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Kristin Beebe

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LMFT
5+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Kristin Beebe, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Kristin has a Master of Arts (MA) in Marriage and Family Therapy from NorthCentral.

Honolulu, HI
Specialties
Infidelity
Anxiety
Depression
Life Transitions
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Outcome-oriented
Attuned
Collaborative

We work together as a team. I develop treatment goals based on what you want to address, and if you agree, we'll work on them together with some homework. Therapy is about you, so if you come in having a bad day, let's talk about that.

Kristin, listens and provides a very positive feedback, and guidance. Very easy to open up to.

Available virtually

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Shahar Groode

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMHC

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Shahar Groode, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Shahar has a Master in Counseling (MC) Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Capella University.

Hawaii
Specialties
Infidelity
Anxiety
Depression
LGBTQIA+
Relationship Issues
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Exploratory
Candid
Collaborative

Aloha! As a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, I believe in fostering a collaborative and supportive environment where we can work together towards your well-being. My background includes a BA in Psychology from Wellesley College and a Master's Degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Capella University.

Available virtually

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Jennifer Ybarra

LMHC
2+ years

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Jennifer Ybarra, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Jennifer has a Master of Science (MS) in Counseling Psychology from University of Phoenix.

Haiku, HI
Specialties
Infidelity
Anxiety
Depression
Grief
Relationship Issues
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Insightful
Attuned
Collaborative

I am passionate about helping my clients get to the root of their trauma and develop the necessary tools that allow for a more fulfilling life and relationships. I specialize in relationship issues, trauma & PTSD, anxiety, depression, grief, life transitions, body image, and self-worth.

Available virtually

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Laurie Ann Lee-Zidek

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Laurie Ann Lee-Zidek, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Laurie Ann has a Master of Science (MS) in Counseling & Psychology from Chaminade University of Honolulu.

Hawaii
Specialties
Infidelity
Addiction
Anxiety
Depression
Life Transitions
Relationship Issues
Style
Exploratory
Candid
Collaborative

Taking that first step into therapy is courageous. Whether you're overwhelmed, navigating relationship stress, caught in anxiety, or searching for clarity—you don't have to go it alone. Life can feel like unpredictable waves or walking a desert with no map.

Available virtually

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Jennifer Waugh

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW
4+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Jennifer Waugh, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Jennifer has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Spalding University.

Kailua, HI
Specialties
Infidelity
ADHD
Anxiety
Depression
Substance Use
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Outcome-oriented
Candid
Motivational

I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. My goal is to meet each patient where they are at and help them map out a path of success to get them to where they want to be in their life.

Available virtually

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Nichole Mathis

Patients consistently give high satisfaction ratings

LMHC
4+ years

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Nichole Mathis, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Nichole has a Master of Science Psychology (MSPSY) in Marriage and Family Therapy from Chaminade University of Honolulu.

Hawaii
Specialties
Infidelity
Adoption
Anxiety
Depression
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Outcome-oriented
Gentle
Collaborative

I work with adolescents and families navigating parenting, adoption, foster care, anxiety, depression, grief, loss, and transitions. My goal is to create a safe space where you can explore challenges and build skills to move forward with confidence and hope.

She works well with my daughter and also includes me with the work. Really like her clear communication and also scheduling.

Available virtually

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Antoine Khalil

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMHC

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Antoine Khalil, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Antoine has a Master of Science (MS) in Marriage and Family Counseling from Palm Beach Atlantic University.

Honolulu, HI
Specialties
Infidelity
Anxiety
Coping Skills
Parenting
Relationship Issues
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Directive
Gentle
Collaborative

Starting therapy can feel like a big step, and I want you to know you don't have to take it alone. I provide a safe and supportive space where you can share openly, gain insight, and take steps toward healing and balance. My goal is to help you and your loved ones strengthen connection, improve communication, and rediscover hope.

Available virtually

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Graham Dixon

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LMHC
13+ years

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Graham Dixon, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Graham has a Master of Arts (MA) in Counseling from University of Texas of the Permian Basin.

Honolulu, HI
Specialties
Infidelity
Anxiety
Depression
Life Transitions
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Exploratory
Approachable
Curious

I use Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and concentrate on Positive Psychology - the seeking of happiness. We explore methods of becoming happier while tackling barriers to positive change in the form of negative assumptions.

Available virtually

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Elijah Pierick

LMHC
1+ years

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Elijah Pierick, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Elijah has a Doctor of Ministry (D MIN) in Pastoral Counseling from Liberty University, a Master of Arts (MA) in Christian Studies from Pacific Rim Christian University and a Master of Divinity (MDIV) in Chaplaincy from Pacific Rim Christian University.

