Connect with Male therapists in Costa Mesa, CA

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Jeffrey Kullmann

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LCSW
37+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Jeffrey Kullmann, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Jeffrey has a Master of Social Work (MSW) in Mental Health from San Diego State University.

Huntington Beach, CA
Specialties
Addiction
Anger Management
Anxiety
Mood Disorders
Stress
Style
Directive
Approachable
Motivational

Everyone who seeks Therapy has one or more of these challenges: Problems - Issues - Concerns. Therapy allows you to Clarify and Define the Challenges. And the therapeutic process supports you in making changes either within yourself, with your relationships with others or resolving issues that are related to your concerns outside your control.

Available virtually and in person

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Mark Gery

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LMFT
30+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Mark Gery, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Mark has a Master of Arts from California Institute of Integral Studies.

Fountain Valley, CA
Specialties
Depression
Family Conflict
Parenting
Personality Disorders
Relationship Issues
Style
Insightful
Approachable
Supportive

For live appointments, client's come about 10 minutes early and then take the elevator up to the third-floor lobby, where they sit down and fill out a one page information sheet. At the given appointment time, I will come down the hallway and greet you and then we go to my small, confidential office to talk. For online appointments, I use Zoom.

Available virtually and in person

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Victor Buechler

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT
9+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Victor Buechler, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Victor has a Master in Counseling (MC) School from Based Family Counseling - California State University, Los Angeles.

California
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Mood Disorders
Stress
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Exploratory
Candid
Motivational

I'm Victor Buechler (pronounced 'bewkler'). I see my role as being the facilitator of your change, the witness to your growth, and the temporary container for your pain. I work best with individuals who are looking for insight and solutions to overcome the barriers of their depression, anxiety, or other challenges.

Available virtually

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Mark Howerton

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT
18+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Mark Howerton, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Mark has a Master of Science (MS) from California State University, Fullerton.

Costa Mesa, CA
Specialties
ADHD
Anxiety
Depression
Men's Issues
Relationship Issues
Style
Practical
Warm
Motivational

My therapy is personally customized for who you are and what you're working through. It's called 'client-centered' therapy.

Available virtually

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Carlo Dominic Medina

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW
8+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Carlo Dominic Medina, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Carlo Dominic has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Simmons College.

Costa Mesa, CA
Specialties
ADHD
Anxiety
Depression
Relationship Issues
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Exploratory
Approachable
Curious

Finding the right therapist can feel overwhelming, but you don't have to face life's challenges alone. My goal is to create a safe, relaxed, and supportive environment where you feel heard, understood, and empowered to make meaningful changes.

Available virtually

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Zephon Lister

LMFT
17+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Zephon Lister, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

All Rula providers are licensed and hold a master’s or doctorate degree required for practice.

California
Specialties
Chronic Illness
Relationship Issues
Spirituality
Stress
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Responsive
Approachable
Collaborative

Life can feel overwhelming when anxiety, stress, relationship challenges, or life transitions leave you feeling stuck or disconnected. I offer a supportive, nonjudgmental space to explore what you’re experiencing, recognize patterns, and create meaningful change that helps you feel more empowered to shape the life and relationships you want.

Available virtually

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William McMahon

Recognized for high quality patient care

LPCC
3+ years

Licensed Professional Clinical Counselors (LPCCs), like William McMahon, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

William has a Bachelor of Science (BS) Liberal Studies from University of Scranton.

San Marcos, CA
Specialties
Addiction
Anxiety
Depression
Grief
Relationship Issues
Style
Directive
Gentle
Collaborative

Beginning therapy can be a big step. I congratulate you on starting your journey. I specialize in working with individuals navigating life through anxiety, depression, addiction, and grief. I take a client-centered approach, and I'm here to provide a safe and supportive environment where you can be yourself.

Available virtually

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Andrew Spaulding

LMFT
26+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Andrew Spaulding, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Andrew has a Master of Science (MS) from California State University East Bay.

El Dorado Hills, CA
Specialties
Anxiety
Family Conflict
Grief
Older Adult
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Outcome-oriented
Approachable
Empowering

I am excited to be joining the Rula team and look forward to meeting with you to see if we are a good fit given your emotional and relational needs, goals, and preferences. My specialty areas include trauma treatment, grief and loss, recovering from abuse, professional and relationship coaching, and working with children, youths, and parents.

