How to find the right therapist in Virginia

When choosing a therapist in Virginia, it's best to reflect on what you’re looking for and ask yourself which of the following criteria are most important to you: Do they accept your insurance? Do you need a therapist who specializes in a specific mental health concern such as depression, anxiety, or trauma? Are you looking for someone to work with you individually? Or are you looking for someone to support you as a couple or family? Would you be more comfortable partnering with a therapist of a certain race, gender expression, sexual orientation, religious, or cultural background?

Can I use my insurance?

Yes! Therapists on the Rula platform are in-network with most major insurance plans. Rula patients typically pay $15 per session, although your individual cost may vary based on your insurance benefits and deductible. We’ll work with your insurance to confirm your estimated per-session cost before your first appointment. Ready to get started? Click here to browse available therapists who accept your insurance.

How do I know if therapy is right for me?

There’s no right or wrong reason to start therapy. Whether you’re seeking help navigating a life transition or managing symptoms of anxiety or depression, therapy is an effective treatment for many types of concerns – all you need is an open mind and a general sense of what you’d like to explore with a therapist. Still unsure? Head to our blog to learn more.

How soon can I meet with a therapist?

Therapists in Rula’s network are available to meet as soon as tomorrow. Click here to explore therapists and book your first session in minutes.

What should I consider when choosing a therapist?

It depends on your personal preferences and goals. Whether you’re seeking a therapist who specializes in certain mental health conditions, shares your ethnic background, or is available to meet at your preferred time – Rula makes it easy to search and filter by what matters most to you. If you don’t feel like your first choice was a match, don’t worry – we’ll help you switch to a different therapist in our network. Check out our blog post for more pointers on finding your best-fit therapist.

How do I know if I need therapy or psychiatry?

If you’re experiencing severe symptoms that interfere with your daily functioning, you may want to consider starting with a psychiatric provider who can assess your needs and prescribe medication if deemed necessary. If your symptoms are mild or moderate, therapy may be a better starting point. No matter where you begin your journey – your provider will work with you to develop a personalized treatment plan that’s based on your individual needs and concerns. Still unsure? Visit our blog to learn more about the differences.

Does Rula offer in-person appointments?

Currently, Rula offers in-person therapy in some states. For those living in other states, there are many benefits to online therapy!

Can Rula help me find a therapist?

Absolutely. Rula’s network of 10,000+ licensed providers represent more than 80 clinical specialties and a diverse range of backgrounds – making it easier to find the care you need. Once you provide us with some basic information, we’ll generate a curated list of in-network therapists who are licensed in your state and accepting new patients. From there, you can filter by what matters most to you and explore individual biographies until you find a match. Ready to get started?

What types of care can I access through Rula?

Providers in Rula’s network specialize in individual therapy, couples therapy, family therapy, and psychiatric care (i.e., medication management).

Who is eligible to access care through Rula?

Individuals aged 5 and older are eligible to receive care in any state where Rula is available.

How will I meet with my therapist?

Rula specializes in online therapy – giving you the flexibility to meet with your therapist from wherever you’re most comfortable. We’ll send you an appointment reminder containing a secure link to your scheduled Zoom session approximately 24 hours before your session.

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30+ therapists who accept Anthem Blue Cross

Quality care comes first at Rula

We regularly review providers to ensure quality

30+ therapists who accept Anthem Blue Cross

Sarah Taylor

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW

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7+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Sarah Taylor, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Sarah has a Master of Social Work (MSW) in Advanced Direct Practice from Children, Youth, and Families - Arizona State University.

Moseley, VA

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Relationship Issues

Self Esteem

Stress

Style

Exploratory

Gentle

Curious

I help individuals navigate life's complexities with a deep understanding of the intersection between physical and mental well-being. My warm, empathetic approach creates space for healing and growth as we work together to overcome challenges and build resilience.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 28th

Available virtually

shannon fowler

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCP

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11+ years

Licensed Clinical Psychologists (LCPs), like shannon fowler, hold a doctoral degree and are trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

shannon has a Doctor of Philosophy (PHD) clinical psychology from University of Detroit Mercy.

Virginia Beach, VA

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Eating Disorders

Trauma and PTSD

Weight Loss

Style

Outcome-oriented

Warm

Collaborative

I’m a Clinical Psychologist (PhD) specializing in trauma, anxiety, depression, and the mind–body impact of stress. My approach is warm, relational, and psychodynamic — I help you understand not just what you’re feeling, but why it keeps happening.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 28th

Available virtually

Lynette Jacob

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Lynette Jacob, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Lynette has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from West Virginia University.

Virginia

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Mood Disorders

Stress

Style

Directive

Approachable

Supportive

My practice is focused on your needs and goals. We'll spend time understanding what difficulties you're dealing with to create the right treatment plan. Each client is unique, and each care plan is also unique. No two people have gone through the same life journey. Everything we discuss is confidential.

Next appointmentTuesday, May 5th

Available virtually

Robert Phillips

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LPC

•

9+ years

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Robert Phillips, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Robert has a Master of Arts (MA) in Professional Counseling from Liberty University.

Lynchburg, VA

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Autism or Asperger's Syndrome

Bipolar Disorder

Schizophrenia

Substance Use

Style

Exploratory

Approachable

Curious

I build a strong therapeutic relationship, stay focused on you in the present moment without judgment, and help you gain skills for managing complicated situations. I encourage openness, curiosity, and acceptance to help you understand you can choose to respond rationally and control behaviors.

Next appointmentMonday, Apr 20th

Available virtually

Christina Urcinas

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCP

•

9+ years

Licensed Clinical Psychologists (LCPs), like Christina Urcinas, hold a doctoral degree and are trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Christina has a Master of Arts in General Psychology from New York University and a Doctoral Program in Clinical Psychology from University of Maryland College Park.

