How to find the right therapist in New Jersey

When choosing a therapist in New Jersey, it's best to reflect on what you’re looking for and ask yourself which of the following criteria are most important to you: Do they accept your insurance? Do you need a therapist who specializes in a specific mental health concern such as depression, anxiety, or trauma? Are you looking for someone to work with you individually? Or are you looking for someone to support you as a couple or family? Would you be more comfortable partnering with a therapist of a certain race, gender expression, sexual orientation, religious, or cultural background?

Can I use my insurance?

Yes! Therapists on the Rula platform are in-network with most major insurance plans. Rula patients typically pay $15 per session, although your individual cost may vary based on your insurance benefits and deductible. We’ll work with your insurance to confirm your estimated per-session cost before your first appointment. Ready to get started? Click here to browse available therapists who accept your insurance.

How do I know if therapy is right for me?

There’s no right or wrong reason to start therapy. Whether you’re seeking help navigating a life transition or managing symptoms of anxiety or depression, therapy is an effective treatment for many types of concerns – all you need is an open mind and a general sense of what you’d like to explore with a therapist. Still unsure? Head to our blog to learn more.

How soon can I meet with a therapist?

Therapists in Rula’s network are available to meet as soon as tomorrow. Click here to explore therapists and book your first session in minutes.

What should I consider when choosing a therapist?

It depends on your personal preferences and goals. Whether you’re seeking a therapist who specializes in certain mental health conditions, shares your ethnic background, or is available to meet at your preferred time – Rula makes it easy to search and filter by what matters most to you. If you don’t feel like your first choice was a match, don’t worry – we’ll help you switch to a different therapist in our network. Check out our blog post for more pointers on finding your best-fit therapist.

How do I know if I need therapy or psychiatry?

If you’re experiencing severe symptoms that interfere with your daily functioning, you may want to consider starting with a psychiatric provider who can assess your needs and prescribe medication if deemed necessary. If your symptoms are mild or moderate, therapy may be a better starting point. No matter where you begin your journey – your provider will work with you to develop a personalized treatment plan that’s based on your individual needs and concerns. Still unsure? Visit our blog to learn more about the differences.

Does Rula offer in-person appointments?

Currently, Rula offers in-person therapy in some states. For those living in other states, there are many benefits to online therapy!

Can Rula help me find a therapist?

Absolutely. Rula’s network of 10,000+ licensed providers represent more than 80 clinical specialties and a diverse range of backgrounds – making it easier to find the care you need. Once you provide us with some basic information, we’ll generate a curated list of in-network therapists who are licensed in your state and accepting new patients. From there, you can filter by what matters most to you and explore individual biographies until you find a match. Ready to get started?

What types of care can I access through Rula?

Providers in Rula’s network specialize in individual therapy, couples therapy, family therapy, and psychiatric care (i.e., medication management).

Who is eligible to access care through Rula?

Individuals aged 5 and older are eligible to receive care in any state where Rula is available.

How will I meet with my therapist?

Rula specializes in online therapy – giving you the flexibility to meet with your therapist from wherever you’re most comfortable. We’ll send you an appointment reminder containing a secure link to your scheduled Zoom session approximately 24 hours before your session.

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We regularly review providers to ensure quality

41 providers

AnnMarie Gray

LPC

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like AnnMarie Gray, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

AnnMarie has a Master in Counseling (MC) Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Mid America Christian University.

New Jersey

Specialties

Coping Skills

Depression

Gender Identity

Grief

Life Transitions

Style

Directive

Approachable

Affirming

Come as you are and I will walk besides you on your journey. Therapy is about you as an individual,it’s not one-size-fits-all. I offer a safe, supportive space where you can feel seen &heard. I have been in the field over 10 years, working in jails, mental health centers and private practice. I am experienced in talking to all walks of life.

Next appointmentMonday, Aug 24th

Available virtually

Valentina Paley

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW

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29+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Valentina Paley, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Valentina has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from yeshiva university, wurzweiler school of social work.

New Jersey

Specialties

Family Conflict

Grief

Mood Disorders

Personality Disorders

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Responsive

Attuned

Motivational

I believe in setting goals and moving toward them. I believe in change and growth of individuals. I believe that every person can build happiness in life regardless of how hard it seems now. I know that therapy is a difficult journey, but I can promise that I will be with you in every step of this journey supporting you on your way to happiness.

