How to find the right therapist in Virginia

When choosing a therapist in Virginia, it's best to reflect on what you’re looking for and ask yourself which of the following criteria are most important to you: Do they accept your insurance? Do you need a therapist who specializes in a specific mental health concern such as depression, anxiety, or trauma? Are you looking for someone to work with you individually? Or are you looking for someone to support you as a couple or family? Would you be more comfortable partnering with a therapist of a certain race, gender expression, sexual orientation, religious, or cultural background?

Can I use my insurance?

Yes! Therapists on the Rula platform are in-network with most major insurance plans. Rula patients typically pay $15 per session, although your individual cost may vary based on your insurance benefits and deductible. We’ll work with your insurance to confirm your estimated per-session cost before your first appointment. Ready to get started? Click here to browse available therapists who accept your insurance.

How do I know if therapy is right for me?

There’s no right or wrong reason to start therapy. Whether you’re seeking help navigating a life transition or managing symptoms of anxiety or depression, therapy is an effective treatment for many types of concerns – all you need is an open mind and a general sense of what you’d like to explore with a therapist. Still unsure? Head to our blog to learn more.

How soon can I meet with a therapist?

Therapists in Rula’s network are available to meet as soon as tomorrow. Click here to explore therapists and book your first session in minutes.

What should I consider when choosing a therapist?

It depends on your personal preferences and goals. Whether you’re seeking a therapist who specializes in certain mental health conditions, shares your ethnic background, or is available to meet at your preferred time – Rula makes it easy to search and filter by what matters most to you. If you don’t feel like your first choice was a match, don’t worry – we’ll help you switch to a different therapist in our network. Check out our blog post for more pointers on finding your best-fit therapist.

How do I know if I need therapy or psychiatry?

If you’re experiencing severe symptoms that interfere with your daily functioning, you may want to consider starting with a psychiatric provider who can assess your needs and prescribe medication if deemed necessary. If your symptoms are mild or moderate, therapy may be a better starting point. No matter where you begin your journey – your provider will work with you to develop a personalized treatment plan that’s based on your individual needs and concerns. Still unsure? Visit our blog to learn more about the differences.

Does Rula offer in-person appointments?

Currently, Rula offers in-person therapy in some states. For those living in other states, there are many benefits to online therapy!

Can Rula help me find a therapist?

Absolutely. Rula’s network of 10,000+ licensed providers represent more than 80 clinical specialties and a diverse range of backgrounds – making it easier to find the care you need. Once you provide us with some basic information, we’ll generate a curated list of in-network therapists who are licensed in your state and accepting new patients. From there, you can filter by what matters most to you and explore individual biographies until you find a match. Ready to get started?

What types of care can I access through Rula?

Providers in Rula’s network specialize in individual therapy, couples therapy, family therapy, and psychiatric care (i.e., medication management).

Who is eligible to access care through Rula?

Individuals aged 5 and older are eligible to receive care in any state where Rula is available.

How will I meet with my therapist?

Rula specializes in online therapy – giving you the flexibility to meet with your therapist from wherever you’re most comfortable. We’ll send you an appointment reminder containing a secure link to your scheduled Zoom session approximately 24 hours before your session.

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30+ therapists who accept Highmark

Quality care comes first at Rula

We regularly review providers to ensure quality

30+ therapists who accept Highmark

Milov Sonnier

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW

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8+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Milov Sonnier, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Milov has a Masters of Social Work from Norfolk State University.

Yorktown, VA

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Style

Outcome-oriented

Gentle

Collaborative

I specialize in women's issues, trauma, PTSD, thought disorders, stress, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, and more. I use integrative approaches to help my clients make progress and to begin to feel better.

“Milov has helped me connect aspects of my life and has guided me through difficult moments. She is very easy to talk to and frequently poses questions or observations that I hadn’t considered before. Finding the right therapist can be challenging and I feel so lucky that I found one as wonderful as her”

Next appointmentFriday, May 1st

Available virtually

Theannah Phillips

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Theannah Phillips, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Theannah has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from West Virginia University.

Leesburg, VA

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Career Counseling

Life Transitions

Sports Performance

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Insightful

Gentle

Supportive

Theannah Remi Phillips, MPA, MLS, LCSW/LICSW, is a warm and approachable psychotherapist with a Masters Degree in Social Work from WVU. She has also completed Master's Degrees in Law and Legal Studies and Public Administration. She is an advocate for an active lifestyle and finding a place where all parts of ourselves can intersect.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 28th

Available virtually

Richard Swaine

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LPC

•

15+ years

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Richard Swaine, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Richard has a Master of Arts in Counseling from Liberty University.

Williamsburg, VA

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Style

Responsive

Warm

Collaborative

I work with adolescents and adults dealing with anxiety, depression, trauma recovery, mood disorders, relationship issues, and codependency. My goal is to help you move successfully toward a full and happy life.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Cheridan Tolliver

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Cheridan Tolliver, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Cheridan has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from The University of Michigan.

