How to find the right therapist in New York

When choosing a therapist in New York, it's best to reflect on what you’re looking for and ask yourself which of the following criteria are most important to you: Do they accept your insurance? Do you need a therapist who specializes in a specific mental health concern such as depression, anxiety, or trauma? Are you looking for someone to work with you individually? Or are you looking for someone to support you as a couple or family? Would you be more comfortable partnering with a therapist of a certain race, gender expression, sexual orientation, religious, or cultural background?

Can I use my insurance?

Yes! Therapists on the Rula platform are in-network with most major insurance plans. Rula patients typically pay $15 per session, although your individual cost may vary based on your insurance benefits and deductible. We’ll work with your insurance to confirm your estimated per-session cost before your first appointment. Ready to get started? Click here to browse available therapists who accept your insurance.

How do I know if therapy is right for me?

There’s no right or wrong reason to start therapy. Whether you’re seeking help navigating a life transition or managing symptoms of anxiety or depression, therapy is an effective treatment for many types of concerns – all you need is an open mind and a general sense of what you’d like to explore with a therapist. Still unsure? Head to our blog to learn more.

How soon can I meet with a therapist?

Therapists in Rula’s network are available to meet as soon as tomorrow. Click here to explore therapists and book your first session in minutes.

What should I consider when choosing a therapist?

It depends on your personal preferences and goals. Whether you’re seeking a therapist who specializes in certain mental health conditions, shares your ethnic background, or is available to meet at your preferred time – Rula makes it easy to search and filter by what matters most to you. If you don’t feel like your first choice was a match, don’t worry – we’ll help you switch to a different therapist in our network. Check out our blog post for more pointers on finding your best-fit therapist.

How do I know if I need therapy or psychiatry?

If you’re experiencing severe symptoms that interfere with your daily functioning, you may want to consider starting with a psychiatric provider who can assess your needs and prescribe medication if deemed necessary. If your symptoms are mild or moderate, therapy may be a better starting point. No matter where you begin your journey – your provider will work with you to develop a personalized treatment plan that’s based on your individual needs and concerns. Still unsure? Visit our blog to learn more about the differences.

Does Rula offer in-person appointments?

Currently, Rula offers in-person therapy in some states. For those living in other states, there are many benefits to online therapy!

Can Rula help me find a therapist?

Absolutely. Rula’s network of 10,000+ licensed providers represent more than 80 clinical specialties and a diverse range of backgrounds – making it easier to find the care you need. Once you provide us with some basic information, we’ll generate a curated list of in-network therapists who are licensed in your state and accepting new patients. From there, you can filter by what matters most to you and explore individual biographies until you find a match. Ready to get started?

What types of care can I access through Rula?

Providers in Rula’s network specialize in individual therapy, couples therapy, family therapy, and psychiatric care (i.e., medication management).

Who is eligible to access care through Rula?

Individuals aged 5 and older are eligible to receive care in any state where Rula is available.

How will I meet with my therapist?

Rula specializes in online therapy – giving you the flexibility to meet with your therapist from wherever you’re most comfortable. We’ll send you an appointment reminder containing a secure link to your scheduled Zoom session approximately 24 hours before your session.

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Quality care comes first at Rula

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30+ therapists who accept Allied

Quality care comes first at Rula

We regularly review providers to ensure quality

30+ therapists who accept Allied

Dawn Meenan

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Dawn Meenan, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Dawn has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Stony Brook University and a Masters of Arts (MA) from Hofstra University.

New York

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Coping Skills

Depression

Life Transitions

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Responsive

Approachable

Curious

Taking the first steps toward therapy can feel difficult and rewarding. I specialize in working with individuals moving through life transitions, anxiety, depression, and trauma. I believe in a client-centered, collaborative approach where each session is tailored to your unique needs and goals.

Next appointmentThursday, Apr 23rd

Available virtually

Michelle Foster

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Michelle Foster, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Michelle has a Master of Science in Social Work (MSSW) from State University of New York, Albany.

New York

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Style

Responsive

Candid

Empowering

I work with adults who struggle with depression, anxiety, adjustment, and stress disorders. I provide a safe and judgment-free space for you to express your feelings and work on coping skills to better manage your symptoms. My goal is to help you increase your overall functioning when dealing with active or new stressors.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Jawhan Davis

LMHC

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Jawhan Davis, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Jawhan has a Master's in Counseling (MC) in Mental Health Counseling from Mercy College.

New York

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

LGBTQIA+

Life Transitions

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Exploratory

Gentle

Motivational

I am a trauma-informed therapist specializing in major depressive disorders, anxiety disorders such as separation anxiety, GAD, OCD, ADHD, and panic disorders. I also specialize in life transitions and working with diverse populations, including minority races and the LGBTQ community.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Julie Aquilato

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Julie Aquilato, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Julie has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from New York University School of Social Work.

