How to find the right therapist in Hawaii

When choosing a therapist in Hawaii, it's best to reflect on what you’re looking for and ask yourself which of the following criteria are most important to you: Do they accept your insurance? Do you need a therapist who specializes in a specific mental health concern such as depression, anxiety, or trauma? Are you looking for someone to work with you individually? Or are you looking for someone to support you as a couple or family? Would you be more comfortable partnering with a therapist of a certain race, gender expression, sexual orientation, religious, or cultural background?

Can I use my insurance?

Yes! Therapists on the Rula platform are in-network with most major insurance plans. Rula patients typically pay $15 per session, although your individual cost may vary based on your insurance benefits and deductible. We’ll work with your insurance to confirm your estimated per-session cost before your first appointment. Ready to get started? Click here to browse available therapists who accept your insurance.

How do I know if therapy is right for me?

There’s no right or wrong reason to start therapy. Whether you’re seeking help navigating a life transition or managing symptoms of anxiety or depression, therapy is an effective treatment for many types of concerns – all you need is an open mind and a general sense of what you’d like to explore with a therapist. Still unsure? Head to our blog to learn more.

How soon can I meet with a therapist?

Therapists in Rula’s network are available to meet as soon as tomorrow. Click here to explore therapists and book your first session in minutes.

What should I consider when choosing a therapist?

It depends on your personal preferences and goals. Whether you’re seeking a therapist who specializes in certain mental health conditions, shares your ethnic background, or is available to meet at your preferred time – Rula makes it easy to search and filter by what matters most to you. If you don’t feel like your first choice was a match, don’t worry – we’ll help you switch to a different therapist in our network. Check out our blog post for more pointers on finding your best-fit therapist.

How do I know if I need therapy or psychiatry?

If you’re experiencing severe symptoms that interfere with your daily functioning, you may want to consider starting with a psychiatric provider who can assess your needs and prescribe medication if deemed necessary. If your symptoms are mild or moderate, therapy may be a better starting point. No matter where you begin your journey – your provider will work with you to develop a personalized treatment plan that’s based on your individual needs and concerns. Still unsure? Visit our blog to learn more about the differences.

Does Rula offer in-person appointments?

Currently, Rula offers in-person therapy in some states. For those living in other states, there are many benefits to online therapy!

Can Rula help me find a therapist?

Absolutely. Rula’s network of 10,000+ licensed providers represent more than 80 clinical specialties and a diverse range of backgrounds – making it easier to find the care you need. Once you provide us with some basic information, we’ll generate a curated list of in-network therapists who are licensed in your state and accepting new patients. From there, you can filter by what matters most to you and explore individual biographies until you find a match. Ready to get started?

What types of care can I access through Rula?

Providers in Rula’s network specialize in individual therapy, couples therapy, family therapy, and psychiatric care (i.e., medication management).

Who is eligible to access care through Rula?

Individuals aged 5 and older are eligible to receive care in any state where Rula is available.

How will I meet with my therapist?

Rula specializes in online therapy – giving you the flexibility to meet with your therapist from wherever you’re most comfortable. We’ll send you an appointment reminder containing a secure link to your scheduled Zoom session approximately 24 hours before your session.

Connect with Therapists who accept Blue Cross and/or Blue Shield in Hawaii

Book a session as soon as April 19

Quality care comes first at Rula

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30+ therapists who accept Blue Cross Blue Shield

Quality care comes first at Rula

We regularly review providers to ensure quality

30+ therapists who accept Blue Cross Blue Shield

Andrew Scott

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Andrew Scott, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Andrew has a Master of Social Work (MSW) in Mental Health from University of Hawaii.

Wahiawa, HI

Specialties

Grief

Addiction

Alcohol Use

Anxiety

Substance Use

Style

Directive

Candid

Collaborative

I help individuals and families navigate life's most difficult challenges. My practice is rooted in providing meaningful, practical support to those seeking change, healing, and personal growth—especially those facing addiction, life transitions, and the desire to become a better version of themselves.

Next appointmentWednesday, Apr 22nd

Available virtually

Nicole Nakamura

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LMHC

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Nicole Nakamura, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Nicole has a Master in Counseling (MC) from The Naropa Institute.

Wailuku, HI

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

LGBTQIA+

Life Transitions

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Exploratory

Approachable

Curious

Healing begins with connection—to yourself, your body, and your innate wisdom. I offer a compassionate, creative space where you can explore emotions, process trauma, and reconnect with your authentic self. My approach is intuitive and client-centered, blending mindfulness, creativity, and body awareness to support deep healing.

Next appointmentMonday, Apr 20th

Available virtually

Mindie Ching

LMFT

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16+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Mindie Ching, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Mindie has a Master of Science in Counseling Psychology from University of Chaminade of Honolulu.

Honolulu, HI

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Insightful

Attuned

Motivational

I believe therapy isn't necessarily about 'fixing what is wrong' with you. Rather, it's a place to recognize, develop, and support what you do well.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Melissa Giron-Bauer

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Melissa Giron-Bauer, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Melissa has a Master of Science Psychology (MSPSY) in Marriage and Family Therapy from Chaminade University.

