How to find the right therapist in Hawaii

When choosing a therapist in Hawaii, it's best to reflect on what you’re looking for and ask yourself which of the following criteria are most important to you: Do they accept your insurance? Do you need a therapist who specializes in a specific mental health concern such as depression, anxiety, or trauma? Are you looking for someone to work with you individually? Or are you looking for someone to support you as a couple or family? Would you be more comfortable partnering with a therapist of a certain race, gender expression, sexual orientation, religious, or cultural background?

Can I use my insurance?

Yes! Therapists on the Rula platform are in-network with most major insurance plans. Rula patients typically pay $15 per session, although your individual cost may vary based on your insurance benefits and deductible. We’ll work with your insurance to confirm your estimated per-session cost before your first appointment. Ready to get started? Click here to browse available therapists who accept your insurance.

How do I know if therapy is right for me?

There’s no right or wrong reason to start therapy. Whether you’re seeking help navigating a life transition or managing symptoms of anxiety or depression, therapy is an effective treatment for many types of concerns – all you need is an open mind and a general sense of what you’d like to explore with a therapist. Still unsure? Head to our blog to learn more.

How soon can I meet with a therapist?

Therapists in Rula’s network are available to meet as soon as tomorrow. Click here to explore therapists and book your first session in minutes.

What should I consider when choosing a therapist?

It depends on your personal preferences and goals. Whether you’re seeking a therapist who specializes in certain mental health conditions, shares your ethnic background, or is available to meet at your preferred time – Rula makes it easy to search and filter by what matters most to you. If you don’t feel like your first choice was a match, don’t worry – we’ll help you switch to a different therapist in our network. Check out our blog post for more pointers on finding your best-fit therapist.

How do I know if I need therapy or psychiatry?

If you’re experiencing severe symptoms that interfere with your daily functioning, you may want to consider starting with a psychiatric provider who can assess your needs and prescribe medication if deemed necessary. If your symptoms are mild or moderate, therapy may be a better starting point. No matter where you begin your journey – your provider will work with you to develop a personalized treatment plan that’s based on your individual needs and concerns. Still unsure? Visit our blog to learn more about the differences.

Does Rula offer in-person appointments?

Currently, Rula offers in-person therapy in some states. For those living in other states, there are many benefits to online therapy!

Can Rula help me find a therapist?

Absolutely. Rula’s network of 10,000+ licensed providers represent more than 80 clinical specialties and a diverse range of backgrounds – making it easier to find the care you need. Once you provide us with some basic information, we’ll generate a curated list of in-network therapists who are licensed in your state and accepting new patients. From there, you can filter by what matters most to you and explore individual biographies until you find a match. Ready to get started?

What types of care can I access through Rula?

Providers in Rula’s network specialize in individual therapy, couples therapy, family therapy, and psychiatric care (i.e., medication management).

Who is eligible to access care through Rula?

Individuals aged 5 and older are eligible to receive care in any state where Rula is available.

How will I meet with my therapist?

Rula specializes in online therapy – giving you the flexibility to meet with your therapist from wherever you’re most comfortable. We’ll send you an appointment reminder containing a secure link to your scheduled Zoom session approximately 24 hours before your session.

Connect with Anger Management therapists in Hawaii

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50+ therapists

Keesha Sledge

LCSW

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5+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Keesha Sledge, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Keesha has a Master of Social Work from University of Alabama.

Hawaii

Specialties

Anger Management

Anxiety

Depression

Divorce

Grief

Stress

Style

Insightful

Approachable

Affirming

I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker licensed in the states of Alabama, California, Virginia, Texas, Tennessee, Florida, Hawaii, New Mexico, Arkansas, and Georgia. She has over 10 years of experience working with adults, children, and couples seeking help with depression, relationship issues, anxiety, and major life stressors.

Next appointmentFriday, Oct 2nd

Available virtually

Nikki Dorsey

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LCSW

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17+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Nikki Dorsey, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Nikki has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Arizona State University.

