How to find the right therapist in Hawaii

When choosing a therapist in Hawaii, it's best to reflect on what you’re looking for and ask yourself which of the following criteria are most important to you: Do they accept your insurance? Do you need a therapist who specializes in a specific mental health concern such as depression, anxiety, or trauma? Are you looking for someone to work with you individually? Or are you looking for someone to support you as a couple or family? Would you be more comfortable partnering with a therapist of a certain race, gender expression, sexual orientation, religious, or cultural background?

Can I use my insurance?

Yes! Therapists on the Rula platform are in-network with most major insurance plans. Rula patients typically pay $15 per session, although your individual cost may vary based on your insurance benefits and deductible. We’ll work with your insurance to confirm your estimated per-session cost before your first appointment. Ready to get started? Click here to browse available therapists who accept your insurance.

How do I know if therapy is right for me?

There’s no right or wrong reason to start therapy. Whether you’re seeking help navigating a life transition or managing symptoms of anxiety or depression, therapy is an effective treatment for many types of concerns – all you need is an open mind and a general sense of what you’d like to explore with a therapist. Still unsure? Head to our blog to learn more.

How soon can I meet with a therapist?

Therapists in Rula’s network are available to meet as soon as tomorrow. Click here to explore therapists and book your first session in minutes.

What should I consider when choosing a therapist?

It depends on your personal preferences and goals. Whether you’re seeking a therapist who specializes in certain mental health conditions, shares your ethnic background, or is available to meet at your preferred time – Rula makes it easy to search and filter by what matters most to you. If you don’t feel like your first choice was a match, don’t worry – we’ll help you switch to a different therapist in our network. Check out our blog post for more pointers on finding your best-fit therapist.

How do I know if I need therapy or psychiatry?

If you’re experiencing severe symptoms that interfere with your daily functioning, you may want to consider starting with a psychiatric provider who can assess your needs and prescribe medication if deemed necessary. If your symptoms are mild or moderate, therapy may be a better starting point. No matter where you begin your journey – your provider will work with you to develop a personalized treatment plan that’s based on your individual needs and concerns. Still unsure? Visit our blog to learn more about the differences.

Does Rula offer in-person appointments?

Currently, Rula offers in-person therapy in some states. For those living in other states, there are many benefits to online therapy!

Can Rula help me find a therapist?

Absolutely. Rula’s network of 10,000+ licensed providers represent more than 80 clinical specialties and a diverse range of backgrounds – making it easier to find the care you need. Once you provide us with some basic information, we’ll generate a curated list of in-network therapists who are licensed in your state and accepting new patients. From there, you can filter by what matters most to you and explore individual biographies until you find a match. Ready to get started?

What types of care can I access through Rula?

Providers in Rula’s network specialize in individual therapy, couples therapy, family therapy, and psychiatric care (i.e., medication management).

Who is eligible to access care through Rula?

Individuals aged 5 and older are eligible to receive care in any state where Rula is available.

How will I meet with my therapist?

Rula specializes in online therapy – giving you the flexibility to meet with your therapist from wherever you’re most comfortable. We’ll send you an appointment reminder containing a secure link to your scheduled Zoom session approximately 24 hours before your session.

Connect with Therapists who accept Blue Cross and/or Blue Shield in Hawaii

Book a session as soon as April 19

Quality care comes first at Rula

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30+ therapists who accept Blue Cross Blue Shield

Quality care comes first at Rula

We regularly review providers to ensure quality

30+ therapists who accept Blue Cross Blue Shield

Frederica Banning

LCSW

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41+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Frederica Banning, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Frederica has a Master of Social Work (MSW) in EAP/Work and Family Systems from Catholic University of America.

Honolulu, HI

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

LGBTQIA+

Stress

Style

Outcome-oriented

Candid

Motivational

When life knocks us down, we all need a warm heart and a safe space where we can sort things through. I am here to help, whether you are navigating life challenges, repairing relationships with yourself and others, healing loss, or building change resilience. I listen to connect, not to judge or reject. Reaching out takes courage.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Ashley Winslow

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LMHC

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1+ years

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Ashley Winslow, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Ashley has a Master of Science (MS) from Chaminade University of Honolulu.

Haleiwa, HI

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Psychosis

Schizophrenia

Substance Use

Style

Responsive

Approachable

Supportive

I use a nonjudgmental approach to help you find what you are looking for in therapy.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 21st

Available virtually

Taryn Church

LMHC

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3+ years

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Taryn Church, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Taryn has a Master in Counseling (MC) Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Regent University.

Keaau, HI

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Life Transitions

Substance Use

Style

Exploratory

Attuned

Affirming

As a trauma-informed, client-centered therapist, I help you understand how past experiences shape present thoughts, emotions, and relational patterns. We will work to build insight, restore a sense of safety within the body and mind, and cultivate self-trust. My approach honors your lived experience while supporting meaningful, sustainable change.

Next appointmentMonday, Apr 20th

Available virtually

AnnaJean Smith

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like AnnaJean Smith, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

AnnaJean has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Walla Walla University.

