How to find the right therapist in Cary, NC

When choosing a therapist in Cary, NC, it's best to reflect on what you’re looking for and ask yourself which of the following criteria are most important to you: Do they accept your insurance? Do you need a therapist who specializes in a specific mental health concern such as depression, anxiety, or trauma? Are you looking for someone to work with you individually? Or are you looking for someone to support you as a couple or family? Would you be more comfortable partnering with a therapist of a certain race, gender expression, sexual orientation, religious, or cultural background?

Can I use my insurance?

Yes! Therapists on the Rula platform are in-network with most major insurance plans. Rula patients typically pay $15 per session, although your individual cost may vary based on your insurance benefits and deductible. We’ll work with your insurance to confirm your estimated per-session cost before your first appointment. Ready to get started? Click here to browse available therapists who accept your insurance.

How do I know if therapy is right for me?

There’s no right or wrong reason to start therapy. Whether you’re seeking help navigating a life transition or managing symptoms of anxiety or depression, therapy is an effective treatment for many types of concerns – all you need is an open mind and a general sense of what you’d like to explore with a therapist. Still unsure? Head to our blog to learn more.

How soon can I meet with a therapist?

Therapists in Rula’s network are available to meet as soon as tomorrow. Click here to explore therapists and book your first session in minutes.

What should I consider when choosing a therapist?

It depends on your personal preferences and goals. Whether you’re seeking a therapist who specializes in certain mental health conditions, shares your ethnic background, or is available to meet at your preferred time – Rula makes it easy to search and filter by what matters most to you. If you don’t feel like your first choice was a match, don’t worry – we’ll help you switch to a different therapist in our network. Check out our blog post for more pointers on finding your best-fit therapist.

How do I know if I need therapy or psychiatry?

If you’re experiencing severe symptoms that interfere with your daily functioning, you may want to consider starting with a psychiatric provider who can assess your needs and prescribe medication if deemed necessary. If your symptoms are mild or moderate, therapy may be a better starting point. No matter where you begin your journey – your provider will work with you to develop a personalized treatment plan that’s based on your individual needs and concerns. Still unsure? Visit our blog to learn more about the differences.

Does Rula offer in-person appointments?

Currently, Rula offers in-person therapy in some states. For those living in other states, there are many benefits to online therapy!

Can Rula help me find a therapist?

Absolutely. Rula’s network of 10,000+ licensed providers represent more than 80 clinical specialties and a diverse range of backgrounds – making it easier to find the care you need. Once you provide us with some basic information, we’ll generate a curated list of in-network therapists who are licensed in your state and accepting new patients. From there, you can filter by what matters most to you and explore individual biographies until you find a match. Ready to get started?

What types of care can I access through Rula?

Providers in Rula’s network specialize in individual therapy, couples therapy, family therapy, and psychiatric care (i.e., medication management).

Who is eligible to access care through Rula?

Individuals aged 5 and older are eligible to receive care in any state where Rula is available.

How will I meet with my therapist?

Rula specializes in online therapy – giving you the flexibility to meet with your therapist from wherever you’re most comfortable. We’ll send you an appointment reminder containing a secure link to your scheduled Zoom session approximately 24 hours before your session.

Connect with Grief therapists in Cary, NC

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We regularly review providers to ensure quality

40 therapists

Jasmine Mackey

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW

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1+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Jasmine Mackey, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Jasmine has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from University of Tennessee At Knoxville.

North Carolina

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Mood Disorders

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Outcome-oriented

Gentle

Motivational

My expertise includes working with clients who present with depression, trauma, anxiety, a lack of life skills, and a myriad of other challenges.

Next appointmentThursday, Oct 1st

Available virtually

Tony McKee

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW

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20+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Tony McKee, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Tony has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from East Carolina School of Social Work and a Master of Divinity (MDIV) in Pastoral Counseling from Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary.

Greenville, NC

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Stress

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Practical

Spiritual

Supportive

Congratulations on taking this step toward increased health, awareness, and growth. It takes courage to share, and I appreciate your initiative to better yourself.

Next appointmentTuesday, Sep 29th

Available virtually

Christopher Hart

LCSW

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4+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Christopher Hart, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Christopher has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Western Carolina University.

North Carolina

Specialties

Grief

Addiction

Anxiety

Depression

Relationship Issues

Substance Use

Style

Exploratory

Candid

Curious

Reaching out for help is a courageous step. Whatever you're facing—anxiety, stress, relationship struggles, or feeling stuck—I'm here to help. I specialize in helping individuals navigate anxiety, depression, trauma, and substance use disorder. You don't have to face these challenges alone.

Next appointmentFriday, Oct 9th

Available virtually

Robbyn Schlueter

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LCMHC

Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselors (LCMHCs), like Robbyn Schlueter, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Robbyn has a Master's in Counseling (MC) in Community Counseling and Development from Winthrop University.

North Carolina

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Divorce

Family Conflict

Women's Issues

Style

Exploratory

Warm

Affirming

If you’re overwhelmed, stuck, or tired of carrying everything alone, you’re not broken—you’re ready for change. I offer a real, inclusive, judgment-free space where you can tell your story and rewrite the parts that no longer serve you. If you’re ready to shift your narrative and step into who you’re becoming, I’m here to walk with you.

