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50+ Male therapists
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Jean Franco Romualdez

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Jean Franco Romualdez, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Jean Franco has a Master's in Counseling (MC) from California State University, Fullerton.

California
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Life Transitions
Parenting
Relationship Issues
Style
Insightful
Attuned
Curious

I’m a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who works with adults navigating anxiety, stress, and major life transitions. I help clients move from feeling stuck and overwhelmed to gaining clarity, direction, and a stronger sense of control in their lives and relationships.

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Stephen Spiegel

LCSW
9+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Stephen Spiegel, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Stephen has a Master of Science (MS) from CSU Stanislaus MSW PROGRAM.

Turlock, CA
Specialties
Depression
Life Transitions
Style
Responsive
Warm
Motivational

I have worked as a Social Worker in Adult Protective Services, Emergency Room Trauma Social Worker, Mental Health Inpatient Clinician, life coach, and in the state prison system.

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Edward (Ed) Lei

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW
11+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Edward (Ed) Lei, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Edward (Ed) has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from California State University, Long Beach and a Master of Arts (MA) in School Psychology from National University.

West Covina, CA
Specialties
ADHD
Anxiety
Depression
Life Transitions
Stress
Style
Directive
Warm
Collaborative

Do you feel like life is becoming overwhelming? Does life feel like you’re trudging through thick, heavy, gray, exhausting mud? Is it difficult to quiet the constant worrying? I get where you are. Life isn’t all sunshine and rainbows, but you don’t have to face them alone. I’m ready to journey with you with gentleness, honesty, and real hope.

Edward has been a great therapist and really has encouraged me to better in my life.

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Tate Tyler

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Tate Tyler, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Tate has a Master of Science (MS) in Clinical Psychology from Vanguard University of Southern California.

California
Specialties
Gender Identity
LGBTQIA+
Mood Disorders
Relationship Issues
Self Esteem
Style
Exploratory
Approachable
Collaborative

Welcome and congratulations on beginning your therapy journey! I'm here to support you as you take steps toward your goals and develop into your best possible self. I hope to create a safe space for you to find relief from your daily stressors, healing, and develop meaningful insight to reach your fullest potential.

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Carlo Dominic Medina

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW
5+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Carlo Dominic Medina, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Carlo Dominic has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Simmons College.

Costa Mesa, CA
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Exploratory
Approachable
Curious

I provide a comfortable and relaxed environment where you can finally feel empowered to live the life you deserve.

Available virtually

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Carlos Luna

LCSW
2+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Carlos Luna, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Carlos has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from California State University, Northridge.

Winnetka, CA
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
LGBTQIA+
Stress
Style
Practical
Warm
Supportive

My approach is strength-based, focusing on your internal talents and problem-solving skills. I primarily work with adults experiencing depression, anxiety, and mood dysregulation.

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Peter Green

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Peter Green, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Peter has a Master's in Counseling (MC) in Counseling Psychology from National University.

San Carlos, CA
Specialties
Aging
Anxiety
Career Counseling
Depression
Self Esteem
Style
Exploratory
Warm
Collaborative

I am a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) in California. My work with people is based upon equality and mutual respect. My work with you is a partnership for you to address what's bugging you, whether it's relief from emotional pain, greater efficacy in your life, or building healthy relationships.

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Jeremy Vargas

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT
6+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Jeremy Vargas, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Jeremy has a Master's in Counseling (MC) in Psychology from John F. Kennedy University.

Concord, CA
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Life Transitions
Style
Responsive
Candid
Collaborative

I offer services to a diverse population struggling with anxiety, depression, life adjustments, and limiting self-beliefs. I employ a variety of modalities to help you effect positive change and build effective coping skills.

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Mario Palacios

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT
17+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Mario Palacios, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Mario has a Master of Science Psychology (MSPSY) Psychology/MFT from Phillips Graduate Institute.

Los Angeles, CA
Specialties
Chronic Illness
Depression
Grief
Older Adult
Stress
Style
Outcome-oriented
Warm
Collaborative

Dealing with life's challenges doesn't have to be a solitary journey. If you're ready to invest in your healing, let's talk about how I can help. Our therapeutic relationship is built on trust, empathy, and a solid foundation. Together, we'll create realistic goals to improve your growth and build positive changes in your life.

