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Joseph Akronowitz

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LCSW
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28+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Joseph Akronowitz, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Joseph has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from San Diego State University.

El Cajon, CA
Specialties
Anxiety
Codependency
Mood Disorders
Panic Attacks
Relationship Issues
Style
Practical
Approachable
Collaborative

I’m Joe! I have helped clients work towards developing self-assurance and solution-oriented approach in a nonjudgmental atmosphere promoting dignity and respect. My early experiences included learning to repair cars and do construction, which gave me a very practical approach to problem solving and diagnosing problems.

Available virtually and in person

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Ruben Gutierrez

LMFT
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6+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Ruben Gutierrez, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Ruben has a Master of Arts (MA) in MFT from Northcentral University.

San Diego, CA
Specialties
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Practical
Warm
Collaborative

I am a Veteran looking to assist others with their own "1000" mile journey.

Available virtually

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Sergio Ibanez

LCSW
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7+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Sergio Ibanez, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Sergio has a Master of Science in Social Work (MSSW) from University of New England.

San Diego, CA
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Divorce
Parenting
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Directive
Gentle
Supportive

I provide support and guidance for individuals, couples, and families. I work with diverse populations and use approaches including EMDR, CBT, DBT, and Solution-Focused Brief Therapy to address your unique needs.

Available virtually

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Brian Landau

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW
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34+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Brian Landau, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Brian has a Master of Clinical Social Work from Stony Brook University.

San Diego, CA
Specialties
Anger Management
Codependency
Parenting
Relationship Issues
Self Esteem
Style
Insightful
Attuned
Empowering

I have been a licensed therapist and counselor for over 35 years, working with individuals, couples, families, and children from 8 to 18. I have worked in outpatient clinics, day treatment, and residential settings. Most recently, I worked for 26 years treating adults, couples, and families with teens with mental health and substance use issues.

Available virtually

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William Fenton

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT
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31+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like William Fenton, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

William has a Master's in Counseling (MC) in Family Therapy from National University.

San Diego, CA
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Mood Disorders
Relationship Issues
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Insightful
Attuned
Affirming

Starting therapy is a major step in making changes and improvements in our lives. I commend you for seeking help. I have experience working with individuals, couples, and families. I believe that everyone has the ability to lead a happier, healthier life. I want to help you develop the skills for this.

Available virtually

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Chris Schell

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT
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5+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Chris Schell, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Chris has a Master of Arts (MA) in Counseling Psychology from National University.

San Diego, CA
Specialties
ADHD
Anxiety
Depression
Substance Use
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Insightful
Gentle
Collaborative

I provide a supportive, compassionate space for healing and growth. I primarily work with adults navigating anxiety, depression, trauma, ADHD, relationship stress, and life transitions. My goal is to help you build insight, practical tools, and greater emotional balance.

Available virtually

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Kirby Wohlander

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW
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47+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Kirby Wohlander, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

All Rula providers are licensed and hold a master’s or doctorate degree required for practice.

San Diego, CA
Specialties
Addiction
Anxiety
Bipolar Disorder
Depression
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Outcome-oriented
Approachable
Collaborative

I have broad experience working with individuals, couples, and families. I understand the challenges of military life, disabilities, raising a family, balancing work and family, and substance use.

Available virtually

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Frederick Wahlig

LCSW
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32+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Frederick Wahlig, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Frederick has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from San Diego State University.

San Diego, CA
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Style
Directive
Warm
Supportive

I provide support to clients experiencing challenges in their lives. My approach centers on meeting you with empathy, openness, and understanding as we work through what brings you to therapy.

Available virtually

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Pauldeep Gill

LMFT
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4+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Pauldeep Gill, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Pauldeep has a Masters of Counseling (MC) in Psychology from National University.

Sacramento, CA
Specialties
Addiction
Style
Outcome-oriented
Approachable
Collaborative

I have been in the mental health field for over 10 years working with addiction, anxiety, depression, and trauma. I have a masters degree in counseling psychology and am licensed in the state of California as a Marriage and Family Therapist. I love helping people heal and empowering them to achieve anything they want.

Available virtually

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Brad Benedict

LMFT
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15+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Brad Benedict, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

All Rula providers are licensed and hold a master’s or doctorate degree required for practice.