Next appointmentThursday, Oct 1st

Available virtually

Laura Clayton

LMFT

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2+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Laura Clayton, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Laura has a Master of Science (MS) in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Walden University.

North Carolina

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Behavioral Issues

Depression

Style

Exploratory

Attuned

Motivational

By looking at both conscious and unconscious beliefs, you can choose more adaptive beliefs and combine them with new behaviors, which creates a whole new reality. I also understand how past traumas impact how you approach the present moment, and I will address these root issues.

Next appointmentWednesday, Sep 30th

Available virtually

Shanika Wilson

LCSW

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16+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Shanika Wilson, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Shanika has a Doctor of Social Work (DSW) from University of Tennessee At Knoxville and a Master of Social Work (MSW) Clinical Pracrice and Leadersihp from University of Wisconsin-Madison.

North Carolina

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Relationship Issues

Women's Issues

Style

Outcome-oriented

Attuned

Empowering

I'm a licensed clinical social worker and licensed clinical addictions specialist in North Carolina. I am also able to see clients in South Carolina and Delaware. I provide telehealth therapy for adults dealing with depression, anxiety, trauma, and the exhaustion that comes from carrying too much.

Next appointmentMonday, Sep 28th

Available virtually

Stacey Hellow

LCSW

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15+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Stacey Hellow, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Stacey has a Doctor of Philosophy (PHD) in Psychology from Capella University and a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Barry University.

North Carolina

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Family Conflict

First Responders

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Outcome-oriented

Attuned

Collaborative

I have a LCSW with a PhD in Psychology. I have over 30 years experience working with individuals, groups and families from ages 2-100. My background is in the criminal justice/family court arena, as well as hospice and mental health facilities. I have certifications in trauma, grief/loss, maternal health, play therapy, EMDR and crsis response.

Next appointmentMonday, Oct 5th

Available virtually

Ashley Witherspoon

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW

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14+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Ashley Witherspoon, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Ashley has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from University of South Carolina and a Bachelor of Science (BS) in Criminal Justice from North Carolina Agricultural & Technical State University.

Durham, NC

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Parenting

Stress

Style

Outcome-oriented

Warm

Collaborative

I am dedicated to facilitating a safe space to help clarify your goals and values.

Next appointmentTuesday, Oct 6th

Available virtually

Ava Baker

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LCMHC

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6+ years

Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselors (LCMHCs), like Ava Baker, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Ava has a Master of Science (MS) from Grand Canyon University.

Raleigh, NC

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

LGBTQIA+

Life Transitions

Style

Outcome-oriented

Attuned

Supportive

I recognize that starting therapy can be difficult. Congratulations on taking this first step. I believe everyone can gain control of their life, manage stressors, and reach out for help when needed. I work with adolescents and adults dealing with life transitions, anxiety, depression, and grief.

Next appointmentMonday, Sep 28th

Available virtually

Amber Turlik

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW

•

6+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Amber Turlik, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Amber has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from University of North Carolina at Wilmington and a Master of Arts (MA) from Marist College.

Wilmington, NC

Specialties

Grief

Addiction

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Style

Outcome-oriented

Warm

Affirming

I've dedicated my life to helping others define and create the life they want. I believe achieving mental health is like a three-legged stool: affirming thoughts, behaviors, and actions working together. My holistic approach combines therapy with wellness to support your journey toward balance and fulfillment.

Next appointmentMonday, Oct 5th

Available virtually

Denetra Gary

LCSW

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12+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Denetra Gary, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Denetra has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Howard University.

North Carolina

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Women's Issues

Style

Directive

Spiritual

Empowering

I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker who integrates clinical therapy with a Christian worldview. I help adults navigate anxiety, depression, and relational challenges while building emotional stability, healthy identity, and spiritual growth for clients who desire faith-based support.

Next appointmentTuesday, Sep 29th

Available virtually

Sasha Johnson

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LCMHC

•

7+ years

Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselors (LCMHCs), like Sasha Johnson, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Sasha has a Master's in Counseling (MC) in Mental Health Counseling from Capella University.

North Carolina

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Outcome-oriented

Warm

Supportive

I am a Cognitive Behavioral Therapist who focuses on the person. Thinking outside the box is of great importance to help in all types of situations.

Next appointmentFriday, Oct 2nd

Available virtually

Stefanie Butcher

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW

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1+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Stefanie Butcher, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Stefanie has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Walden University.

North Carolina

Specialties

Grief

Addiction

Alcohol Use

Anxiety

Depression

Style

Responsive

Gentle

Supportive

I am an independent licensed social worker in clinical practice. My previous work experience has been in mental health in the community and the prison system. I have also worked in a hospice providing grief counseling.

Next appointmentThursday, Oct 8th

Available virtually

Pamala Love

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LCSW

•

18+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Pamala Love, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Pamala has a Doctor of Philosophy (PHD) from Capella University and a Master of Social Work (MSW) in Behavioral Health from New York University.

