Connect with Male therapists in Upland, CA

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Carlos Villatoro

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LMFT
7+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Carlos Villatoro, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Carlos has a Master of Science (MS) in Psychology, Option: Marriage, Family and Child Counseling from California State University, Los Angeles.

California
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Life Transitions
Relationship Issues
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Exploratory
Candid
Collaborative

I work with individuals and couples navigating trauma, anxiety, depression, addiction, and relationship challenges.

Available virtually

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Patrick Noel

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LMFT
9+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Patrick Noel, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Patrick has a Master of Science (MS) in Counseling Psychology from California State University, Chico.

California
Specialties
Anger Management
Codependency
Depression
Grief
Life Transitions
Style
Responsive
Attuned
Curious

Change is hard! Thankfully, the capacity for change is already within you. I will work with you to determine your change goals and develop a plan to identify and remove barriers to personal growth while emphasizing and building upon the strengths and resources you already possess. My practice is based in warm, empathetic, non-judgmental care.

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Benjamin Silver

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Benjamin Silver, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Benjamin has a Master in Counseling (MC) from Point Loma Nazarene University.

California
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Men's Issues
Self Esteem
Substance Use
Style
Exploratory
Attuned
Curious

I work with individuals, couples, and families navigating anxiety, stress, relationships, and life transitions.

Available virtually

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Jerome Scott

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT
22+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Jerome Scott, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Jerome has a Master of Science (MS) in Counseling Psychology with Emphasis on Marriage and Family Therapy from Mount St Mary's College.

Corona, CA
Specialties
Addiction
Alcohol Use
Anxiety
Bipolar Disorder
Substance Use
Style
Directive
Candid
Supportive

I provide couples and individual psychotherapy, ensuring each client receives the highest level of care.

Mr.Jerome is very skilled as a therapist and has provided valuable insight and tools for my husband and I to incorporate in our marriage journey. He is an excellent listener and provides solid advice!

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Zephon Lister

LMFT
17+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Zephon Lister, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

All Rula providers are licensed and hold a master’s or doctorate degree required for practice.

California
Specialties
Chronic Illness
Relationship Issues
Spirituality
Stress
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Responsive
Approachable
Collaborative

Life can feel overwhelming when anxiety, stress, relationship challenges, or life transitions leave you feeling stuck or disconnected. I offer a supportive, nonjudgmental space to explore what you’re experiencing, recognize patterns, and create meaningful change that helps you feel more empowered to shape the life and relationships you want.

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Gamaliel Polanco

LCSW
13+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Gamaliel Polanco, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

All Rula providers are licensed and hold a master’s or doctorate degree required for practice.

California
Specialties
Addiction
Men's Issues
Mood Disorders
Schizophrenia
Spirituality
Style
Directive
Spiritual
Motivational

Walking through life's journey can be difficult. Two are better than one, lest one falls the other can help them up. I'm honored that you would allow me to walk by your side.

Available virtually

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Jeremy Maler

LMFT
8+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Jeremy Maler, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

All Rula providers are licensed and hold a master’s or doctorate degree required for practice.

California
Specialties
ADHD
Anger Management
Anxiety
Codependency
Stress
Style
Insightful
Candid
Affirming

Create more meaningful relationships; Transform negative patterns; Develop a deeper connection to, and understanding of emotions; Develop inner and outer skills to guide your experience with confidence; Cultivate deeper intimacy within yourself and extend it outwards; Improve the quality of life.

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Daniel Valdes

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT
7+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Daniel Valdes, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Daniel has a Master of Science (MS) in Counseling from Option in Marriage and Family Therapy - California State University, Los Angeles.

California
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Family Conflict
Men's Issues
Relationship Issues
Style
Responsive
Warm
Supportive

I'm committed to culturally responsive, equity-oriented, and client-centered care in a warm and non-judgmental setting. I provide assessment, crisis intervention, and brief, evidence-based psychotherapy to teens and their families.

Available virtually

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Theodore Atwood

LMFT
10+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Theodore Atwood, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Theodore has a Master in Counseling (MC) from California Institute of Integral Studies.

California
Specialties
Addiction
Anxiety
Depression
Relationship Issues
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Responsive
Warm
Affirming

I am a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, #126521, in California. I believe in the value of building a trusting and safe therapeutic relationship to tap into your internal strength, self-expertise, and self-expression to promote growth and support healing.

