How to find the right therapist in Hawaii

When choosing a therapist in Hawaii, it's best to reflect on what you’re looking for and ask yourself which of the following criteria are most important to you: Do they accept your insurance? Do you need a therapist who specializes in a specific mental health concern such as depression, anxiety, or trauma? Are you looking for someone to work with you individually? Or are you looking for someone to support you as a couple or family? Would you be more comfortable partnering with a therapist of a certain race, gender expression, sexual orientation, religious, or cultural background?

Can I use my insurance?

Yes! Therapists on the Rula platform are in-network with most major insurance plans. Rula patients typically pay $15 per session, although your individual cost may vary based on your insurance benefits and deductible. We’ll work with your insurance to confirm your estimated per-session cost before your first appointment. Ready to get started? Click here to browse available therapists who accept your insurance.

How do I know if therapy is right for me?

There’s no right or wrong reason to start therapy. Whether you’re seeking help navigating a life transition or managing symptoms of anxiety or depression, therapy is an effective treatment for many types of concerns – all you need is an open mind and a general sense of what you’d like to explore with a therapist. Still unsure? Head to our blog to learn more.

How soon can I meet with a therapist?

Therapists in Rula’s network are available to meet as soon as tomorrow. Click here to explore therapists and book your first session in minutes.

What should I consider when choosing a therapist?

It depends on your personal preferences and goals. Whether you’re seeking a therapist who specializes in certain mental health conditions, shares your ethnic background, or is available to meet at your preferred time – Rula makes it easy to search and filter by what matters most to you. If you don’t feel like your first choice was a match, don’t worry – we’ll help you switch to a different therapist in our network. Check out our blog post for more pointers on finding your best-fit therapist.

How do I know if I need therapy or psychiatry?

If you’re experiencing severe symptoms that interfere with your daily functioning, you may want to consider starting with a psychiatric provider who can assess your needs and prescribe medication if deemed necessary. If your symptoms are mild or moderate, therapy may be a better starting point. No matter where you begin your journey – your provider will work with you to develop a personalized treatment plan that’s based on your individual needs and concerns. Still unsure? Visit our blog to learn more about the differences.

Does Rula offer in-person appointments?

Currently, Rula offers in-person therapy in some states. For those living in other states, there are many benefits to online therapy!

Can Rula help me find a therapist?

Absolutely. Rula’s network of 10,000+ licensed providers represent more than 80 clinical specialties and a diverse range of backgrounds – making it easier to find the care you need. Once you provide us with some basic information, we’ll generate a curated list of in-network therapists who are licensed in your state and accepting new patients. From there, you can filter by what matters most to you and explore individual biographies until you find a match. Ready to get started?

What types of care can I access through Rula?

Providers in Rula’s network specialize in individual therapy, couples therapy, family therapy, and psychiatric care (i.e., medication management).

Who is eligible to access care through Rula?

Individuals aged 5 and older are eligible to receive care in any state where Rula is available.

How will I meet with my therapist?

Rula specializes in online therapy – giving you the flexibility to meet with your therapist from wherever you’re most comfortable. We’ll send you an appointment reminder containing a secure link to your scheduled Zoom session approximately 24 hours before your session.

Connect with Therapists who accept Carelon Behavioral Health in Hawaii

Book a session as soon as April 18

Quality care comes first at Rula

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30+ therapists who accept Carelon Behavioral Health

Quality care comes first at Rula

We regularly review providers to ensure quality

30+ therapists who accept Carelon Behavioral Health

Michele Scofield

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Michele Scofield, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Michele has a Doctor of Philosophy (PHD) in Counseling Services from Capella University and a Master of Social Work (MSW) from University of Hawaii at Manoa.

Wailuku, HI

Specialties

Grief

Addiction

Bipolar Disorder

LGBTQIA+

Mood Disorders

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Exploratory

Gentle

Supportive

I'm a client-centered therapist in the broadest sense—that's the core of what I do in any therapeutic environment. I work with people navigating substance abuse, relationship challenges, family dynamics, cultural transitions, and LGBTQIA+ concerns.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 21st

Available virtually

Jose Daniel Rojales

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT

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3+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Jose Daniel Rojales, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Jose Daniel has a Master of Arts (MA) in Marriage and Family Therapy and Art Therapy from Notre Dame De Namur University.

Pahoa, HI

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Bipolar Disorder

Depression

Relationship Issues

Schizophrenia

Style

Exploratory

Gentle

Curious

I work with individuals and couples dealing with anxiety, depression, trauma, bipolar disorder, schizophrenia, and relationship issues. My therapeutic approach integrates Art Therapy, Narrative Therapy, CBT, and Family Systems Therapy to help you heal, grow, and move toward your goals.

Next appointmentSaturday, Apr 25th

Available virtually

Mary Kay Lowe

LMFT

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15+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Mary Kay Lowe, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Mary Kay has a Master's in Counseling (MC) in Counseling and Psychological Services from Saint Mary's University of Minnesota- Minneapolis.

