How to find the right therapist in California

When choosing a therapist in California, it's best to reflect on what you’re looking for and ask yourself which of the following criteria are most important to you: Do they accept your insurance? Do you need a therapist who specializes in a specific mental health concern such as depression, anxiety, or trauma? Are you looking for someone to work with you individually? Or are you looking for someone to support you as a couple or family? Would you be more comfortable partnering with a therapist of a certain race, gender expression, sexual orientation, religious, or cultural background?

Can I use my insurance?

Yes! Therapists on the Rula platform are in-network with most major insurance plans. Rula patients typically pay $15 per session, although your individual cost may vary based on your insurance benefits and deductible. We’ll work with your insurance to confirm your estimated per-session cost before your first appointment. Ready to get started? Click here to browse available therapists who accept your insurance.

How do I know if therapy is right for me?

There’s no right or wrong reason to start therapy. Whether you’re seeking help navigating a life transition or managing symptoms of anxiety or depression, therapy is an effective treatment for many types of concerns – all you need is an open mind and a general sense of what you’d like to explore with a therapist. Still unsure? Head to our blog to learn more.

How soon can I meet with a therapist?

Therapists in Rula’s network are available to meet as soon as tomorrow. Click here to explore therapists and book your first session in minutes.

What should I consider when choosing a therapist?

It depends on your personal preferences and goals. Whether you’re seeking a therapist who specializes in certain mental health conditions, shares your ethnic background, or is available to meet at your preferred time – Rula makes it easy to search and filter by what matters most to you. If you don’t feel like your first choice was a match, don’t worry – we’ll help you switch to a different therapist in our network. Check out our blog post for more pointers on finding your best-fit therapist.

How do I know if I need therapy or psychiatry?

If you’re experiencing severe symptoms that interfere with your daily functioning, you may want to consider starting with a psychiatric provider who can assess your needs and prescribe medication if deemed necessary. If your symptoms are mild or moderate, therapy may be a better starting point. No matter where you begin your journey – your provider will work with you to develop a personalized treatment plan that’s based on your individual needs and concerns. Still unsure? Visit our blog to learn more about the differences.

Does Rula offer in-person appointments?

Currently, Rula offers in-person therapy in some states. For those living in other states, there are many benefits to online therapy!

Can Rula help me find a therapist?

Absolutely. Rula’s network of 10,000+ licensed providers represent more than 80 clinical specialties and a diverse range of backgrounds – making it easier to find the care you need. Once you provide us with some basic information, we’ll generate a curated list of in-network therapists who are licensed in your state and accepting new patients. From there, you can filter by what matters most to you and explore individual biographies until you find a match. Ready to get started?

What types of care can I access through Rula?

Providers in Rula’s network specialize in individual therapy, couples therapy, family therapy, and psychiatric care (i.e., medication management).

Who is eligible to access care through Rula?

Individuals aged 5 and older are eligible to receive care in any state where Rula is available.

How will I meet with my therapist?

Rula specializes in online therapy – giving you the flexibility to meet with your therapist from wherever you’re most comfortable. We’ll send you an appointment reminder containing a secure link to your scheduled Zoom session approximately 24 hours before your session.

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30+ therapists who accept Aetna

Quality care comes first at Rula

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30+ therapists who accept Aetna

Kelly Markley

LCSW

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2+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Kelly Markley, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Kelly has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Edinboro University of Pennsylvania.

Valencia, CA

Specialties

ADHD

Anxiety

Depression

Family Conflict

Style

Exploratory

Warm

Curious

I take a compassionate, holistic approach to therapy, tailoring my work to meet each client's unique needs. By combining evidence-based methods with a strong emphasis on empathy and understanding, I aim to create a safe space where clients can explore their concerns and achieve meaningful change.

Next appointmentSaturday, Apr 25th

Available virtually

Mary Baez

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT

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16+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Mary Baez, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Mary has a Master's in Counseling (MC) in Marriage and Family Therapy from University of Phoenix.

Riverside, CA

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Relationship Issues

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Responsive

Gentle

Collaborative

My first concern is building rapport and trust with you. My approach is holistic and eclectic. I believe it's important to address the mind-body connection in mental health, and I tailor my interventions to your individual needs.