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Jeffrey Hagle

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Jeffrey Hagle, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Jeffrey has a Master of Social Work (MSW) in Trauma plus Mental Health from University of Denver.

Long Beach, CA
Specialties
Developmental Disorders
Mood Disorders
Personality Disorders
Thought Disorders
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Directive
Candid
Empowering

You can call me Jay! I believe healing isn't just something we think our way through, it's something we experience. Together, we'll explore the connection between your mind, body, and nervous system with curiosity, compassion, and enough humor to remind you that life can be both messy and meaningful.

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Andrew Spaulding

LMFT
26+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Andrew Spaulding, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Andrew has a Master of Science (MS) from California State University East Bay.

El Dorado Hills, CA
Specialties
Anxiety
Family Conflict
Grief
Older Adult
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Outcome-oriented
Approachable
Empowering

I am excited to be joining the Rula team and look forward to meeting with you to see if we are a good fit given your emotional and relational needs, goals, and preferences. My specialty areas include trauma treatment, grief and loss, recovering from abuse, professional and relationship coaching, and working with children, youths, and parents.

Available virtually

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Miguel Rodriguez

LCSW
13+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Miguel Rodriguez, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Miguel has a Master of Social Work (MSW) in Social Welfare from University of California, Los Angeles.

California
Specialties
Anxiety
Cultural Stress
Depression
Parenting
Stress
Style
Insightful
Approachable
Collaborative

Life can feel overwhelming, and asking for help is not always easy. Whether you are feeling stuck, struggling in relationships, facing a major transition, or simply looking for support, you do not have to navigate it alone. I would be honored to work alongside you as you move toward greater clarity, healing, and growth.

Available virtually

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Jauron James

LCSW
2+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Jauron James, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Jauron has a Master of Social Work from University of Southern California.

Twentynine Palms, CA
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Relationship Issues
Spirituality
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Exploratory
Spiritual
Affirming

I’m passionate about helping people restore healing, hope, and mental well-being. I’m energetic, down-to-earth, and committed to guiding, supporting, and encouraging you through whatever life has thrown your way. Together, we’ll create a safe space to heal, grow, and move forward with confidence.

Available virtually

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Hilario Martinez

LMFT
5+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Hilario Martinez, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Hilario has a Master of Arts (MA) in Marriage and Family Therapy from Pacific Oaks College.

California
Specialties
Anger Management
Anxiety
Depression
First Responders
Stress
Style
Exploratory
Approachable
Collaborative

I am a Marriage and Family Therapist with a specialization in Trauma. I studied at CSULA and at Pacific Oaks University. I am compassionate, empathetic, can be humorous, and love the Lakers/Basketball. I love what I do, and I am a strong believer in that, "mental health matters".

Available virtually

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Victor Vasquez

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Victor Vasquez, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Victor has a Master of Social Work (MSW) in Mental Health from University of Southern California.

California
Specialties
Anxiety
Behavioral Issues
Coping Skills
Depression
Self Esteem
Style
Insightful
Approachable
Collaborative

I believe therapy should feel safe, authentic, and tailored to each person’s unique experiences and goals. My approach is focused on helping clients better understand themselves, strengthen emotional resilience, and create meaningful changes in their daily life.

Available virtually

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James Armour

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like James Armour, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

James has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from California Baptist College.

California
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Panic Attacks
Substance Use
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Practical
Approachable
Empowering

I am a licensed clinical social worker with 3 years of experience providing psychotherapy to all ages. My expertise is working with individuals experiencing depression, anxiety, and panic attacks. I ensure the services I provide are not only practical but fun and aligned with your goals.

Available virtually

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Samuel Semanda

LMFT
4+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Samuel Semanda, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

All Rula providers are licensed and hold a master’s or doctorate degree required for practice.

California
Specialties
Anger Management
Anxiety
Depression
Relationship Issues
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Insightful
Attuned
Collaborative

I'm an LMFT, and I warmly welcome you as you begin this work together. In an intersubjective approach, I focus on how your experiences and our therapeutic relationship unfold in the room, creating safety, meaning, and momentum.

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Brad Benedict

LMFT
15+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Brad Benedict, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

All Rula providers are licensed and hold a master’s or doctorate degree required for practice.

