How to find the right therapist in Virginia

When choosing a therapist in Virginia, it's best to reflect on what you’re looking for and ask yourself which of the following criteria are most important to you: Do they accept your insurance? Do you need a therapist who specializes in a specific mental health concern such as depression, anxiety, or trauma? Are you looking for someone to work with you individually? Or are you looking for someone to support you as a couple or family? Would you be more comfortable partnering with a therapist of a certain race, gender expression, sexual orientation, religious, or cultural background?

Can I use my insurance?

Yes! Therapists on the Rula platform are in-network with most major insurance plans. Rula patients typically pay $15 per session, although your individual cost may vary based on your insurance benefits and deductible. We’ll work with your insurance to confirm your estimated per-session cost before your first appointment. Ready to get started? Click here to browse available therapists who accept your insurance.

How do I know if therapy is right for me?

There’s no right or wrong reason to start therapy. Whether you’re seeking help navigating a life transition or managing symptoms of anxiety or depression, therapy is an effective treatment for many types of concerns – all you need is an open mind and a general sense of what you’d like to explore with a therapist. Still unsure? Head to our blog to learn more.

How soon can I meet with a therapist?

Therapists in Rula’s network are available to meet as soon as tomorrow. Click here to explore therapists and book your first session in minutes.

What should I consider when choosing a therapist?

It depends on your personal preferences and goals. Whether you’re seeking a therapist who specializes in certain mental health conditions, shares your ethnic background, or is available to meet at your preferred time – Rula makes it easy to search and filter by what matters most to you. If you don’t feel like your first choice was a match, don’t worry – we’ll help you switch to a different therapist in our network. Check out our blog post for more pointers on finding your best-fit therapist.

How do I know if I need therapy or psychiatry?

If you’re experiencing severe symptoms that interfere with your daily functioning, you may want to consider starting with a psychiatric provider who can assess your needs and prescribe medication if deemed necessary. If your symptoms are mild or moderate, therapy may be a better starting point. No matter where you begin your journey – your provider will work with you to develop a personalized treatment plan that’s based on your individual needs and concerns. Still unsure? Visit our blog to learn more about the differences.

Does Rula offer in-person appointments?

Currently, Rula offers in-person therapy in some states. For those living in other states, there are many benefits to online therapy!

Can Rula help me find a therapist?

Absolutely. Rula’s network of 10,000+ licensed providers represent more than 80 clinical specialties and a diverse range of backgrounds – making it easier to find the care you need. Once you provide us with some basic information, we’ll generate a curated list of in-network therapists who are licensed in your state and accepting new patients. From there, you can filter by what matters most to you and explore individual biographies until you find a match. Ready to get started?

What types of care can I access through Rula?

Providers in Rula’s network specialize in individual therapy, couples therapy, family therapy, and psychiatric care (i.e., medication management).

Who is eligible to access care through Rula?

Individuals aged 5 and older are eligible to receive care in any state where Rula is available.

How will I meet with my therapist?

Rula specializes in online therapy – giving you the flexibility to meet with your therapist from wherever you’re most comfortable. We’ll send you an appointment reminder containing a secure link to your scheduled Zoom session approximately 24 hours before your session.

Connect with Therapists who accept Highmark in Virginia

Book a session as soon as April 20

Quality care comes first at Rula

We regularly review providers to ensure quality

30+ therapists who accept Highmark

Quality care comes first at Rula

We regularly review providers to ensure quality

30+ therapists who accept Highmark

Deirdra Brinkman

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LPC

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Deirdra Brinkman, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Deirdra has a Master of Education (MED) from Xavier University.

Virginia

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Mood Disorders

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Outcome-oriented

Gentle

Supportive

My focus is on my relationship with you, the client. The therapeutic relationship with be approached with mutual respect, empathy, and a non-judgmental attitude.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Carla Batenga

Patients consistently give high satisfaction ratings

LCSW

•

14+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Carla Batenga, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Carla has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Virginia Commonwealth University.

