How to find the right therapist in Suffolk, VA

When choosing a therapist in Suffolk, VA, it's best to reflect on what you’re looking for and ask yourself which of the following criteria are most important to you: Do they accept your insurance? Do you need a therapist who specializes in a specific mental health concern such as depression, anxiety, or trauma? Are you looking for someone to work with you individually? Or are you looking for someone to support you as a couple or family? Would you be more comfortable partnering with a therapist of a certain race, gender expression, sexual orientation, religious, or cultural background?

Can I use my insurance?

Yes! Therapists on the Rula platform are in-network with most major insurance plans. Rula patients typically pay $15 per session, although your individual cost may vary based on your insurance benefits and deductible. We’ll work with your insurance to confirm your estimated per-session cost before your first appointment. Ready to get started? Click here to browse available therapists who accept your insurance.

How do I know if therapy is right for me?

There’s no right or wrong reason to start therapy. Whether you’re seeking help navigating a life transition or managing symptoms of anxiety or depression, therapy is an effective treatment for many types of concerns – all you need is an open mind and a general sense of what you’d like to explore with a therapist. Still unsure? Head to our blog to learn more.

How soon can I meet with a therapist?

Therapists in Rula’s network are available to meet as soon as tomorrow. Click here to explore therapists and book your first session in minutes.

What should I consider when choosing a therapist?

It depends on your personal preferences and goals. Whether you’re seeking a therapist who specializes in certain mental health conditions, shares your ethnic background, or is available to meet at your preferred time – Rula makes it easy to search and filter by what matters most to you. If you don’t feel like your first choice was a match, don’t worry – we’ll help you switch to a different therapist in our network. Check out our blog post for more pointers on finding your best-fit therapist.

How do I know if I need therapy or psychiatry?

If you’re experiencing severe symptoms that interfere with your daily functioning, you may want to consider starting with a psychiatric provider who can assess your needs and prescribe medication if deemed necessary. If your symptoms are mild or moderate, therapy may be a better starting point. No matter where you begin your journey – your provider will work with you to develop a personalized treatment plan that’s based on your individual needs and concerns. Still unsure? Visit our blog to learn more about the differences.

Does Rula offer in-person appointments?

Currently, Rula offers in-person therapy in some states. For those living in other states, there are many benefits to online therapy!

Can Rula help me find a therapist?

Absolutely. Rula’s network of 10,000+ licensed providers represent more than 80 clinical specialties and a diverse range of backgrounds – making it easier to find the care you need. Once you provide us with some basic information, we’ll generate a curated list of in-network therapists who are licensed in your state and accepting new patients. From there, you can filter by what matters most to you and explore individual biographies until you find a match. Ready to get started?

What types of care can I access through Rula?

Providers in Rula’s network specialize in individual therapy, couples therapy, family therapy, and psychiatric care (i.e., medication management).

Who is eligible to access care through Rula?

Individuals aged 5 and older are eligible to receive care in any state where Rula is available.

How will I meet with my therapist?

Rula specializes in online therapy – giving you the flexibility to meet with your therapist from wherever you’re most comfortable. We’ll send you an appointment reminder containing a secure link to your scheduled Zoom session approximately 24 hours before your session.

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We regularly review providers to ensure quality

30+ Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) therapists

Quality care comes first at Rula

We regularly review providers to ensure quality

30+ Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) therapists

Erika Fadahunsi Lizardo

LCSW

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8+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Erika Fadahunsi Lizardo, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Erika has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Clark Atlanta University.

Virginia

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Relationship Issues

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Insightful

Approachable

Affirming

I'm deeply committed to helping individuals, couples, and families navigate life's complexities. I specialize in working with families, adults, teenagers, and couples. I'm passionate about helping clients improve communication, resolve conflicts, and foster healthier relationships.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Earl Lewis

Patients consistently give high satisfaction ratings

LPC

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8+ years

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Earl Lewis, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Earl has a Masters of Education (MED) Marriage & Family Therapy from The College of New Jersey and a Master of Arts (MA) in Clinical/Behavioral Health from New Jersey City University.

