How to find the right therapist in Federal Way, WA

When choosing a therapist in Federal Way, WA, it's best to reflect on what you’re looking for and ask yourself which of the following criteria are most important to you: Do they accept your insurance? Do you need a therapist who specializes in a specific mental health concern such as depression, anxiety, or trauma? Are you looking for someone to work with you individually? Or are you looking for someone to support you as a couple or family? Would you be more comfortable partnering with a therapist of a certain race, gender expression, sexual orientation, religious, or cultural background?

Can I use my insurance?

Yes! Therapists on the Rula platform are in-network with most major insurance plans. Rula patients typically pay $15 per session, although your individual cost may vary based on your insurance benefits and deductible. We’ll work with your insurance to confirm your estimated per-session cost before your first appointment. Ready to get started? Click here to browse available therapists who accept your insurance.

How do I know if therapy is right for me?

There’s no right or wrong reason to start therapy. Whether you’re seeking help navigating a life transition or managing symptoms of anxiety or depression, therapy is an effective treatment for many types of concerns – all you need is an open mind and a general sense of what you’d like to explore with a therapist. Still unsure? Head to our blog to learn more.

How soon can I meet with a therapist?

Therapists in Rula’s network are available to meet as soon as tomorrow. Click here to explore therapists and book your first session in minutes.

What should I consider when choosing a therapist?

It depends on your personal preferences and goals. Whether you’re seeking a therapist who specializes in certain mental health conditions, shares your ethnic background, or is available to meet at your preferred time – Rula makes it easy to search and filter by what matters most to you. If you don’t feel like your first choice was a match, don’t worry – we’ll help you switch to a different therapist in our network. Check out our blog post for more pointers on finding your best-fit therapist.

How do I know if I need therapy or psychiatry?

If you’re experiencing severe symptoms that interfere with your daily functioning, you may want to consider starting with a psychiatric provider who can assess your needs and prescribe medication if deemed necessary. If your symptoms are mild or moderate, therapy may be a better starting point. No matter where you begin your journey – your provider will work with you to develop a personalized treatment plan that’s based on your individual needs and concerns. Still unsure? Visit our blog to learn more about the differences.

Does Rula offer in-person appointments?

Currently, Rula offers in-person therapy in some states. For those living in other states, there are many benefits to online therapy!

Can Rula help me find a therapist?

Absolutely. Rula’s network of 10,000+ licensed providers represent more than 80 clinical specialties and a diverse range of backgrounds – making it easier to find the care you need. Once you provide us with some basic information, we’ll generate a curated list of in-network therapists who are licensed in your state and accepting new patients. From there, you can filter by what matters most to you and explore individual biographies until you find a match. Ready to get started?

What types of care can I access through Rula?

Providers in Rula’s network specialize in individual therapy, couples therapy, family therapy, and psychiatric care (i.e., medication management).

Who is eligible to access care through Rula?

Individuals aged 5 and older are eligible to receive care in any state where Rula is available.

How will I meet with my therapist?

Rula specializes in online therapy – giving you the flexibility to meet with your therapist from wherever you’re most comfortable. We’ll send you an appointment reminder containing a secure link to your scheduled Zoom session approximately 24 hours before your session.

Connect with Dialectical (DBT) therapy in Federal Way, WA

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50+ providers

Paula Ehrmantraut

LMHC

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21+ years

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Paula Ehrmantraut, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Paula has a Doctor of Psychology (PSYD) from Walden University and a Master of Science (MS) from Montana State University at Billings.

Washington

Specialties

LGBTQIA+

Style

Responsive

Spiritual

Collaborative

I want to work with you to gain the tools and strategies to help you move past the area that is of concern. I believe that we must find the positive and the good in each day, even if it's small, to give us the power and motivation to move forward. It is not always easy, but it is definitely worth it.

Next appointmentWednesday, Jul 8th

Available virtually

Jessica Gonzalez

LMHC

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3+ years

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Jessica Gonzalez, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Jessica has a Master in Counseling (MC) Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Colorado Christian University.

Washington

Specialties

Anxiety

Bipolar Disorder

Depression

Stress

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Responsive

Candid

Affirming

I am licensed in Washington with 4 years of professional work experience. I have experience in helping clients with stress and anxiety, trauma and abuse, bipolar disorder, & depression. I believe that you are the expert of your story and that you have many strengths that will assist you in overcoming things that challenge you.