Aldie, VA

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Bipolar Disorder

Depression

Life Transitions

Style

Responsive

Warm

Collaborative

I help individuals, couples, and parents who feel overwhelmed, stuck, or disconnected from themselves or others. Many of my clients come to therapy during periods of transition—relationship strain, parenting challenges, identity shifts, or increased stress and anxiety—and are looking for clarity, stability, and practical support.

“Carla has been a great therapist for me and very understanding of what i've been going through. She provides great advice and guidance for me to practice daily.”

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 21st

Available virtually

Tamara Grant

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Tamara Grant, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Tamara has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from University of South Carolina School of Medicine.

Virginia

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Stress

Style

Responsive

Warm

Motivational

Welcome. Whether you're working through your past or striving for a more meaningful future, I'm here to support you. Therapy can be a powerful space for healing, growth, and developing skills that create lasting change. I look forward to hearing your story and walking alongside you as you begin your path toward growth and healing.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 21st

Available virtually

Yolanda Vernon

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Yolanda Vernon, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Yolanda has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Virginia Commonwealth University.

Richmond, VA

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Family Conflict

Relationship Issues

Style

Exploratory

Attuned

Supportive

I provide therapeutic services helping individuals, couples, and families navigate life's challenges. I'm passionate about creating a supportive space where you can explore patterns, develop healthier coping strategies, and work toward meaningful change.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Monica Crumpler

LCSW

•

4+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Monica Crumpler, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Monica has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Fayetteville State University.

Virginia

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

LGBTQIA+

Substance Use

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Exploratory

Attuned

Curious

Life throws many obstacles. We experience anxiety, depression, grief, and emotional distress; however, we must learn skills to navigate and cope with these times. I can assist you with exploring options and finding coping methods that work best for you to manage these feelings effectively.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Arlene Pitchford

LPC

•

20+ years

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Arlene Pitchford, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Arlene has a Masters of Education (MED) in Community Counseling from Virginia State University.

Richmond, VA

Specialties

Grief

Addiction

Anxiety

Depression

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Outcome-oriented

Approachable

Supportive

I provide a safe space for individuals to explore and navigate their mental well-being. With a compassionate and understanding approach, I share valuable resources, insights, and support. Let's embark on a journey towards emotional resilience and inner peace together.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 21st

Available virtually

Nicole O'malia-Guessford

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LCSW

•

20+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Nicole O'malia-Guessford, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Nicole has a Master of Social Work (MSW) in Clinical Social Work from Bryn Mawr College.

Virginia

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Exploratory

Warm

Curious

I work with clients using a holistic and integrative approach. My core principles are compassion, collaboration, and transparency, and I believe in focusing on your strengths as we work together toward healing.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Kelly Dwyer

LPC

•

1+ years

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Kelly Dwyer, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Kelly has a Masters of Science in Education (MS ED) in Clinical Counseling from Old Dominion University.

Portsmouth, VA

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Domestic Violence

Substance Use

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Insightful

Candid

Supportive

I am a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) based in Virginia. My approach to therapy is as unique as each therapeutic relationship built - it's based on the individual needs of each person as well as the strategies with the best evidence of helping that situation. My focus areas of practice are wide, as my experience spans over 20 years.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 21st

Available virtually

Shideh Sarmadi

LPC

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Shideh Sarmadi, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Shideh has a Master of Arts (MA) from UNC at Charlotte.

Virginia

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Autism or Asperger's Syndrome

Cultural Stress

Depression

Mood Disorders

Style

Exploratory

Attuned

Motivational

I am a licensed professional counselor in the State of Virginia. My goal as a counselor is to empower clients to mindfully change their lives in a positive manner by focusing on recovery and welfare, and promoting healthy personal growth.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Joscelyn Mathis

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Joscelyn Mathis, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Joscelyn has a Master of Social Work (MSW) in Mental Health and Addictions / Leadership from Indiana University - Purdue University Indianapolis.