Available virtually

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Daniel Weil

LMFT
12+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Daniel Weil, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Daniel has a Masters of Arts (MA) in Thereapist/Drama Therapy from California Institute of Integral Studies.

California
Specialties
Coping Skills
Family Conflict
Life Transitions
Parenting
Relationship Issues
Style
Insightful
Approachable
Affirming

I have over two decades of experience working in mental health, the last 10 as a therapist. I blends drama therapy embodiment techniques and mindfulness with talk therapy. I believe that therapy and healing work best when paired with creativity and connection.

Available virtually

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Colin Ebeling

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Colin Ebeling, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Colin has a Masters of Arts (MA) Counseling Psychology from Emphasis in MFT - Pacifica Graduate Institute.

California
Specialties
Adoption
Anxiety
Depression
Grief
LGBTQIA+
Style
Exploratory
Warm
Affirming

You don’t have to have everything figured out before reaching out. I help adults navigate anxiety, depression, grief, relationships, identity, and life transitions with warmth and curiosity. Together, we’ll explore the patterns shaping your life and help you feel more grounded, connected, and fully yourself.

Available virtually

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Reynaldo Manalo

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT
6+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Reynaldo Manalo, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Reynaldo has a Master in Counseling (MC) from California State University, Fresno.

Fresno, CA
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Life Transitions
Stress
Suicidal Ideation
Style
Outcome-oriented
Approachable
Collaborative

Therapy is a wonderful way to begin your journey to create change in your life. Whether this change is to process experiences or something specific for your needs, I am here to work with you. My therapy stance integrates Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy and Post Modern Therapy, as each person's journey is unique.

Available virtually

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James Armour

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like James Armour, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

James has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from California Baptist College.

California
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Panic Attacks
Substance Use
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Practical
Approachable
Empowering

I am a licensed clinical social worker with 3 years of experience providing psychotherapy to all ages. My expertise is working with individuals experiencing depression, anxiety, and panic attacks. I ensure the services I provide are not only practical but fun and aligned with your goals.

Available virtually

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Joseph Garcia

LMFT
3+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Joseph Garcia, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Joseph has a Master of Arts (MA) in Marriage and Family Therapist from Touro University Worldwide.

California
Specialties
Addiction
Autism or Asperger's Syndrome
Career Counseling
Parenting
jobStress
Style
Outcome-oriented
Approachable
Collaborative

I’m a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist dedicated to providing a supportive, respectful, and nonjudgmental space where clients can feel heard and understood. My approach is collaborative and practical, helping individuals navigate life challenges, strengthen coping skills, and improve relationships.

Available virtually

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Fernando Huerta-Perez

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Fernando Huerta-Perez, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Fernando has a Masters of Arts (MA) in Marriage & Family Therapist from Alliant International University, Fresno.

Bakersfield, CA
Specialties
Anger Management
Anxiety
Depression
Parenting
Suicidal Ideation
Style
Insightful
Approachable
Collaborative

I am passionate about helping people work through life's challenges and achieve meaningful personal growth. I strive to provide a supportive, compassionate environment where clients feel heard, understood, and empowered. My goal is to help individuals overcome obstacles, build on their strengths, and become the best versions of themselves.

Available virtually

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Jauron James

LCSW
2+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Jauron James, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Jauron has a Master of Social Work from University of Southern California.

Twentynine Palms, CA
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Relationship Issues
Spirituality
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Exploratory
Spiritual
Affirming

I’m passionate about helping people restore healing, hope, and emotional well-being. I’m energetic, down-to-earth, and committed to supporting you through life’s challenges. Together, we’ll create a safe space to heal, grow, and move forward with confidence.

Available virtually

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Hilario Martinez

LMFT
5+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Hilario Martinez, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Hilario has a Master of Arts (MA) in Marriage and Family Therapy from Pacific Oaks College.

California
Specialties
Anger Management
Anxiety
Depression
First Responders
Stress
Style
Exploratory
Approachable
Collaborative

I am a Marriage and Family Therapist with a specialization in Trauma. I studied at CSULA and at Pacific Oaks University. I am compassionate, empathetic, can be humorous, and love the Lakers/Basketball. I love what I do, and I am a strong believer in that, "mental health matters".

Available virtually

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Phil Tardanico

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW
10+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Phil Tardanico, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Phil has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Eastern Washington University.

