Connect with Borderline Personality therapists in San Jose, CA

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Michelle Ho

LMFT
10+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Michelle Ho, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Michelle has a Master's in Counseling (MC) in clinical psychology from University of San Francisco.

California
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Addiction
Relationship Issues
Substance Use
Style
Outcome-oriented
Attuned
Motivational

My areas of specialty are family, individual, and couples therapy. I also have extensive experience with addiction therapy and working with individuals who have substance use disorders and other co-occurring disorders.

Available virtually

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Judith Stout

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LMFT
4+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Judith Stout, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Judith has a Master's in Counseling (MC) from John F Kennedy University.

San Jose, CA
Specialties
Borderline Personality
ADHD
Anxiety
Depression
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Exploratory
Candid
Collaborative

Therapy is about helping you become your true, authentic self. I work with clients overcoming childhood trauma, PTSD, anxiety, and depression, as well as those coping with life transitions and events. My goal is to create a space where you feel seen, heard, and understood as you heal and grow.

Available virtually

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David Chicoine

Patients consistently give high satisfaction ratings

LMFT
14+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like David Chicoine, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

David has a Master of Arts (MA) in Counseling Psychology from Santa Clara University.

San Jose, CA
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Anxiety
Depression
Style
Directive
Warm
Collaborative

I'm a licensed therapist in California with over 20 years of experience helping people with various concerns, including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, parenting problems, career challenges, OCD, and ADHD. I also have expertise in working with clients who have experienced physical trauma or emotional abuse.

Dave has been a wonderful therapist. He listens well and reflects what he’s hearing back while adding helpful tips and ideas. I end the session with something to work on, and he’s a pleasure to talk to! A year ago, I was severely stuck mentally. I was burnt out from a job, my marriage, my family, and I felt alone and angry. I’ve done therapy before, but things never got fully resolved—just band-aided—until I hit another wall. This time, I’m sticking with Dave, and my life so far has been changing drastically for the better. So, thank you, Dave!

Available virtually

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Tulare Mott

LCSW
13+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Tulare Mott, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Tulare has a Master of Social Work from San Diego State University.

California
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Autism or Asperger's Syndrome
Behavioral Issues
Developmental Disorders
Parenting
Stress
Style
Outcome-oriented
Approachable
Collaborative

Feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or unsure how to move forward? I help adults navigate anxiety, stress, life transitions, and difficult emotional or behavioral patterns through a compassionate and practical approach. If you’re seeking greater clarity, confidence, and balance, I invite you to reach out.

Available virtually

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David Carrasco

LCSW
5+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like David Carrasco, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

David has a Master of Social Work from University of Hawaii.

California
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Anxiety
Depression
Schizophrenia
Substance Use
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Insightful
Approachable
Supportive

I'm a therapist dedicated to supporting individuals through some of life's most challenging experiences. I specialize in severe mental illness and abuse recovery, and I work with clients navigating a wide range of concerns including guilt and shame, mood disorders, life struggles.

Available virtually

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Joel Herrera

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT
16+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Joel Herrera, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Joel has a Master of Arts (MA) in Counseling Psychology from National University.

California
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Anxiety
Coping Skills
Depression
Relationship Issues
Self Esteem
Style
Exploratory
Approachable
Affirming

I believe the journey to greater mental health is a worthy process. Everyone's path is different, and yet we are all on the same journey. My intention is to invite open, genuine conversations that help you connect with your truth.

Available virtually

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Karen Barnoy

LMFT
5+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Karen Barnoy, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Karen has a Masters of Arts (MA) from Antioch University Santa Barbara.

California
Specialties
Borderline Personality
ADHD
Addiction
Eating Disorders
Mood Disorders
Personality Disorders
Style
Responsive
Approachable
Collaborative

I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. I offer a warm, trauma-informed, and collaborative space where you can explore life's challenges, reconnect with your strengths, and deepen your understanding of yourself. Together, we'll work toward creating lasting change that feels authentic, meaningful, and aligned with your values.

Available virtually

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Tom Tamura

LMFT
32+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Tom Tamura, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Tom has a Master in Counseling from John F. Kennedy University.

California
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Anxiety
Depression
Family Conflict
Relationship Issues
School Issues
Style
Insightful
Approachable
Curious

I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who provides therapy for individuals, couples, and families with a focus on strengthening relationships, improving communication, and supporting meaningful, lasting change.

Available virtually

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Theresa Story

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Theresa Story, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Theresa has a Master in Counseling (MC) from University of Phoenix.