California
Specialties
Infidelity
Men's Issues
Relationship Issues
Spirituality
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Directive
Approachable
Collaborative

I was there, too. There was a time when I was extremely lost in life. But therapy changed the direction of my life forever. Because I went through it, I will get you through it, too. Whether you’re coming to me for personal growth, relationship struggles, or healing from trauma through EMDR, we can work together to get you past the problem.

Available virtually

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Scott McQueen

Recognized for high quality patient care

LPCC

Licensed Professional Clinical Counselors (LPCCs), like Scott McQueen, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Scott has a Master's in Counseling (MC) from Concordia University Irvine.

California
Specialties
Anger Management
Anxiety
Depression
Parenting
Relationship Issues
Style
Exploratory
Attuned
Affirming

Navigating anxiety, self-doubt, or life transitions can feel overwhelming, but you do not have to do it alone. I partner with clients to approach these challenges with curiosity and compassion, guiding you toward a grounded, confident, and purposeful life.

Available virtually

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William Larkin

LCSW
7+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like William Larkin, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

All Rula providers are licensed and hold a master’s or doctorate degree required for practice.

California
Specialties
Anxiety
Divorce
Life Transitions
Panic Attacks
Relationship Issues
Style
Exploratory
Approachable
Supportive

I am a licensed psychotherapist that believes therapy should feel like a genuine conversation, not an interview. My goal is to create a space where you can be honest, understood, and challenged in ways that help you move forward. Together, we'll help you build a life that feels more meaningful and manageable.

Available virtually

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Craig Meisner

LMFT
12+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Craig Meisner, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Craig has a Master of Science (MS) in Marriage and Family Therapy from University of Phoenix.

San Clemente, CA
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)
Relationship Issues
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Exploratory
Warm
Curious

Feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or distressed? I help clients discover and navigate the path to recovery, renewed strength, and healing from stressed relationships and issues surrounding mental health.

Available virtually

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Stephen Gutknecht

Patients consistently give high satisfaction ratings

LCP
7+ years

Licensed Clinical Psychologists (LCPs), like Stephen Gutknecht, hold a doctoral degree and are trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Stephen has a Doctor of Psychology (PSYD) from California School of Professional Psychology.

California
Specialties
Anxiety
Bipolar Disorder
Depression
LGBTQIA+
Substance Use
Style
Outcome-oriented
Attuned
Empowering

I have rich experience covering a wide range of issues. I utilize CBT and Existential Therapy. When people are empowered through being heard, emotionally supported, and helped to develop skills, they have a greater ability to lead emotionally healthy lives.

He listens and gives no-nonsense advice and education about mental health specific to you

Available virtually

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Colin Ebeling

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Colin Ebeling, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Colin has a Masters of Arts (MA) Counseling Psychology from Emphasis in MFT - Pacifica Graduate Institute.

California
Specialties
Adoption
Anxiety
Depression
Grief
LGBTQIA+
Style
Exploratory
Warm
Affirming

You don’t have to have everything figured out before reaching out. I help adults navigate anxiety, depression, grief, relationships, identity, and life transitions with warmth and curiosity. Together, we’ll explore the patterns shaping your life and help you feel more grounded, connected, and fully yourself.

Available virtually

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Rocco Cademartori

LCSW
9+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Rocco Cademartori, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Rocco has a Master of Social Work (MSW) in Mental Health/ Adults from California state University, Stanislaus.

Stockton, CA
Specialties
Anxiety
Style
Outcome-oriented
Approachable
Empowering

Welcome to all! I’ve been a Licensed Clinical Social Worker for the past 8 years. I am confident that I can help you improve your situation and assist with emotional and mental healing. Change has to occur in the counseling process for any type of clear benefit. Supporting you with your desired treatment is my pleasure and responsibility.

Available virtually

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Gavin Williams

LMFT
9+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Gavin Williams, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Gavin has a Doctor of Philosophy (PHD) in Marriage and Family Therapy from California School of Professional Psychology and a Masters in Counseling (MC) in Counseling Psychology from University of San Francisco.

California
Specialties
Anxiety
Depression
Family Conflict
Relationship Issues
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Responsive
Approachable
Affirming

We all seek connection, a sense of belonging, and also we seek to have a sense of purpose and value. When we find ourselves in relationships where we feel a lack of connection or a sense of being undervalued by our partner we tend to lose vitality and/or security. Let us work together to rediscover who we are meant to be.

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