Virginia

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

LGBTQIA+

Life Transitions

Relationship Issues

Style

Responsive

Warm

Collaborative

I help you navigate life's challenges with compassion, respect, and evidence-based care. I work with individuals, couples, and families, creating a safe and nonjudgmental space for healing, growth, and self-discovery. I specialize in supporting BIPOC, LGBTQ+ individuals, and those living with chronic health conditions.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 21st

Available virtually

Kesshia Brown

LPC

•

13+ years

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Kesshia Brown, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Kesshia has a Master of Science (MS) in College and Community Counseling from Longwood University and a Master of Arts (MA) from Longwood University.

Danville, VA

Specialties

Grief

Addiction

Anxiety

Bipolar Disorder

Depression

Substance Use

Style

Outcome-oriented

Candid

Supportive

I work with individuals navigating life transitions, substance use concerns, and personal challenges. My goal is to create a supportive space where you can explore what matters most and build skills for lasting change.

Next appointmentWednesday, Apr 22nd

Available virtually

Tamara Powell

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LCSW

•

19+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Tamara Powell, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Tamara has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Virginia Commonwealth University.

Fredericksburg, VA

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Exploratory

Approachable

Collaborative

I provide a warm, safe, and supportive environment where you can explore the issues and challenges you face. I believe in the power of the therapeutic partnership to help uncover the strengths and resources we all possess to bring about the changes we desire. I commend you for reaching out for help to make things better.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 21st

Available virtually

Shannon Shackford

LPC

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Shannon Shackford, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Shannon has a Master of Science (MS) in Mental Health Counseling from Capella University and a Postgrad Certificate in Social and Community Services from Capella University.

Virginia

Specialties

Grief

ADHD

Autism or Asperger's Syndrome

Parenting

Stress

Style

Exploratory

Approachable

Curious

Taking the first step toward therapy is a powerful act of self-care, and I want to acknowledge the strength it takes to explore support. Whether you’re feeling overwhelmed, stuck, navigating big life changes, or simply needing a space to be heard, this is a safe and supportive place for you.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Joseph Autry

LPC

•

5+ years

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Joseph Autry, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Joseph has a Master in Counseling (MC) from Liberty University.

Abingdon, VA

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Substance Use

Suicidal Ideation

Style

Directive

Attuned

Collaborative

In our first session, we'll discover what your struggles are. From there, we can discover the causes of those struggles and work on the best ways to cope with them.

“Joseph takes the time to make sure I feel heard, acknowledged my successes, and guides me through the tougher weeks. He’s consistent, which is super important to me. He’s also very kind and patient.”

Next appointmentMonday, Apr 27th

Available virtually

April Simms

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like April Simms, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

April has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Radford University.

Virginia

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Relationship Issues

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Exploratory

Attuned

Motivational

My goal is to guide you through your counseling journey by helping you recognize your strengths, boost your self-esteem, and develop healthy coping skills to manage life's challenges. I bring energy, compassion, and professionalism to every session. I specialize in depression, anxiety, bipolar disorder, trauma, grief, and life transitions.

Next appointmentFriday, Apr 24th

Available virtually

Continue exploring providers

See more therapists that specialize in Grief

Previous providers

Hundreds of thousands of patients have found affordable, in-network mental health care with Rula

Insurance

After you select a provider, we’ll send you a personalized cost estimate before your first session—so you’ll know what to expect.

$15 / session

typical cost patients pay through Rula

Nationwide coverage:

After you select a provider, we’ll send you a personalized cost estimate before your first session—so you’ll know what to expect.

100+ insurance plans accepted

140M total lives covered

Millions of sessions completed

Network

We hold providers to high clinical standards so you can trust the care you receive.

15,000+

licensed providers

Match

The right provider makes all the difference. We help you find someone who truly fits your needs—the first time.

98%

of searches result in an exact match

Progress

Care should make a difference. Our approach helps you track progress you can feel.