Hawaii

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Relationship Issues

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Outcome-oriented

Spiritual

Empowering

I am passionate about helping clients overcome, heal, and grow from the experiences and challenges they face.

Next appointmentMonday, Apr 20th

Available virtually

Julius Phillip Jones

LMHC

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19+ years

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Julius Phillip Jones, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Julius Phillip has a Master in Counseling (MC) from West Virginia University.

Hawaii

Specialties

Grief

Anger Management

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Relationship Issues

Style

Insightful

Approachable

Empowering

I work with young adults, couples, and older adults navigating life transitions, crises, and opportunities. My passion is helping people find their calm, strong inner identity and move into the next phase of life, career, or relationships with confidence in themselves and their personal strengths.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 21st

Available virtually

Lita Hickey

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Lita Hickey, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Lita has a Master of Social Work (MSW) in Health/Mental Health from University of Hawaii.

Honolulu, HI

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Self Esteem

Style

Directive

Gentle

Supportive

I'm excited to get to know you. My passion lies in helping people facing depression, anxiety, and life adjustments such as grief, retirement, divorce, and domestic violence. I support you in discovering healthy perceptions of yourself so you can feel peaceful, worthy, and safe.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 21st

Available virtually

Joanne Lam

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LMFT

•

13+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Joanne Lam, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Joanne has a Master of Science (MS) from San Diego State University.

Honolulu, HI

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Responsive

Candid

Curious

I work with adults, couples, families, and adolescents. I specialize in depression, anxiety, stress, life-cycle transitions, trauma, and grief. I strive to create a safe, non-judgmental, and nurturing space where my clients can explore and embrace their authentic selves.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 21st

Available virtually

Elizabeth Magerowski

LMHC

•

4+ years

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Elizabeth Magerowski, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Elizabeth has a Master of Science (MS) in Counseling Psychology / Mental Health Counseling from Chaminade University of Honolulu.

Honolulu, HI

Specialties

Grief

ADHD

Anxiety

Stress

Women's Issues

Style

Outcome-oriented

Attuned

Collaborative

I help people struggling with anxiety, depression, stress, ADHD, PTSD, grief and loss, and eating disorders. I use a strengths-based approach that includes Solution-Focused Brief Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to support meaningful change.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 21st

Available virtually

AnnaJean Smith

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like AnnaJean Smith, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

AnnaJean has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Walla Walla University.

Kihei, HI

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Life Transitions

Relationship Issues

Self Esteem

Style

Exploratory

Candid

Curious

I work with individuals navigating change and emotional challenges during uncertain times. I offer a space where you can show up as you are, without judgment. Whether you're overwhelmed, stuck, or needing someone to talk to, I'm here to listen and support you in finding what feels right.

Next appointmentMonday, Apr 20th

Available virtually

Margarita Araiza-Johnston

LCSW

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16+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Margarita Araiza-Johnston, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Margarita has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from University of Tulane School of Social Work.

Hawaii

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

LGBTQIA+

Style

Exploratory

Gentle

Motivational

My areas of expertise include assessment, child abuse and neglect, bilingual therapy, family systems, domestic violence, crisis counseling, and suicide prevention.

Next appointmentThursday, Apr 23rd

Available virtually

Paul Grabowsky

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LMHC

•

10+ years

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Paul Grabowsky, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Paul has a Master of Acupuncture (MAC) from Webster University and a Masters of Arts (MA) in Counseling from Webster University.

Hilo, HI

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Exploratory

Warm

Motivational

I am a licensed mental health counselor, LMHC, and a licensed teacher in Hawai’i, and a licensed professional clinical counselor in New Mexico. I am a person-centered counselor, trained in a variety of modalities, including EMDR. I enjoy working with people of all ages and incorporate my training in biology and the connection to mind/body.

Next appointmentMonday, Apr 20th

Available virtually

Taryn Church

LMHC

•

3+ years

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Taryn Church, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Taryn has a Master in Counseling (MC) Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Regent University.

Keaau, HI

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Life Transitions

Substance Use

Style

Exploratory

Attuned

Affirming

As a trauma-informed, client-centered therapist, I help you understand how past experiences shape present thoughts, emotions, and relational patterns. We will work to build insight, restore a sense of safety within the body and mind, and cultivate self-trust. My approach honors your lived experience while supporting meaningful, sustainable change.

Next appointmentMonday, Apr 20th

Available virtually

Jennifer Ybarra

LMHC

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1+ years

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Jennifer Ybarra, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Jennifer has a Master of Science (MS) in Counseling Psychology from University of Phoenix.

Haiku, HI

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Relationship Issues

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Insightful

Attuned

Collaborative

I am passionate about helping my clients get to the root of their trauma and develop the necessary tools that allow for a more fulfilling life and relationships. I specialize in relationship issues, trauma & PTSD, anxiety, depression, grief, life transitions, body image, and self-worth.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Marc J. Malate

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW

•

8+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Marc J. Malate, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Marc J. has a Master of Social Work in (MSW) Gerontology from University of Hawaii.

