How to find the right therapist in California

When choosing a therapist in California, it's best to reflect on what you’re looking for and ask yourself which of the following criteria are most important to you: Do they accept your insurance? Do you need a therapist who specializes in a specific mental health concern such as depression, anxiety, or trauma? Are you looking for someone to work with you individually? Or are you looking for someone to support you as a couple or family? Would you be more comfortable partnering with a therapist of a certain race, gender expression, sexual orientation, religious, or cultural background?

Can I use my insurance?

Yes! Therapists on the Rula platform are in-network with most major insurance plans. Rula patients typically pay $15 per session, although your individual cost may vary based on your insurance benefits and deductible. We’ll work with your insurance to confirm your estimated per-session cost before your first appointment. Ready to get started? Click here to browse available therapists who accept your insurance.

How do I know if therapy is right for me?

There’s no right or wrong reason to start therapy. Whether you’re seeking help navigating a life transition or managing symptoms of anxiety or depression, therapy is an effective treatment for many types of concerns – all you need is an open mind and a general sense of what you’d like to explore with a therapist. Still unsure? Head to our blog to learn more.

How soon can I meet with a therapist?

Therapists in Rula’s network are available to meet as soon as tomorrow. Click here to explore therapists and book your first session in minutes.

What should I consider when choosing a therapist?

It depends on your personal preferences and goals. Whether you’re seeking a therapist who specializes in certain mental health conditions, shares your ethnic background, or is available to meet at your preferred time – Rula makes it easy to search and filter by what matters most to you. If you don’t feel like your first choice was a match, don’t worry – we’ll help you switch to a different therapist in our network. Check out our blog post for more pointers on finding your best-fit therapist.

How do I know if I need therapy or psychiatry?

If you’re experiencing severe symptoms that interfere with your daily functioning, you may want to consider starting with a psychiatric provider who can assess your needs and prescribe medication if deemed necessary. If your symptoms are mild or moderate, therapy may be a better starting point. No matter where you begin your journey – your provider will work with you to develop a personalized treatment plan that’s based on your individual needs and concerns. Still unsure? Visit our blog to learn more about the differences.

Does Rula offer in-person appointments?

Currently, Rula offers in-person therapy in some states. For those living in other states, there are many benefits to online therapy!

Can Rula help me find a therapist?

Absolutely. Rula’s network of 10,000+ licensed providers represent more than 80 clinical specialties and a diverse range of backgrounds – making it easier to find the care you need. Once you provide us with some basic information, we’ll generate a curated list of in-network therapists who are licensed in your state and accepting new patients. From there, you can filter by what matters most to you and explore individual biographies until you find a match. Ready to get started?

What types of care can I access through Rula?

Providers in Rula’s network specialize in individual therapy, couples therapy, family therapy, and psychiatric care (i.e., medication management).

Who is eligible to access care through Rula?

Individuals aged 5 and older are eligible to receive care in any state where Rula is available.

How will I meet with my therapist?

Rula specializes in online therapy – giving you the flexibility to meet with your therapist from wherever you’re most comfortable. We’ll send you an appointment reminder containing a secure link to your scheduled Zoom session approximately 24 hours before your session.

Connect with Therapists who accept TRICARE West (TriWest Healthcare Alliance) in California

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30+ therapists who accept TRICARE West

Quality care comes first at Rula

We regularly review providers to ensure quality

30+ therapists who accept TRICARE West

Sarah Gbadebo

LMFT

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8+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Sarah Gbadebo, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Sarah has a Master of Science (MS) in Counseling from California State University, Northridge.

Lancaster, CA

Specialties

Anger Management

Anxiety

Depression

Self Esteem

Stress

Style

Outcome-oriented

Approachable

Collaborative

Congratulations on taking the first step to begin your therapeutic journey. It takes courage to start this process, and I'm proud of you for getting started! I have experience helping clients with stress and anxiety, family conflicts, boundaries, anger management, motivation, self-esteem, and confidence.

Next appointmentSunday, Apr 19th

Available virtually

Melanie Daye

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCP

Licensed Clinical Psychologists (LCPs), like Melanie Daye, hold a doctoral degree and are trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Melanie has a Doctor of Philosophy (PHD) in Clinical Psychology from Alliant International University/California School of Professional Psychology (2011).