California
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Family Conflict
Psychosis
Relationship Issues
Schizophrenia
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Insightful
Candid
Curious

I'll never judge you—but I may challenge you. I believe growth happens when compassion and honesty work together. I provide a warm, supportive space while gently helping adults identify patterns that keep them stuck and develop practical tools for lasting change. Ready to take the next step?

Available virtually

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Bree Martin

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT
3+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Bree Martin, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Bree has a Master in Counseling (MC) from National University.

Bakersfield, CA
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Addiction
Anxiety
Depression
Stress
Substance Use
Style
Responsive
Warm
Supportive

I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) providing compassionate, evidence-based therapy for adults experiencing anxiety, depression, substance use, and co-occurring mental health concerns. I use CBT, Motivational Interviewing, Person-Centered, and Solution-Focused Therapy to help clients build practical skills and create lasting change.

Available virtually

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Rhonda Holmes

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW
4+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Rhonda Holmes, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Rhonda has a Master of Social Work from California State Polytechnic University, Humboldt.

California
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Depression
Domestic Violence
Pregnancy, Prenatal, Postpartum
Substance Use
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Exploratory
Approachable
Empowering

Sometimes life just feels like a lot, and having someone to talk things through with can make all the difference. I work with people navigating anxiety, self‑doubt, big transitions, trauma, or the pressure to keep everything together. Let's slow things down, make space for what you’re feeling, and build coping skills that actually fit you.

Available virtually

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Julie Mermelstein

LMFT
17+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Julie Mermelstein, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Julie has a Master of Science Psychology (MSPSY) from Antioch College.

California
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Addiction
Codependency
Depression
Grief
Relationship Issues
Style
Insightful
Warm
Supportive

Have you felt like you're just surviving and not thriving? Stuck in old patterns and belief systems? Let me support you in finding ways to live your life more intentionally and create new ways to cope better.

Available virtually

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Suzanne Shumaker

LCSW
1+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Suzanne Shumaker, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Suzanne has a Master of Social Work from University of Southern California.

California
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Addiction
Anxiety
Bipolar Disorder
Mood Disorders
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Insightful
Approachable
Empowering

I’m glad you’re here. My goal is to create a safe, supportive, and judgment-free space where you can feel comfortable being yourself, explore what’s bringing you to therapy, and work together toward the changes that feel meaningful to you. We’ll move at a pace that feels comfortable for you, and I’ll meet you where you are.

Available virtually

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Heather Williams

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT
21+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Heather Williams, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Heather has a Master of Arts (MA) from National University and a Master in Counseling (MC) from National University.

Carlsbad, CA
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Anxiety
Behavioral Issues
Style
Practical
Gentle
Collaborative

Choosing to begin therapy is a sign of strength. It can be a path toward self-exploration and personal growth. Whether you are struggling with relationship issues, parenting concerns, anxiety, or depression, change is possible and attainable.

Available virtually

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Annika Woodson

LPCC

Licensed Professional Clinical Counselors (LPCCs), like Annika Woodson, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Annika has a Master of Science (MS) in Child Development from San Diego State University.

Bakersfield, CA
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Alcohol Use
Anxiety
Depression
Substance Use
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Responsive
Attuned
Empowering

I believe that mental health care should be accessible to everyone and work to make therapy feel comfortable and approachable. I have been a therapist for 4 years and have worked with a wide variety of people in that timespan. My goal is to make people feel seen and understood while helping them reach their goals and improve their mental health.

Available virtually

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Rhonda Foley

LCSW
12+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Rhonda Foley, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Rhonda has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from University of Southern California.

California
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Addiction
Codependency
First Responders
Panic Attacks
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Practical
Candid
Affirming

People often come to therapy because something in their life isn't working the way they hoped. It can be a recent event or maybe a pattern that's been present for years. Whatever brings you here, we'll work together to better understand what's getting in the way, identify your strengths, and develop realistic strategies that support lasting change.

Available virtually

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Lindsay Guin

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT
4+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Lindsay Guin, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Lindsay has a Master of Arts (MA) from Pepperdine University.

Santa Ana, CA
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Addiction
Anxiety
Depression
Style
Exploratory
Warm
Collaborative

I'm here to provide a safe and confidential space for you to work through all the things getting in the way of you being the person that you want to be. Together, let's figure out what you value, what's important, and how to live a life more in alignment with what you care about.

