Zoe Kunstenaar

My communication style

My communication style is clear, engaged, and highly responsive to what clients want and need from therapy. I ask practical questions, track goals closely, and focus on helping people create meaningful change. I also bring emotional presence and depth—I care deeply about my clients, and I don’t hide that.

My journey to mental healthcare

I came to psychotherapy through a lifelong drive to understand people—from how early experiences shape identity and relational patterns, to how attachment and trauma impact the nervous system. As a young adult, I experienced EMDR firsthand; it helped me move through trauma that had felt immovable. That freedom gave me clarity.

My goals for you

We collaborate to identify goals that are meaningful to you, not just symptom relief. I often work with parts of self to uncover internal conflicts and strengthen protective and nurturing resources, using EMDR and DNMS to support regulation and change. Progress may show up as greater emotional stability and stronger self-connection.

Our first session

Our first session is an open, low-pressure space where you can share as much as feels right. We’ll begin by getting to know one another: you’re welcome to ask about how I work, and I’ll invite you to tell me what brings you to therapy. That might include what’s been bothering you, what you’d like to change, or what goals you’re hoping to define.

I identify as...

• Female
• Caucasian or White
• Buddhist, Interfaith, Jewish, Non-denominational, Pagan, Wiccan