Hawaii

Specialties

Anger Management

Addiction

Sexual Abuse

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Responsive

Warm

Supportive

I work with people navigating trauma, addiction, sexual assault, attachment issues, and relational challenges. My approach is client-centered and solution-focused, meeting you where you are and moving forward from there.

“Because when I talk to her it feels like I’m talking to a best friend.”

Next appointmentFriday, Oct 2nd

Available virtually

Anne-marie Cline

LCSW

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3+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Anne-marie Cline, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Anne-marie has a Master of Social Work (MSW) in Child and Family from University of Hawaii.

Honolulu, HI

Specialties

Anger Management

Anxiety

Depression

Grief

LGBTQIA+

Relationship Issues

Style

Insightful

Attuned

Collaborative

I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker who focuses on supporting individuals in reconnecting with themselves, working through past trauma, and seeing how this may be impacting their present lives, empowering folks to see their potential to heal and move through life in a way that feels authentic for them.

Next appointmentTuesday, Oct 6th

Available virtually

Shahar Groode

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMHC

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2+ years

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Shahar Groode, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Shahar has a Master in Counseling (MC) Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Capella University.

Hawaii

Specialties

Anger Management

Anxiety

Depression

LGBTQIA+

Relationship Issues

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Exploratory

Candid

Collaborative

Aloha! As a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, I believe in fostering a collaborative and supportive environment where we can work together towards your well-being. My background includes a BA in Psychology from Wellesley College and a Master's Degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Capella University.

Next appointmentFriday, Oct 2nd

Available virtually

Tanya Jones

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LCSW

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4+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Tanya Jones, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Tanya has a Doctor of Philosophy (PHD) in Clinical Christian Counseling from Colorado Theological Seminary and a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Rutgers University College, New Brunswick.

Honolulu, HI

Specialties

Anger Management

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Self Esteem

Substance Use

Style

Outcome-oriented

Spiritual

Supportive

I am a military veteran who has been dedicated to helping others reach their potential for over 20 years. In my practice, I utilize evidence-based methods to help my clients overcome life challenges and problematic decision patterns.

“She possesses an open-minded nature and is genuinely kind. She adeptly presents solutions and articulates emotions with great skill.”

Next appointmentMonday, Sep 28th

Available virtually

Rachel Truett

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LMHC

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1+ years

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Rachel Truett, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Rachel has a Masters of Arts (MA) in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from University of the Cumberlands.

Hawaii

Specialties

Anger Management

Career Counseling

Depression

First Responders

Stress

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Responsive

Warm

Collaborative

As a counselor and 18 year active duty military spouse, I understand how demanding and complex life can feel, especially when you’re used to holding a lot together for others. I provide a supportive, real-world space where you can slow down, make sense of what’s going on, and start moving forward with clarity.

Next appointmentWednesday, Sep 30th

Available virtually

Melissa Hoskins

LCSW

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11+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Melissa Hoskins, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Melissa has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from University at Iowa.

Hawaii

Specialties

Anger Management

Anxiety

Coping Skills

Depression

Mood Disorders

Stress

Style

Exploratory

Gentle

Curious

I often use Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Mindfulness, Motivational Interviewing, and Supportive techniques in my practice.

Next appointmentTuesday, Sep 29th

Available virtually

Sonjia Howard

LCSW

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4+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Sonjia Howard, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Sonjia has a Master of Social Work (MSW) in Individuals, Groups, and Families from University of South Carolina College of Social Work 2.

Honolulu, HI

Specialties

Anger Management

Anxiety

Depression

Panic Attacks

Stress

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Insightful

Approachable

Affirming

I am a Board Certified Clinical Social Worker with nearly 25 years of experience providing advanced, independent clinical care. I bring a trauma-informed, evidence-based approach—grounded in EMDR, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and strengths-based practice—shaped by 20 years of active-duty service in the U.S. Army & USPHS.

Next appointmentTuesday, Oct 6th

Available virtually

Joseph Hurtado

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LMHC

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7+ years

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Joseph Hurtado, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Joseph has a Master's in Counseling (MC) in Counseling Psychology from Chaminade University, Hawaii.