Hartsdale, NY

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Mood Disorders

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Directive

Gentle

Collaborative

It is wonderful to see you here, taking the first step in helping yourself. I have been a therapist for 30+ years, and I have experience working with many different types of people with a variety of needs. My main goal is to help you gain access to the tools to help yourself get better.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 21st

Available virtually

Patricia Cluett

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW

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21+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Patricia Cluett, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Patricia has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Boston College.

Ithaca, NY

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Older Adult

Style

Directive

Gentle

Collaborative

I am a Licensed, Certified Social Worker with 30-plus years of experience, and I love my job. I enjoy helping clients find their strengths and guiding them to their goals. Together, we can find the tools to allow you to gain your full potential. I have a calm presence, which will enable me to connect with my clients.

Next appointmentFriday, Apr 24th

Available virtually

April McEvoy Alvarez

LMHC

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like April McEvoy Alvarez, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

April has a Master of Arts (MA) in Clinical Mental Health from Medaille.

New York

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

LGBTQIA+

Stress

Style

Exploratory

Approachable

Curious

I know reaching out can feel like a big step, and I want you to know you're in the right place. I support individuals navigating anxiety, stress, trauma, or finding balance during major transitions. My work combines evidence-based approaches with compassionate understanding of the mind-body connection.

Next appointmentFriday, Apr 24th

Available virtually

Frances Melendez

Recognized for high quality patient care

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16+ years

Licensed Psychologists (LPs), like Frances Melendez, hold a doctoral degree and are trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

All Rula providers are licensed and hold a master’s or doctorate degree required for practice.

Staten Island, NY

Specialties

Grief

Addiction

Anxiety

Depression

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Responsive

Warm

Collaborative

I work with you to explore the barriers keeping you stuck, deepening your self-awareness so that you may live your authentic life. My focus includes disparities in mental health services, depression, substance abuse, trauma, psychogenic seizures, empowerment and self-advocacy, and the impact of racial trauma.

“For context I’m a younger individual that is working with Dr. Melendez. I have so much love for her in my heart. Obviously it’s up to me to do the self work but she has progressed me so far. She really takes time to understand, validate me, my experiences, and how I feel. She also challenges me in a lot of instances. Overall she’s a great person and she’s great at what she does.”

Next appointmentFriday, Apr 24th

Available virtually

Xajaah Williams-Flores

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Xajaah Williams-Flores, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Xajaah has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Smith College.

New York

Specialties

Grief

Gender Identity

LGBTQIA+

Life Transitions

Racial Identity

Transgender Issues

Style

Outcome-oriented

Candid

Motivational

I have experience working with a range of populations. I view each individual as the expert of their story. I recognize the ways that systemic oppression: racism, anti-blackness, misogyny, homophobia, transphobia, and ableism actively cause harm. I take great pride in offering services to BIPOC, QTPOC, TGNC, and individuals.

Next appointmentThursday, Apr 23rd

Available virtually

Heather Erbland

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW

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14+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Heather Erbland, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Heather has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Wilfrid Laurier University.

Byron, NY

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Bipolar Disorder

Chronic Pain

Depression

Suicidal Ideation

Style

Exploratory

Warm

Curious

I take a holistic approach to therapy and love helping clients explore ways to improve their mental health, physical health, relationships, and social functioning, and to find ways to feel more meaning, passion, and purpose in life.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 21st

Available virtually

Brittany Nicholson

LMHC

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3+ years

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Brittany Nicholson, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Brittany has a Master of Science (MS) in Mental Health Counseling from Brooklyn Campus of Long Island University.

New York, NY

Specialties

Grief

Bipolar Disorder

Life Transitions

Style

Insightful

Warm

Affirming

I conduct my sessions with a strength-based approach.

Next appointmentThursday, Apr 23rd

Available virtually

Kimberly Ward

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Kimberly Ward, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Kimberly has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from University of Maryland School of Social Work.

New York

Style

Insightful

Attuned

Motivational

Welcome — I’m so glad you’re here. I work with individuals who are ready to heal, grow, and reconnect with their true selves. My approach blends compassion, mindfulness, and practical tools to help you release what no longer serves you and step confidently into your next chapter. It’s a new beginning, and the journey starts with you, here.

Next appointmentSunday, Apr 26th

Available virtually

Charlene Bell

Recognized for high quality patient care

Licensed Psychologists (LPs), like Charlene Bell, hold a doctoral degree and are trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Charlene has a Doctor of Philosophy (PHD) from Palo Alto University.

New York

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Coping Skills

Depression

Relationship Issues

Stress

Style

Responsive

Attuned

Supportive

I work with adults facing depression, anxiety, stress, marital issues, reproductive mental health, and sexual health concerns. I use a strength-based and client-centered approach to focus on your goals and promote self-efficacy.

Next appointmentWednesday, Apr 22nd

Available virtually

Margaret Dunn

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Margaret Dunn, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Margaret has a Master of Social Work (MSW) in Health and Disabilities Concentration from University at Buffalo, State University of New York.

