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Melanny Garay

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Melanny Garay, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

All Rula providers are licensed and hold a master’s or doctorate degree required for practice.

California
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Anxiety
Depression
Family Conflict
Suicidal Ideation
Women's Issues
Style
Outcome-oriented
Gentle
Collaborative

I’m a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Associate Professional Clinical Counselor. I work with clients of all ages and strive to create a supportive space where you feel comfortable being yourself, exploring challenges, and creating meaningful change.

Available virtually

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Stephanie Lambrecht

LPCC
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2+ years

Licensed Professional Clinical Counselors (LPCCs), like Stephanie Lambrecht, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

All Rula providers are licensed and hold a master’s or doctorate degree required for practice.

California
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Addiction
Coping Skills
Depression
Self Esteem
Women's Issues
Style
Exploratory
Warm
Supportive

I’m so glad you’re here. I offer a supportive, down‑to‑earth space where you can explore what you’re going through and feel genuinely understood. My work centers on helping people find clarity, build confidence, and move toward meaningful change at a pace that feels comfortable. Let's take this journey together!

Available virtually

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Sarah Chavez

LPCC
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3+ years

Licensed Professional Clinical Counselors (LPCCs), like Sarah Chavez, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Sarah has a Masters in Counseling (MC) in Mental Health Clinical Counseling from Capella University.

San Diego, CA
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Cultural Stress
Grief
Life Transitions
Stress
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Exploratory
Approachable
Collaborative

Have you been looking for a space where you can feel genuinely seen and understood? I believe meaningful change happens through a strong therapeutic relationship built on trust, safety, and connection. My approach is warm, culturally responsive, and centered on meeting you where you are.

Available virtually

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Abigail Stewart

LCSW
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3+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Abigail Stewart, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Abigail has a Master of Social Work from University of Denver.

Venice, CA
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Anxiety
Relationship Issues
Self Esteem
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Insightful
Approachable
Empowering

I'm a therapist who loves helping people feel confident, empowered, & more connected to themselves & their relationships. My goal is to create a space where you feel understood, supported, and comfortable being yourself.

Available virtually

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Karen Barnoy

LMFT
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5+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Karen Barnoy, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Karen has a Masters of Arts (MA) from Antioch University Santa Barbara.

California
Specialties
Borderline Personality
ADHD
Addiction
Eating Disorders
Mood Disorders
Personality Disorders
Style
Responsive
Approachable
Collaborative

I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. I offer a warm, trauma-informed, and collaborative space where you can explore life's challenges, reconnect with your strengths, and deepen your understanding of yourself. Together, we'll work toward creating lasting change that feels authentic, meaningful, and aligned with your values.

Available virtually

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Rachel White

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Rachel White, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Rachel has a Master of Science Psychology (MSPSY) from Chapman University.

California
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Anxiety
Coping Skills
Life Transitions
Pregnancy, Prenatal, Postpartum
Relationship Issues
Style
Practical
Candid
Collaborative

Are you in a time of transition, overwhelm, or simply feeling disconnected from yourself? That is totally normal and I'm here to accompany you on your journey with care and clarity, creating space for both healing and growth to unfold naturally.

Available virtually

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Jeffrey Hagle

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Jeffrey Hagle, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Jeffrey has a Master of Social Work (MSW) in Trauma plus Mental Health from University of Denver.

Long Beach, CA
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Developmental Disorders
Mood Disorders
Personality Disorders
Thought Disorders
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Directive
Candid
Empowering

You can call me Jay! I believe healing isn't just something we think our way through, it's something we experience. Together, we'll explore the connection between your mind, body, and nervous system with curiosity, compassion, and enough humor to remind you that life can be both messy and meaningful.

Available virtually

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Phoenix O'Shea

LCSW
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4+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Phoenix O'Shea, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Phoenix has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from San Jose State University.

California
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Addiction
Anxiety
Depression
Relationship Issues
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Responsive
Attuned
Collaborative

Haven't been feeling like yourself lately? Have an indescribable feeling and don't know how to talk about it? You might be speaking my language. While I can't feel what it's like to be you, I can offer you an individualized, responsive, collaborative practice to help you get attuned to you with your thoughts, feelings, and sensations.

Available virtually

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Diana Strimling

LMFT
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1+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Diana Strimling, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Diana has a Master of Arts (MA) in Marriage and Family Therapy from Chapman University.