Virginia

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Substance Use

Style

Outcome-oriented

Approachable

Collaborative

I’m a Licensed Professional Counselor specializing in men’s mental health, stress management, and relationship issues. Using evidence-based methods like CBT and behavioral coaching, I help clients strengthen their mindset, improve emotional health, and create sustainable life changes. My goal is to help you live better.

Next appointmentThursday, Apr 23rd

Available virtually

Theresa Shuart

LMFT

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28+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Theresa Shuart, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Theresa has a Master's of Health Services Administration (MHSA) from Army-Baylor University (2010), a Doctor of Education (EDD) in Counseling from George Washington University and a Master of Science in Education (MS ED) in Agency Counseling from University of Virginia.

Rich Creek, VA

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Relationship Issues

Style

Outcome-oriented

Approachable

Collaborative

I work with clients of all ages using solution-focused and systemic therapies. I help people navigate depression, anxiety, relationship challenges, and children's emotional and behavioral concerns. My approach combines warmth with practical skill-building.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Judith Moses

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Judith Moses, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Judith has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from University of Cincinnati College of Medicine.

Alexandria, VA

Specialties

Anger Management

Anxiety

Depression

Relationship Issues

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Practical

Warm

Supportive

I’m an LCSW and the founder of Compassionate Counseling & Psychotherapy Services. I provide a safe, supportive space where individuals, couples, and families can explore challenges, strengthen relationships, and move toward emotional healing and personal growth.

Next appointmentMonday, Apr 27th

Available virtually

Janet Vaughn

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Janet Vaughn, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Janet has a Doctor of Philosophy (PHD) Social Work from Morgan State University and a Master of Social Work (MSW) from University of South Carolina.

Virginia

Specialties

Anxiety

Life Transitions

Self Esteem

Stress

Style

Directive

Gentle

Supportive

I work from a strength based perspective and utilize short term therapy processes. I am available for weekend and evening hours, and I focus on helping you build on your existing strengths while working toward your goals.

Next appointmentWednesday, Apr 22nd

Available virtually

Melissa Futreal

Patients consistently give high satisfaction ratings

LCSW

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21+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Melissa Futreal, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

All Rula providers are licensed and hold a master’s or doctorate degree required for practice.

Fort Gregg-Adams, VA

Specialties

Addiction

Alcohol Use

Anxiety

Bipolar Disorder

Internet Addiction

Style

Responsive

Warm

Collaborative

I support individuals, couples, and families working through trauma and PTSD, as well as a range of other challenges. My goal is to help you become the best version of yourself with compassion and positivity for the future.

“She is very mindful and very open minded. She listens well intently.”

Next appointmentThursday, Apr 23rd

Available virtually

Molly McNevin

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW

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5+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Molly McNevin, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Molly has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Boise State University.

Virginia

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Exploratory

Attuned

Affirming

Thank you for taking this important step toward therapy. Finding a therapist you feel comfortable and safe with matters. I strive to empower each person I work with to feel confident in their abilities to navigate all that life entails.

Next appointmentTuesday, May 5th

Available virtually

Victoria Campbell

LCSW

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15+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Victoria Campbell, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Victoria has a Doctor of Psychology (PSYD) from California Southern University and a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Newman University.

Virginia

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Directive

Candid

Supportive

Therapy is a tool and supportive environment to overcome life's challenges. Change can be uncomfortable, but it comes through action. Challenges can be overcome even if the process is temporarily accompanied by discomfort.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Solomon Melson

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LCSW

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6+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Solomon Melson, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Solomon has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Howard University.

Fairfax, VA

Specialties

Alcohol Use

Anxiety

Behavioral Issues

Depression

Substance Use

Style

Directive

Approachable

Empowering

I am honored to provide therapy services to clients during pivotal points in their lives. I partner with you in a safe, non-judgmental, confidential, and nurturing environment to gain an understanding of your barriers and focus on your strengths to empower healthier life choices.

“He is very attentive and offers real time feedback on how to improve.”

Next appointmentThursday, Apr 23rd

Available virtually

Renae Willis

LCSW

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10+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Renae Willis, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Renae has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from University of North Carolina, Greensboro.