Hampton, VA

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Mood Disorders

Stress

Women's Issues

Style

Directive

Warm

Motivational

Help comes in many forms. I specialize in working with individuals navigating life transitions, anxiety, depression, and trauma. I take a client-centered, collaborative approach to therapy, tailoring each session to your unique needs and goals.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 21st

Available virtually

Priscilla Sweitzer

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Priscilla Sweitzer, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Priscilla has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from University of North Carolina At Charlotte.

Virginia

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Responsive

Warm

Curious

I help individuals navigate life's challenges with compassion, curiosity, and a focus on growth. Whether you're dealing with overwhelming emotions, relationship struggles, or past trauma, therapy can be a space to feel heard, understood, and supported.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 21st

Available virtually

Jennifer Erickson

Recognized for high quality patient care

LPC

•

8+ years

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Jennifer Erickson, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Jennifer has a Doctor of Philosophy (PHD) in Health Psychology from Walden University and a Master of Science (MS) in Mental Health Counseling from Walden University.

Virginia

Specialties

Grief

ADHD

Alcohol Use

Anxiety

Style

Outcome-oriented

Attuned

Empowering

I help clients navigate anxiety, panic disorder, adult ADHD, chronic illness, relationship challenges, weight management, stress, and women's issues. My therapeutic approach integrates evidence-based methodologies to provide comprehensive and individualized care tailored to your unique needs.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 28th

Available virtually

Ryan Randall

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCP

Licensed Clinical Psychologists (LCPs), like Ryan Randall, hold a doctoral degree and are trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Ryan has a Doctor of Psychology (PSYD) Clinical Psychology from The Chicago School at Washington DC..

Williamsburg, VA

Specialties

Grief

ADHD

Anxiety

Depression

Relationship Issues

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Exploratory

Approachable

Collaborative

I provide compassionate, evidence-based therapy to help you navigate life's challenges. Together, we'll build resilience, improve your relationships, and find a greater sense of peace and purpose.

Next appointmentTuesday, May 5th

Available virtually

Jessica Hamlett

LPC

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Jessica Hamlett, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Jessica has a Master of Science (MS) in Mental Health Counseling from Longwood University.

Virginia

Specialties

Grief

ADHD

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Outcome-oriented

Attuned

Supportive

I help children, teens, and adults navigate relationship difficulties, life transitions, and trauma. My work focuses on supporting those who have experienced recent and past trauma, drawing from my own journey to create meaningful change.

Next appointmentSaturday, May 16th

Available virtually

Michael Fitzgerald

Recognized for high quality patient care

LPC

•

8+ years

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Michael Fitzgerald, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Michael has a Master of Arts (MA) in Professional Counseling from Liberty University.

Roanoke, VA

Specialties

Grief

Addiction

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Substance Use

Style

Practical

Approachable

Collaborative

I hold both an LPC (Licensed Professional Counselor) and a CSAC (Certified Substance Abuse Counselor). I take an innovative, outside-the-box approach to therapy, drawing on techniques from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy, person-centered therapy, and solution-focused therapy to help clients achieve their goals.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 28th

Available virtually

Sarah Taylor

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW

•

7+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Sarah Taylor, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Sarah has a Master of Social Work (MSW) in Advanced Direct Practice from Children, Youth, and Families - Arizona State University.

Moseley, VA

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Relationship Issues

Self Esteem

Stress

Style

Exploratory

Gentle

Curious

I help individuals navigate life's complexities with a deep understanding of the intersection between physical and mental well-being. My warm, empathetic approach creates space for healing and growth as we work together to overcome challenges and build resilience.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 28th

Available virtually

April Parker

Recognized for high quality patient care

LPC

•

4+ years

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like April Parker, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

April has a Master of Science (MS) in Mental Health Counseling, Emphasis in Marriage and Family Therapy from California State University, Fullerton.

Sterling, VA

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Family Conflict

Life Transitions

Relationship Issues

Style

Responsive

Warm

Empowering

I am a licensed marriage and family therapist and professional counselor in Virginia. I have worked with youth, adults, couples, and families with diverse mental health concerns. I have worked in residential chemical dependency, intensive in-home family preservation, inpatient psychiatric hospitals, juvenile and adult detention centers and more.

Next appointmentWednesday, Apr 29th

Available virtually

JENNIFER KOPECKY

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW

•

25+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like JENNIFER KOPECKY, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

JENNIFER has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Our Lady of the Lake University.

Virginia

Specialties

Grief

Addiction

Anxiety

Depression

Relationship Issues

Style

Exploratory

Warm

Supportive

I'm a Licensed Clinical Social Worker who strives to help you gain insight and achieve your goals with a compassionate and guiding hand.

Next appointmentSaturday, May 2nd

Available virtually

Christina Urcinas

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCP

•

9+ years

Licensed Clinical Psychologists (LCPs), like Christina Urcinas, hold a doctoral degree and are trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Christina has a Master of Arts in General Psychology from New York University and a Doctoral Program in Clinical Psychology from University of Maryland College Park.

