How to find the right therapist in Washington

When choosing a therapist in Washington, it's best to reflect on what you’re looking for and ask yourself which of the following criteria are most important to you: Do they accept your insurance? Do you need a therapist who specializes in a specific mental health concern such as depression, anxiety, or trauma? Are you looking for someone to work with you individually? Or are you looking for someone to support you as a couple or family? Would you be more comfortable partnering with a therapist of a certain race, gender expression, sexual orientation, religious, or cultural background?

Can I use my insurance?

Yes! Therapists on the Rula platform are in-network with most major insurance plans. Rula patients typically pay $15 per session, although your individual cost may vary based on your insurance benefits and deductible. We’ll work with your insurance to confirm your estimated per-session cost before your first appointment. Ready to get started? Click here to browse available therapists who accept your insurance.

How do I know if therapy is right for me?

There’s no right or wrong reason to start therapy. Whether you’re seeking help navigating a life transition or managing symptoms of anxiety or depression, therapy is an effective treatment for many types of concerns – all you need is an open mind and a general sense of what you’d like to explore with a therapist. Still unsure? Head to our blog to learn more.

How soon can I meet with a therapist?

Therapists in Rula’s network are available to meet as soon as tomorrow. Click here to explore therapists and book your first session in minutes.

What should I consider when choosing a therapist?

It depends on your personal preferences and goals. Whether you’re seeking a therapist who specializes in certain mental health conditions, shares your ethnic background, or is available to meet at your preferred time – Rula makes it easy to search and filter by what matters most to you. If you don’t feel like your first choice was a match, don’t worry – we’ll help you switch to a different therapist in our network. Check out our blog post for more pointers on finding your best-fit therapist.

How do I know if I need therapy or psychiatry?

If you’re experiencing severe symptoms that interfere with your daily functioning, you may want to consider starting with a psychiatric provider who can assess your needs and prescribe medication if deemed necessary. If your symptoms are mild or moderate, therapy may be a better starting point. No matter where you begin your journey – your provider will work with you to develop a personalized treatment plan that’s based on your individual needs and concerns. Still unsure? Visit our blog to learn more about the differences.

Does Rula offer in-person appointments?

Currently, Rula offers in-person therapy in some states. For those living in other states, there are many benefits to online therapy!

Can Rula help me find a therapist?

Absolutely. Rula’s network of 10,000+ licensed providers represent more than 80 clinical specialties and a diverse range of backgrounds – making it easier to find the care you need. Once you provide us with some basic information, we’ll generate a curated list of in-network therapists who are licensed in your state and accepting new patients. From there, you can filter by what matters most to you and explore individual biographies until you find a match. Ready to get started?

What types of care can I access through Rula?

Providers in Rula’s network specialize in individual therapy, couples therapy, family therapy, and psychiatric care (i.e., medication management).

Who is eligible to access care through Rula?

Individuals aged 5 and older are eligible to receive care in any state where Rula is available.

How will I meet with my therapist?

Rula specializes in online therapy – giving you the flexibility to meet with your therapist from wherever you’re most comfortable. We’ll send you an appointment reminder containing a secure link to your scheduled Zoom session approximately 24 hours before your session.

Connect with Therapists who accept Luminare Health (formerly Trustmark) in Washington

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30+ therapists who accept Trustmark Health Benefits

Quality care comes first at Rula

We regularly review providers to ensure quality

30+ therapists who accept Trustmark Health Benefits

Elizabeth Spann

LICSW

Licensed Independent Clinical Social Workers (LICSWs), like Elizabeth Spann, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Elizabeth has a Master of Social Work from University of Washington Tacoma.

Washington

Specialties

Anger Management

Anxiety

Depression

Relationship Issues

Stress

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Exploratory

Attuned

Curious

Welcome! I strive to create a warm, safe space where you can show up as your authentic self. Together, we’ll explore your experiences with compassion and clarity. My goal is to support your progress and help you grow at a pace that feels healthy and empowering.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Ashley A Bauman

LMHC

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Ashley A Bauman, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Ashley A has a Master of Science (MS) in Professional Counseling from Grand Canyon University.