Ewa Beach, HI
Specialties
Infidelity
Depression
Relationship Issues
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Outcome-oriented
Spiritual
Collaborative

I enjoy being outside, exercising, learning, connecting with friends and family, and helping other people get healthy. I would love to get to know you and help you become healthy.

Available virtually

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Robert Gernenz

LMHC
4+ years

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Robert Gernenz, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Robert has a Master of Arts (MA) in Professional Counseling from Liberty University.

Haleiwa, HI
Specialties
Infidelity
Anxiety
Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)
Style
Outcome-oriented
Candid
Supportive

My approach is to meet you where you are and help create better tomorrows through Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). It is my hope to be of service to others in helping them achieve therapeutic goals in areas like couples communication and connection, and individual work in areas like anger, anxiety, OCD, and other areas of opportunity.

Available virtually

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Shirley Kwok

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Shirley Kwok, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Shirley has a Master of Science (MS) in Counseling from California State University, Fullerton.

Honolulu, HI
Specialties
Infidelity
ADHD
Anxiety
Depression
Relationship Issues
Stress
Style
Exploratory
Attuned
Curious

We can explore ways to get through things based on your unique situation. You are the expert of your own life. Healing starts with you!

Available virtually

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Dayle-Ann Lee-Roche

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Dayle-Ann Lee-Roche, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Dayle-Ann has a Master of Arts (MA) in Marriage and Family Therapy from Argosy University, Hawaii.

Honolulu, HI
Specialties
Infidelity
Anxiety
Depression
LGBTQIA+
Stress
Style
Responsive
Candid
Motivational

I specialize in working with individuals who are new to therapy or have limited experience. If you're experiencing anxiety, depression, trauma, or stress related to major life events, adding therapy sessions can feel overwhelming. I understand that, and will work with you collaboratively to identify your goals and address your challenge areas.

Available virtually

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Sarah Adams

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMHC
7+ years

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Sarah Adams, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Sarah has a Master in Counseling (MC) from Central Michigan University.

Hawaii
Specialties
Infidelity
Anxiety
Depression
Life Transitions
Relationship Issues
Self Esteem
Style
Responsive
Warm
Collaborative

I help clients aged 14 and up navigate a variety of life challenges.

Available virtually

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Christin DeCoito

LMHC

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Christin DeCoito, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Christin has a Master's in Counseling (MC) in Clinical Mental Health from University of Hawaii.

Hawaii
Specialties
Infidelity
Coping Skills
Life Transitions
Parenting
Relationship Issues
Women's Issues
Style
Exploratory
Approachable
Collaborative

Aloha, I offer a supportive space to explore challenges, heal past wounds, and create meaningful change. I draw from different approaches to meet you where you are and support your unique journey. Together, we'll focus on building self-awareness, healthier relationships, and a more fulfilling life.

Available virtually

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Hayley Unterreiner

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LCSW
2+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Hayley Unterreiner, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Hayley has a Master of Social Work (MSW) in Behavioral Health from University of Hawaii.

Honolulu, HI
Specialties
Infidelity
Anxiety
Depression
Mood Disorders
Stress
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Insightful
Approachable
Curious

My approach to therapy is holistic and person-centered. I honor that you are the expert of your life by listening first and often. I work with individuals seeking support for anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship issues, and life transitions.

Available virtually

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Paul Grabowsky

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LMHC
11+ years

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Paul Grabowsky, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Paul has a Master of Acupuncture (MAC) from Webster University and a Masters of Arts (MA) in Counseling from Webster University.

Hilo, HI
Specialties
Infidelity
Anxiety
Depression
Grief
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Exploratory
Warm
Motivational

I am a licensed mental health counselor, LMHC, and a licensed teacher in Hawai’i, and a licensed professional clinical counselor in New Mexico. I am a person-centered counselor, trained in a variety of modalities, including EMDR. I enjoy working with people of all ages and incorporate my training in biology and the connection to mind/body.

Available virtually

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Frederica Banning

LCSW
42+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Frederica Banning, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Frederica has a Master of Social Work (MSW) in EAP/Work and Family Systems from Catholic University of America.

Honolulu, HI
Specialties
Infidelity
Anxiety
Depression
Grief
LGBTQIA+
Stress
Style
Outcome-oriented
Candid
Motivational

When life knocks us down, we all need a warm heart and a safe space where we can sort things through. I am here to help, whether you are navigating life challenges, repairing relationships with yourself and others, healing loss, or building change resilience. I listen to connect, not to judge or reject. Reaching out takes courage.