Next appointmentFriday, Jul 10th

Available virtually

Melissa Konrat

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LMHC

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Melissa Konrat, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Melissa has a Master of Science Psychology (MSPSY) from Walden University.

Washington

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Stress

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Exploratory

Gentle

Collaborative

Feeling disconnected and dysregulated? My practice integrates traditional therapy with the grounding power of nature through mindful connection with the natural world. Clients learn to regulate stress, deepen self-awareness, and rediscover a sense of safety. I also help people slow down, reconnect with themselves, and build resilience.

Next appointmentTuesday, Jul 7th

Available virtually

Hilary Chentow

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LICSW

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9+ years

Licensed Independent Clinical Social Workers (LICSWs), like Hilary Chentow, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Hilary has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Bryn Mawr College.

Washington

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

LGBTQIA+

Stress

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Exploratory

Approachable

Curious

I work with clients ready to make meaningful changes in their lives. I have a special affinity for the LGBTQIA+ community and feel most comfortable with those living with anxiety, depression, trauma, and stress who want to explore tools to find joy and connection.

Next appointmentFriday, Jul 10th

Available virtually

Megan Woods

LMHC

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Megan Woods, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Megan has a Master of Science (MS) in Clinical Psychology from Walden University.

Washington

Specialties

Behavioral Issues

Relationship Issues

Stress

Trauma and PTSD

Women's Issues

Style

Exploratory

Warm

Collaborative

I’m a multi-state Licensed Mental Health Counselor using integrative, evidence-based approaches to support whole-person healing. I blend clinical and holistic strategies to help clients process trauma, manage stress, and build lasting resilience in a compassionate, collaborative space.

Next appointmentThursday, Jul 9th

Available virtually

Thomas La Marr

Many new patients continue care with this provider

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4+ years

Licensed Psychologists (LPs), like Thomas La Marr, hold a doctoral degree and are trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Thomas has a Doctor of Psychology (PSYD) from Pacific University.

Seattle, WA

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Exploratory

Warm

Collaborative

I am a clinical psychologist. Through the use of evidence-based practices, I guide clients in identifying their values, healthily approaching emotions, and navigating their thoughts.

Next appointmentSunday, Jul 12th

Available virtually

Anaia Keali'i Jolie

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Anaia Keali'i Jolie, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Anaia has a Master of Public Health (MPH) from Indiana University Bloomington, a Doctor of Psychology (PSYD) from California Southern University and a Master of Science (MS) in Marriage and Family Therapy from Amridge University.

Washington

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Trauma and PTSD

Women's Issues

Style

Insightful

Spiritual

Affirming

I’m a licensed mental health professional in AK, CA, WA, ME, VA, MD, HI, SC, GA, and NC. I’m experienced in high‑acuity mental health and use a warm, integrative, trauma‑informed approach to treat depression, anxiety, PTSD, and trauma-related disorders.

Next appointmentTuesday, Jul 14th

Available virtually

Jaime Masotti

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LMHC

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Jaime Masotti, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Jaime has a Master in Counseling (MC) from Wake Forest University.

Washington

Specialties

Anxiety

Life Transitions

Relationship Issues

Self Esteem

Stress

Style

Exploratory

Attuned

Collaborative

Choosing the right therapist is deeply personal. I focus on building a space where you feel genuinely heard, understood, and supported. My approach is warm, collaborative, and rooted in evidence-based techniques tailored to your unique needs. I’ll work with you at your pace to help you reconnect with your strengths, and move toward lasting change.

Next appointmentMonday, Jul 13th

Available virtually

Anthony O'Leary

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LMHC

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Anthony O'Leary, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Anthony has a Master of Arts (MA) in Psychology from California Southern University.

Washington

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Relationship Issues

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Directive

Warm

Supportive

I work with adults navigating depression, anxiety, relationship issues, trauma, and life transitions. My style is supportive and empathetic, grounded in respect for your choice to seek therapy. I offer observations and alternatives while recognizing you're ultimately in charge of the process.

Next appointmentMonday, Jul 13th

Available virtually

Jaeren Davis

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LICSW

Licensed Independent Clinical Social Workers (LICSWs), like Jaeren Davis, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Jaeren has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Portland State University.

Seattle, WA

Specialties

Anxiety

Bipolar Disorder

Depression

LGBTQIA+

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Insightful

Candid

Collaborative

I love working with people and always have. My style is holistic, empowering, and affirming, helping you gain a stronger sense of self, value, and clarity in your intent, motivation, and direction.