Next appointmentMonday, Aug 31st

Available virtually

Racquel Findlay

LCSW

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17+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Racquel Findlay, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Racquel has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from University of Central Florida.

New Jersey

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

LGBTQIA+

Life Transitions

Style

Directive

Gentle

Collaborative

I know that making the decision to start therapy can be a difficult one. I specialize in working with individuals navigating life transitions, anxiety, depression, & trauma. I take a client-centered, collaborative approach to therapy, tailoring each session to your unique needs and goals. I welcome you to reach out whenever you feel ready to begin.

Next appointmentWednesday, Sep 9th

Available virtually

Julie Green

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LCSW

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1+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Julie Green, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Julie has a Master of Science in Social Work (MSSW) from Hunter College, School of Social Work.

Jersey City, NJ

Specialties

ADHD

Anxiety

Depression

Style

Exploratory

Candid

Curious

I work with children, adolescents, and young adults using a strength-based approach to help them achieve their goals. My focus is on supporting clients as they navigate challenges and build resilience.

Next appointmentTuesday, Aug 25th

Available virtually

Kevin Hawk

LPC

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6+ years

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Kevin Hawk, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Kevin has a Master's in Counseling (MC) from Cairn University.

New Jersey

Specialties

Anger Management

Anxiety

Depression

Stress

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Responsive

Warm

Supportive

I’m a Licensed Professional Counselor specializing in CBT, Reality Therapy, DBT, ACT, and EMDR to help clients gain insight and take actionable steps toward change.

Next appointmentWednesday, Sep 2nd

Available virtually

Norma Cabrera

Recognized for high quality patient care

LPC

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Norma Cabrera, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Norma has a Master in Counseling (MC) from University of Texas-Pan American.

New Jersey

Specialties

Anxiety

Career Counseling

Grief

School Issues

Stress

Style

Directive

Approachable

Collaborative

When life feels heavy or unclear, it’s easy to feel alone. I guide clients through anxiety, self-doubt, and times of change with a calm, compassionate approach. My focus is on helping you reconnect with yourself so you can feel more steady, confident, and intentional.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Elizabeth Locatelli

LCSW

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8+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Elizabeth Locatelli, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Elizabeth has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from San Jose State University.

New Jersey

Specialties

Anxiety

Chronic Illness

Chronic Pain

Eating Disorders

LGBTQIA+

Style

Outcome-oriented

Approachable

Empowering

There is a way out. Peace of mind is possible. If you are struggling with anxiety, depression, disordered eating, body image, health issues, chronic pain, substance abuse, grief, gender/sexual orientation, or relationships, and would like to see if we are a good match, please feel free to contact me. I enjoy seeing people grow and thrive!

Next appointmentSaturday, Aug 29th

Available virtually

Ashley Flewellen

LPC

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11+ years

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Ashley Flewellen, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Ashley has a Master of Science (MS) in Psychological Counseling from Monmouth University.

Freehold, NJ

Specialties

ADHD

Anxiety

Depression

LGBTQIA+

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Responsive

Attuned

Curious

Together, we will set goals and take steps to achieve them by utilizing coping techniques to allow you to become the best version of yourself. We will discuss different strategies on how to practice self-care and effectively manage your emotions.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Kim Witkowski

LPC

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32+ years

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Kim Witkowski, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Kim has a Doctor of Philosophy in Human Services from Walden University and a Master in Counseling from Webster University.

New Jersey

Style

Insightful

Attuned

Affirming

Welcome to my therapy practice. I provide supportive, confidential, compassionate client-centered mental health therapy to support your journey, helping you navigate life with confidence and clarity.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Ohna Fagan

LCSW

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4+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Ohna Fagan, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Ohna has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Fordham University.

New Jersey

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

LGBTQIA+

Substance Use

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Responsive

Approachable

Empowering

I am an LCSW who offers a down-to-earth, lived-experience approach to helping people navigate everything from substance abuse to complex mental health challenges. I provide an inclusive space where authenticity-and a little humor- help us to tackle the tough stuff.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Aliris Alicea

Recognized for high quality patient care

LPC

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12+ years

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Aliris Alicea, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Aliris has a Doctor of Education (EDD) in Guidance and Counseling from University of Puerto Rico - Rio Piedras Campus and a Master's in Counseling (MC) in Guidance and Counseling from University of Puerto Rico - Rio Piedras Campus.