Available virtually

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Laurine LeBlanc-White

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LMHC
9+ years

Licensed Mental Health Counselors (LMHCs), like Laurine LeBlanc-White, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Laurine has a Doctor of Education (EDD) from Northcentral Uni and a Master of Arts (MA) in Professional Counseling from Liberty University.

Hawaii
Specialties
Infidelity
Anxiety
Depression
Family Conflict
Sexual Abuse
Stress
Style
Responsive
Spiritual
Supportive

I am passionate about supporting my clients through challenges to experience healing and growth in their lives. I create a space where you can explore what matters most and work toward meaningful change.

Available virtually

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Sheryl-Ann Holland

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Sheryl-Ann Holland, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Sheryl-Ann has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from University of Hawaii.

Kaneohe, HI
Specialties
Infidelity
Addiction
Anxiety
Style
Practical
Spiritual
Collaborative

I'm passionate about helping people heal and find relief. I work with children, teens, adults, and older adults, bringing experience in family dynamics, trauma, substance use, and serious mental health challenges. I create a space where you can explore what matters most to you.

Available virtually

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Casey Tau'a

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Casey Tau'a, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Casey has a Master of Science (MS) in Marriage & Family Therapy from Argosy University.

Hawaii
Specialties
Infidelity
Anxiety
Life Transitions
Relationship Issues
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Exploratory
Gentle
Curious

I support individuals, couples, and families in strengthening their relationships and navigating stress, anxiety, and adversity. My approach is person-centered, compassionate, and grounded in the belief that healing begins with feeling truly heard and understood.

Available virtually

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Clifford Green

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Clifford Green, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Clifford has a Doctor of Psychology (PSYD) Clinical Psychology from Chaminade University of Honolulu, a Masters of Arts (MA) in Clinical Psychology from Argosy University, Hawaii and a Master of Social Work (MSW) in Behavioral Mental Health Social Work from University of Hawaii.

Hawaii
Specialties
Infidelity
Addiction
LGBTQIA+
Personality Disorders
Sex Therapy
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Exploratory
Candid
Curious

Aloha, I understand therapy as an open and collaborative conversation, one we can have at any point in our lives. My sessions do not emphasize a person’s diagnoses, and I never view people through the lens of pathology. I prefer to build a warm and nurturing environment that provides space for us to address your specific needs.

Available virtually

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Gregory May

Patients consistently give high satisfaction ratings

LMFT
5+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Gregory May, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Gregory has a Master's in Counseling (MC) in Counseling Psychology from National University.

Hawaii
Specialties
Infidelity
Addiction
LGBTQIA+
Substance Use
Trauma and PTSD
Style
Insightful
Attuned
Affirming

I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist providing therapy for individuals and couples in OH, TX, & HI. My work integrates relational, attachment-informed, systemic, and skills-based approaches to support lasting change. I help clients build clarity, resilience, & deeper connection in their lives and relationships.

Greg is amazing. I felt comfortable talking to him from the first session. I feel like he truly cares about my progress and has helped me so much.

Available virtually

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Mary Ann Erwin

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Mary Ann Erwin, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Mary Ann has a Master of Arts (MA) in Marriage and Family Therapy from Argosy University, Hawaii.

Honolulu, HI
Specialties
Infidelity
Anxiety
Career Counseling
Depression
Life Transitions
Relationship Issues
Style
Practical
Approachable
Collaborative

Working with a professional can help you find your best life possible. Sometimes telling your story to a person with whom you have no background can be helpful in identifying where you can grow and where you are doing well. Despite the current circumstances, your best life possible is waiting for you.

Available virtually

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Julie Crowley

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW
3+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Julie Crowley, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Julie has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from University of Southern California.

Hawaii
Specialties
Infidelity
Addiction
Anxiety
Depression
LGBTQIA+
Substance Use
Style
Responsive
Warm
Affirming

I have experience working in diverse settings, including mental health, medical, substance abuse, foster care, and family/individual counseling. I am comfortable facilitating groups. This has provided me with the knowledge and skills to serve communities, families, and individuals with empathy, dignity, respect, and integrity.

Available virtually

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Jill Garcia

Recognized for high quality patient care

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Jill Garcia, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Jill has a Master of Science (MS) in Counseling Psychology from Chaminade University.

Honolulu, HI
Specialties
Infidelity
Anxiety
Depression
Life Transitions
Relationship Issues
Women's Issues
Style
Insightful
Warm
Affirming

Choosing to seek therapy is a meaningful act of self-advocacy, especially when it feels vulnerable or uncomfortable, and I want to honor the courage it takes to arrive here. You are not alone in this process, and I am here to walk alongside you with compassion, respect, and support as you move toward healing and growth.

Available virtually