California
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Gender Identity
LGBTQIA+
Life Transitions
Transgender Issues
Women's Issues
Style
Exploratory
Approachable
Affirming

I believe that human connection is at the heart of healing, and I strive to build a strong, collaborative relationship with every client. I approach therapy from a person-centered, strength-based perspective because you deserve a space where your unique lived experiences are truly respected.

Available virtually

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Gabriela Sinohui

LCSW
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1+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Gabriela Sinohui, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Gabriela has a Master of Social Work (MSW) in Mental Health from University of Southern California.

California
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Anxiety
Behavioral Issues
Cultural Stress
Depression
Grief
Style
Insightful
Warm
Empowering

My approach is rooted in empowerment, self-discovery, and the belief that therapy should help you recognize your own strengths and potential—not tell you who you should be. Together, we can explore patterns that may be holding you back, strengthen your sense of self, navigate life’s challenges, and create a path forward that feels authentic to you.

Available virtually

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Jonathan Shiroma

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Jonathan Shiroma, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Jonathan has a Masters of Arts (MA) in Marital and Family Therapy from California School of Professional Psychology, San Diego.

California
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Anxiety
Depression
First Responders
Substance Use
jobStress
Style
Exploratory
Attuned
Collaborative

When you're used to showing up for others, it can be hard to make room for yourself. Our sessions offer time to pause, feel heard, and make sense of what you've been carrying. From there, we'll build on strengths you may overlook and explore changes that feel meaningful and manageable for you.

Available virtually

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Maira Castaneda

LMFT
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2+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Maira Castaneda, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

All Rula providers are licensed and hold a master’s or doctorate degree required for practice.

California
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Behavioral Issues
Family Conflict
Mood Disorders
Peer Relationships
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Responsive
Gentle
Collaborative

I'm an LMFT. I come with a wealth of experience working with children, adults and older adults in private practice and community mental health. Whether you are navigating intense pressure or relationship stress, therapy offers the clarity and grounding you need.

Available virtually

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James Armour

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like James Armour, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

James has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from California Baptist College.

California
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Anxiety
Depression
Panic Attacks
Substance Use
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Practical
Approachable
Empowering

I am a licensed clinical social worker with 3 years of experience providing psychotherapy to all ages. My expertise is working with individuals experiencing depression, anxiety, and panic attacks. I ensure the services I provide are not only practical but fun and aligned with your goals.

Available virtually

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Tulare Mott

LCSW
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13+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Tulare Mott, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Tulare has a Master of Social Work from San Diego State University.

San Diego, CA
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Autism or Asperger's Syndrome
Behavioral Issues
Developmental Disorders
Parenting
Stress
Style
Outcome-oriented
Approachable
Collaborative

Feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or unsure how to move forward? I help adults navigate anxiety, stress, life transitions, and difficult emotional or behavioral patterns through a compassionate and practical approach. If you’re seeking greater clarity, confidence, and balance, I invite you to reach out.

Available virtually

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Joyce Nicholson

LPCC
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3+ years

Licensed Professional Clinical Counselors (LPCCs), like Joyce Nicholson, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Joyce has a Masters of Arts (MA) in Marriage and Family Therapy from Touro University Worldwide.

California
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Anxiety
Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)
Personality Disorders
Relationship Issues
Spirituality
Style
Responsive
Approachable
Collaborative

I provide a warm, supportive, and collaborative space where you can feel heard, build insight, and develop practical tools to navigate life’s challenges. Together, we’ll work toward meaningful, lasting change at a pace that feels right for you.

Available virtually

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Michael Rodgers

LCSW
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11+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Michael Rodgers, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Michael has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from California State Long Beach.

San Luis Obispo, CA
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Anxiety
Bipolar Disorder
Depression
Relapse Prevention
Sexual Addiction
Style
Outcome-oriented
Spiritual
Supportive

I am a California-licensed Clinical Social Worker with a Master's degree in social work and a second undergrad in Religious and Philosophical Studies. My combination of education and personal application of psychology, sociology, and spirituality has reduced my negative self-perceptions and increased skills that are passed on to my clients.

Available virtually

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Tom Tamura

LMFT
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32+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Tom Tamura, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Tom has a Master in Counseling from John F. Kennedy University.