Washington

Specialties

Anger Management

Grief

Life Transitions

Relationship Issues

Substance Use

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Exploratory

Candid

Affirming

If you're looking for someone who can understand, validate, and give you a safe place to explore and process all emotions, look no further. Not only will you have the space to be your authentic self, you will also have a tailored experience for navigating, healing, and finding closure / starting that closure to a more meaningful and peaceful life.

Next appointmentThursday, Apr 23rd

Available virtually

Shawn DeLancy

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LICSW

Licensed Independent Clinical Social Workers (LICSWs), like Shawn DeLancy, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Shawn has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Eastern Washington University.

Washington

Specialties

Anger Management

Anxiety

Depression

Psychosis

Stress

Suicidal Ideation

Style

Outcome-oriented

Approachable

Supportive

If you’re feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or disconnected, or feeling out of touch with reality—you’re not alone. If something about this feels right to you, I invite you to reach out. I’d be honored to support you in taking that next step—at your pace, and in your own way.

Next appointmentWednesday, Apr 22nd

Available virtually

Ludmilia Vitovitz

LICSW

Licensed Independent Clinical Social Workers (LICSWs), like Ludmilia Vitovitz, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Ludmilia has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Eastern Washington University.

Washington

Specialties

Anger Management

Anxiety

Behavioral Issues

Mood Disorders

Self Esteem

Thought Disorders

Style

Responsive

Approachable

Empowering

I’m a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker who believes that everyone deserves to feel seen, heard, and supported especially in their hardest moments. My work is grounded in empathy, connection, and nonjudgment. I understand what it’s like to feel misunderstood or unseen, and I strive to create a space where clients can finally exhale and be

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Anthonie Etienne

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT

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3+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Anthonie Etienne, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Anthonie has a Master of Divinity (MDIV) Youth and Family Ministry, Pastor from Grand Canyon University, a Master of Arts (MA) in Master of Divinity from Grand Canyon University and a Master of Arts (MA) in Psychology, Marriage Family Therap,y and Professional Clinical Counseling from Chapman University.

Puyallup, WA

Specialties

Anger Management

Anxiety

Behavioral Issues

Depression

Mood Disorders

Style

Outcome-oriented

Spiritual

Collaborative

I am an LMFT, Pastoral Counselor, and Ordained Minister. I find joy in serving those seeking realignment in life. By reaching the heart of challenges, we build from the inside out. Our work together focuses on being heard, developing solutions, and empowering you to overcome.

Next appointmentFriday, Apr 24th

Available virtually

Robert Peterson

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LICSW

•

15+ years

Licensed Independent Clinical Social Workers (LICSWs), like Robert Peterson, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Robert has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Eastern Washington University.

Loon Lake, WA

Specialties

Anger Management

Anxiety

Depression

LGBTQIA+

Life Transitions

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Outcome-oriented

Approachable

Motivational

Robert Peterson is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker with over 30 years of experience helping children, adolescents, and adults overcome life's challenges. Having spent much of his career in international school settings, Robert has deep expertise in helping youth cope with cultural adjustment, displacement, isolation, and stress.

Next appointmentWednesday, Apr 22nd

Available virtually

Jenny Kobayashi

LICSW

Licensed Independent Clinical Social Workers (LICSWs), like Jenny Kobayashi, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Jenny has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from University of Southern California.

Washington

Specialties

Anger Management

Addiction

Behavioral Issues

Relationship Issues

Suicidal Ideation

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Insightful

Attuned

Curious

Navigating life's challenges can be difficult; my goal is to help clients feel more grounded and confident as they grow, heal, and move forward. I have a passion for helping others see their true strengths to foster real change.

Next appointmentSaturday, Apr 25th

Available virtually

Ryan Suhr

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMHC

•

36+ years

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Ryan Suhr, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Ryan has a Master of Science in Education (MS ED) in Community Counseling from University of Nebraska at Kearney.

Washington

Specialties

Anger Management

Anxiety

Coping Skills

Panic Attacks

Relationship Issues

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Practical

Approachable

Motivational

I utilize an approach that incorporates existential, cognitive behavioral, humanistic, and developmental strategies in the resolution of situational, personal, and relational challenges. I have worked with individuals and families in groups from ages 3 to 87 with issues related to mood, anxiety, trauma, personality, and relationship difficulties.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Istvan Feldman

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LMHC

•

5+ years

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Istvan Feldman, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Istvan has a Master of Science (MS) in Psychology from Southern New Hampshire University.