Mililani Town, HI

Specialties

Grief

Addiction

Anxiety

Depression

Relationship Issues

Self Esteem

Style

Exploratory

Gentle

Supportive

I specialize in working with clients who are struggling with depression, anxiety, self-esteem issues, life transitions, and stress management. I take a client-centered approach and tailor your needs and strengths to reach your goals.

Next appointmentMonday, Apr 20th

Available virtually

Aaron Schweitzer

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Aaron Schweitzer, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Aaron has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from University of Hawaii.

Kapolei, HI

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Relationship Issues

Self Esteem

Style

Exploratory

Approachable

Curious

I work with youth and adults facing grief, loss, depression, and anxiety. My primary goal is to help you work toward goals that support your strengths and emotional well-being as you journey toward becoming your best self.

Next appointmentMonday, Apr 20th

Available virtually

Cassandra J Castillo

LCSW

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3+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Cassandra J Castillo, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Cassandra J has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from University of Hawaii.

Kapolei, HI

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Life Transitions

Relationship Issues

Self Esteem

Stress

Style

Directive

Attuned

Motivational

I create a space where you can feel heard and validated. I use a person-centered approach that looks at you as a whole person. I believe healing starts first and foremost with yourself. Using collaboration within the therapeutic relationship, my approach helps guide you to becoming more aware of the best version you can be.

Next appointmentWednesday, Apr 22nd

Available virtually

Roger Kaina Watson

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LCSW

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3+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Roger Kaina Watson, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Roger Kaina has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from University of Hawaii.

Kapolei, HI

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Cultural Stress

LGBTQIA+

Life Transitions

Style

Outcome-oriented

Gentle

Supportive

I offer client-centered, strength-based therapy focused on your unique needs. I support people navigating anxiety, behavior challenges, relationships, transitions, and other mental health concerns. I have experience with children, teens, adults, and LGBTQIA clients.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 21st

Available virtually

Kamaree Altaffer

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Kamaree Altaffer, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Kamaree has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from University of Alaska.

Hawaii

Specialties

Grief

Addiction

Alcohol Use

LGBTQIA+

Substance Use

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Outcome-oriented

Candid

Collaborative

My goal is to help you find your best life. Together, we can develop a collaborative space where relationships, employment, social, and interpersonal issues can be discussed, addressed, and improved. I customize treatment based on your individual needs. Life can be a challenge, and everyone can benefit from extra support.

Next appointmentMonday, Apr 20th

Available virtually

Feather Tapio

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LMHC

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2+ years

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Feather Tapio, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Feather has a Master of Arts (MA) in Counseling and Student Personnel from University of Minnesota.

Honolulu, HI

Specialties

Grief

Anger Management

Anxiety

Depression

Oppositional Defiance

Style

Insightful

Candid

Affirming

I work with clients of all ages, but primarily adolescents in recent years. I use Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to help my clients start their healing process one session at a time.

Next appointmentMonday, Apr 20th

Available virtually

Kauanoe Mawae

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Kauanoe Mawae, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Kauanoe has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Utah Valley University.

Hawaii

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Relationship Issues

Spirituality

Style

Responsive

Warm

Affirming

If you’re feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or unsure how to move forward, you’re in the right place. I offer a steady, welcoming space where you can feel understood and supported as you navigate what’s been weighing on you. Together, we’ll explore what you need and create a clearer, more hopeful path ahead.

Next appointmentWednesday, Apr 22nd

Available virtually

Kristin Beebe

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LMFT

•

5+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Kristin Beebe, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Kristin has a Master of Arts (MA) in Marriage and Family Therapy from NorthCentral.

Honolulu, HI

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Outcome-oriented

Attuned

Collaborative

We work together as a team. I develop treatment goals based on what you want to address, and if you agree, we'll work on them together with some homework. Therapy is about you, so if you come in having a bad day, let's talk about that.

“Kristin, listens and provides a very positive feedback, and guidance. Very easy to open up to.”

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Dominic Davis

LCSW

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3+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Dominic Davis, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Dominic has a Master of Social Work (MSW) in Mental Health from University of Southern California.

Hawaii

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Stress

Substance Use

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Responsive

Approachable

Collaborative

I collaborate with adults, specializing in anxiety, stress, depression, substance use, and couple counseling. My goal is to help you develop a healthy self-image, strengthen relationships, and provide guidance and support to foster growth and resilience.

Next appointmentWednesday, Apr 22nd

Available virtually

Nancy Lautenbach

LMHC

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Nancy Lautenbach, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Nancy has a Masters of Arts (MA) in Clinical Mental Health Counseling/Expressive Therapies from Art Therapy - Lesley College.

Hawaii

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

LGBTQIA+

Trauma and PTSD

Women's Issues

Style

Exploratory

Warm

Supportive

I offer a warm, collaborative space where you can be fully seen, heard, and understood without judgment. I work with adults experiencing anxiety, depression, body image concerns, trauma, grief, and life transitions. My work is especially focused on supporting women and helping them reconnect with their voice, values, and sense of self.