Kihei, HI

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Life Transitions

Relationship Issues

Self Esteem

Style

Exploratory

Candid

Curious

I work with individuals navigating change and emotional challenges during uncertain times. I offer a space where you can show up as you are, without judgment. Whether you're overwhelmed, stuck, or needing someone to talk to, I'm here to listen and support you in finding what feels right.

Next appointmentMonday, Apr 20th

Available virtually

Jennifer Ybarra

LMHC

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1+ years

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Jennifer Ybarra, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Jennifer has a Master of Science (MS) in Counseling Psychology from University of Phoenix.

Haiku, HI

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Relationship Issues

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Insightful

Attuned

Collaborative

I am passionate about helping my clients get to the root of their trauma and develop the necessary tools that allow for a more fulfilling life and relationships. I specialize in relationship issues, trauma & PTSD, anxiety, depression, grief, life transitions, body image, and self-worth.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 21st

Available virtually

Julius Phillip Jones

LMHC

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19+ years

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Julius Phillip Jones, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Julius Phillip has a Master in Counseling (MC) from West Virginia University.

Hawaii

Specialties

Grief

Anger Management

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Relationship Issues

Style

Insightful

Approachable

Empowering

I work with young adults, couples, and older adults navigating life transitions, crises, and opportunities. My passion is helping people find their calm, strong inner identity and move into the next phase of life, career, or relationships with confidence in themselves and their personal strengths.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 21st

Available virtually

Marcia Myers

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LMHC

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Marcia Myers, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Marcia has a Master of Science Psychology (MSPSY) in Community Counseling from Chaminade University of Honolulu.

Honolulu, HI

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Stress

Style

Responsive

Candid

Collaborative

I help individuals navigate life's challenges, manage anxiety, depression, and stress, and build healthier relationships with themselves and others. My approach combines evidence-based techniques with a warm, supportive environment to help you feel empowered and heard every step of the way.

Next appointmentWednesday, Apr 22nd

Available virtually

Justin Larkin

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LMHC

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1+ years

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Justin Larkin, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Justin has a Master of Arts (MA) in Clinical Counseling from Adams State College.

Kailua-Kona, HI

Specialties

Grief

Addiction

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Relationship Issues

Style

Exploratory

Candid

Empowering

I take a strengths-based, client-centered approach rooted in positive psychology. True well-being comes from cultivating the strengths, habits, and mindsets that lead to flourishing. My focus goes beyond symptom relief to help you build resilience, meaning, and fulfillment in life.

Next appointmentMonday, Apr 20th

Available virtually

Laura Gonzalez

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Laura Gonzalez, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Laura has a Master of Social Work (MSW) in Clinical Social Work from University of Texas, Austin.

Hawaii

Specialties

Grief

Aging

Anxiety

Chronic Pain

Depression

Stress

Style

Exploratory

Approachable

Curious

Sometimes life gets complicated and challenging, and we can feel stuck, weary, and lost. I specialize in helping older adults who are navigating chronic health issues, anxiety, and depression. I understand that these challenges can feel overwhelming, and I’m here to support you through them with empathy, understanding, and practical strategies.

Next appointmentThursday, Apr 23rd

Available virtually

Kimberley Gallant

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LCSW

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19+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Kimberley Gallant, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Kimberley has a Master of Science in Social Work (MSSW) from University of Hawaii.

Honolulu, HI

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Exploratory

Gentle

Curious

I offer you a safe space to explore personal and mental health concerns that may affect your life, relationships, and dreams for the future. I'm here to support you through this journey with warmth and understanding.

Next appointmentFriday, Apr 24th

Available virtually

Jacqueline Montero

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LMHC

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3+ years

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Jacqueline Montero, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Jacqueline has a Master of Science (MS) from Grand Canyon University.

Kailua, HI

Specialties

Grief

Addiction

Anxiety

Depression

Substance Use

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Outcome-oriented

Warm

Motivational

I help clients achieve healing and fulfillment by improving their state of mind and making life changes that make all the difference. With diverse experience, I have the skill set to help with various struggles, problems, and conditions.

Next appointmentMonday, Apr 20th

Available virtually

Elijah Pierick

LMHC

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1+ years

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Elijah Pierick, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Elijah has a Doctor of Ministry (D MIN) in Pastoral Counseling from Liberty University, a Master of Arts (MA) in Christian Studies from Pacific Rim Christian University and a Master of Divinity (MDIV) in Chaplaincy from Pacific Rim Christian University.

Ewa Beach, HI

Specialties

Grief

Depression

Relationship Issues

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Outcome-oriented

Spiritual

Collaborative

I enjoy being outside, exercising, learning, connecting with friends and family, and helping other people get healthy. I would love to get to know you and help you become healthy.

Next appointmentMonday, Apr 20th

Available virtually

Mary Kay Lowe

LMFT

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15+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Mary Kay Lowe, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Mary Kay has a Master's in Counseling (MC) in Counseling and Psychological Services from Saint Mary's University of Minnesota- Minneapolis.