California

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Stress

Style

Exploratory

Approachable

Collaborative

I provide individual therapy to adults who seek growth and healing. Together, we work to remove barriers and build effective strategies to deal with life challenges and create meaningful change.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 21st

Available virtually

Liana Gibson

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT

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9+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Liana Gibson, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Liana has a Master of Science (MS) in Marriage and Family Therapy from Seattle Pacific University.

California

Specialties

Anxiety

Family Conflict

Relationship Issues

Spirituality

Stress

Style

Directive

Spiritual

Empowering

I specialize in helping individuals and families navigate life's challenges, strengthening bonds, and fostering healthier relationships. My approach centers on compassion, clear communication, and tailored strategies, integrating faith, recovery principles, and cultural awareness to create a holistic and supportive environment.

Next appointmentWednesday, Apr 22nd

Available virtually

Yolanda Adkins-Hopkins

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT

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2+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Yolanda Adkins-Hopkins, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Yolanda has a Master in Counseling (MC) in Marriage and Family Therapy from Capella University.

Stockton, CA

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Self Esteem

Women's Issues

Style

Directive

Gentle

Supportive

My approach to therapy is with empathy, compassion, and respect. I offer DBT and Solution-Focused Therapy, just two of the modalities that I work from.

Next appointmentFriday, Apr 24th

Available virtually

Connor Reed

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW

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1+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Connor Reed, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Connor has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Loma Linda University.

Riverside, CA

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Exploratory

Spiritual

Curious

I understand that reaching out for support can feel daunting, and I want to assure you that you're taking an important step toward healing and growth. My approach is grounded in empathy, understanding, and collaboration. Together, we will create a safe space where you can explore your thoughts and feelings without judgment.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 21st

Available virtually

Kimberlynn Silva

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT

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5+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Kimberlynn Silva, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Kimberlynn has a Master of Science (MS) in MFT from University of Phoenix.

California

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

LGBTQIA+

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Directive

Candid

Collaborative

I offer individuals, children, couples, and families an integrative and holistic approach. I customize therapeutic tools to meet your unique needs. My direct style challenges your thinking without judgment. As the expert in your own life, we collaborate as partners to help you reach your goals.

Next appointmentMonday, Apr 20th

Available virtually

Sonja Meyer

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT

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1+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Sonja Meyer, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Sonja has a Masters of Arts (MA) in Marriage and Family Therapy from Fresno Pacific University.

Visalia, CA

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Grief

Life Transitions

Stress

Style

Directive

Gentle

Collaborative

The heart of my work is creating a warm, caring space where you can express yourself without judgment. I work best with people experiencing grief, depression, anxiety, life transitions, and relationship difficulties. Using a kind, gentle approach, I help you gain deeper self-knowledge so you can let go of harmful patterns keeping you stuck.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 21st

Available virtually

Gloria Gonzales

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT

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6+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Gloria Gonzales, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Gloria has a Master of Science Psychology (MSPSY) in Clinical Psychology/Latino Counseling from Antioch University.

Ventura, CA

Specialties

Cultural Stress

Grief

Life Transitions

Relationship Issues

Style

Directive

Candid

Curious

I work with individuals, families, co-parents, and couples. My hope is to help you heal and live an abundant life filled with happiness. I believe our trials and mishaps can give us wisdom as we go through life. Every day is an opportunity to learn, heal, and change.

Next appointmentWednesday, Apr 22nd

Available virtually

Laura Ourfalian

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW

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2+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Laura Ourfalian, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Laura has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from California State University, Los Angeles.

Glendale, CA

Specialties

Anxiety

Coping Skills

Relationship Issues

Style

Exploratory

Gentle

Supportive

I support individuals navigating anxiety, anger, relationship challenges, peer dynamics, and personal growth. Using an eclectic and collaborative approach, I create thoughtful, individualized treatment plans that honor your unique experiences and goals.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 21st

Available virtually

Monica Garnett

LPCC

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5+ years

Licensed Professional Clinical Counselors (LPCCs), like Monica Garnett, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Monica has a Master of Science (MS) in Mental Health Counseling from Capella University.

