How to find the right therapist in Suffolk, VA

When choosing a therapist in Suffolk, VA, it's best to reflect on what you’re looking for and ask yourself which of the following criteria are most important to you: Do they accept your insurance? Do you need a therapist who specializes in a specific mental health concern such as depression, anxiety, or trauma? Are you looking for someone to work with you individually? Or are you looking for someone to support you as a couple or family? Would you be more comfortable partnering with a therapist of a certain race, gender expression, sexual orientation, religious, or cultural background?

Can I use my insurance?

Yes! Therapists on the Rula platform are in-network with most major insurance plans. Rula patients typically pay $15 per session, although your individual cost may vary based on your insurance benefits and deductible. We’ll work with your insurance to confirm your estimated per-session cost before your first appointment. Ready to get started? Click here to browse available therapists who accept your insurance.

How do I know if therapy is right for me?

There’s no right or wrong reason to start therapy. Whether you’re seeking help navigating a life transition or managing symptoms of anxiety or depression, therapy is an effective treatment for many types of concerns – all you need is an open mind and a general sense of what you’d like to explore with a therapist. Still unsure? Head to our blog to learn more.

How soon can I meet with a therapist?

Therapists in Rula’s network are available to meet as soon as tomorrow. Click here to explore therapists and book your first session in minutes.

What should I consider when choosing a therapist?

It depends on your personal preferences and goals. Whether you’re seeking a therapist who specializes in certain mental health conditions, shares your ethnic background, or is available to meet at your preferred time – Rula makes it easy to search and filter by what matters most to you. If you don’t feel like your first choice was a match, don’t worry – we’ll help you switch to a different therapist in our network. Check out our blog post for more pointers on finding your best-fit therapist.

How do I know if I need therapy or psychiatry?

If you’re experiencing severe symptoms that interfere with your daily functioning, you may want to consider starting with a psychiatric provider who can assess your needs and prescribe medication if deemed necessary. If your symptoms are mild or moderate, therapy may be a better starting point. No matter where you begin your journey – your provider will work with you to develop a personalized treatment plan that’s based on your individual needs and concerns. Still unsure? Visit our blog to learn more about the differences.

Does Rula offer in-person appointments?

Currently, Rula offers in-person therapy in some states. For those living in other states, there are many benefits to online therapy!

Can Rula help me find a therapist?

Absolutely. Rula’s network of 10,000+ licensed providers represent more than 80 clinical specialties and a diverse range of backgrounds – making it easier to find the care you need. Once you provide us with some basic information, we’ll generate a curated list of in-network therapists who are licensed in your state and accepting new patients. From there, you can filter by what matters most to you and explore individual biographies until you find a match. Ready to get started?

What types of care can I access through Rula?

Providers in Rula’s network specialize in individual therapy, couples therapy, family therapy, and psychiatric care (i.e., medication management).

Who is eligible to access care through Rula?

Individuals aged 5 and older are eligible to receive care in any state where Rula is available.

How will I meet with my therapist?

Rula specializes in online therapy – giving you the flexibility to meet with your therapist from wherever you’re most comfortable. We’ll send you an appointment reminder containing a secure link to your scheduled Zoom session approximately 24 hours before your session.

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Quality care comes first at Rula

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30+ Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) therapists

Quality care comes first at Rula

We regularly review providers to ensure quality

30+ Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) therapists

Dwyana Smithen-Lewis

LPC

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Dwyana Smithen-Lewis, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Dwyana has a Masters of Arts (MA) in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Liberty University and a Master of Arts (MA) in Human Services Counseling/Life Coach from Liberty University.

Virginia

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Stress

Style

Exploratory

Approachable

Collaborative

I deeply believe that every one of us embodies greatness and divine essence. My mission is to help you recognize your potential, embrace your unique strengths, and step boldly into a brighter, more fulfilling future. My approach is built on compassion, cultural understanding, and commitment to personal growth.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Carla Jackson

LCSW

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7+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Carla Jackson, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Carla has a Master of Science in Social Work (MSSW) from University of Tennessee.