Hawaii

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Relationship Issues

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Outcome-oriented

Spiritual

Empowering

I am passionate about helping clients overcome, heal, and grow from the experiences and challenges they face.

Next appointmentMonday, Apr 20th

Available virtually

Jamie Harline

LMHC

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Jamie Harline, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Jamie has a Master in Counseling (MC) Professional Counseling from University of Phoenix.

Hawaii

Specialties

Grief

ADHD

Addiction

Anxiety

Depression

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Practical

Approachable

Curious

I help you become your happier, more amazing self—not just surviving, but enjoying life. You are your best therapist; I provide tools, and you decide what works. I use humor for the hardest things and work with severe mental illness, grief, addictions, autism, eating disorders, pain, and family problems.

Next appointmentMonday, Apr 20th

Available virtually

Serena Nasworthy

LMHC

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3+ years

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Serena Nasworthy, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Serena has a Master of Science (MS) in Clinical Mental Health from Hawaii Pacific University.

Honolulu, HI

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

LGBTQIA+

Substance Use

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Responsive

Warm

Collaborative

Being born and raised in Hawaii, I've been able to work with clients of all ages/backgrounds. Diagnoses range from depression to anxiety, trauma, various psychotic disorders, and substance use. Whether you’re managing mental-health symptoms, navigating interpersonal challenges, or just focusing on personal growth, I am here to facilitate healing.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 21st

Available virtually

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Exploring online therapy for grief

Grief and its impact on life

Grief is a natural response to loss, often felt deeply when we lose someone or something important to us. It can manifest in various ways, including sadness, anger, confusion, and a sense of isolation. Grief can significantly impact daily life, affecting one’s ability to function in personal and professional settings. Navigating through grief is a deeply personal process and can be critical for emotional healing and moving forward.

The importance of therapy for grief

Engaging with a grief therapist can be helpful for those struggling with loss. Therapists specializing in grief can provide support and understanding, helping you to process complex emotions and cope with the pain of loss. Therapy can offer a safe space to explore feelings of grief, learn to adjust to life after loss, and develop strategies for healing and finding a new sense of normalcy.

Effective therapeutic approaches for grief

Various therapeutic methods can be effective in supporting people through grief:

Advantages of online therapy for grief

Online grief therapy offers several practical benefits. It can be accessible and convenient, allowing you to connect with therapists from the comfort and privacy of your own home, providing a secure space to openly discuss and process your feelings during such a sensitive and personal time. The sessions are flexible and can be scheduled according to your needs, accommodating the unpredictable nature of grief.

Tips for choosing the right grief therapist

FAQs about grief therapy and therapists

When to seek a grief therapist?

Consider seeking a grief therapist if your grief feels overwhelming, is affecting your ability to carry on with daily activities, or if you're struggling to move forward. Common signs include persistent sadness, inability to enjoy life, or feeling stuck in your grief. Therapy can provide a guided pathway through the grieving process, helping you to cope with the loss and a renewed sense of purpose.

What is the typical duration of therapy for grief?

The length of grief therapy varies for each person, depending on the nature of the loss and personal coping mechanisms. Some may find short-term therapy beneficial, while others might engage in longer-term support. Grief therapy is often flexible, with the therapist adapting to your changing needs over time.

What to expect in your first grief therapy session?

In the first session, you'll likely share your story of loss and discuss how it’s impacting your life. Your therapist should listen empathetically, ask questions, and work toward establishing a supportive and understanding relationship. This session sets the foundation for your grief therapy journey.

How to find a qualified therapist for grief?

A qualified therapist for grief should have specialized training in grief counseling or therapy. Look for therapists with experience in dealing with your specific situation, and credentials in therapies you’d like to explore.

Does insurance cover grief therapy sessions?

Insurance coverage for grief therapy can vary. After you've booked your first session, Rula verifies your insurance coverage and follows up with a cost estimate, including any required copayments.

Can grief therapy be conducted online?

Yes, grief therapy can be effectively conducted online. It offers a flexible and accessible option, allowing you to receive support in a setting that feels most comfortable for you, especially during a time of mourning. Therapy techniques can be adapted for virtual sessions, ensuring you receive care tailored to your needs and recovery journey.

Connect with Therapists who accept Blue Cross and/or Blue Shield in Hawaii

Quality care comes first at Rula

Quality care comes first at Rula

Frederica Banning

Ashley Winslow

Taryn Church

AnnaJean Smith

Jennifer Ybarra

Julius Phillip Jones

Marcia Myers

Justin Larkin

Laura Gonzalez

Kimberley Gallant

Jacqueline Montero

Elijah Pierick

Mary Kay Lowe

Jamie Harline

Serena Nasworthy

Continue exploring providers

Hundreds of thousands of patients have found affordable, in-network mental health care with Rula

Insurance

$15 / session

Network

15,000+

Match

98%

Progress

93%

Additional therapy specialties and modalities

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