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Kelly Minor

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW
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26+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Kelly Minor, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Kelly has a Master of Social Work (MSW) in Clinical Social Work from Florida State University and a Masters of Public Administration (MPA) from Troy State University.

Connecticut
Specialties
Alcohol Use
Anxiety
Depression
Relationship Issues
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Insightful
Warm
Collaborative

I'll make you happy you chose therapy! I'm passionate about helping people develop the self-assurance and skills they need to take positive control of their lives. I address not only day-to-day struggles but the feelings, beliefs, and expectations that formed them. I believe this is the key to bringing about positive, lasting change.

Next appointmentTuesday, Oct 6th

Available virtually

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Evelyn Llewellyn

LP
•
38+ years

Licensed Psychologists (LPs), like Evelyn Llewellyn, hold a doctoral degree and are trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Evelyn has a Doctor of Psychology (PSYD) in Child Clinical and Professional School Psychology from New York University.

Darien, CT
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Grief
Relationship Issues
Women's Issues
Style
Insightful
Gentle
Collaborative

I work with clients of all ages, from young children to older adults. My specializations include loss, bereavement, anxiety, eating disorders, depression, and trauma. I provide a compassionate space where you can explore what brings you to therapy and find the support you need.

Next appointmentWednesday, Sep 30th

Available virtually

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Understanding online emotionally focused therapy
What is emotionally focused therapy and how does it work?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) has been shown to be effective in both individuals and couples. It helps people identify and share feelings in new ways. By learning to navigate emotions as a couple or family, your connections can deepen and communication can improve. Online EFT sessions can create a space to better understand your automatic reactions and patterns of relating that may cause pain or problems. With support and guidance, you can reshape entrenched habits into healthy exchanges full of understanding and warmth. The goal is to foster secure, lasting bonds across all your closest relationships.

Emotionally focused therapy may not be the best treatment for your needs. It's important to understand the process and discuss this treatment method with a mental health professional.

Common issues addressed by EFT

EFT can treat relationship distress, attachment issues, and emotional distress. It helps couples and families navigate conflicts, deepen emotional intimacy, and build more resilient, supportive relationships. EFT is also beneficial for people looking to understand their emotional responses and improve personal interactions.

Benefits of online EFT

Online EFT offers the convenience of attending therapy sessions from your home, making it accessible to couples or family members in different locations. It can provide a safe, private environment to explore sensitive relationship dynamics. The online format also broadens access to specialized EFT therapists who may be licensed in your state, but aren’t located in your area.

What to expect during an online EFT session

During an online EFT session, therapists may guide couples or families through discussions and exercises that focus on understanding and expressing emotions. Sessions aim to identify negative interaction patterns and replace them with healthier ways of connecting. The virtual setting allows for flexibility in scheduling, making it easier for all participants to engage in therapy together.

Choosing the right EFT therapist
  • Look for a therapist who’s trained and certified in EFT, and has experience relevant to your specific issues.
  • In the initial sessions, gauge whether you feel understood and comfortable with the therapist's style and approach.
  • Consider logistics like appointment availability and fees to ensure the therapist is within your budget and fits your schedule.

After you've booked your first session, Rula verifies your insurance coverage and follows up with a cost estimate, including any required copayments.

FAQs about online EFT
How effective is online EFT compared to in-person sessions?

Online emotionally focused therapy can be effective, particularly when therapists successfully create a virtual space conducive to emotional openness. Many therapists on the Rula platform have experience adapting emotionally focused therapy techniques for online formats. While some may prefer in-person interactions, others find online therapy more convenient and less intimidating, which can help make sessions more effective.

Is EFT right for me (or us)?

EFT can aid those struggling with emotional disconnects or conflicts in close relationships. Working individually or jointly with a partner or relatives, EFT offers the possibility of growth and harmony. By building an understanding of underlying feelings and needs, an EFT therapist strives to nurture meaningful connections with care and compassion.

How should I prepare for online EFT sessions?

Emotionally focused therapy involves examining your feelings and relationships. Letting loved ones know you are starting EFT can help them understand this personal work. Be ready to explore emotional reactions and habits in your closest relationships. Though intense feelings may arise when relationship challenges surface, your therapist will facilitate healing with empathy. Progress often requires sitting with discomfort to reach an understanding so you can make connections with those you care about most.

How long does EFT typically last?

The duration of emotionally focused therapy varies, but it’s generally considered a time-limited approach, with many couples or families experiencing improvements within 8 to 20 sessions. The specific length of therapy depends on the unique needs and goals of the participants.

Are there any requirements for participating in online EFT?

You'll need a private, quiet space for uninterrupted video sessions along with a dependable internet connection and a device with a working webcam and microphone. You can commit to the process by keeping appointments, doing techniques at home, journaling progress, and regularly discussing challenges with your therapist.

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