California
Specialties
Infidelity
Men's Issues
Relationship Issues
Spirituality
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Directive
Approachable
Collaborative

I was there, too. There was a time when I was extremely lost in life. But therapy changed the direction of my life forever. Because I went through it, I will get you through it, too. Whether you’re coming to me for personal growth, relationship struggles, or healing from trauma through EMDR, we can work together to get you past the problem.

Available virtually

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Adrian Elizondo Hinojosa

LMFT
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11+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Adrian Elizondo Hinojosa, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Adrian has a Master in Counseling from John F. Kennedy University.

California
Specialties
Addiction
Anxiety
Depression
Spirituality
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Insightful
Approachable
Empowering

I have worked with children, teens, adults, couples and families. I have been practicing for 12 years. I believe that combining the interest in psychology/psychotherapy with nature; can help heal ourselves and intentionally guided wilderness/outdoor experiences can be a powerful tool for personal growth and healing.

Available virtually

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Gavin Williams

LMFT
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9+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Gavin Williams, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Gavin has a Doctor of Philosophy (PHD) in Marriage and Family Therapy from California School of Professional Psychology and a Masters in Counseling (MC) in Counseling Psychology from University of San Francisco.

California
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Family Conflict
Relationship Issues
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Responsive
Approachable
Affirming

We all seek connection, a sense of belonging, and also we seek to have a sense of purpose and value. When we find ourselves in relationships where we feel a lack of connection or a sense of being undervalued by our partner we tend to lose vitality and/or security. Let us work together to rediscover who we are meant to be.

Available virtually

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Darryl Gilmer

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT
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14+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Darryl Gilmer, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Darryl has a Master of Science in Psychology (MSPSY) from Chapman University.

California
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Insightful
Approachable
Supportive

I work with couples and individuals navigating relationship challenges, depression, anxiety, and trauma. My approach is warm and relational, emphasizing the healing power of connection both within your relationships and between us in therapy.

Available virtually

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Tom Tamura

LMFT
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32+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Tom Tamura, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Tom has a Master in Counseling from John F. Kennedy University.

California
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Family Conflict
Relationship Issues
School Issues
Style
Insightful
Approachable
Curious

I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who provides therapy for individuals, couples, and families with a focus on strengthening relationships, improving communication, and supporting meaningful, lasting change.

Available virtually

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John Foster

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT
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15+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like John Foster, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

John has a Master of Science (MS) in Counseling, Marriage and Family Therapy from California State University, Northridge.

California
Specialties
Anxiety
Coping Skills
Depression
LGBTQIA+
Relationship Issues
Style
Directive
Approachable
Supportive

Are you seeking more acceptance and authentic connections in your life? Life is truly built on relationships. Most importantly our relationship with ourselves. What we tell ourselves in a moment can create a host of unintended consequences and behaviors. Together, lets explore ground zero and set a solid footing for moving toward what you intend.

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William Larkin

LCSW
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7+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like William Larkin, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

William has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from California State University, Fullerton.

California
Specialties
Anxiety
Divorce
Life Transitions
Panic Attacks
Relationship Issues
Style
Exploratory
Approachable
Supportive

I am a licensed psychotherapist that believes therapy should feel like a genuine conversation, not an interview. My goal is to create a space where you can be honest, understood, and challenged in ways that help you move forward. Together, we'll help you build a life that feels more meaningful and manageable.

Available virtually

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Timothy Dreher

LMFT
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14+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Timothy Dreher, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Timothy has a Masters of Arts (MA) Clinical Psychology from Pepperdine University.

California
Specialties
Anxiety
Coping Skills
Self Esteem
Stress
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Exploratory
Attuned
Affirming

Tim collaborates with his clients in an empathic, compassionate manner. He strongly believes in the capacity for growth, change, and healing inherent in every person.

Available virtually

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William Roberts

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT
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4+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like William Roberts, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

William has a Doctor of Psychology (PsyD) in Marriage and Family Therapy, The Chicago School, from Master of Arts in Clinical Psychology, Pepperdine University,.

