State University.

San Diego, CA

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Stress

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Exploratory

Warm

Motivational

I’m Jason Astorga, a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor (LPCC) providing remote services across California. Taking the first step toward support can feel overwhelming, and I’m glad you’re here. My client-centered approach focuses on creating a safe, supportive space where we can work together toward growth and healing with compassion.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Kimberlynn Silva

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT

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5+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Kimberlynn Silva, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Kimberlynn has a Master of Science (MS) in MFT from University of Phoenix.

California

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

LGBTQIA+

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Directive

Candid

Collaborative

I offer individuals, children, couples, and families an integrative and holistic approach. I customize therapeutic tools to meet your unique needs. My direct style challenges your thinking without judgment. As the expert in your own life, we collaborate as partners to help you reach your goals.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Darlene Obregon

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT

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2+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Darlene Obregon, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Darlene has a Master in Counseling (MC) in Marriage, Family and Child Counseling from California State University, Sacramento.

Sacramento, CA

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Relationship Issues

Trauma and PTSD

Women's Issues

Style

Insightful

Approachable

Motivational

I work with clients, couples, and families on uncovering the roots of their presenting problems and helping them find new ways of healing so they can live a more fulfilling life.

“Darlene has been great with my daughter since the first session. My daughter really likes and enjoys talking to her. She provides a lot of support.”

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 28th

Available virtually

Stephanee Holmes

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Stephanee Holmes, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Stephanee has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from California State University, Bakersfield.

Bakersfield, CA

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Self Esteem

Stress

Style

Exploratory

Approachable

Collaborative

Starting therapy can feel like a big step, and finding the right person makes all the difference. If you're looking for someone who will truly listen, support you without judgment, and help you make sense of life's challenges, you're in the right place. I'm passionate about helping people build confidence, heal, and feel more grounded.

Next appointmentWednesday, Apr 22nd

Available virtually

Joshua Duke

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Joshua Duke, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Joshua has a Master of Arts (MA) in Clinical Psychology from Antioch University Los Angeles.

California

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Style

Exploratory

Candid

Curious

You feel unmotivated and stuck. Your life feels like a lukewarm bath; not warm enough to get comfortable, not cold enough to make you want to get out. The monotony feels alienating, affecting your relationships, your job, and how you view yourself. Within you is a desire to discover an authentic and passionate journey. Now is the time to start.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Vannesa Arrivillaga-Rauda

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT

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1+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Vannesa Arrivillaga-Rauda, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Vannesa has a Master of Clinical Health Services in Marriage and Family Therapy from University of Phoenix.

Redlands, CA

Specialties

Anxiety

Coping Skills

Life Transitions

Mood Disorders

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Insightful

Attuned

Collaborative

My focus has been on trauma, and I have worked with children, couples, and families navigating the challenges of trauma.

Next appointmentFriday, May 8th

Available virtually

Liana Gibson

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT

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9+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Liana Gibson, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Liana has a Master of Science (MS) in Marriage and Family Therapy from Seattle Pacific University.

California

Specialties

Anxiety

Family Conflict

Relationship Issues

Spirituality

Stress

Style

Directive

Spiritual

Empowering

I specialize in helping individuals and families navigate life's challenges, strengthening bonds, and fostering healthier relationships. My approach centers on compassion, clear communication, and tailored strategies, integrating faith, recovery principles, and cultural awareness to create a holistic and supportive environment.

Next appointmentWednesday, Apr 22nd

Available virtually

Lindsay Hannan

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Lindsay Hannan, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Lindsay has a Master of Social Work (MSW) in Gerontology from California State University, Chico.

California

Specialties

Chronic Illness

Grief

Life Transitions

Older Adult

Stress

Style

Exploratory

Approachable

Supportive

Considering therapy is a big step, and it's normal to feel nervous or unsure. Opening up can feel vulnerable and overwhelming. My goal is to create a safe, welcoming space where you feel truly heard and supported as we work toward what matters to you.