New Jersey

Specialties

Anxiety

Grief

Life Transitions

Style

Exploratory

Gentle

Supportive

I provide a safe, supportive space for individuals navigating anxiety, life transitions, trauma, or feeling stuck in painful patterns. My approach is warm, collaborative, and grounded in evidence-based practices that honor your story and your strengths.

Next appointmentTuesday, Aug 25th

Available virtually

Adeola Adefowoju Gbenro

Recognized for high quality patient care

LPC

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9+ years

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Adeola Adefowoju Gbenro, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Adeola has a Master of Arts (MA) in Clinical Psychology from Argosy University.

New Jersey

Specialties

Anxiety

Bipolar Disorder

Chronic Illness

Depression

Substance Use

Style

Directive

Spiritual

Affirming

I specialize in counseling for relationship issues, marital and premarital concerns, and chronic illness. I create a supportive space where you can explore challenges and work toward meaningful change.

Next appointmentTuesday, Aug 25th

Available virtually

Renee Riddell

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LPC

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1+ years

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Renee Riddell, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Renee has a Master of Science (MS) in Clinical Psychology and Human Services from Chestnut Hill College.

Runnemede, NJ

Specialties

ADHD

Anxiety

Bipolar Disorder

Depression

Family Conflict

Style

Responsive

Attuned

Empowering

I provide therapy centered on your unique needs and strengths. You steer your sessions to address day-to-day skills, past experiences, and personal growth. Together we discover what works for you and build effective tools to move forward. My approach is holistic and tailored to the whole person.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Evelyn Pappoe

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LMFT

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3+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Evelyn Pappoe, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Evelyn has a Master of Arts (MA) in Marriage and Family Therapy from Nyack College.

Burlington, NJ

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Relationship Issues

Stress

Style

Exploratory

Approachable

Supportive

Challenges, circumstances, and changes can trigger emotional distress, leading you to seek therapy. You are taking the first step toward healing, wholeness, and self-discovery. I work with people facing anxiety, depression, caregiver stress, relationship conflict, and life transitions. My approach is client-centered and collaborative.

Next appointmentSunday, Aug 30th

Available virtually

Danielle Dunne

Recognized for high quality patient care

LPC

•

9+ years

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Danielle Dunne, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Danielle has a Masters of Arts (MA) in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Georgian Court University.

Manahawkin, NJ

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Sexual Abuse

Trauma and PTSD

Women's Issues

Style

Outcome-oriented

Approachable

Curious

I am a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in the state of NJ and a LMHC (Licensed Mental Health Counselor) in the state of NY. I am outcome oriented and look to work with my clients to create and achieve their goals.

Next appointmentThursday, Sep 10th

Available virtually

Jessica Peres

LPC

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1+ years

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Jessica Peres, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Jessica has a Master in Counseling (MC) from New York University.

Newark, NJ

Specialties

Addiction

Anxiety

Depression

Self Esteem

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Responsive

Warm

Supportive

I am licensed with 9 years of professional work experience. I also have experience working with depression. I work with my clients to create an open and safe environment where thoughts and feelings can be shared.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

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Want personalized assistance finding the right fit? Call or text our team at 323-745-8323.

Previous providers

A closer look at Rula’s mental health providers in New Jersey

Specialty

Our providers specialize in a wide range of mental health needs, so you get care that truly fits you.

79

clinical specialties represented

Gender

You deserve a provider who understands your identity. Rula providers offer care that’s inclusive and affirming.

4

gender identities represented

Race & Ethnicity

Our providers represent a variety of backgrounds and cultures. Find providers who share or respect your lived experiences.

9

ethnicities represented across Rula providers

Therapy

Whether it’s stress, relationships, or personal growth, our therapists help you navigate what matters.

156

offer therapy

Psychiatry

Medication can be a key part of care. Our psychiatric providers offer expert guidance on what’s right for you.

20

offer medication management

Hundreds of thousands of patients have found affordable, in-network mental health care with Rula

Insurance

After you select a provider, we’ll send you a personalized cost estimate before your first session—so you’ll know what to expect.

