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30+ therapists who accept Oxford Health Plans

Quality care comes first at Rula

We regularly review providers to ensure quality

30+ therapists who accept Oxford Health Plans
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Chantal Hacker

LPC

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Chantal Hacker, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Chantal has a Master's in Counseling (MC) in School Counseling/Mental Health from Butler University, a Doctor of Education (EDD) in Leadership, Teaching & Learning from Walden University and a Master of Arts (MA) Curriculum and Instruction/Bilingual/ Bicultural from Kean College of New Jersey.

New Jersey
Specialties
Anger Management
Anxiety
Depression
Stress
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Practical
Attuned
Collaborative

I use an eclectic approach, namely CBT, ACT, Person-centered, DBT, Solution-Focused, and Reality Therapy. I treat mostly anxiety, depression, and PTSD.

Next appointmentWednesday, Apr 22nd

Available virtually

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Nerlande Therlonge

LCSW
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1+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Nerlande Therlonge, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Nerlande has a Master of Social Work (MSW) Psychology from Rutgers University College, New Brunswick.

Orange, NJ
Specialties
Anger Management
Life Transitions
Relationship Issues
Self Esteem
Spirituality
Stress
Style
Directive
Candid
Collaborative

My approach is client-centered and strengths-based, focusing on building a supportive relationship to foster personal growth and resilience. I specialize in anxiety, depression, and life transitions, helping clients navigate their challenges with compassion and practical strategies.

Next appointmentSaturday, May 2nd

Available virtually

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Roy Hirschfeld

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Roy Hirschfeld, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Roy has a Masters of Science in Education (MS ED) marital and family from Seton Hall University.

New Jersey
Specialties
Anger Management
Anxiety
Autism or Asperger's Syndrome
Depression
Style
Directive
Candid
Supportive

My approach to therapy is cognitive behavioral with an emphasis on changing thinking patterns and behaviors to optimize personal life goals. I work well with couples, adults, teens with anxiety, depression, career and life planning, and children with ADHD, autism, and school or family behavioral issues.

Next appointmentMonday, Apr 27th

Available virtually

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“I encourage clients to shift their perspective by recognizing that anger is often a protective response to unresolved trauma, and learning to process and express it can be a key step in healing and regaining control.”

– Brandy Chalmers, LPC

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“A common barrier to seeking treatment for anger issues is the fear of being judged or misunderstood, which can stop people from recognizing that their anger is something that can be addressed and managed.”

– Brandy Chalmers, LPC

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“As a therapist, I often remind patients that anger is a natural and valid emotion — it’s not the feeling itself but how we express it that matters. A helpful shift is viewing anger as a signal, not a flaw. It can highlight unmet needs or crossed boundaries worth exploring in therapy. When we welcome anger with curiosity instead of guilt, we open the door to healing and self-understanding.”

– Ashley Ayala, LMFT

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Understanding online therapy for anger management
Anger management and its role in daily life

Anger is a natural emotion, but frequent or intense feelings of anger can have a negative impact on your relationships, work, and overall well-being. Effective anger management is crucial for maintaining healthy interactions and emotional balance. The goal of anger management is to help you recognize and control anger triggers before they escalate so you can express anger in healthy, non-destructive ways.

The importance of therapy in managing anger

Therapy plays a key role in understanding and managing anger. Professional therapists can help you identify the underlying causes of your anger and develop strategies to respond to anger triggers more constructively. Addressing anger through therapy can prevent it from negatively impacting your life and relationships. It can also promote emotional growth, improved communication skills, and better stress management.

Common therapeutic approaches for anger management

Therapists can use various methods to help manage anger effectively. For example:

  • Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) focuses on identifying and changing thought patterns that lead to anger.
  • Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) combines standard CBT techniques with mindfulness to improve emotional regulation.
  • Mindfulness-based stress reduction (MBSR) teaches mindfulness practices such as breathing techniques, meditation, and progressive muscle relaxation to help you stay calm and react more thoughtfully while angry.
Advantages of online therapy for anger management

Online therapy can offer accessibility, convenience, and a comfortable setting for people seeking help with anger management. It removes the need for travel, making it easier to fit therapy sessions into a busy schedule. The privacy of attending sessions from home can also make it easier to discuss sensitive issues and emotions, fostering a more open and effective therapeutic experience.

Tips for choosing an anger management therapist

Look for a therapist trained in anger management and experienced with specific issues you may struggle with. When searching for a therapist, keep the following in mind:

  • Ensure the therapist's treatment approach aligns with your preferences and therapy goals.
  • Inquire about fees and session availability to ensure the therapist fits your budget and schedule.
  • During initial sessions, evaluate whether you feel understood and comfortable with the therapist.
FAQs about anger management therapy and therapists
When should I seek therapy for anger management?

Consider therapy if your anger is difficult to control, leads to regrettable actions, or negatively affects your relationships and work. Signs that you may benefit from anger management include:

  • Frequent feelings of anger and frustration
  • Feeling out of control during anger outbursts
  • Anger that results in physical aggression, such as damaging property
  • Regret after an anger episode

Therapy can provide strategies to recognize and manage anger effectively, improving interactions and emotional health.

What is the typical duration of anger management therapy?

The length of anger management therapy depends on your specific needs and progress. It can range from short-term interventions focusing on immediate anger management techniques to long-term therapy that addresses deeper emotional issues. Ongoing assessments with your therapist can help tailor the therapy to your evolving needs.

What to expect during your first anger management therapy session?

In the first session, your therapist typically discusses your history with anger, your triggers, specific incidents that concern you, and how anger impacts your life. This conversation helps set the stage for understanding your specific challenges with anger and to begin exploring healthy coping mechanisms and outlets for frustrations. You may learn about the therapist's approach and establish the groundwork for a trusting therapeutic relationship.

How to find a qualified therapist for anger management?

A qualified anger management therapist should have relevant training and a license to practice in your state. Look for therapists with experience in anger management and check for any additional certifications or specialized training in effective anger management techniques.

Does insurance cover anger management therapy sessions?

Insurance coverage for anger management therapy varies. After you've booked your first session, Rula verifies your insurance coverage and follows up with a cost estimate, including any required copayments.

Is anger management therapy available online?

Yes, anger management therapy can be conducted online, offering a flexible and private way to get help. Online therapy can provide the benefits of in-person therapy while accommodating your lifestyle and personal needs.

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