Chesapeake, VA

Specialties

Anxiety

Autism or Asperger's Syndrome

Depression

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Responsive

Attuned

Collaborative

Thank you for looking at my profile. I have experience treating children, teens, adults, couples, and families. I enjoy working with clients from various backgrounds and across their lifespans.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Milov Sonnier

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW

•

8+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Milov Sonnier, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Milov has a Masters of Social Work from Norfolk State University.

Yorktown, VA

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Style

Outcome-oriented

Gentle

Collaborative

I specialize in women's issues, trauma, PTSD, thought disorders, stress, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, and more. I use integrative approaches to help my clients make progress and to begin to feel better.

“Milov has helped me connect aspects of my life and has guided me through difficult moments. She is very easy to talk to and frequently poses questions or observations that I hadn’t considered before. Finding the right therapist can be challenging and I feel so lucky that I found one as wonderful as her”

Next appointmentFriday, May 1st

Available virtually

Joseph Autry

LPC

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5+ years

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Joseph Autry, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Joseph has a Master in Counseling (MC) from Liberty University.

Abingdon, VA

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Substance Use

Suicidal Ideation

Style

Directive

Attuned

Collaborative

In our first session, we'll discover what your struggles are. From there, we can discover the causes of those struggles and work on the best ways to cope with them.

“Joseph takes the time to make sure I feel heard, acknowledged my successes, and guides me through the tougher weeks. He’s consistent, which is super important to me. He’s also very kind and patient.”

Next appointmentMonday, Apr 27th

Available virtually

Lerese-Adrienne Deberry

LPC

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7+ years

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Lerese-Adrienne Deberry, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Lerese-Adrienne has a Masters of Arts (MA) in Professional Counseling /Clinical Mental Mental Health from South University, Richmond.

Glen Allen, VA

Specialties

ADHD

Anxiety

Behavioral Issues

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Exploratory

Approachable

Empowering

I am passionate about working with adolescents, young adults, and seniors.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Kamay Gaboda

Recognized for high quality patient care

LPC

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Kamay Gaboda, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Kamay has a Masters of Arts (MA) from Gardener-Webb University.

Virginia

Specialties

Addiction

Anxiety

Depression

Substance Use

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Directive

Candid

Supportive

Taking the first step is never easy, but it can be so beneficial to your life. I hope to continue the journey with you toward recovery and support you in becoming the best version of yourself.

Next appointmentFriday, Apr 24th

Available virtually

Angela Thomas-Jones

LPC

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32+ years

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Angela Thomas-Jones, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Angela has a Master of Science (MS) from Southern New Hampshire University.

Virginia

Specialties

Addiction

LGBTQIA+

Life Transitions

Substance Use

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Outcome-oriented

Approachable

Affirming

My approach views you as the expert in your life experience. My role is to listen and see you, validating your authentic self. I specialize in trauma-sensitive practices that honor your unique story.

Next appointmentThursday, May 14th

Available virtually

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A closer look at Rula’s mental health providers in Virginia

Specialty

Our providers specialize in a wide range of mental health needs, so you get care that truly fits you.

75

clinical specialties represented

Gender

You deserve a provider who understands your identity. Rula providers offer care that’s inclusive and affirming.

6

gender identities represented

Race & Ethnicity

Our providers represent a variety of backgrounds and cultures. Find providers who share or respect your lived experiences.

10

ethnicities represented across Rula providers

Therapy

Whether it’s stress, relationships, or personal growth, our therapists help you navigate what matters.

378

offer therapy

Psychiatry

Medication can be a key part of care. Our psychiatric providers offer expert guidance on what’s right for you.

31

offer medication management

Hundreds of thousands of patients have found affordable, in-network mental health care with Rula

Insurance

After you select a provider, we’ll send you a personalized cost estimate before your first session—so you’ll know what to expect.

$15 / session

typical cost patients pay through Rula

Nationwide coverage:

After you select a provider, we’ll send you a personalized cost estimate before your first session—so you’ll know what to expect.

100+ insurance plans accepted

140M total lives covered

Millions of sessions completed

Network

We hold providers to high clinical standards so you can trust the care you receive.

15,000+

licensed providers

Match

The right provider makes all the difference. We help you find someone who truly fits your needs—the first time.