$15 / session

typical cost patients pay through Rula

Nationwide coverage:

After you select a provider, we’ll send you a personalized cost estimate before your first session—so you’ll know what to expect.

100+ insurance plans accepted

140M total lives covered

Millions of sessions completed

Network

We hold providers to high clinical standards so you can trust the care you receive.

15,000+

licensed providers

Match

The right provider makes all the difference. We help you find someone who truly fits your needs—the first time.

98%

of searches result in an exact match

Progress

Care should make a difference. Our approach helps you track progress you can feel.

93%

of patients report feeling better after treatment through Rula

Additional therapy specialties and modalities

EMDR DBT Psychiatry

Couples therapy Child therapy Grief counseling Psychodynamic therapy

Sex therapy Family counseling Borderline personality Cognitive behavioral (CBT)

Understanding online dialectical behavior therapy

What is dialectical behavior therapy, and how does it work?

Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) is a comprehensive and evidence-based therapy approach that aims to help people manage intense emotions and build better relationships. It combines standard cognitive therapy techniques with skills like mindfulness, which focuses on awareness of the present moment. DBT can be effective for issues like borderline personality disorder and eating disorders, concentrating on improving emotional regulation, distress tolerance, and interpersonal skills.

DBT may not be the best treatment for your needs. Understanding the process and discussing this treatment method with a mental health professional is important.

Common issues addressed by dialectical behavior therapy

DBT can be used in treating mental health conditions associated with emotional instability. It can support people who deal with borderline personality disorder and extreme emotional reactions. DBT offers strategies for handling these challenges, which can lead to a more stable and fulfilling life.

Potential benefits of online dialectical behavior therapy

Online DBT sessions offer the flexibility to connect with specialized therapists on the Rula platform throughout your state, even if they’re not in your local area. This can be beneficial for people who face challenges attending in-person sessions. Research has shown that online therapy can have the effectiveness of in-person DBT while providing an accessible and comfortable option for treatment.

What to expect during an online dialectical behavior therapy session

During an online DBT session, therapists generally guide people through skill-building exercises in areas like mindfulness, handling stress, regulating emotions, and improving relationships. These sessions often include discussions on applying these skills to daily life, focusing on improving emotional stability and personal connections.

Choosing the right dialectical behavior therapist

After you've booked your first session, Rula verifies your insurance coverage and follows up with a cost estimate, including any required copayments.

FAQs about online dialectical behavior therapy

How effective is online DBT compared to in-person sessions?

Online DBT can be effective for many people. Many therapists on the Rula platform have experience adapting DBT techniques for online formats. While some may prefer in-person interactions, others find online therapy more convenient and less intimidating, which can help make sessions more effective.

Is dialectical behavior therapy right for me?

DBT can be suitable for people dealing with issues around emotional regulation, relationship conflicts, or self-harming behaviors. It can benefit people seeking a more structured therapy approach focusing on building practical skills. A consultation with a DBT therapist can help you decide if this therapy aligns with your needs and goals.

How should I prepare for online DBT sessions?

Reflect on your thoughts and feelings leading up to the appointment. Think about what you hope to get from each session and your longer-term goals. Let your close friends or family know you're starting DBT, as you might need their understanding and support.

DBT often brings up intense feelings and challenges old behaviors that may be difficult. Remember, the process of change has ups and downs. Working with your therapist can guide you through this process, offering support and strategies to help you apply DBT skills effectively in your everyday life. Feel confident about sharing your thoughts and feelings openly in this safe space.

How long does DBT therapy typically last?

The length of DBT therapy depends on the individual's needs and the specific issues being addressed. Some people may experience significant improvement within a few sessions, while others might engage in DBT therapy over several months. Your therapist can tailor treatment to your unique healing journey.

Are there any requirements for participating in online DBT?

Online DBT requires a private space for therapy, a reliable internet connection, and a device capable of video conferencing. Active participation and a willingness to apply DBT skills outside of sessions are critical for the therapy's success.

Quality care comes first at Rula

A closer look at Rula’s mental health providers in New Jersey

Specialty

79

Gender

4

Race & Ethnicity

9

Therapy

156

Psychiatry

20

Hundreds of thousands of patients have found affordable, in-network mental health care with Rula

Insurance

$15 / session

Network

15,000+

Match

98%

Progress

93%

Additional therapy specialties and modalities

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