“Mary is really good at listening to me and truly hearing me. I have never felt like she was in a hurry or forming suggestions without understanding me. She is good at helping me to understand myself. She has provided me with some very useful suggestions and tools to help with my anxiety. I highly recommend her.”

Next appointmentWednesday, Apr 22nd

Available virtually

Ashley Cline

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW

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7+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Ashley Cline, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Ashley has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from University of Southern California.

California

Specialties

Anxiety

Life Transitions

Relationship Issues

Stress

Style

Exploratory

Warm

Supportive

Suffering is a natural part of being human. When it arises, it's easy to push through or push down what we feel. But you don't have to. Suffering has an antidote called compassion, which means "to suffer together." This is the foundation of my work. Everyone deserves care and compassion in their suffering and a safe space to be with it all.

“She listens without judgement and I feel completely comfortable to be vulnerable with her. I feel safe with her in exposing my inner thoughts and emotions and she is just wonderful. She always has the right thing to say but with purpose not just to bandaid a situation. I truly feel like she is an adequate healer for the soul.”

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Renee Davis

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT

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18+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Renee Davis, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Renee has a Master in Counseling (MC) in Marriage and Family Therapy from Hope International University.

Riverside, CA

Specialties

Anxiety

Codependency

Depression

Relationship Issues

Style

Outcome-oriented

Attuned

Collaborative

I enjoy working with couples and individuals. I specialize in sexual addiction, recovery, affair repair, depression, and anxiety. I am able to teach dialectical behavioral therapy to help balance mood and create a life worth living.

Next appointmentThursday, Apr 23rd

Available virtually

Jose Galindo

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Jose Galindo, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Jose has a Master of Social Work (MSW) in Children and Families from California State University, Long Beach.

La Canada Flintridge, CA

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Self Esteem

Stress

Style

Exploratory

Warm

Curious

Taking the step to seek support is a powerful act of self-care and strength. You don't have to navigate your struggles alone; together, we can create a safe space where you feel truly seen, heard, and supported. I deeply respect the uniqueness of each person's journey, and I'm here to meet you exactly where you are.

Next appointmentWednesday, Apr 22nd

Available virtually

Brenda Rodriguez

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW

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1+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Brenda Rodriguez, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Brenda has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from University of Southern California.

Los Angeles, CA

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Stress

Style

Outcome-oriented

Gentle

Empowering

I have experience working in a school setting and mental health agencies. In my therapeutic approach, I use Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and ensure to provide unconditional positive regard to help my clients progress and feel better.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Olga Deaton

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT

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1+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Olga Deaton, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Olga has a Master of Arts (MA) in Clinical Psychology / Marriage and Family Therapist from Azusa Pacific University.

Ontario, CA

Specialties

Anxiety

Behavioral Issues

Depression

Life Transitions

Stress

Style

Insightful

Attuned

Collaborative

I help adults navigate life's challenges and achieve emotional well-being. I integrate evidence-based practices to create a safe, empathetic environment where you feel heard and understood.

Next appointmentThursday, Apr 23rd

Available virtually

Tara Duque

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT

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1+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Tara Duque, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Tara has a Master in Counseling (MC) Counseling Psychology from National University.

California

Specialties

Depression

Mood Disorders

Suicidal Ideation

Trauma and PTSD

Women's Issues

Style

Practical

Attuned

Supportive

Hi, I’m a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) based in California. I earned my Master’s degree in Counseling Psychology from National University and have been practicing for several years. I am dedicated to supporting individuals as they navigate life’s challenges and work toward greater emotional well-being.

Next appointmentWednesday, Apr 22nd

Available virtually

Tate Tyler

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Tate Tyler, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Tate has a Master of Science (MS) in Clinical Psychology from Vanguard University of Southern California.

California

Specialties

Gender Identity

LGBTQIA+

Mood Disorders

Relationship Issues

Self Esteem

Style

Exploratory

Approachable

Collaborative

Welcome and congratulations on beginning your therapy journey! I'm here to support you as you take steps toward your goals and develop into your best possible self. I hope to create a safe space for you to find relief from your daily stressors, healing, and develop meaningful insight to reach your fullest potential.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Stephanee Holmes

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Stephanee Holmes, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Stephanee has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from California State University, Bakersfield.