Virginia

Specialties

Addiction

Anxiety

Depression

Eating Disorders

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Directive

Approachable

Collaborative

I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker practicing in Tennessee and Virginia. I have been in practice for over 10 years, working in various specialties including anxiety, depression, trauma, addiction, eating disorders, compulsive/impulsive behavior, bipolar disorder, and schizophrenia.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Hillary Parks

Recognized for high quality patient care

LPC

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4+ years

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Hillary Parks, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Hillary has a Master of Education (MED) in Mental Health Counseling from Old Dominion University.

Chesapeake, VA

Specialties

ADHD

Anxiety

Bipolar Disorder

Depression

Style

Outcome-oriented

Gentle

Collaborative

I work with clients dealing with trauma, depression, anxiety, ADHD, bipolar disorder, stress, and grief. I believe every client is unique with their own therapeutic needs and goals, and my job is to listen and work with you to reach those goals.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 21st

Available virtually

Alyce Oxton

Recognized for high quality patient care

LPC

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Alyce Oxton, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Alyce has a Master's in Counseling (MC) in Marriage, Couples, and Family therapy from Walden University.

Virginia

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Relationship Issues

Stress

Style

Outcome-oriented

Approachable

Collaborative

Welcome to the beginning of your path to positivity. I work with individuals, couples, and families across the lifespan. My specialties are helping clients navigate anxiety, depression, relationship concerns, life transitions, communication issues, and emotional well-being.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Amanda Selman

LPC

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Amanda Selman, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Amanda has a Masters of Arts (MA) from Liberty University.

Clifton Forge, VA

Specialties

Anxiety

Coping Skills

Depression

Trauma and PTSD

Women's Issues

Style

Responsive

Approachable

Supportive

I feel that I have two major responsibilities as a counselor: 1. Helping 2. Listening. Confidentiality and Neutrality are a top priority. I blend a number of evidenced based treatments with complementary integrative interventions to help you meet your goals!

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Gianna Volkes

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Gianna Volkes, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Gianna has a Master of Social Work from Fordham University.

Harrisonburg, VA

Specialties

Anxiety

Family Conflict

Life Transitions

Relationship Issues

Stress

Style

Responsive

Approachable

Supportive

I work with individuals 16 and older, offering a supportive, collaborative space where clients can feel heard, understood, and empowered. My approach is personalized and practical, blending mindfulness and tailored coping tools with thoughtful reflection to help clients navigate challenges, build insight, and create meaningful, long-lasting change.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Ethan Henry

LPC

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Ethan Henry, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Ethan has a Masters of Arts (MA) in Professional counseling from Liberty University.

Lynchburg, VA

Specialties

Depression

Family Conflict

Grief

Style

Exploratory

Warm

Collaborative

My therapeutic philosophy begins with cultivating safety and trust. I understand that I am entering your private world, and this is a deep and sacred trust. Whether or not that trust has been violated by others in the past, I will create a sanctuary in which hurts that have created trauma, anxiety, and depression can be explored and understood.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Alimatu Mustapha-Palmer

Recognized for high quality patient care

LPC

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17+ years

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Alimatu Mustapha-Palmer, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Alimatu has a Master of Science (MS) Clinical Psych from University of the District of Columbia, a PhD from Howard University and a MAC (Masters Addiction Certification) as a substance abuse professional from NAADAC.

Alexandria, VA

Specialties

Anxiety

Cultural Stress

Depression

Life Transitions

Substance Use

Style

Insightful

Attuned

Motivational

I help individuals, families, and groups navigate life transitions, relationship challenges, cultural dynamics, and spirituality. My work spans diverse populations including children, veterans, minorities, women, and faith-based communities. I bring a holistic, person-centered approach to address your unique needs.

Next appointmentFriday, Apr 24th

Available virtually

Amanda Lewis

LPC

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Amanda Lewis, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Amanda has a Master's in Counseling (MC) from Regent University.

Virginia

Specialties

Domestic Violence

Mood Disorders

Relationship Issues

Trauma and PTSD

Women's Issues

Style

Insightful

Attuned

Empowering

I work with people from various backgrounds and lifestyles. I've supported clients in homes, community facilities, schools, and other settings where healing happens.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Christina Jordan

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Christina Jordan, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Christina has a Master of Arts from National University.