93%

of patients report feeling better after treatment through Rula

Additional therapy specialties and modalities

Sex Therapy Trauma and PTSD Anxiety EMDR Dialectical (DBT)

Psychiatry Couples Family Children therapy Preteen therapy Teen therapy

Male therapists Female therapists Spanish-speaking therapists Black or African American therapists Asian therapists Hispanic or Latinx therapists

Find a therapist near you

Virginia Beach Chesapeake Norfolk Richmond Newport News Alexandria Hampton Suffolk Roanoke Portsmouth Lynchburg Harrisonburg Leesburg Blacksburg Charlottesville Manassas Danville Petersburg

Exploring online therapy for grief

Grief and its impact on life

Grief is a natural response to loss, often felt deeply when we lose someone or something important to us. It can manifest in various ways, including sadness, anger, confusion, and a sense of isolation. Grief can significantly impact daily life, affecting one’s ability to function in personal and professional settings. Navigating through grief is a deeply personal process and can be critical for emotional healing and moving forward.

The importance of therapy for grief

Engaging with a grief therapist can be helpful for those struggling with loss. Therapists specializing in grief can provide support and understanding, helping you to process complex emotions and cope with the pain of loss. Therapy can offer a safe space to explore feelings of grief, learn to adjust to life after loss, and develop strategies for healing and finding a new sense of normalcy.

Effective therapeutic approaches for grief

Various therapeutic methods can be effective in supporting people through grief:

Advantages of online therapy for grief

Online grief therapy offers several practical benefits. It can be accessible and convenient, allowing you to connect with therapists from the comfort and privacy of your own home, providing a secure space to openly discuss and process your feelings during such a sensitive and personal time. The sessions are flexible and can be scheduled according to your needs, accommodating the unpredictable nature of grief.

Tips for choosing the right grief therapist

FAQs about grief therapy and therapists

When to seek a grief therapist?

Consider seeking a grief therapist if your grief feels overwhelming, is affecting your ability to carry on with daily activities, or if you're struggling to move forward. Common signs include persistent sadness, inability to enjoy life, or feeling stuck in your grief. Therapy can provide a guided pathway through the grieving process, helping you to cope with the loss and a renewed sense of purpose.

What is the typical duration of therapy for grief?

The length of grief therapy varies for each person, depending on the nature of the loss and personal coping mechanisms. Some may find short-term therapy beneficial, while others might engage in longer-term support. Grief therapy is often flexible, with the therapist adapting to your changing needs over time.

What to expect in your first grief therapy session?

In the first session, you'll likely share your story of loss and discuss how it’s impacting your life. Your therapist should listen empathetically, ask questions, and work toward establishing a supportive and understanding relationship. This session sets the foundation for your grief therapy journey.

How to find a qualified therapist for grief?

A qualified therapist for grief should have specialized training in grief counseling or therapy. Look for therapists with experience in dealing with your specific situation, and credentials in therapies you’d like to explore.

Does insurance cover grief therapy sessions?

Insurance coverage for grief therapy can vary. After you've booked your first session, Rula verifies your insurance coverage and follows up with a cost estimate, including any required copayments.

Can grief therapy be conducted online?

Yes, grief therapy can be effectively conducted online. It offers a flexible and accessible option, allowing you to receive support in a setting that feels most comfortable for you, especially during a time of mourning. Therapy techniques can be adapted for virtual sessions, ensuring you receive care tailored to your needs and recovery journey.

Connect with Therapists who accept Highmark in Virginia

Quality care comes first at Rula

Quality care comes first at Rula

Deirdra Brinkman

Carla Batenga

Tamara Grant

Yolanda Vernon

Monica Crumpler

Arlene Pitchford

Nicole O'malia-Guessford

Kelly Dwyer

Shideh Sarmadi

Joscelyn Mathis

Kesshia Brown

Tamara Powell

Shannon Shackford

Joseph Autry

April Simms

Continue exploring providers

Hundreds of thousands of patients have found affordable, in-network mental health care with Rula

Insurance

$15 / session

Network

15,000+

Match

98%

Progress

93%

Additional therapy specialties and modalities

Find a therapist near you

We’re here when you need us

We’re here when you need us

Here to help