Cerritos, CA

Specialties

Addiction

Alcohol Use

Anxiety

Depression

Stress

Style

Outcome-oriented

Warm

Supportive

I have worked with adolescents, adults, families, and couples in the mental health field.

Next appointmentMonday, Apr 20th

Available virtually

Susan Cane

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT

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4+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Susan Cane, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Susan has a Master of Science (MS) in Counseling from California State University, Fullerton.

California

Specialties

Anxiety

Peer Relationships

Self Esteem

Spirituality

Style

Directive

Attuned

Curious

I’m here to assist adults who are facing challenges in achieving their goals. I offer strategies to enhance self-awareness, boost confidence, and cultivate happiness. These skills often lead to improved relationships, career success, and overall well-being. I am a licensed marriage and family therapist.

Next appointmentMonday, Apr 20th

Available virtually

Ron Gellis, LCP

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCP

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40+ years

Licensed Clinical Psychologists (LCPs), like Ron Gellis, LCP, hold a doctoral degree and are trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Ron has a Doctor of Philosophy (PHD) from Florida Institute of Technology and a Masters of Arts (MA) from Columbia University.

Rancho Santa Margarita, CA

Specialties

Addiction

Aging

Divorce

Grief

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Directive

Spiritual

Motivational

I have been a Christian and Licensed Clinical, Forensic, and Sports Neuropsychologist for many years. I have served in the Navy and am passionate about working with Veterans, First Responders, and their Families. I played D1 soccer, ran 20 marathons, taught scuba as well was an award-winning underwater photographer.

Next appointmentWednesday, Apr 22nd

Available virtually

Brenda Rodriguez

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW

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1+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Brenda Rodriguez, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Brenda has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from University of Southern California.

Los Angeles, CA

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Stress

Style

Outcome-oriented

Gentle

Empowering

I have experience working in a school setting and mental health agencies. In my therapeutic approach, I use Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and ensure to provide unconditional positive regard to help my clients progress and feel better.

Next appointmentSunday, Apr 19th

Available virtually

Kelley Tapia

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT

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12+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Kelley Tapia, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Kelley has a Masters of Arts (MA) in Counseling Psychology from National University.

Winnetka, CA

Specialties

Anxiety

Coping Skills

Life Transitions

Relationship Issues

Stress

Style

Insightful

Candid

Collaborative

I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT). My approach is authentic, candid, and integrative, meaning we'll look at the whole picture, connecting your experiences, thoughts, feelings, and bodily (somatic) experiences. I work with adults healing from trauma, anxiety, and relationship patterns that feel hard to break.

Next appointmentThursday, Apr 23rd

Available virtually

Kathleen Burrell

LCSW

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7+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Kathleen Burrell, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Kathleen has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from California State University, Northridge.

Simi Valley, CA

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Substance Use

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Outcome-oriented

Candid

Collaborative

I believe in providing an environment where you can trust the process of being vulnerable as you begin your journey to healing. We all need someone to listen, support, guide, and be honest with us. I hope to encourage you in shedding your chains and walking into a fulfilling life with joy, confidence, and happiness.

Next appointmentFriday, Apr 24th

Available virtually

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A closer look at Rula’s mental health providers in California

Specialty

Our providers specialize in a wide range of mental health needs, so you get care that truly fits you.

75

clinical specialties represented

Gender

You deserve a provider who understands your identity. Rula providers offer care that’s inclusive and affirming.

10

gender identities represented

Race & Ethnicity

Our providers represent a variety of backgrounds and cultures. Find providers who share or respect your lived experiences.

10

ethnicities represented across Rula providers

Therapy

Whether it’s stress, relationships, or personal growth, our therapists help you navigate what matters.

5,295

offer therapy

Psychiatry

Medication can be a key part of care. Our psychiatric providers offer expert guidance on what’s right for you.

89

offer medication management

Hundreds of thousands of patients have found affordable, in-network mental health care with Rula

Insurance

After you select a provider, we’ll send you a personalized cost estimate before your first session—so you’ll know what to expect.

$15 / session

typical cost patients pay through Rula

Nationwide coverage:

After you select a provider, we’ll send you a personalized cost estimate before your first session—so you’ll know what to expect.

100+ insurance plans accepted

140M total lives covered

Millions of sessions completed

Network

We hold providers to high clinical standards so you can trust the care you receive.