Virginia

Specialties

Addiction

Alcohol Use

LGBTQIA+

Mood Disorders

Parenting

Style

Insightful

Approachable

Collaborative

I’m a dedicated LMFT passionate about creating a safe, supportive, and non-judgmental space where clients can explore their thoughts, emotions, and life experiences. I specialize in helping individuals build coping skills, strengthen emotional resilience, and navigate challenges such as anxiety, depression, and life transitions.

Next appointmentFriday, Apr 24th

Available virtually

Rhoda Mauclair-St Louis

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Rhoda Mauclair-St Louis, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Rhoda has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Barry University.

Virginia

Specialties

Anxiety

Behavioral Issues

Depression

Pregnancy, Prenatal, Postpartum

Relationship Issues

Style

Insightful

Candid

Motivational

I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) and Clinical Social Work Qualified Supervisor (RCSWI-QS).I have several years of experience helping individuals and couples from various cultural backgrounds, physical and mental capabilities in vast settings, manage their struggles with anxiety, depression, postpartum, and or relationship struggles.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Holly Pineda

LCSW

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4+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Holly Pineda, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Holly has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from University of South Florida.

Virginia

Specialties

Anxiety

Grief

Life Transitions

Style

Directive

Warm

Supportive

I recognize that taking the first step in seeking therapy shows courage and strength. I will meet you with compassion, empathy, and support moving forward.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Kristi Gilliam

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW

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2+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Kristi Gilliam, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Kristi has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from University of Tennessee.

Virginia

Specialties

ADHD

Aging

Anxiety

Depression

Panic Attacks

Style

Exploratory

Approachable

Collaborative

I utilize multiple modalities to provide coping skills to manage ADHD, intrusive negative thoughts, anxiety, depression, adjustment issues, vocational stress, and relationship challenges.

Next appointmentThursday, Apr 23rd

Available virtually

Hunada Zein-Eddin

LPC

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Hunada Zein-Eddin, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Hunada has a Master's in Counseling (MC) in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Lancaster Bible College.

Ashburn, VA

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Mood Disorders

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Exploratory

Spiritual

Curious

I am a bilingual therapist specializing in working with adolescents, young adults, and adults facing anxiety, depression, adjustment issues, ADHD, PTSD, and mood disorders. I also help clients navigate emotionally demanding events like stress, anger, loss, interpersonal issues, workplace relationships, and life transitions.

Next appointmentWednesday, Apr 22nd

Available virtually

Constance Manley

Recognized for high quality patient care

LPC

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4+ years

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Constance Manley, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Constance has a Master's in Counseling (MC) in Counseling from Pentecostal Theological Seminary.

Virginia

Specialties

ADHD

Addiction

Anxiety

Autism or Asperger's Syndrome

Depression

Style

Exploratory

Approachable

Collaborative

I utilize an eclectic approach to therapy, emphasizing CBT, Evidence-Based techniques, and Person-Centered practices. Constance specializes in treating a variety of mental health concerns, including Depression, Anxiety, Stress, Grief, ADHD, Autism, Abuse, Substance Abuse, and Self-Esteem challenges, with a compassionate and client-focused approach.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

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A closer look at Rula’s mental health providers in Virginia

Specialty

Our providers specialize in a wide range of mental health needs, so you get care that truly fits you.

75

clinical specialties represented

Gender

You deserve a provider who understands your identity. Rula providers offer care that’s inclusive and affirming.

6

gender identities represented

Race & Ethnicity

Our providers represent a variety of backgrounds and cultures. Find providers who share or respect your lived experiences.

10

ethnicities represented across Rula providers

Therapy

Whether it’s stress, relationships, or personal growth, our therapists help you navigate what matters.

378

offer therapy

Psychiatry

Medication can be a key part of care. Our psychiatric providers offer expert guidance on what’s right for you.

31

offer medication management

Hundreds of thousands of patients have found affordable, in-network mental health care with Rula

Insurance

After you select a provider, we’ll send you a personalized cost estimate before your first session—so you’ll know what to expect.

$15 / session

typical cost patients pay through Rula

Nationwide coverage:

After you select a provider, we’ll send you a personalized cost estimate before your first session—so you’ll know what to expect.

100+ insurance plans accepted

140M total lives covered

Millions of sessions completed

Network

We hold providers to high clinical standards so you can trust the care you receive.

