Onaje Smartt, LMFT — Therapist in California

Hi there, I'm Onaje!

I help people connect on deeper levels, communicate effectively, and solve problems with positive tools. I believe that every relationship is worth fighting for, and I'm here to help you do just that.

My focus

I work with couples struggling with communication, conflict resolution, intimacy, and trust. I also work with individuals facing issues around sex, relationships, anxiety, depression, and self-esteem. I'm comfortable addressing difficult topics like cheating, divorce, non-monogamy, and falling out of love.

My approach

I use an integrative approach, drawing from different methods to tailor treatment to your specific needs. My goal is to help you understand and address the underlying issues causing problems so you can create a more satisfying connection. Together, we develop strategies for change using techniques that work best for you.

My communication style

I meet you where you are and create a warm, supportive, non-judgmental space where you can be yourself. Some clients need a coach who keeps them accountable with homework and tools; others need a calm space to reflect and heal from trauma. I adjust by checking in and working on our therapeutic relationship.

My journey to mental healthcare

I've always been fascinated by relationships and how they work. I'm driven to help people have successful relationships because I believe everyone deserves love, support, and companionship. I'm passionate about providing a safe space to talk about relationships, even when dealing with difficult issues.

My goals for you

I assign homework each week that ties our last session to your overall goals. We use the tools from session to create new cycles of behaviors, thoughts, and emotions.

Our first session

During our first session, expect a safe environment where you can begin the healing process. We'll take things slow and build our way up toward your goals.

I identify as...

Male
Black or African American
Spiritual

Expertise

Specialties

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Treatment approaches

Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)

Attachment-based

Internal Family Systems (IFS)

Music Therapy

Sex Therapy

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Focus populations

BIPOC

First Generation American/Immigrant Parents

LGBTQIA+

Open Relationships/Non-Monogamy

Sex Worker

Sex-Positive/Kink

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Therapy types

Individual Therapy
Couples Therapy

Ages served

Adults

Practice

Accepted insurance providers

Aetna
All Savers
Allegiance
Allied
Anthem

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Languages spoken

English

Education

Master of Science (MS) in Counseling from Marriage and Family Therapy - Northwestern University.

Sessions

60 minutes

Virtual sessions

Onaje Smartt