California
Specialties
Alcohol Use
Anxiety
Depression
Relapse Prevention
Substance Use
Style
Outcome-oriented
Approachable
Collaborative

Are you and your partner stuck in the same arguments, struggling to rebuild trust, or feeling disconnected? I help couples improve communication, repair relationships after conflict or substance use, and rebuild connection using practical, solution-focused strategies.

Available virtually

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Victor Vasquez

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Victor Vasquez, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Victor has a Master of Social Work (MSW) in Mental Health from University of Southern California.

California
Specialties
Anxiety
Behavioral Issues
Coping Skills
Depression
Self Esteem
Style
Insightful
Approachable
Collaborative

I believe therapy should feel safe, authentic, and tailored to each person’s unique experiences and goals. My approach is focused on helping clients better understand themselves, strengthen emotional resilience, and create meaningful changes in their daily life.

Available virtually

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Fillmore Smiley

LPCC
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3+ years

Licensed Professional Clinical Counselors (LPCCs), like Fillmore Smiley, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Fillmore has a Doctor of Philosophy (PHD) in Clinical Psychology from Walden University.

California
Specialties
Addiction
Anger Management
Mood Disorders
Relationship Issues
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Responsive
Approachable
Supportive

Therapy begins with feeling heard, understood, and respected. I am down-to-earth, authentic, and collaborative. With mutual trust, we work toward meaningful change together. I help with anxiety, depression, grief, relationships, trauma, addiction, and difficult emotions and life circumstances. Genuine connection matters. Let’s take the first step.

Available virtually

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Tung Tran

LMFT
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14+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Tung Tran, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Tung has a Master of Arts in Counseling Psychology from Argosy University.

Fremont, CA
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Divorce
Peer Relationships
Relationship Issues
Style
Exploratory
Approachable
Collaborative

When life feels overwhelming — a struggling child, a family in conflict, a crisis that's hard to navigate alone — it helps to have steady, experienced support. I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, licensed in California and Nevada, with 14 years of experience helping families through crisis and trauma.

Available virtually

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Jonathan Shiroma

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Jonathan Shiroma, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Jonathan has a Masters of Arts (MA) in Marital and Family Therapy from California School of Professional Psychology, San Diego.

California
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
First Responders
Substance Use
jobStress
Style
Exploratory
Attuned
Collaborative

When you're used to showing up for others, it can be hard to make room for yourself. Our sessions offer time to pause, feel heard, and make sense of what you've been carrying. From there, we'll build on strengths you may overlook and explore changes that feel meaningful and manageable for you.

Available virtually

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Avon Jones

LPCC
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11+ years

Licensed Professional Clinical Counselors (LPCCs), like Avon Jones, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Avon has a Masters of Education (MED) in School Counseling from Wilmington University and a Master of Science (MS) in Human Service Counseling from Lincoln University.

California
Specialties
Anxiety
Behavioral Issues
Depression
Relationship Issues
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Directive
Approachable
Empowering

We know that initiating counseling services for your child or yourself can be very challenging. However, please know that you are making a positive step towards a healthy change in your life. During the counseling process, together we will identify your strengths and use those strengths to help propel you in making the necessary changes.

Available virtually

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Jeff Kelly

LCP
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21+ years

Licensed Clinical Psychologists (LCPs), like Jeff Kelly, hold a doctoral degree and are trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Jeff has a Doctor of Psychology (PSYD) in Clinical Psychology from Azusa Pacific University.

California
Specialties
Depression
Style
Insightful
Approachable
Supportive

I am a psychologist who has been licensed since 2005. Prior to that, I was practicing therapy as an MFT-INTERN. I have worked in both private practice and hospital settings. I help my clients identify and change patterns in their lives that contribute to the reasons they sought therapy. I may be able to help you.

Available virtually

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Benjamin Silver

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Benjamin Silver, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Benjamin has a Master in Counseling (MC) from Point Loma Nazarene University.

California
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Men's Issues
Self Esteem
Substance Use
Style
Exploratory
Attuned
Curious

I work with individuals, couples, and families navigating anxiety, stress, relationships, and life transitions. My goal is to provide a private, judgment-free space to gain perspective, strengthen relationships, and develop practical tools for meaningful change.

Available virtually

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