Next appointmentTuesday, Jul 14th

Available virtually

Bonnie Ayotte

Patients consistently give high satisfaction ratings

LMHC

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5+ years

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Bonnie Ayotte, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Bonnie has a Master of Marriage & Family Counseling from Liberty University and a Master in Counseling (MC) Multicultural from Trinity Western University.

Blaine, WA

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)

Self Esteem

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Outcome-oriented

Approachable

Motivational

Welcome! I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor in the state of Washington. I specialize in trauma-informed, person-centered care for those struggling with anxiety, depression, other performance impairments, and PTSD.

“Bonnie has been a selfless guide to help me navigate a very difficult time in my life. She is patient, listens well, and has helped me understand a new value for myself and given me workable tools to improve my interactions with the world and myself. I am truly grateful.”

Next appointmentThursday, Jul 30th

Available virtually

LaTonya Washington

LICSW

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11+ years

Licensed Independent Clinical Social Workers (LICSWs), like LaTonya Washington, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

LaTonya has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from University of Alabama.

Washington

Specialties

Chronic Illness

Life Transitions

Relationship Issues

Stress

Women's Issues

Style

Insightful

Attuned

Curious

I offer a holistic approach to therapy, integrating Brainspotting and Gottman Method techniques to guide individuals and couples through life's challenges. My focus includes life transitions, chronic illness, health anxiety, medical trauma, couples in crisis, betrayal, infidelity, and culturally responsive care for BIPOC women.

Next appointmentWednesday, Jul 29th

Available virtually

Kimberly Parker

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LICSW

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5+ years

Licensed Independent Clinical Social Workers (LICSWs), like Kimberly Parker, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Kimberly has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from George Fox University.

Vancouver, WA

Specialties

ADHD

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Insightful

Candid

Supportive

When working with individuals, I see them as the drivers of their care. It is important to me that we are always working toward a client's goal.

Next appointmentFriday, Jul 31st

Available virtually

Julianne Wilson

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LMHC

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Julianne Wilson, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Julianne has a Master of Science Psychology (MSPSY) from Antioch College.

Washington

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Family Conflict

Style

Exploratory

Candid

Curious

I help individuals and couples navigate their challenges with a direct, solution-focused approach. I prioritize validation and understanding, creating a safe space for you to explore your thoughts and emotions. My practice is built on empowering you to develop practical strategies that lead to meaningful change and personal growth.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Edward Deatherage

Licensed Psychologists (LPs), like Edward Deatherage, hold a doctoral degree and are trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Edward has a Doctor of Philosophy (PHD) in Psychology from United States International University and a Master of Science Psychology (MSPSY) from Pepperdine University.

Spokane, WA

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Relationship Issues

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Insightful

Gentle

Motivational

Edward Deatherage, Ph.D. Received his Doctorate in Clinical Psychology from the United States International University in San Diego, CA. A Master's Degree in Psychology at Pepperdine University, Los Angeles, CA. A bachelor's Degree in psychology at Loma Linda University, Loma Linda, CA.

Next appointmentTuesday, Jul 21st

Available virtually

Anna O'Hearon

LMHC

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Anna O'Hearon, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Anna has a Master in Counseling (MC) in Mental Health Counseling from University of Phoenix.

Washington

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Stress

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Exploratory

Warm

Curious

Are you feeling stressed out, anxious, or overwhelmed by daily demands, living with uncertainty, navigating a loss, making difficult decisions, feeling stuck, or disconnected? Collaboratively, we will explore your intentions for our work together.

Next appointmentThursday, Jul 16th

Available virtually

Tomi Stewart

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LICSW

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8+ years

Licensed Independent Clinical Social Workers (LICSWs), like Tomi Stewart, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Tomi has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from San Diego State University.

Washington

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Gender Identity

LGBTQIA+

Style

Outcome-oriented

Approachable

Affirming

I meet clients where they are at with unconditional positive regard.

“My therapist is a fantastic listener and capable of adapting a session based on my needs and current mood. I've grown so much since I've started working with them.”

Next appointmentThursday, Jul 16th

Available virtually

Kristen Arcangelo

LMHC

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Kristen Arcangelo, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Kristen has a Master of Education (MED) in Clinical Mental Health Counseling in Schools and Communities from Penn State University.