North Carolina

Specialties

Grief

Relationship Issues

Suicidal Ideation

Style

Practical

Attuned

Collaborative

I utilize my skills both in the U.S. and abroad for the Department of Defense, Veterans Administration, and in private practice. I work with individuals, families, and communities to create meaningful change.

“She is understanding, patient, helpful, kind, and the perfect choice for me when it came to choosing a therapist.”

Next appointmentThursday, Oct 22nd

Available virtually

Natalie O'Dell

LMFT

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5+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Natalie O'Dell, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Natalie has a Master of Science (MS) in Marriage and Family Therapy from Valdosta State University.

North Carolina

Specialties

Grief

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Exploratory

Warm

Collaborative

I work with individuals, couples, families, and children navigating relationship challenges, family dynamics, and emotional struggles.

Next appointmentMonday, Oct 5th

Available virtually

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After you select a provider, we’ll send you a personalized cost estimate before your first session—so you’ll know what to expect.

$15 / session

typical cost patients pay through Rula

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After you select a provider, we’ll send you a personalized cost estimate before your first session—so you’ll know what to expect.

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140M total lives covered

Millions of sessions completed

Network

We hold providers to high clinical standards so you can trust the care you receive.

15,000+

licensed providers

Match

The right provider makes all the difference. We help you find someone who truly fits your needs—the first time.

98%

of searches result in an exact match

Progress

Care should make a difference. Our approach helps you track progress you can feel.

93%

of patients report feeling better after treatment through Rula

Additional therapy specialties and modalities

EMDR DBT Psychiatry

Couples therapy Child therapy Grief counseling Psychodynamic therapy

Sex therapy Family counseling Borderline personality Cognitive behavioral (CBT)

Exploring online therapy for grief

Grief and its impact on life

Grief is a natural response to loss, often felt deeply when we lose someone or something important to us. It can manifest in various ways, including sadness, anger, confusion, and a sense of isolation. Grief can significantly impact daily life, affecting one’s ability to function in personal and professional settings. Navigating through grief is a deeply personal process and can be critical for emotional healing and moving forward.

The importance of therapy for grief

Engaging with a grief therapist can be helpful for those struggling with loss. Therapists specializing in grief can provide support and understanding, helping you to process complex emotions and cope with the pain of loss. Therapy can offer a safe space to explore feelings of grief, learn to adjust to life after loss, and develop strategies for healing and finding a new sense of normalcy.

Effective therapeutic approaches for grief

Various therapeutic methods can be effective in supporting people through grief:

Advantages of online therapy for grief

Online grief therapy offers several practical benefits. It can be accessible and convenient, allowing you to connect with therapists from the comfort and privacy of your own home, providing a secure space to openly discuss and process your feelings during such a sensitive and personal time. The sessions are flexible and can be scheduled according to your needs, accommodating the unpredictable nature of grief.

Tips for choosing the right grief therapist

FAQs about grief therapy and therapists

When to seek a grief therapist?

Consider seeking a grief therapist if your grief feels overwhelming, is affecting your ability to carry on with daily activities, or if you're struggling to move forward. Common signs include persistent sadness, inability to enjoy life, or feeling stuck in your grief. Therapy can provide a guided pathway through the grieving process, helping you to cope with the loss and a renewed sense of purpose.

What is the typical duration of therapy for grief?

The length of grief therapy varies for each person, depending on the nature of the loss and personal coping mechanisms. Some may find short-term therapy beneficial, while others might engage in longer-term support. Grief therapy is often flexible, with the therapist adapting to your changing needs over time.

What to expect in your first grief therapy session?

In the first session, you'll likely share your story of loss and discuss how it’s impacting your life. Your therapist should listen empathetically, ask questions, and work toward establishing a supportive and understanding relationship. This session sets the foundation for your grief therapy journey.

How to find a qualified therapist for grief?

A qualified therapist for grief should have specialized training in grief counseling or therapy. Look for therapists with experience in dealing with your specific situation, and credentials in therapies you’d like to explore.

Does insurance cover grief therapy sessions?

Insurance coverage for grief therapy can vary. After you've booked your first session, Rula verifies your insurance coverage and follows up with a cost estimate, including any required copayments.

Can grief therapy be conducted online?

Yes, grief therapy can be effectively conducted online. It offers a flexible and accessible option, allowing you to receive support in a setting that feels most comfortable for you, especially during a time of mourning. Therapy techniques can be adapted for virtual sessions, ensuring you receive care tailored to your needs and recovery journey.

Connect with Grief therapists in Cary, NC

Quality care comes first at Rula

Jasmine Mackey

Tony McKee

Christopher Hart

Robbyn Schlueter

Laura Clayton

Shanika Wilson

Stacey Hellow

Ashley Witherspoon

Ava Baker

Amber Turlik

Denetra Gary

Sasha Johnson

Stefanie Butcher

Pamala Love

Natalie O'Dell

Hundreds of thousands of patients have found affordable, in-network mental health care with Rula

Insurance

$15 / session

Network

15,000+

Match

98%

Progress

93%

Additional therapy specialties and modalities

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