Wahiawa, HI

Specialties

Anger Management

Anxiety

Depression

Infidelity

Relationship Issues

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Exploratory

Attuned

Collaborative

Congratulations on beginning this important journey for better mental health in your life. I would love to help you on your journey. I specialize in working with trauma, anxiety, depression, couples counseling, and life transitions. I have experience in working with autism spectrum disorders and behavioral management strategies for parents.

Next appointmentMonday, Oct 5th

Available virtually

Hana Yin

LMFT

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1+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Hana Yin, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Hana has a Master of Arts (MA) in Marriage & Family Therapy Major from NorthCentral University.

Kaneohe, HI

Specialties

Anger Management

Anxiety

Life Transitions

Mood Disorders

Panic Attacks

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Insightful

Approachable

Collaborative

I am a client-centered therapist specializing in NLP, hypnosis, Mindfulness CBT, PTSD, and bereavement.

Next appointmentWednesday, Sep 30th

Available virtually

Dominic Davis

LCSW

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3+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Dominic Davis, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Dominic has a Master of Social Work (MSW) in Mental Health from University of Southern California.

Hawaii

Specialties

Anger Management

Anxiety

Depression

Stress

Substance Use

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Responsive

Approachable

Collaborative

I collaborate with adults, specializing in anxiety, stress, depression, substance use, and couple counseling. My goal is to help you develop a healthy self-image, strengthen relationships, and provide guidance and support to foster growth and resilience.

Next appointmentThursday, Oct 1st

Available virtually

Mary Kay Lowe

LMFT

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9+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Mary Kay Lowe, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Mary Kay has a Master's in Counseling (MC) in Counseling and Psychological Services from Saint Mary's University of Minnesota- Minneapolis.

Hawaii

Specialties

Anger Management

Anxiety

Depression

Relationship Issues

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Outcome-oriented

Candid

Empowering

I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) in Hawaii and Minnesota. I am also an AAMFT Approved Supervisor. I love, love, love working with clients and am passionate about helping clients overcome, heal, and grow from the experiences and challenges they have experienced and continue to experience in their lives.

Next appointmentMonday, Sep 28th

Available virtually

Rose Basilio

LMHC

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8+ years

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Rose Basilio, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Rose has a Master of Science (MS) in Mental Health Counseling from St. Thomas University.

Honolulu, HI

Specialties

Anger Management

Career Counseling

School Issues

Style

Responsive

Candid

Supportive

I am a licensed therapist in both Hawaii (LMHC) and Colorado (LPC). Life can be really challenging at times. We are human, and sometimes need help and support. I look forward to walking with you amidst both your sufferings and wins.

Next appointmentTuesday, Sep 29th

Available virtually

Ahi Johnson

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LMFT

•

1+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Ahi Johnson, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Ahi has a Master of Arts (MA) in Culture & Spirituality from Holy Names College and a Master of Arts (MA) in Counseling Psychology from Argosy University.

Honolulu, HI

Specialties

Anger Management

Anxiety

Depression

Grief

Life Transitions

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Outcome-oriented

Candid

Collaborative

I work with adults, couples, and families navigating grief and loss, communication challenges, and trauma. Together, we'll create space for healing and growth.

Next appointmentThursday, Oct 22nd

Available virtually

Robert Gernenz

LMHC

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5+ years

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Robert Gernenz, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Robert has a Master of Arts (MA) in Professional Counseling from Liberty University.

Haleiwa, HI

Specialties

Anger Management

Anxiety

Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)

Style

Outcome-oriented

Candid

Supportive

My approach is to meet you where you are and help create better tomorrows through Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). It is my hope to be of service to others in helping them achieve therapeutic goals in areas like couples communication and connection, and individual work in areas like anger, anxiety, OCD, and other areas of opportunity.

Next appointmentMonday, Oct 5th

Available virtually

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“I encourage clients to shift their perspective by recognizing that anger is often a protective response to unresolved trauma, and learning to process and express it can be a key step in healing and regaining control.”