Spokane, WA

Specialties

Anger Management

ADHD

Autism or Asperger's Syndrome

Bipolar Disorder

Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)

Personality Disorders

Style

Practical

Candid

Collaborative

I help adults manage complex emotional and behavioral challenges. As a Licensed Mental Health Counselor, I utilize evidence-based, collaborative therapy focused on regulation and functional improvement. I teach practical skills to support sustainable change.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 21st

Available virtually

Gary Allen

LMHC

•

3+ years

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Gary Allen, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Gary has a Masters of Arts (MA) in Mental Health Counseling from Argosy University.

Washington

Specialties

Anger Management

Anxiety

Depression

Grief

LGBTQIA+

Transgender Issues

Style

Responsive

Attuned

Supportive

I’m a client-centered and solution-focused therapist and would love to focus on what your dreams and aspirations are. I would start by asking the miracle question to determine if you woke up tomorrow and your life was perfect and everything you wanted was how you hoped it would be and then I would have you describe that life for me.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Stephanie Tichelaar

LMHC

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Stephanie Tichelaar, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Stephanie has a Master of Science (MS) Family and Child Life from Central Washington University.

Chelan, WA

Specialties

Anger Management

ADHD

Anxiety

Autism or Asperger's Syndrome

Behavioral Issues

School Issues

Style

Responsive

Approachable

Curious

I’m a Licensed Mental Health Counselor in Washington State. I provide warm, collaborative therapy for children, adolescents, adults, and families, helping clients build regulation, resilience, and meaningful change through life’s challenges.

Next appointmentMonday, Apr 27th

Available virtually

John Moyanah

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LMHC

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like John Moyanah, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

John has a Master in Counseling (MC) from Dallas Baptist University.

Washington

Specialties

Anger Management

Anxiety

Depression

Grief

Relationship Issues

Style

Directive

Spiritual

Curious

I work with clients facing depression, anxiety, relationship issues, parenting problems, career challenges, multicultural concerns, grief, and anger management. I also support those who have experienced physical trauma or emotional abuse.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 21st

Available virtually

Heather Di Biase

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LICSW

Licensed Independent Clinical Social Workers (LICSWs), like Heather Di Biase, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Heather has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Eastern Washington University.

Washington

Specialties

Anger Management

Addiction

Eating Disorders

Personality Disorders

Suicidal Ideation

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Responsive

Attuned

Collaborative

I have been providing mental health services for 10 years in private practice. I work with children, adolescents, adults, couples, and families. Whether you're looking for brief interventions or long-term support, I'm here for you.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 21st

Available virtually

Tanya Stephenson

LICSW

Licensed Independent Clinical Social Workers (LICSWs), like Tanya Stephenson, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Tanya has a Master of Science (MS) in SOCIAL ADMINISTRATION from CASE WESTERN RESERVE UNIVERSITY.

Bonney Lake, WA

Specialties

Anger Management

Addiction

Anxiety

Depression

Self Esteem

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Insightful

Attuned

Affirming

I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and a Substance use disorder professional. I prefer to work with adults and older adults experiencing difficulty coping with mental health symptoms, coping with trauma, and/or substance use-related impacts.

Next appointmentThursday, Apr 23rd

Available virtually

Kimberly Jones

LMFT

•

4+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Kimberly Jones, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Kimberly has a Master of Science (MS) in MCFC from Walden University.

Washington

Specialties

Anger Management

Anxiety

Depression

Stress

Style

Responsive

Attuned

Motivational

I believe that each individual's healing journey should be tailored toward what is needed for the client. I use an Eclectic Approach, which allows me to individualize therapy based on the person and not the theory. I look forward to helping you along the journey.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

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“As a therapist, I often remind patients that anger is a natural and valid emotion — it’s not the feeling itself but how we express it that matters. A helpful shift is viewing anger as a signal, not a flaw. It can highlight unmet needs or crossed boundaries worth exploring in therapy. When we welcome anger with curiosity instead of guilt, we open the door to healing and self-understanding.”

– Ashley Ayala, LMFT

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“I wish more people knew that anger and sadness are closely connected. Sometimes, when anger feels too strong, it comes out as tears instead of yelling or fighting. Crying doesn’t mean your anger isn’t real — it’s just another way to show your feelings.”