Available virtually

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Darby Childress

LMFT
14+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Darby Childress, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Darby has a Master in Counseling (MC) in Marriage and Family Therapy from California State University, Fresno.

California
Specialties
Borderline Personality
First Responders
Parenting
Personality Disorders
Pregnancy, Prenatal, Postpartum
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Responsive
Approachable
Affirming

I believe everyone has the capacity to heal, grow, and create meaningful change in their lives. My approach is warm, compassionate, and genuine, and I strive to create a safe, nonjudgmental environment where you can feel understood and supported. I work collaboratively with them to develop practical tools and lasting change.

Available virtually

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Courtney Gingras

LPCC
4+ years

Licensed Professional Clinical Counselors (LPCCs), like Courtney Gingras, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

All Rula providers are licensed and hold a master’s or doctorate degree required for practice.

California
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Coping Skills
Mood Disorders
Peer Relationships
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Responsive
Approachable
Supportive

I understand that seeking therapy and navigating mental health challenges or life changes can feel overwhelming. I believe healing happens through genuine connection paired with real, actionable tools — and my goal is to meet you where you are, so we can work together toward lasting, meaningful change.

Available virtually

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Brittney Lewis

LPCC
3+ years

Licensed Professional Clinical Counselors (LPCCs), like Brittney Lewis, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Brittney has a Master of Science Psychology (MSPSY) in Counseling Psychology from California Baptist College.

California
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Anxiety
Parenting
Pregnancy, Prenatal, Postpartum
Self Esteem
Sports Performance
Style
Insightful
Candid
Affirming

I believe in meeting people where they are. I work with humans who believe in growth, self-discovery, and creating meaningful change. Therapy doesn’t have to feel intimidating or overly clinical—it can simply be a space to show up as yourself, feel understood, and work toward becoming the person you want to be.

Available virtually

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Christopher Maines

LMFT
8+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Christopher Maines, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Christopher has a Masters of Arts (MA) in Clinical Psychology Marriage and Family Therapy from Azusa Pacific University.

California
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Men's Issues
Relationship Issues
Spirituality
Stress
Substance Use
Style
Insightful
Attuned
Supportive

"As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another." Men are far too often portrayed only for their physical strength. My mission as a therapist is to restore men to a more full sense of strength by having skill and mastery of their inner world of character, thoughts, emotions, and healthy relationships.

Available virtually

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Katie Hartman

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Katie Hartman, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Katie has a Master of Science Psychology (MSPSY) Marriage and Family Therapy from Stanford University.

Los Angeles, CA
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Anxiety
Codependency
Depression
Relationship Issues
Self Esteem
Style
Directive
Attuned
Supportive

I’m a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. I believe therapy should feel like a safe, supportive space where you can be yourself without judgment. I work collaboratively with clients to navigate anxiety, life transitions, relationships, and the challenges that can feel overwhelming on your own.

Available virtually

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Lloyd Wells

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW
11+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Lloyd Wells, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Lloyd has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from San Francisco State University.

San Leandro, CA
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Addiction
Alcohol Use
Anxiety
Depression
Style
Exploratory
Gentle
Collaborative

Thank you for considering me as your new mental health provider. I believe therapy is a space for discovery, healing, and growth. I am deeply client-focused and mindful of meaningful outcomes. Together, we will work to uncover your most authentic self and help you build the fulfilling life that you deserve.

Available virtually

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Joseph Burton

LCSW
4+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Joseph Burton, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Joseph has a Master of Social Work (MSW) Social and economic justice from University of California, Los Angeles.

California
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Anxiety
Depression
Grief
Men's Issues
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Exploratory
Approachable
Supportive

I am a trauma-informed and culturally responsive therapist who supports individuals navigating anxiety, depression, stress, relationship challenges, and major life transitions. I provide a supportive, nonjudgmental space where you can feel heard, explore challenges, and develop practical tools for meaningful change.

Available virtually

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Mariam Parekh

LCP
8+ years

Licensed Clinical Psychologists (LCPs), like Mariam Parekh, hold a doctoral degree and are trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Mariam has a Doctor of Philosophy (PHD) in Psychology from Syracuse University.

California
Specialties
Borderline Personality
Anxiety
Chronic Pain
Depression
Relationship Issues
Sleep or Insomnia
Style
Responsive
Approachable
Collaborative

My goal is to offer a supportive environment where you can fully express yourself, gain insight, and take steps toward personal growth. In our work together, I’ll combine empathy with practical tools to help you find relief from whatever is holding you back and build confidence in who you are.

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