98%

of searches result in an exact match

Progress

Care should make a difference. Our approach helps you track progress you can feel.

93%

of patients report feeling better after treatment through Rula

Additional therapy specialties and modalities

Sex Therapy Trauma and PTSD Anxiety EMDR Dialectical (DBT)

Psychiatry Couples Family Children therapy Preteen therapy Teen therapy

Male therapists Female therapists Spanish-speaking therapists Black or African American therapists Asian therapists Hispanic or Latinx therapists

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Understanding online emotionally focused therapy

What is emotionally focused therapy and how does it work?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) has been shown to be effective in both individuals and couples. It helps people identify and share feelings in new ways. By learning to navigate emotions as a couple or family, your connections can deepen and communication can improve. Online EFT sessions can create a space to better understand your automatic reactions and patterns of relating that may cause pain or problems. With support and guidance, you can reshape entrenched habits into healthy exchanges full of understanding and warmth. The goal is to foster secure, lasting bonds across all your closest relationships.

Emotionally focused therapy may not be the best treatment for your needs. It's important to understand the process and discuss this treatment method with a mental health professional.

Common issues addressed by EFT

EFT can treat relationship distress, attachment issues, and emotional distress. It helps couples and families navigate conflicts, deepen emotional intimacy, and build more resilient, supportive relationships. EFT is also beneficial for people looking to understand their emotional responses and improve personal interactions.

Benefits of online EFT

Online EFT offers the convenience of attending therapy sessions from your home, making it accessible to couples or family members in different locations. It can provide a safe, private environment to explore sensitive relationship dynamics. The online format also broadens access to specialized EFT therapists who may be licensed in your state, but aren’t located in your area.

What to expect during an online EFT session

During an online EFT session, therapists may guide couples or families through discussions and exercises that focus on understanding and expressing emotions. Sessions aim to identify negative interaction patterns and replace them with healthier ways of connecting. The virtual setting allows for flexibility in scheduling, making it easier for all participants to engage in therapy together.

Choosing the right EFT therapist

After you've booked your first session, Rula verifies your insurance coverage and follows up with a cost estimate, including any required copayments.

FAQs about online EFT

How effective is online EFT compared to in-person sessions?

Online emotionally focused therapy can be effective, particularly when therapists successfully create a virtual space conducive to emotional openness. Many therapists on the Rula platform have experience adapting emotionally focused therapy techniques for online formats. While some may prefer in-person interactions, others find online therapy more convenient and less intimidating, which can help make sessions more effective.

Is EFT right for me (or us)?

EFT can aid those struggling with emotional disconnects or conflicts in close relationships. Working individually or jointly with a partner or relatives, EFT offers the possibility of growth and harmony. By building an understanding of underlying feelings and needs, an EFT therapist strives to nurture meaningful connections with care and compassion.

How should I prepare for online EFT sessions?

Emotionally focused therapy involves examining your feelings and relationships. Letting loved ones know you are starting EFT can help them understand this personal work. Be ready to explore emotional reactions and habits in your closest relationships. Though intense feelings may arise when relationship challenges surface, your therapist will facilitate healing with empathy. Progress often requires sitting with discomfort to reach an understanding so you can make connections with those you care about most.

How long does EFT typically last?

The duration of emotionally focused therapy varies, but it’s generally considered a time-limited approach, with many couples or families experiencing improvements within 8 to 20 sessions. The specific length of therapy depends on the unique needs and goals of the participants.

Are there any requirements for participating in online EFT?

You'll need a private, quiet space for uninterrupted video sessions along with a dependable internet connection and a device with a working webcam and microphone. You can commit to the process by keeping appointments, doing techniques at home, journaling progress, and regularly discussing challenges with your therapist.

Quality care comes first at Rula

Quality care comes first at Rula

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A closer look at Rula’s mental health providers in Virginia

Specialty

75

Gender

6

Race & Ethnicity

10

Therapy

378

Psychiatry

31

Hundreds of thousands of patients have found affordable, in-network mental health care with Rula

Insurance

$15 / session

Network

15,000+

Match

98%

Progress

93%

Additional therapy specialties and modalities

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