California
Specialties
Anxiety
Behavioral Issues
Depression
Mood Disorders
Relationship Issues
Style
Exploratory
Candid
Curious

I have 24+ years of experience in child welfare, court systems, and substance use, helping children, families, and adults. I help clients build coping skills, manage stress and emotions, and navigate life with practical, real-world support.

Available virtually

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Brad Benedict

LMFT
15+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Brad Benedict, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

All Rula providers are licensed and hold a master’s or doctorate degree required for practice.

California
Specialties
Infidelity
Men's Issues
Relationship Issues
Spirituality
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Directive
Approachable
Collaborative

I was there, too. There was a time when I was extremely lost in life. But therapy changed the direction of my life forever. Because I went through it, I will get you through it, too. Whether you’re coming to me for personal growth, relationship struggles, or healing from trauma through EMDR, we can work together to get you past the problem.

Available virtually

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Miguel Rodriguez

LCSW
13+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Miguel Rodriguez, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Miguel has a Master of Social Work (MSW) in Social Welfare from University of California, Los Angeles.

California
Specialties
Anxiety
Cultural Stress
Depression
Parenting
Stress
Style
Insightful
Approachable
Collaborative

Life can feel overwhelming, and asking for help is not always easy. Whether you are feeling stuck, struggling in relationships, facing a major transition, or simply looking for support, you do not have to navigate it alone. I would be honored to work alongside you as you move toward greater clarity, healing, and growth.

Available virtually

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Arthur Zinke

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT
13+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Arthur Zinke, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Arthur has a Doctor of Philosophy (PHD) in Family Studies from Loma Linda University and a Master of Science (MS) in Marital and Family Therapy from Loma Linda University.

Redlands, CA
Specialties
Anxiety
Career Counseling
Depression
Grief
Relationship Issues
Style
Outcome-oriented
Candid
Motivational

My approach to therapy is open, honest, relaxed, encouraging, and educational. I enjoy empowering clients to meet their goals and get the most out of their lives.

Available virtually

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Craig Meisner

LMFT
12+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Craig Meisner, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Craig has a Master of Science (MS) in Marriage and Family Therapy from University of Phoenix.

San Clemente, CA
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)
Relationship Issues
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Exploratory
Warm
Curious

Feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or distressed? I help clients discover and navigate the path to recovery, renewed strength, and healing from stressed relationships and issues surrounding mental health.

Available virtually

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William Larkin

LCSW
7+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like William Larkin, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

William has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from California State University, Fullerton.

California
Specialties
Anxiety
Divorce
Life Transitions
Panic Attacks
Relationship Issues
Style
Exploratory
Approachable
Supportive

I am a licensed psychotherapist that believes therapy should feel like a genuine conversation, not an interview. My goal is to create a space where you can be honest, understood, and challenged in ways that help you move forward. Together, we'll help you build a life that feels more meaningful and manageable.

Available virtually

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Theodore Atwood

LMFT
10+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Theodore Atwood, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Theodore has a Master in Counseling (MC) from California Institute of Integral Studies.

California
Specialties
Addiction
Anxiety
Depression
Relationship Issues
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Responsive
Warm
Affirming

I am a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, #126521, in California. I believe in the value of building a trusting and safe therapeutic relationship to tap into your internal strength, self-expertise, and self-expression to promote growth and support healing.

Available virtually

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James Norris

LPCC
10+ years

Licensed Professional Clinical Counselors (LPCCs), like James Norris, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

James has a Doctor of Philosophy (PHD) in Counselor Education and Supervision from University of the Cumberland and a Master of Arts (MA) in Psychology from Seattle University.

California
Specialties
Anxiety
Cultural Stress
Depression
Men's Issues
Racial Identity
Style
Exploratory
Approachable
Collaborative

I aim to improve overall mental, emotional, and physical health through a customized approach tailored to each individual's needs.

Available virtually

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Teng Vang

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LMFT
7+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Teng Vang, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Teng has a Master in Counseling (MC) from University of Phoenix.

California
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Mood Disorders
Stress
Style
Directive
Gentle
Motivational

If you're feeling stuck in life or overwhelmed by various situations, you're not alone. I have helped clients navigate life's challenges, transitions, self-doubt, and other changes with respect and compassion. My goal is to meet you where you are and support you in increasing your confidence so you can move forward in your life.

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