Next appointmentWednesday, Apr 22nd

Available virtually

Vanessa Michelle Lopez-Velazquez

LPCC

Licensed Professional Clinical Counselors (LPCCs), like Vanessa Michelle Lopez-Velazquez, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Vanessa has a Master of Science (MS) in Professional Clinical Counsellor from California State University, Northridge.

California

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Grief

Relationship Issues

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Exploratory

Spiritual

Collaborative

I believe that every human being has a unique purpose in this life. My goal as a therapist is to create a safe environment where you can be yourself and explore who you are with curiosity and compassion. Together, we’ll work through life’s challenges and help you build a life that feels authentic, empowering, and in alignment with your purpose.

Next appointmentSaturday, Apr 25th

Available virtually

Ashley Cline

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW

•

7+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Ashley Cline, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Ashley has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from University of Southern California.

California

Specialties

Anxiety

Life Transitions

Relationship Issues

Stress

Style

Exploratory

Warm

Supportive

Suffering is a natural part of being human. When it arises, it's easy to push through or push down what we feel. But you don't have to. Suffering has an antidote called compassion, which means "to suffer together." This is the foundation of my work. Everyone deserves care and compassion in their suffering and a safe space to be with it all.

“She listens without judgement and I feel completely comfortable to be vulnerable with her. I feel safe with her in exposing my inner thoughts and emotions and she is just wonderful. She always has the right thing to say but with purpose not just to bandaid a situation. I truly feel like she is an adequate healer for the soul.”

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Daniel Melin

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Daniel Melin, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Daniel has a Master of Science (MS) in Marriage and Family Therapy (MFT) from Texas A&M University Central Texas, a Doctor of Ministry (D MIN) in Family Ministry and Counseling from Southern Baptist Theological Seminary and a Master of Divinity (MDIV) from New Orleans Baptist Theological Seminary.

California

Specialties

Anxiety

Parenting

Relationship Issues

Sleep or Insomnia

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Outcome-oriented

Spiritual

Collaborative

Starting therapy is an act of wisdom. I specialize in working with individuals navigating anxiety, depression, and trauma. I use a client-centered approach, tailoring each session to your needs and goals. I'm here to provide a safe and supportive environment that meets your needs.

Next appointmentWednesday, Apr 22nd

Available virtually

Renee Davis

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT

•

18+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Renee Davis, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Renee has a Master in Counseling (MC) in Marriage and Family Therapy from Hope International University.

Riverside, CA

Specialties

Anxiety

Codependency

Depression

Relationship Issues

Style

Outcome-oriented

Attuned

Collaborative

I enjoy working with couples and individuals. I specialize in sexual addiction, recovery, affair repair, depression, and anxiety. I am able to teach dialectical behavioral therapy to help balance mood and create a life worth living.

Next appointmentThursday, Apr 23rd

Available virtually

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A closer look at Rula’s mental health providers in California

Specialty

Our providers specialize in a wide range of mental health needs, so you get care that truly fits you.

75

clinical specialties represented

Gender

You deserve a provider who understands your identity. Rula providers offer care that’s inclusive and affirming.

10

gender identities represented

Race & Ethnicity

Our providers represent a variety of backgrounds and cultures. Find providers who share or respect your lived experiences.

10

ethnicities represented across Rula providers

Therapy

Whether it’s stress, relationships, or personal growth, our therapists help you navigate what matters.

5,250

offer therapy

Psychiatry

Medication can be a key part of care. Our psychiatric providers offer expert guidance on what’s right for you.

90

offer medication management

Hundreds of thousands of patients have found affordable, in-network mental health care with Rula

Insurance

After you select a provider, we’ll send you a personalized cost estimate before your first session—so you’ll know what to expect.

$15 / session

typical cost patients pay through Rula

Nationwide coverage:

After you select a provider, we’ll send you a personalized cost estimate before your first session—so you’ll know what to expect.

100+ insurance plans accepted

140M total lives covered

Millions of sessions completed

Network

We hold providers to high clinical standards so you can trust the care you receive.

15,000+

licensed providers

Match

The right provider makes all the difference. We help you find someone who truly fits your needs—the first time.