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Robert Gastelum

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT
43+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Robert Gastelum, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Robert has a Masters of Arts (MA) in Marriage & Family Therapy from California Family Study Center.

La Habra, CA
Specialties
Aging
Anxiety
Depression
Family Conflict
Style
Outcome-oriented
Approachable
Affirming

I assist clients interested in exploring how the patterns of our lives limit our development of options. I view our family experiences as the source of our primary approach to life. I focus on how to proceed beyond thinking and behaviors limiting our growth.

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Donald Essex

Recognized for high quality patient care

LPCC

Licensed Professional Clinical Counselors (LPCCs), like Donald Essex, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Donald has a Masters of Arts (MA) in Counseling Psychology from Wright Institute.

California
Specialties
Addiction
Behavioral Issues
Coping Skills
Life Transitions
Stress
Style
Exploratory
Approachable
Motivational

I love the helping relations profession and believe in the therapeutic process. Moreover, I live by the Shakespearean quote, "To thine own self be true." The ability to live, love, and laugh despite what you are going through can be very challenging. My vision is to help clients establish whole, healthy lifestyles and relationships.

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Jerome Scott

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT
22+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Jerome Scott, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Jerome has a Master of Science (MS) in Counseling Psychology with Emphasis on Marriage and Family Therapy from Mount St Mary's College.

Corona, CA
Specialties
Addiction
Alcohol Use
Anxiety
Bipolar Disorder
Substance Use
Style
Directive
Candid
Supportive

I provide couples and individual psychotherapy, ensuring each client receives the highest level of care. I maintain a specialized clinical practice using an advanced Cognitive Behavioral approach designed to motivate individuals and couples to achieve their treatment plan objectives.

Mr.Jerome is very skilled as a therapist and has provided valuable insight and tools for my husband and I to incorporate in our marriage journey. He is an excellent listener and provides solid advice!

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David Bonfanti

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT
19+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like David Bonfanti, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

David has a Masters of Arts (MA) in Clinical Psychology from Antioch University.

Agoura Hills, CA
Specialties
Aging
Chronic Illness
Style
Directive
Candid
Motivational

I enjoy getting to know my clients and hearing them share their stories. I've found that being a better listener is more effective than having something to say. I certainly do have things to say, but it really helps to hear a client's perspective of the problem(s) they are experiencing or have suffered with.

David knows when to listen and when to ask questions. He is patient, kind, and thoughtful.

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Jose Navarro

Recognized for high quality patient care

LPCC
2+ years

Licensed Professional Clinical Counselors (LPCCs), like Jose Navarro, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Jose has a Master of Science (MS) in Clinical Rehabilitation and Mental Health Counseling from California State University, Fresno.

Fresno, CA
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Mood Disorders
Relationship Issues
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Insightful
Attuned
Motivational

I use a person-centered, trauma-informed approach with my clients. I love to work with individuals facing life stressors, anxiety, depression, relational problems, and trauma work, to name a few.

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Jacinto Hernandez

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT
4+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Jacinto Hernandez, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Jacinto has a Master of Science (MS) in Marriage, Family and Children Therapy from University of Phoenix, Ontario.

Claremont, CA
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Mood Disorders
Relationship Issues
Stress
Style
Insightful
Approachable
Curious

I've spent years working in mental health and have seen how the system can fail people who are brave enough to ask for help. My intention is to fill those gaps. I view therapy as a conversation with a purpose—whether that's being heard, validated, or finding new ways to address your situation. I look forward to working with you.

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Steven Cospewicz

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Steven Cospewicz, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Steven has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from University of Southern California.

West Hollywood, CA
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
LGBTQIA+
Life Transitions
Relationship Issues
Style
Outcome-oriented
Attuned
Motivational

I tend to use an eclectic approach, with many of the interventions coming from CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy) and a foundation in Motivational Interviewing. And, Heavy on Socratic Questioning. I focus diagnostically on mild to moderate anxiety and depression, as well as have experience in the more traditionally persistent diagnoses.