15,000+

licensed providers

Match

The right provider makes all the difference. We help you find someone who truly fits your needs—the first time.

98%

of searches result in an exact match

Progress

Care should make a difference. Our approach helps you track progress you can feel.

93%

of patients report feeling better after treatment through Rula

Additional therapy specialties and modalities

Sex Therapy Trauma and PTSD Anxiety EMDR Dialectical (DBT)

Psychiatry Couples Family Children therapy Preteen therapy Teen therapy

Male therapists Female therapists Spanish-speaking therapists Black or African American therapists Asian therapists Hispanic or Latinx therapists

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Understanding online emotionally focused therapy

What is emotionally focused therapy and how does it work?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) has been shown to be effective in both individuals and couples. It helps people identify and share feelings in new ways. By learning to navigate emotions as a couple or family, your connections can deepen and communication can improve. Online EFT sessions can create a space to better understand your automatic reactions and patterns of relating that may cause pain or problems. With support and guidance, you can reshape entrenched habits into healthy exchanges full of understanding and warmth. The goal is to foster secure, lasting bonds across all your closest relationships.

Emotionally focused therapy may not be the best treatment for your needs. It's important to understand the process and discuss this treatment method with a mental health professional.

Common issues addressed by EFT

EFT can treat relationship distress, attachment issues, and emotional distress. It helps couples and families navigate conflicts, deepen emotional intimacy, and build more resilient, supportive relationships. EFT is also beneficial for people looking to understand their emotional responses and improve personal interactions.

Benefits of online EFT

Online EFT offers the convenience of attending therapy sessions from your home, making it accessible to couples or family members in different locations. It can provide a safe, private environment to explore sensitive relationship dynamics. The online format also broadens access to specialized EFT therapists who may be licensed in your state, but aren’t located in your area.

What to expect during an online EFT session

During an online EFT session, therapists may guide couples or families through discussions and exercises that focus on understanding and expressing emotions. Sessions aim to identify negative interaction patterns and replace them with healthier ways of connecting. The virtual setting allows for flexibility in scheduling, making it easier for all participants to engage in therapy together.

Choosing the right EFT therapist

After you've booked your first session, Rula verifies your insurance coverage and follows up with a cost estimate, including any required copayments.

FAQs about online EFT

How effective is online EFT compared to in-person sessions?

Online emotionally focused therapy can be effective, particularly when therapists successfully create a virtual space conducive to emotional openness. Many therapists on the Rula platform have experience adapting emotionally focused therapy techniques for online formats. While some may prefer in-person interactions, others find online therapy more convenient and less intimidating, which can help make sessions more effective.

Is EFT right for me (or us)?

EFT can aid those struggling with emotional disconnects or conflicts in close relationships. Working individually or jointly with a partner or relatives, EFT offers the possibility of growth and harmony. By building an understanding of underlying feelings and needs, an EFT therapist strives to nurture meaningful connections with care and compassion.

How should I prepare for online EFT sessions?

Emotionally focused therapy involves examining your feelings and relationships. Letting loved ones know you are starting EFT can help them understand this personal work. Be ready to explore emotional reactions and habits in your closest relationships. Though intense feelings may arise when relationship challenges surface, your therapist will facilitate healing with empathy. Progress often requires sitting with discomfort to reach an understanding so you can make connections with those you care about most.

How long does EFT typically last?

The duration of emotionally focused therapy varies, but it’s generally considered a time-limited approach, with many couples or families experiencing improvements within 8 to 20 sessions. The specific length of therapy depends on the unique needs and goals of the participants.

Are there any requirements for participating in online EFT?

You'll need a private, quiet space for uninterrupted video sessions along with a dependable internet connection and a device with a working webcam and microphone. You can commit to the process by keeping appointments, doing techniques at home, journaling progress, and regularly discussing challenges with your therapist.

Quality care comes first at Rula

Quality care comes first at Rula

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A closer look at Rula’s mental health providers in Virginia

Specialty

75

Gender

6

Race & Ethnicity

10

Therapy

378

Psychiatry

31

Hundreds of thousands of patients have found affordable, in-network mental health care with Rula

Insurance

$15 / session

Network

15,000+

Match

98%

Progress

93%

Additional therapy specialties and modalities

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