Next appointmentMonday, Apr 20th

Available virtually

Kristien Hollingsworth

Patients consistently give high satisfaction ratings

LCSW

•

13+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Kristien Hollingsworth, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Kristien has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from University of Nevada, Las Vegas.

Hawaii

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Panic Attacks

Sexual Abuse

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Insightful

Warm

Collaborative

I understand seeking a therapist can feel anxiety-provoking. In my sessions, we talk about real issues impairing your life and work together to bring resolution, hope, and true healing. The relationship with your therapist matters more than the method. If this resonates with you, we can set up a consultation to see if I'm the right fit.

Next appointmentWednesday, Apr 22nd

Available virtually

Samantha Bailo

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LMHC

•

1+ years

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Samantha Bailo, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Samantha has a Master's in Counseling (MC) in Counseling Psychology from University of Hawaii, Hilo.

Hilo, HI

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Relationship Issues

Stress

Style

Exploratory

Approachable

Curious

I take an eclectic approach but use skills from Dialectical Behavior Therapy and Internal Family Systems in sessions with my clients. As a yoga instructor, I can weave therapeutic movement, breath work, and meditation into sessions as well.

Next appointmentMonday, Apr 20th

Available virtually

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After you select a provider, we’ll send you a personalized cost estimate before your first session—so you’ll know what to expect.

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98%

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of patients report feeling better after treatment through Rula

Additional therapy specialties and modalities

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Exploring online therapy for grief

Grief and its impact on life

Grief is a natural response to loss, often felt deeply when we lose someone or something important to us. It can manifest in various ways, including sadness, anger, confusion, and a sense of isolation. Grief can significantly impact daily life, affecting one’s ability to function in personal and professional settings. Navigating through grief is a deeply personal process and can be critical for emotional healing and moving forward.

The importance of therapy for grief

Engaging with a grief therapist can be helpful for those struggling with loss. Therapists specializing in grief can provide support and understanding, helping you to process complex emotions and cope with the pain of loss. Therapy can offer a safe space to explore feelings of grief, learn to adjust to life after loss, and develop strategies for healing and finding a new sense of normalcy.

Effective therapeutic approaches for grief

Various therapeutic methods can be effective in supporting people through grief:

Advantages of online therapy for grief

Online grief therapy offers several practical benefits. It can be accessible and convenient, allowing you to connect with therapists from the comfort and privacy of your own home, providing a secure space to openly discuss and process your feelings during such a sensitive and personal time. The sessions are flexible and can be scheduled according to your needs, accommodating the unpredictable nature of grief.

Tips for choosing the right grief therapist

FAQs about grief therapy and therapists

When to seek a grief therapist?

Consider seeking a grief therapist if your grief feels overwhelming, is affecting your ability to carry on with daily activities, or if you're struggling to move forward. Common signs include persistent sadness, inability to enjoy life, or feeling stuck in your grief. Therapy can provide a guided pathway through the grieving process, helping you to cope with the loss and a renewed sense of purpose.

What is the typical duration of therapy for grief?

The length of grief therapy varies for each person, depending on the nature of the loss and personal coping mechanisms. Some may find short-term therapy beneficial, while others might engage in longer-term support. Grief therapy is often flexible, with the therapist adapting to your changing needs over time.

What to expect in your first grief therapy session?

In the first session, you'll likely share your story of loss and discuss how it’s impacting your life. Your therapist should listen empathetically, ask questions, and work toward establishing a supportive and understanding relationship. This session sets the foundation for your grief therapy journey.

How to find a qualified therapist for grief?

A qualified therapist for grief should have specialized training in grief counseling or therapy. Look for therapists with experience in dealing with your specific situation, and credentials in therapies you’d like to explore.

Does insurance cover grief therapy sessions?

Insurance coverage for grief therapy can vary. After you've booked your first session, Rula verifies your insurance coverage and follows up with a cost estimate, including any required copayments.

Can grief therapy be conducted online?

Yes, grief therapy can be effectively conducted online. It offers a flexible and accessible option, allowing you to receive support in a setting that feels most comfortable for you, especially during a time of mourning. Therapy techniques can be adapted for virtual sessions, ensuring you receive care tailored to your needs and recovery journey.

Connect with Therapists who accept Blue Cross and/or Blue Shield in Hawaii

Quality care comes first at Rula

Quality care comes first at Rula

Andrew Scott

Nicole Nakamura

Mindie Ching

Melissa Giron-Bauer

Aaron Schweitzer

Cassandra J Castillo

Roger Kaina Watson

Kamaree Altaffer

Feather Tapio

Kauanoe Mawae

Kristin Beebe

Dominic Davis

Nancy Lautenbach

Kristien Hollingsworth

Samantha Bailo

Continue exploring providers

Hundreds of thousands of patients have found affordable, in-network mental health care with Rula

Insurance

$15 / session

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15,000+

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98%

Progress

93%

Additional therapy specialties and modalities

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