98%

of searches result in an exact match

Progress

Care should make a difference. Our approach helps you track progress you can feel.

93%

of patients report feeling better after treatment through Rula

Additional therapy specialties and modalities

Sex Therapy Trauma and PTSD Anxiety EMDR Dialectical (DBT)

Psychiatry Couples Family Children therapy Preteen therapy Teen therapy

Male therapists Female therapists Spanish-speaking therapists Black or African American therapists Asian therapists Hispanic or Latinx therapists

Understanding online emotionally focused therapy

What is emotionally focused therapy and how does it work?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) has been shown to be effective in both individuals and couples. It helps people identify and share feelings in new ways. By learning to navigate emotions as a couple or family, your connections can deepen and communication can improve. Online EFT sessions can create a space to better understand your automatic reactions and patterns of relating that may cause pain or problems. With support and guidance, you can reshape entrenched habits into healthy exchanges full of understanding and warmth. The goal is to foster secure, lasting bonds across all your closest relationships.

Emotionally focused therapy may not be the best treatment for your needs. It's important to understand the process and discuss this treatment method with a mental health professional.

Common issues addressed by EFT

EFT can treat relationship distress, attachment issues, and emotional distress. It helps couples and families navigate conflicts, deepen emotional intimacy, and build more resilient, supportive relationships. EFT is also beneficial for people looking to understand their emotional responses and improve personal interactions.

Benefits of online EFT

Online EFT offers the convenience of attending therapy sessions from your home, making it accessible to couples or family members in different locations. It can provide a safe, private environment to explore sensitive relationship dynamics. The online format also broadens access to specialized EFT therapists who may be licensed in your state, but aren’t located in your area.

What to expect during an online EFT session

During an online EFT session, therapists may guide couples or families through discussions and exercises that focus on understanding and expressing emotions. Sessions aim to identify negative interaction patterns and replace them with healthier ways of connecting. The virtual setting allows for flexibility in scheduling, making it easier for all participants to engage in therapy together.

Choosing the right EFT therapist

After you've booked your first session, Rula verifies your insurance coverage and follows up with a cost estimate, including any required copayments.

FAQs about online EFT

How effective is online EFT compared to in-person sessions?

Online emotionally focused therapy can be effective, particularly when therapists successfully create a virtual space conducive to emotional openness. Many therapists on the Rula platform have experience adapting emotionally focused therapy techniques for online formats. While some may prefer in-person interactions, others find online therapy more convenient and less intimidating, which can help make sessions more effective.

Is EFT right for me (or us)?

EFT can aid those struggling with emotional disconnects or conflicts in close relationships. Working individually or jointly with a partner or relatives, EFT offers the possibility of growth and harmony. By building an understanding of underlying feelings and needs, an EFT therapist strives to nurture meaningful connections with care and compassion.

How should I prepare for online EFT sessions?

Emotionally focused therapy involves examining your feelings and relationships. Letting loved ones know you are starting EFT can help them understand this personal work. Be ready to explore emotional reactions and habits in your closest relationships. Though intense feelings may arise when relationship challenges surface, your therapist will facilitate healing with empathy. Progress often requires sitting with discomfort to reach an understanding so you can make connections with those you care about most.

How long does EFT typically last?

The duration of emotionally focused therapy varies, but it’s generally considered a time-limited approach, with many couples or families experiencing improvements within 8 to 20 sessions. The specific length of therapy depends on the unique needs and goals of the participants.

Are there any requirements for participating in online EFT?

You'll need a private, quiet space for uninterrupted video sessions along with a dependable internet connection and a device with a working webcam and microphone. You can commit to the process by keeping appointments, doing techniques at home, journaling progress, and regularly discussing challenges with your therapist.

Quality care comes first at Rula

Quality care comes first at Rula

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A closer look at Rula’s mental health providers in California

Specialty

75

Gender

10

Race & Ethnicity

10

Therapy

5,250

Psychiatry

90

Hundreds of thousands of patients have found affordable, in-network mental health care with Rula

Insurance

$15 / session

Network

15,000+

Match

98%

Progress

93%

Additional therapy specialties and modalities

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