– Brandy Chalmers, LPC

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“Anger can often feel more accessible than other emotions because it offers a sense of control, while emotions like fear or sadness often bring vulnerability. In therapy, people can safely explore what’s underneath their anger and begin to understand the deeper feelings driving it. This process builds emotional awareness and helps create healthier, more empowered ways to respond.”

– Ashley Ayala, LMFT

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“As a therapist, I often remind patients that anger is a natural and valid emotion — it’s not the feeling itself but how we express it that matters. A helpful shift is viewing anger as a signal, not a flaw. It can highlight unmet needs or crossed boundaries worth exploring in therapy. When we welcome anger with curiosity instead of guilt, we open the door to healing and self-understanding.”

– Ashley Ayala, LMFT

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Understanding online therapy for anger management

Anger management and its role in daily life

Anger is a natural emotion, but frequent or intense feelings of anger can have a negative impact on your relationships, work, and overall well-being. Effective anger management is crucial for maintaining healthy interactions and emotional balance. The goal of anger management is to help you recognize and control anger triggers before they escalate so you can express anger in healthy, non-destructive ways.

The importance of therapy in managing anger

Therapy plays a key role in understanding and managing anger. Professional therapists can help you identify the underlying causes of your anger and develop strategies to respond to anger triggers more constructively. Addressing anger through therapy can prevent it from negatively impacting your life and relationships. It can also promote emotional growth, improved communication skills, and better stress management.

Common therapeutic approaches for anger management

Therapists can use various methods to help manage anger effectively. For example:

Advantages of online therapy for anger management

Online therapy can offer accessibility, convenience, and a comfortable setting for people seeking help with anger management. It removes the need for travel, making it easier to fit therapy sessions into a busy schedule. The privacy of attending sessions from home can also make it easier to discuss sensitive issues and emotions, fostering a more open and effective therapeutic experience.

Tips for choosing an anger management therapist

Look for a therapist trained in anger management and experienced with specific issues you may struggle with. When searching for a therapist, keep the following in mind:

FAQs about anger management therapy and therapists

When should I seek therapy for anger management?

Consider therapy if your anger is difficult to control, leads to regrettable actions, or negatively affects your relationships and work. Signs that you may benefit from anger management include:

Therapy can provide strategies to recognize and manage anger effectively, improving interactions and emotional health.

What is the typical duration of anger management therapy?

The length of anger management therapy depends on your specific needs and progress. It can range from short-term interventions focusing on immediate anger management techniques to long-term therapy that addresses deeper emotional issues. Ongoing assessments with your therapist can help tailor the therapy to your evolving needs.

What to expect during your first anger management therapy session?

In the first session, your therapist typically discusses your history with anger, your triggers, specific incidents that concern you, and how anger impacts your life. This conversation helps set the stage for understanding your specific challenges with anger and to begin exploring healthy coping mechanisms and outlets for frustrations. You may learn about the therapist's approach and establish the groundwork for a trusting therapeutic relationship.

How to find a qualified therapist for anger management?

A qualified anger management therapist should have relevant training and a license to practice in your state. Look for therapists with experience in anger management and check for any additional certifications or specialized training in effective anger management techniques.

Does insurance cover anger management therapy sessions?

Insurance coverage for anger management therapy varies. After you've booked your first session, Rula verifies your insurance coverage and follows up with a cost estimate, including any required copayments.

Is anger management therapy available online?

Yes, anger management therapy can be conducted online, offering a flexible and private way to get help. Online therapy can provide the benefits of in-person therapy while accommodating your lifestyle and personal needs.

Connect with Anger Management therapists in Hawaii

Quality care comes first at Rula

Keesha Sledge

Nikki Dorsey

Anne-marie Cline

Shahar Groode

Tanya Jones

Rachel Truett

Melissa Hoskins

Sonjia Howard

Joseph Hurtado

Hana Yin

Dominic Davis

Mary Kay Lowe

Rose Basilio

Ahi Johnson

Robert Gernenz

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Hundreds of thousands of patients have found affordable, in-network mental health care with Rula

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98%

Progress

93%

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