New York

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Life Transitions

Mood Disorders

Stress

Style

Practical

Approachable

Empowering

I work with adults coping with stress, depression, anxiety, and grief. I use a holistic, strength-based approach and enjoy helping clients improve their overall health and wellness and develop a more purposeful, meaningful life.

Next appointmentThursday, Apr 23rd

Available virtually

Mucanie Joseph

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMHC

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Mucanie Joseph, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Mucanie has a Master of Science (MS) in Mental Health Counseling from St Thomas University.

New York

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Self Esteem

Style

Responsive

Warm

Affirming

I’m a Licensed Mental Health Counselor with clinical experience since 2014. I’m committed to helping individuals find their way toward healing, growth, and overall well-being. My goal is to create a space where people feel safe, heard, and supported as they work toward meaningful change in their lives.

Next appointmentWednesday, Apr 22nd

Available virtually

Theresa Bergold

LCSW

•

2+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Theresa Bergold, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Theresa has a Master of Social Work (MSW) in Clinical Social Work/Substance Abuse from Brooklyn Campus of Long Island University.

Garden City, NY

Specialties

Grief

Addiction

Alcohol Use

Anxiety

Relapse Prevention

Substance Use

Style

Directive

Gentle

Supportive

I specialize in mental health issues, co-occurring disorders, trauma, and substance abuse. I work with clients facing anxiety, depression, relationship challenges, and those navigating recovery. My approach is warm, supportive, and centered on helping you heal and grow.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

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Exploring online therapy for grief

Grief and its impact on life

Grief is a natural response to loss, often felt deeply when we lose someone or something important to us. It can manifest in various ways, including sadness, anger, confusion, and a sense of isolation. Grief can significantly impact daily life, affecting one’s ability to function in personal and professional settings. Navigating through grief is a deeply personal process and can be critical for emotional healing and moving forward.

The importance of therapy for grief

Engaging with a grief therapist can be helpful for those struggling with loss. Therapists specializing in grief can provide support and understanding, helping you to process complex emotions and cope with the pain of loss. Therapy can offer a safe space to explore feelings of grief, learn to adjust to life after loss, and develop strategies for healing and finding a new sense of normalcy.

Effective therapeutic approaches for grief

Various therapeutic methods can be effective in supporting people through grief:

Advantages of online therapy for grief

Online grief therapy offers several practical benefits. It can be accessible and convenient, allowing you to connect with therapists from the comfort and privacy of your own home, providing a secure space to openly discuss and process your feelings during such a sensitive and personal time. The sessions are flexible and can be scheduled according to your needs, accommodating the unpredictable nature of grief.

Tips for choosing the right grief therapist

FAQs about grief therapy and therapists

When to seek a grief therapist?

Consider seeking a grief therapist if your grief feels overwhelming, is affecting your ability to carry on with daily activities, or if you're struggling to move forward. Common signs include persistent sadness, inability to enjoy life, or feeling stuck in your grief. Therapy can provide a guided pathway through the grieving process, helping you to cope with the loss and a renewed sense of purpose.

What is the typical duration of therapy for grief?

The length of grief therapy varies for each person, depending on the nature of the loss and personal coping mechanisms. Some may find short-term therapy beneficial, while others might engage in longer-term support. Grief therapy is often flexible, with the therapist adapting to your changing needs over time.

What to expect in your first grief therapy session?

In the first session, you'll likely share your story of loss and discuss how it’s impacting your life. Your therapist should listen empathetically, ask questions, and work toward establishing a supportive and understanding relationship. This session sets the foundation for your grief therapy journey.

How to find a qualified therapist for grief?

A qualified therapist for grief should have specialized training in grief counseling or therapy. Look for therapists with experience in dealing with your specific situation, and credentials in therapies you’d like to explore.

Does insurance cover grief therapy sessions?

Insurance coverage for grief therapy can vary. After you've booked your first session, Rula verifies your insurance coverage and follows up with a cost estimate, including any required copayments.

Can grief therapy be conducted online?

Yes, grief therapy can be effectively conducted online. It offers a flexible and accessible option, allowing you to receive support in a setting that feels most comfortable for you, especially during a time of mourning. Therapy techniques can be adapted for virtual sessions, ensuring you receive care tailored to your needs and recovery journey.

Connect with Therapists who accept Allied in New York

Quality care comes first at Rula

Quality care comes first at Rula

Dawn Meenan

Michelle Foster

Jawhan Davis

Julie Aquilato

Patricia Cluett

April McEvoy Alvarez

Frances Melendez

Xajaah Williams-Flores

Heather Erbland

Brittany Nicholson

Kimberly Ward

Charlene Bell

Margaret Dunn

Mucanie Joseph

Theresa Bergold

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Hundreds of thousands of patients have found affordable, in-network mental health care with Rula

Insurance

$15 / session

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15,000+

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98%

Progress

93%

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