Dupont, WA

Specialties

Anxiety

Depression

Stress

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Directive

Attuned

Collaborative

As a Licensed Mental Health Counselor with 10 years of clinical experience, I strive to create a warm environment where you can feel comfortable exploring challenges, building on your strengths, and working toward change.

Next appointmentTuesday, Jul 14th

Available virtually

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15,000+

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98%

of searches result in an exact match

Progress

Care should make a difference. Our approach helps you track progress you can feel.

93%

of patients report feeling better after treatment through Rula

Additional therapy specialties and modalities

EMDR DBT Psychiatry

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Understanding online dialectical behavior therapy

What is dialectical behavior therapy, and how does it work?

Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) is a comprehensive and evidence-based therapy approach that aims to help people manage intense emotions and build better relationships. It combines standard cognitive therapy techniques with skills like mindfulness, which focuses on awareness of the present moment. DBT can be effective for issues like borderline personality disorder and eating disorders, concentrating on improving emotional regulation, distress tolerance, and interpersonal skills.

DBT may not be the best treatment for your needs. Understanding the process and discussing this treatment method with a mental health professional is important.

Common issues addressed by dialectical behavior therapy

DBT can be used in treating mental health conditions associated with emotional instability. It can support people who deal with borderline personality disorder and extreme emotional reactions. DBT offers strategies for handling these challenges, which can lead to a more stable and fulfilling life.

Potential benefits of online dialectical behavior therapy

Online DBT sessions offer the flexibility to connect with specialized therapists on the Rula platform throughout your state, even if they’re not in your local area. This can be beneficial for people who face challenges attending in-person sessions. Research has shown that online therapy can have the effectiveness of in-person DBT while providing an accessible and comfortable option for treatment.

What to expect during an online dialectical behavior therapy session

During an online DBT session, therapists generally guide people through skill-building exercises in areas like mindfulness, handling stress, regulating emotions, and improving relationships. These sessions often include discussions on applying these skills to daily life, focusing on improving emotional stability and personal connections.

Choosing the right dialectical behavior therapist

After you've booked your first session, Rula verifies your insurance coverage and follows up with a cost estimate, including any required copayments.

FAQs about online dialectical behavior therapy

How effective is online DBT compared to in-person sessions?

Online DBT can be effective for many people. Many therapists on the Rula platform have experience adapting DBT techniques for online formats. While some may prefer in-person interactions, others find online therapy more convenient and less intimidating, which can help make sessions more effective.

Is dialectical behavior therapy right for me?

DBT can be suitable for people dealing with issues around emotional regulation, relationship conflicts, or self-harming behaviors. It can benefit people seeking a more structured therapy approach focusing on building practical skills. A consultation with a DBT therapist can help you decide if this therapy aligns with your needs and goals.

How should I prepare for online DBT sessions?

Reflect on your thoughts and feelings leading up to the appointment. Think about what you hope to get from each session and your longer-term goals. Let your close friends or family know you're starting DBT, as you might need their understanding and support.

DBT often brings up intense feelings and challenges old behaviors that may be difficult. Remember, the process of change has ups and downs. Working with your therapist can guide you through this process, offering support and strategies to help you apply DBT skills effectively in your everyday life. Feel confident about sharing your thoughts and feelings openly in this safe space.

How long does DBT therapy typically last?

The length of DBT therapy depends on the individual's needs and the specific issues being addressed. Some people may experience significant improvement within a few sessions, while others might engage in DBT therapy over several months. Your therapist can tailor treatment to your unique healing journey.

Are there any requirements for participating in online DBT?

Online DBT requires a private space for therapy, a reliable internet connection, and a device capable of video conferencing. Active participation and a willingness to apply DBT skills outside of sessions are critical for the therapy's success.

Connect with Dialectical (DBT) therapy in Federal Way, WA

Quality care comes first at Rula

Paula Ehrmantraut

Jessica Gonzalez

Melissa Konrat

Hilary Chentow

Megan Woods

Thomas La Marr

Anaia Keali'i Jolie

Jaime Masotti

Anthony O'Leary

Jaeren Davis

Bonnie Ayotte

LaTonya Washington

Kimberly Parker

Julianne Wilson

Edward Deatherage

Anna O'Hearon

Tomi Stewart

Kristen Arcangelo

Hundreds of thousands of patients have found affordable, in-network mental health care with Rula

Insurance

$15 / session

Network

15,000+

Match

98%

Progress

93%

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