– Brandy Chalmers, LPC

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“I encourage clients to shift their perspective by recognizing that anger is often a protective response to unresolved trauma, and learning to process and express it can be a key step in healing and regaining control.”

– Brandy Chalmers, LPC

Hundreds of thousands of patients have found affordable, in-network mental health care with Rula

Insurance

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typical cost patients pay through Rula

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After you select a provider, we’ll send you a personalized cost estimate before your first session—so you’ll know what to expect.

100+ insurance plans accepted

140M total lives covered

Millions of sessions completed

Network

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15,000+

licensed providers

Match

The right provider makes all the difference. We help you find someone who truly fits your needs—the first time.

98%

of searches result in an exact match

Progress

Care should make a difference. Our approach helps you track progress you can feel.

93%

of patients report feeling better after treatment through Rula

Additional therapy specialties and modalities

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Understanding online therapy for anger management

Anger management and its role in daily life

Anger is a natural emotion, but frequent or intense feelings of anger can have a negative impact on your relationships, work, and overall well-being. Effective anger management is crucial for maintaining healthy interactions and emotional balance. The goal of anger management is to help you recognize and control anger triggers before they escalate so you can express anger in healthy, non-destructive ways.

The importance of therapy in managing anger

Therapy plays a key role in understanding and managing anger. Professional therapists can help you identify the underlying causes of your anger and develop strategies to respond to anger triggers more constructively. Addressing anger through therapy can prevent it from negatively impacting your life and relationships. It can also promote emotional growth, improved communication skills, and better stress management.

Common therapeutic approaches for anger management

Therapists can use various methods to help manage anger effectively. For example:

Advantages of online therapy for anger management

Online therapy can offer accessibility, convenience, and a comfortable setting for people seeking help with anger management. It removes the need for travel, making it easier to fit therapy sessions into a busy schedule. The privacy of attending sessions from home can also make it easier to discuss sensitive issues and emotions, fostering a more open and effective therapeutic experience.

Tips for choosing an anger management therapist

Look for a therapist trained in anger management and experienced with specific issues you may struggle with. When searching for a therapist, keep the following in mind:

FAQs about anger management therapy and therapists

When should I seek therapy for anger management?

Consider therapy if your anger is difficult to control, leads to regrettable actions, or negatively affects your relationships and work. Signs that you may benefit from anger management include:

Therapy can provide strategies to recognize and manage anger effectively, improving interactions and emotional health.

What is the typical duration of anger management therapy?

The length of anger management therapy depends on your specific needs and progress. It can range from short-term interventions focusing on immediate anger management techniques to long-term therapy that addresses deeper emotional issues. Ongoing assessments with your therapist can help tailor the therapy to your evolving needs.

What to expect during your first anger management therapy session?

In the first session, your therapist typically discusses your history with anger, your triggers, specific incidents that concern you, and how anger impacts your life. This conversation helps set the stage for understanding your specific challenges with anger and to begin exploring healthy coping mechanisms and outlets for frustrations. You may learn about the therapist's approach and establish the groundwork for a trusting therapeutic relationship.

How to find a qualified therapist for anger management?

A qualified anger management therapist should have relevant training and a license to practice in your state. Look for therapists with experience in anger management and check for any additional certifications or specialized training in effective anger management techniques.

Does insurance cover anger management therapy sessions?

Insurance coverage for anger management therapy varies. After you've booked your first session, Rula verifies your insurance coverage and follows up with a cost estimate, including any required copayments.

Is anger management therapy available online?

Yes, anger management therapy can be conducted online, offering a flexible and private way to get help. Online therapy can provide the benefits of in-person therapy while accommodating your lifestyle and personal needs.

Connect with Therapists who accept Luminare Health (formerly Trustmark) in Washington

Quality care comes first at Rula

Quality care comes first at Rula

Elizabeth Spann

Ashley A Bauman

Shawn DeLancy

Ludmilia Vitovitz

Anthonie Etienne

Robert Peterson

Jenny Kobayashi

Ryan Suhr

Istvan Feldman

Gary Allen

Stephanie Tichelaar

John Moyanah

Heather Di Biase

Tanya Stephenson

Kimberly Jones

Continue exploring providers

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$15 / session

Network

15,000+

Match

98%

Progress

93%

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