Bakersfield, CA

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Self Esteem

Stress

Style

Exploratory

Approachable

Collaborative

Starting therapy can feel like a big step, and finding the right person makes all the difference. If you're looking for someone who will truly listen, support you without judgment, and help you make sense of life's challenges, you're in the right place. I'm passionate about helping people build confidence, heal, and feel more grounded.

Next appointmentWednesday, Apr 22nd

Available virtually

Jenny Kim

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Jenny Kim, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Jenny has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from San Jose State University.

San Jose, CA

Specialties

Anxiety

Family Conflict

Stress

Style

Insightful

Attuned

Collaborative

As a therapist, I look for the basic goodness of human beings and try to bring clients to having a locus of control in their lives. I share perspectives that help clients feel liberated so they find meaning, fulfillment, and happiness.

Next appointmentWednesday, Apr 22nd

Available virtually

Cierra Paulson

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Cierra Paulson, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Cierra has a Master of Arts in Counseling Psychology from University of San Francisco.

Vacaville, CA

Specialties

ADHD

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Exploratory

Approachable

Curious

I'm excited to meet you. Therapy can be a big step towards choosing yourself, and I am honored to be part of your journey. I specialize in working with adults navigating life transitions, relationship dynamics, first responder trauma, and related challenges.

Next appointmentFriday, Apr 24th

Available virtually

Kim DeLiema

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Kim DeLiema, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Kim has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from University of Southern California.

California

Specialties

Anxiety

Pregnancy, Prenatal, Postpartum

Stress

Weight Loss

Women's Issues

Style

Directive

Warm

Collaborative

With 20 years of experience in the field, I’m passionate about helping people thrive by finding balance, clarity, and purpose in their lives. I take a collaborative, supportive approach that blends solution-focused and cognitive behavioral therapies to meet you exactly where you are. Together, we’ll uncover your potential to improve your well-being

Next appointmentFriday, Apr 24th

Available virtually

Elizabeth Arredondo

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Elizabeth Arredondo, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

All Rula providers are licensed and hold a master’s or doctorate degree required for practice.

California

Specialties

Anxiety

Coping Skills

Depression

Self Esteem

Stress

Style

Outcome-oriented

Approachable

Collaborative

Welcome, as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, I specialize in helping people navigate anxiety and major life transitions by creating a safe, non-judgmental space to explore their challenges. My practice focuses on providing practical tools and compassionate support, aiming to empower you to live a more balanced and authentic life.

Next appointmentWednesday, Apr 22nd

Available virtually

Soua Mary Vang

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Soua Mary Vang, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Soua Mary has a Masters of Arts (MA) in Marriage and Family Therapy from Northcentral University.

Manteca, CA

Specialties

Anxiety

Cultural Stress

Depression

Trauma and PTSD

Women's Issues

Style

Responsive

Warm

Collaborative

I understand that prioritizing mental health is vital for achieving true happiness and stability. My holistic approach addresses your unique needs, integrating personal experiences with proven practices. I'm committed to guiding you in sharing your story, fostering self-awareness, and unlocking your full potential.

Next appointmentSaturday, Apr 25th

Available virtually

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A closer look at Rula’s mental health providers in California

Specialty

Our providers specialize in a wide range of mental health needs, so you get care that truly fits you.

75

clinical specialties represented

Gender

You deserve a provider who understands your identity. Rula providers offer care that’s inclusive and affirming.

10

gender identities represented

Race & Ethnicity

Our providers represent a variety of backgrounds and cultures. Find providers who share or respect your lived experiences.

10

ethnicities represented across Rula providers

Therapy

Whether it’s stress, relationships, or personal growth, our therapists help you navigate what matters.

5,250

offer therapy

Psychiatry

Medication can be a key part of care. Our psychiatric providers offer expert guidance on what’s right for you.

90

offer medication management

Hundreds of thousands of patients have found affordable, in-network mental health care with Rula

Insurance

After you select a provider, we’ll send you a personalized cost estimate before your first session—so you’ll know what to expect.

$15 / session

typical cost patients pay through Rula

Nationwide coverage:

After you select a provider, we’ll send you a personalized cost estimate before your first session—so you’ll know what to expect.

100+ insurance plans accepted

140M total lives covered

Millions of sessions completed

Network

We hold providers to high clinical standards so you can trust the care you receive.