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Elan Litenatsky

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Elan Litenatsky, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Elan has a Masters of Arts (MA) Psychology from Phillips Graduate University.

California
Specialties
Anxiety
Coping Skills
Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)
Stress
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Responsive
Candid
Collaborative

I’m a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over eight years of clinical experience working with teens and adults. I specialize in OCD, anxiety, trauma, addiction, grief, and relationship concerns, and I use structured, evidence-based treatment to help clients create meaningful, lasting change.

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Jose Palafox

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Jose Palafox, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Jose has a Master of Arts (MA) in Marriage and Family Therapy from University of Phoenix.

California
Specialties
Anxiety
Career Counseling
Stress
Style
Outcome-oriented
Spiritual
Supportive

I believe every person has the potential to grow and become their best self. To live well, we need to care for our whole self—body, mind, and spirit—as they are deeply connected. When balanced, we reach our full potential. My goal is to create a safe, compassionate space where you can heal, grow, and move toward a fulfilling life.

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Jose Galindo

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Jose Galindo, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Jose has a Master of Social Work (MSW) in Children and Families from California State University, Long Beach.

La Canada Flintridge, CA
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Self Esteem
Stress
Style
Exploratory
Warm
Curious

Taking the step to seek support is a powerful act of self-care and strength. You don't have to navigate your struggles alone; together, we can create a safe space where you feel truly seen, heard, and supported. I deeply respect the uniqueness of each person's journey, and I'm here to meet you exactly where you are.

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Elias Bekele

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT
9+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Elias Bekele, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Elias has a Master of Arts (MA) in Marriage and Family Counseling from Southern California Seminary.

Escondido, CA
Specialties
Anxiety
Substance Use
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Exploratory
Candid
Affirming

I am a California-licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT/93431). I am bilingual and bicultural with over 15 years of clinical experience. I utilize my cultural sensitivity to understand my clients' struggles.

Available virtually

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James Witmer II

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like James Witmer II, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

James has a Master of Social Work (MSW) in Adult Mental Health and Wellness from University of Southern California.

California
Specialties
Addiction
Coping Skills
Grief
LGBTQIA+
Transgender Issues
Style
Insightful
Approachable
Supportive

I am a supportive, 'meet you where you are' kind of therapist. I understand the need to feel better and to heal. Regardless of your background or how you identify, you are welcome here.

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Michael Lemley

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Michael Lemley, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Michael has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from California State University, Long Beach.

California
Specialties
ADHD
Anxiety
Codependency
Self Esteem
Style
Exploratory
Approachable
Affirming

I am originally from the East Coast. I'm a musician and have been a therapist for over a decade. I value kindness, openness, and authenticity.

Available virtually

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Remi Lafayette

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW
1+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Remi Lafayette, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Remi has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Arizona State University.

Sunnyvale, CA
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Life Transitions
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Outcome-oriented
Approachable
Collaborative

My approach to therapy is collaborative and compassionate, drawing from evidence-based practices to help clients navigate life's challenges and achieve their goals. I specialize in working with individuals and families on issues such as anxiety, depression, relationship dynamics, and personal growth.

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Yuriyah Manus

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT
2+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Yuriyah Manus, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Yuriyah has a Master of Science (MS) in Marriage and Family Therapy/LPCC from California Baptist College.

California
Specialties
Anxiety
Codependency
Depression
Stress
Style
Outcome-oriented
Attuned
Collaborative

I believe that mental health is important and that it applies to everyone. Representation matters. I’m proud to be a therapist whose position in this field represents not only myself but my culture, too. In my practice, I am most fulfilled when I see my clients learn more about themselves, leading to improvement in their quality of life.

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Louis An

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Louis An, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Louis has a Master of Science Psychology from Pepperdine University.

California
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Life Transitions
Relationship Issues
Stress
Style
Insightful
Attuned
Curious

Life is overwhelming at times. And struggling with anxiety, depression, relational issues, and life transitions doesn't make it any easier. Every so often, it may be a good idea to slow everything down to reflect on what direction we're headed. I work with clients to help them experience more presence and peace during these times.

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