Hawaii

Specialties

Grief

Cultural Stress

Depression

Life Transitions

Stress

Style

Exploratory

Attuned

Curious

Support is offered to clients as they build steadiness, self‑understanding, and sustainable comfort. The approach is collaborative, culturally grounded, and centered on helping people navigate stress, identity, and life transitions. (Active or former military personnel are not accepted due to a conflict of interest.)

Next appointmentWednesday, Apr 22nd

Available virtually

Justin Larkin

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LMHC

•

1+ years

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Justin Larkin, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Justin has a Master of Arts (MA) in Clinical Counseling from Adams State College.

Kailua-Kona, HI

Specialties

Grief

Addiction

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Relationship Issues

Style

Exploratory

Candid

Empowering

I take a strengths-based, client-centered approach rooted in positive psychology. True well-being comes from cultivating the strengths, habits, and mindsets that lead to flourishing. My focus goes beyond symptom relief to help you build resilience, meaning, and fulfillment in life.

Next appointmentMonday, Apr 20th

Available virtually

Kathryn Salaam Ayoob

LMHC

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Kathryn Salaam Ayoob, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Kathryn Salaam has a Master in Counseling (MC) Counseling Psychology from Antioch New England Graduate School.

Hawaii

Specialties

Grief

Psychosis

Spirituality

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Insightful

Spiritual

Supportive

I offer spiritually sensitive, intuitive, and empathic support for life's journey. A kind of magic happens when one is held in complete acceptance. Realigning with your true heart and essential nature leads to the opening of new possibilities. When you do things from your soul, you feel a river running through you, a joy.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 21st

Available virtually

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Additional therapy specialties and modalities

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Exploring online therapy for grief

Grief and its impact on life

Grief is a natural response to loss, often felt deeply when we lose someone or something important to us. It can manifest in various ways, including sadness, anger, confusion, and a sense of isolation. Grief can significantly impact daily life, affecting one’s ability to function in personal and professional settings. Navigating through grief is a deeply personal process and can be critical for emotional healing and moving forward.

The importance of therapy for grief

Engaging with a grief therapist can be helpful for those struggling with loss. Therapists specializing in grief can provide support and understanding, helping you to process complex emotions and cope with the pain of loss. Therapy can offer a safe space to explore feelings of grief, learn to adjust to life after loss, and develop strategies for healing and finding a new sense of normalcy.

Effective therapeutic approaches for grief

Various therapeutic methods can be effective in supporting people through grief:

Advantages of online therapy for grief

Online grief therapy offers several practical benefits. It can be accessible and convenient, allowing you to connect with therapists from the comfort and privacy of your own home, providing a secure space to openly discuss and process your feelings during such a sensitive and personal time. The sessions are flexible and can be scheduled according to your needs, accommodating the unpredictable nature of grief.

Tips for choosing the right grief therapist

FAQs about grief therapy and therapists

When to seek a grief therapist?

Consider seeking a grief therapist if your grief feels overwhelming, is affecting your ability to carry on with daily activities, or if you're struggling to move forward. Common signs include persistent sadness, inability to enjoy life, or feeling stuck in your grief. Therapy can provide a guided pathway through the grieving process, helping you to cope with the loss and a renewed sense of purpose.

What is the typical duration of therapy for grief?

The length of grief therapy varies for each person, depending on the nature of the loss and personal coping mechanisms. Some may find short-term therapy beneficial, while others might engage in longer-term support. Grief therapy is often flexible, with the therapist adapting to your changing needs over time.

What to expect in your first grief therapy session?

In the first session, you'll likely share your story of loss and discuss how it’s impacting your life. Your therapist should listen empathetically, ask questions, and work toward establishing a supportive and understanding relationship. This session sets the foundation for your grief therapy journey.

How to find a qualified therapist for grief?

A qualified therapist for grief should have specialized training in grief counseling or therapy. Look for therapists with experience in dealing with your specific situation, and credentials in therapies you’d like to explore.

Does insurance cover grief therapy sessions?

Insurance coverage for grief therapy can vary. After you've booked your first session, Rula verifies your insurance coverage and follows up with a cost estimate, including any required copayments.

Can grief therapy be conducted online?

Yes, grief therapy can be effectively conducted online. It offers a flexible and accessible option, allowing you to receive support in a setting that feels most comfortable for you, especially during a time of mourning. Therapy techniques can be adapted for virtual sessions, ensuring you receive care tailored to your needs and recovery journey.

Connect with Therapists who accept Carelon Behavioral Health in Hawaii

Quality care comes first at Rula

Quality care comes first at Rula

Michele Scofield

Jose Daniel Rojales

Mary Kay Lowe

Julius Phillip Jones

Lita Hickey

Joanne Lam

Elizabeth Magerowski

AnnaJean Smith

Margarita Araiza-Johnston

Paul Grabowsky

Taryn Church

Jennifer Ybarra

Marc J. Malate

Justin Larkin

Kathryn Salaam Ayoob

Continue exploring providers

Hundreds of thousands of patients have found affordable, in-network mental health care with Rula

Insurance

$15 / session

Network

15,000+

Match

98%

Progress

93%

Additional therapy specialties and modalities

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