California
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Anxiety
Depression
Family Conflict
Relationship Issues
School Issues
Style
Insightful
Approachable
Curious

I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who provides therapy for individuals, couples, and families with a focus on strengthening relationships, improving communication, and supporting meaningful, lasting change.

Available virtually

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Kim Paylor

LPCC
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6+ years

Licensed Professional Clinical Counselors (LPCCs), like Kim Paylor, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Kim has a Master of Science (MS) in professional clinical counseling from Grand Canyon University.

California
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Anxiety
Depression
Spirituality
Substance Use
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Exploratory
Approachable
Affirming

My counseling style is warm, authentic, and collaborative, and I strive to create a safe space where you feel seen, heard, and supported. Rather than telling you what to do, I work alongside you to explore challenges, uncover strengths, and help you move toward the life you want to create.

Available virtually

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Delia Acosta-Perez

LCSW
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8+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Delia Acosta-Perez, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Delia has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from California State University, Fresno.

California
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Anxiety
Depression
Mood Disorders
Suicidal Ideation
Style
Responsive
Warm
Affirming

I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) with over 24 yrs of experience supporting children, families, and adults. I provide a client-centered, strength-based approach grounded in empathy, active listening, and unconditional positive regard. My goal is to create a supportive and nonjudgmental for clients.

Available virtually

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Jennifer Lopez

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT
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11+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Jennifer Lopez, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Jennifer has a Master of Arts from California Baptist College.

California
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Aging
Cultural Stress
Depression
Grief
Stress
Style
Insightful
Warm
Empowering

I am a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist with over 13 years of experience. I love coffee, a good writing pen, a cozy sweater, and a great podcast. I love working with people, and this field has given me purpose and drive. I feel honored to walk alongside you.

Available virtually

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Huey Fairweather

LCSW
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1+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Huey Fairweather, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Huey has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Temple University.

California
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Anxiety
Depression
Men's Issues
Substance Use
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Insightful
Attuned
Supportive

I'm a Licensed Clinical Social Worker/Veteran who provides a supportive nonjudgmental space where clients can feel comfortable discussing life's challenges. My approach is collaborative and practical, helping clients build coping skills, recognize their strengths, and make meaningful progress towards their goals.

Available virtually

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Ellen Nichols

LMFT
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21+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Ellen Nichols, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Ellen has a Master of Science (MS) in Counseling Psychology from Dominican College of San Rafael.

California
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Anxiety
Bipolar Disorder
Depression
Psychosis
Stress
Style
Exploratory
Gentle
Affirming

I'm looking forward to meeting you so together we can help you grow closer to becoming your true self. Therapy is an adventure that can help you become more aligned with who you really are and therefore, to be able to become more effective and joyful in your daily life.

Available virtually

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Zohal Parsa

LCSW
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5+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Zohal Parsa, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Zohal has a Master of Science in Social Work (MSSW) from University of California, Los Angeles.

California
Specialties
Borderline Personality
ADHD
Anxiety
Depression
Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Insightful
Attuned
Motivational

If you’re feeling anxious, down, stuck in old patterns, or overwhelmed by racing thoughts, you’re not alone—and things can get better. Therapy can help you feel calmer, clearer, and more like yourself again. I’m a California-based LCSW supporting teens and adults with anxiety, depression, trauma responses, ADHD, OCD, and relationship challenges.

Available virtually

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Brian Kypta

LMFT
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12+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Brian Kypta, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

All Rula providers are licensed and hold a master’s or doctorate degree required for practice.

California
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Anxiety
Depression
Family Conflict
Parenting
Relationship Issues
Style
Insightful
Attuned
Curious

Feeling stuck in painful patterns can be exhausting, but change is possible. I work with adults and couples facing relationship conflict, anxiety, life transitions, and recurring emotional struggles. My approach is warm, collaborative, and practical, helping you understand what keeps you stuck and find a healthier way forward.

Available virtually

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Edith Barfield

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Edith Barfield, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Edith has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Our Lady of the Lake University.

Madera, CA
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Anxiety
Depression
Family Conflict
Stress
Style
Insightful
Attuned
Affirming

I’m a bilingual (English/Spanish) LCSW, and I’m really glad you’re here. Taking this step for your mental health is a big deal, and I’m genuinely proud of you for making it a priority. You don’t have to figure this out alone—I’m excited to embark on this journey with you and help you navigate this process at a pace that feels right for you.

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