15,000+

licensed providers

Match

The right provider makes all the difference. We help you find someone who truly fits your needs—the first time.

98%

of searches result in an exact match

Progress

Care should make a difference. Our approach helps you track progress you can feel.

93%

of patients report feeling better after treatment through Rula

Additional therapy specialties and modalities

Sex Therapy Trauma and PTSD Anxiety EMDR Dialectical (DBT)

Psychiatry Couples Family Children therapy Preteen therapy Teen therapy

Male therapists Female therapists Spanish-speaking therapists Black or African American therapists Asian therapists Hispanic or Latinx therapists

Understanding online emotionally focused therapy

What is emotionally focused therapy and how does it work?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) has been shown to be effective in both individuals and couples. It helps people identify and share feelings in new ways. By learning to navigate emotions as a couple or family, your connections can deepen and communication can improve. Online EFT sessions can create a space to better understand your automatic reactions and patterns of relating that may cause pain or problems. With support and guidance, you can reshape entrenched habits into healthy exchanges full of understanding and warmth. The goal is to foster secure, lasting bonds across all your closest relationships.

Emotionally focused therapy may not be the best treatment for your needs. It's important to understand the process and discuss this treatment method with a mental health professional.

Common issues addressed by EFT

EFT can treat relationship distress, attachment issues, and emotional distress. It helps couples and families navigate conflicts, deepen emotional intimacy, and build more resilient, supportive relationships. EFT is also beneficial for people looking to understand their emotional responses and improve personal interactions.

Benefits of online EFT

Online EFT offers the convenience of attending therapy sessions from your home, making it accessible to couples or family members in different locations. It can provide a safe, private environment to explore sensitive relationship dynamics. The online format also broadens access to specialized EFT therapists who may be licensed in your state, but aren’t located in your area.

What to expect during an online EFT session

During an online EFT session, therapists may guide couples or families through discussions and exercises that focus on understanding and expressing emotions. Sessions aim to identify negative interaction patterns and replace them with healthier ways of connecting. The virtual setting allows for flexibility in scheduling, making it easier for all participants to engage in therapy together.

Choosing the right EFT therapist

After you've booked your first session, Rula verifies your insurance coverage and follows up with a cost estimate, including any required copayments.

FAQs about online EFT

How effective is online EFT compared to in-person sessions?

Online emotionally focused therapy can be effective, particularly when therapists successfully create a virtual space conducive to emotional openness. Many therapists on the Rula platform have experience adapting emotionally focused therapy techniques for online formats. While some may prefer in-person interactions, others find online therapy more convenient and less intimidating, which can help make sessions more effective.

Is EFT right for me (or us)?

EFT can aid those struggling with emotional disconnects or conflicts in close relationships. Working individually or jointly with a partner or relatives, EFT offers the possibility of growth and harmony. By building an understanding of underlying feelings and needs, an EFT therapist strives to nurture meaningful connections with care and compassion.

How should I prepare for online EFT sessions?

Emotionally focused therapy involves examining your feelings and relationships. Letting loved ones know you are starting EFT can help them understand this personal work. Be ready to explore emotional reactions and habits in your closest relationships. Though intense feelings may arise when relationship challenges surface, your therapist will facilitate healing with empathy. Progress often requires sitting with discomfort to reach an understanding so you can make connections with those you care about most.

How long does EFT typically last?

The duration of emotionally focused therapy varies, but it’s generally considered a time-limited approach, with many couples or families experiencing improvements within 8 to 20 sessions. The specific length of therapy depends on the unique needs and goals of the participants.

Are there any requirements for participating in online EFT?

You'll need a private, quiet space for uninterrupted video sessions along with a dependable internet connection and a device with a working webcam and microphone. You can commit to the process by keeping appointments, doing techniques at home, journaling progress, and regularly discussing challenges with your therapist.

Quality care comes first at Rula

Quality care comes first at Rula

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A closer look at Rula’s mental health providers in California

Specialty

75

Gender

10

Race & Ethnicity

10

Therapy

5,250

Psychiatry

90

Hundreds of thousands of patients have found affordable, in-network mental health care with Rula

Insurance

$15 / session

Network

15,000+

Match

98%

Progress

93%

Additional therapy specialties and modalities

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