15,000+

licensed providers

Match

The right provider makes all the difference. We help you find someone who truly fits your needs—the first time.

98%

of searches result in an exact match

Progress

Care should make a difference. Our approach helps you track progress you can feel.

93%

of patients report feeling better after treatment through Rula

Additional therapy specialties and modalities

Sex Therapy Trauma and PTSD Anxiety EMDR Dialectical (DBT)

Psychiatry Couples Family Children therapy Preteen therapy Teen therapy

Male therapists Female therapists Spanish-speaking therapists Black or African American therapists Asian therapists Hispanic or Latinx therapists

Understanding online emotionally focused therapy

What is emotionally focused therapy and how does it work?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) has been shown to be effective in both individuals and couples. It helps people identify and share feelings in new ways. By learning to navigate emotions as a couple or family, your connections can deepen and communication can improve. Online EFT sessions can create a space to better understand your automatic reactions and patterns of relating that may cause pain or problems. With support and guidance, you can reshape entrenched habits into healthy exchanges full of understanding and warmth. The goal is to foster secure, lasting bonds across all your closest relationships.

Emotionally focused therapy may not be the best treatment for your needs. It's important to understand the process and discuss this treatment method with a mental health professional.

Common issues addressed by EFT

EFT can treat relationship distress, attachment issues, and emotional distress. It helps couples and families navigate conflicts, deepen emotional intimacy, and build more resilient, supportive relationships. EFT is also beneficial for people looking to understand their emotional responses and improve personal interactions.

Benefits of online EFT

Online EFT offers the convenience of attending therapy sessions from your home, making it accessible to couples or family members in different locations. It can provide a safe, private environment to explore sensitive relationship dynamics. The online format also broadens access to specialized EFT therapists who may be licensed in your state, but aren’t located in your area.

What to expect during an online EFT session

During an online EFT session, therapists may guide couples or families through discussions and exercises that focus on understanding and expressing emotions. Sessions aim to identify negative interaction patterns and replace them with healthier ways of connecting. The virtual setting allows for flexibility in scheduling, making it easier for all participants to engage in therapy together.

Choosing the right EFT therapist

After you've booked your first session, Rula verifies your insurance coverage and follows up with a cost estimate, including any required copayments.

FAQs about online EFT

How effective is online EFT compared to in-person sessions?

Online emotionally focused therapy can be effective, particularly when therapists successfully create a virtual space conducive to emotional openness. Many therapists on the Rula platform have experience adapting emotionally focused therapy techniques for online formats. While some may prefer in-person interactions, others find online therapy more convenient and less intimidating, which can help make sessions more effective.

Is EFT right for me (or us)?

EFT can aid those struggling with emotional disconnects or conflicts in close relationships. Working individually or jointly with a partner or relatives, EFT offers the possibility of growth and harmony. By building an understanding of underlying feelings and needs, an EFT therapist strives to nurture meaningful connections with care and compassion.

How should I prepare for online EFT sessions?

Emotionally focused therapy involves examining your feelings and relationships. Letting loved ones know you are starting EFT can help them understand this personal work. Be ready to explore emotional reactions and habits in your closest relationships. Though intense feelings may arise when relationship challenges surface, your therapist will facilitate healing with empathy. Progress often requires sitting with discomfort to reach an understanding so you can make connections with those you care about most.

How long does EFT typically last?

The duration of emotionally focused therapy varies, but it’s generally considered a time-limited approach, with many couples or families experiencing improvements within 8 to 20 sessions. The specific length of therapy depends on the unique needs and goals of the participants.

Are there any requirements for participating in online EFT?

You'll need a private, quiet space for uninterrupted video sessions along with a dependable internet connection and a device with a working webcam and microphone. You can commit to the process by keeping appointments, doing techniques at home, journaling progress, and regularly discussing challenges with your therapist.

Quality care comes first at Rula

Quality care comes first at Rula

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A closer look at Rula’s mental health providers in California

Specialty

75

Gender

10

Race & Ethnicity

10

Therapy

5,295

Psychiatry

89

Hundreds of thousands of patients have found affordable, in-network mental health care with Rula

Insurance

$15 / session

Network

15,000+

Match

98%

Progress

93%

Additional therapy specialties and modalities

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