Fairfax, VA

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Mood Disorders

Stress

Style

Responsive

Candid

Collaborative

I specialize in helping adults navigate life transitions, mood concerns, and anxiety using Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. My work focuses on creating meaningful change for those feeling stuck or overwhelmed by life's challenges.

“Dr. Urcinas has helped me in more significant ways than any therapist before. Her work is hard, but if you are willing to put in the time and effort, it brings such positive change.”

Next appointmentThursday, May 7th

Available virtually

Lynette Jacob

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Lynette Jacob, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Lynette has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from West Virginia University.

Virginia

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Mood Disorders

Stress

Style

Directive

Approachable

Supportive

My practice is focused on your needs and goals. We'll spend time understanding what difficulties you're dealing with to create the right treatment plan. Each client is unique, and each care plan is also unique. No two people have gone through the same life journey. Everything we discuss is confidential.

Next appointmentTuesday, May 5th

Available virtually

Melissa Douglas

Recognized for high quality patient care

LPC

•

19+ years

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Melissa Douglas, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Melissa has a Masters of Education (MED) from Lamar University, a Masters of Education (MED) from Lamar University and a Masters of Education (MED) from Lamar University.

Fishersville, VA

Specialties

Grief

ADHD

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Style

Exploratory

Approachable

Curious

I provide space for people to process whatever they're dealing with. Everyone needs a place to be heard, to share, and to simply be whoever they are. I offer a safe and supportive environment for individuals, couples, and families to explore their thoughts, feelings, and experiences.

Next appointmentThursday, Apr 30th

Available virtually

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Exploring online therapy for grief

Grief and its impact on life

Grief is a natural response to loss, often felt deeply when we lose someone or something important to us. It can manifest in various ways, including sadness, anger, confusion, and a sense of isolation. Grief can significantly impact daily life, affecting one’s ability to function in personal and professional settings. Navigating through grief is a deeply personal process and can be critical for emotional healing and moving forward.

The importance of therapy for grief

Engaging with a grief therapist can be helpful for those struggling with loss. Therapists specializing in grief can provide support and understanding, helping you to process complex emotions and cope with the pain of loss. Therapy can offer a safe space to explore feelings of grief, learn to adjust to life after loss, and develop strategies for healing and finding a new sense of normalcy.

Effective therapeutic approaches for grief

Various therapeutic methods can be effective in supporting people through grief:

Advantages of online therapy for grief

Online grief therapy offers several practical benefits. It can be accessible and convenient, allowing you to connect with therapists from the comfort and privacy of your own home, providing a secure space to openly discuss and process your feelings during such a sensitive and personal time. The sessions are flexible and can be scheduled according to your needs, accommodating the unpredictable nature of grief.

Tips for choosing the right grief therapist

FAQs about grief therapy and therapists

When to seek a grief therapist?

Consider seeking a grief therapist if your grief feels overwhelming, is affecting your ability to carry on with daily activities, or if you're struggling to move forward. Common signs include persistent sadness, inability to enjoy life, or feeling stuck in your grief. Therapy can provide a guided pathway through the grieving process, helping you to cope with the loss and a renewed sense of purpose.

What is the typical duration of therapy for grief?

The length of grief therapy varies for each person, depending on the nature of the loss and personal coping mechanisms. Some may find short-term therapy beneficial, while others might engage in longer-term support. Grief therapy is often flexible, with the therapist adapting to your changing needs over time.

What to expect in your first grief therapy session?

In the first session, you'll likely share your story of loss and discuss how it’s impacting your life. Your therapist should listen empathetically, ask questions, and work toward establishing a supportive and understanding relationship. This session sets the foundation for your grief therapy journey.

How to find a qualified therapist for grief?

A qualified therapist for grief should have specialized training in grief counseling or therapy. Look for therapists with experience in dealing with your specific situation, and credentials in therapies you’d like to explore.

Does insurance cover grief therapy sessions?

Insurance coverage for grief therapy can vary. After you've booked your first session, Rula verifies your insurance coverage and follows up with a cost estimate, including any required copayments.

Can grief therapy be conducted online?

Yes, grief therapy can be effectively conducted online. It offers a flexible and accessible option, allowing you to receive support in a setting that feels most comfortable for you, especially during a time of mourning. Therapy techniques can be adapted for virtual sessions, ensuring you receive care tailored to your needs and recovery journey.

Connect with Therapists who accept Highmark in Virginia

Quality care comes first at Rula

Quality care comes first at Rula

Milov Sonnier

Theannah Phillips

Richard Swaine

Cheridan Tolliver

Priscilla Sweitzer

Jennifer Erickson

Ryan Randall

Jessica Hamlett

Michael Fitzgerald

Sarah Taylor

April Parker

JENNIFER KOPECKY

Christina Urcinas

Lynette Jacob

Melissa Douglas

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98%

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93%

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