Fairfax, VA

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Mood Disorders

Stress

Style

Responsive

Candid

Collaborative

I specialize in helping adults navigate life transitions, mood concerns, and anxiety using Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. My work focuses on creating meaningful change for those feeling stuck or overwhelmed by life's challenges.

“Dr. Urcinas has helped me in more significant ways than any therapist before. Her work is hard, but if you are willing to put in the time and effort, it brings such positive change.”

Next appointmentThursday, May 7th

Available virtually

Laura Stanzione

LCSW

•

16+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Laura Stanzione, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Laura has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Florida State University.

Virginia Beach, VA

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Relationship Issues

Stress

Style

Practical

Warm

Collaborative

I'm currently accepting new clients for virtual sessions. I specialize in helping people navigate relationship stress, overwhelming anxiety and depression, age-related changes, grief, and feeling stuck.

Next appointmentMonday, Apr 20th

Available virtually

Karyn Nicolai

Recognized for high quality patient care

LPC

•

15+ years

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Karyn Nicolai, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Karyn has a Master of Education (MED) in Counseling from Lynchburg University and a Master of Arts (MA) in Psychological Counseling from Monmouth University.

Virginia

Specialties

Grief

LGBTQIA+

Life Transitions

Trauma and PTSD

Women's Issues

Style

Directive

Candid

Curious

Together, we will explore strategies and techniques to assist you along your journey to self-discovery and well-being. I will give you the tools, but it will be your commitment to doing the hard work that will yield the results you want to achieve.

Next appointmentTuesday, May 12th

Available virtually

Jennifer Erickson

Recognized for high quality patient care

LPC

•

8+ years

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Jennifer Erickson, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Jennifer has a Doctor of Philosophy (PHD) in Health Psychology from Walden University and a Master of Science (MS) in Mental Health Counseling from Walden University.

Virginia

Specialties

Grief

ADHD

Alcohol Use

Anxiety

Style

Outcome-oriented

Attuned

Empowering

I help clients navigate anxiety, panic disorder, adult ADHD, chronic illness, relationship challenges, weight management, stress, and women's issues. My therapeutic approach integrates evidence-based methodologies to provide comprehensive and individualized care tailored to your unique needs.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 28th

Available virtually

Richard Swaine

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LPC

•

15+ years

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Richard Swaine, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Richard has a Master of Arts in Counseling from Liberty University.

Williamsburg, VA

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Style

Responsive

Warm

Collaborative

I work with adolescents and adults dealing with anxiety, depression, trauma recovery, mood disorders, relationship issues, and codependency. My goal is to help you move successfully toward a full and happy life.

Next appointmentMonday, Apr 20th

Available virtually

Eleanor Lampell

LPC

•

17+ years

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Eleanor Lampell, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Eleanor has a Master of Science (MS) from Eastern Virginia Medical School.

Norfolk, VA

Specialties

Grief

ADHD

Anxiety

Depression

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Exploratory

Candid

Collaborative

I specialize in helping adults and teens navigate anxiety, depression, AD/HD, grief and loss, trauma, and life transitions. Through a holistic approach integrating traditional therapy with creative art therapy, I offer a unique way to explore and process emotions in a safe, non-judgmental space.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 21st

Available virtually

Reba James

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW

•

7+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Reba James, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Reba has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Virginia Commonwealth University.

Richmond, VA

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Developmental Disorders

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Exploratory

Warm

Curious

I provide a safe, non-judgmental space where you can explore your emotions, develop healthy coping strategies, and build resilience. I work collaboratively with clients to help them discover their strengths, improve their wellness, and achieve their goals.

Next appointmentThursday, Apr 30th

Available virtually

Melissa Douglas

Recognized for high quality patient care

LPC

•

19+ years

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Melissa Douglas, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Melissa has a Masters of Education (MED) from Lamar University, a Masters of Education (MED) from Lamar University and a Masters of Education (MED) from Lamar University.

Fishersville, VA

Specialties

Grief

ADHD

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Style

Exploratory

Approachable

Curious

I provide space for people to process whatever they're dealing with. Everyone needs a place to be heard, to share, and to simply be whoever they are. I offer a safe and supportive environment for individuals, couples, and families to explore their thoughts, feelings, and experiences.

Next appointmentThursday, Apr 30th

Available virtually

Amelia Jacokes

Patients consistently give high satisfaction ratings

LCSW

•

4+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Amelia Jacokes, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Amelia has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from University of Southern California.

Charlottesville, VA

Specialties

Grief

Addiction

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Panic Attacks

Style

Responsive

Approachable

Curious

Do you want to learn more about yourself and how you walk through life? Do you experience difficulties in areas that others seem to have a relatively easy time managing? I'm ready to help you gain insight and overcome challenges.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 21st

Available virtually

Alimatu Mustapha-Palmer

Recognized for high quality patient care

LPC

•

17+ years

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Alimatu Mustapha-Palmer, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Alimatu has a Master of Science (MS) Clinical Psych from University of the District of Columbia, a PhD from Howard University and a MAC (Masters Addiction Certification) as a substance abuse professional from NAADAC.

Alexandria, VA

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Cultural Stress

Depression

Life Transitions

Substance Use

Style

Insightful

Attuned

Motivational

I help individuals, families, and groups navigate life transitions, relationship challenges, cultural dynamics, and spirituality. My work spans diverse populations including children, veterans, minorities, women, and faith-based communities. I bring a holistic, person-centered approach to address your unique needs.

Next appointmentFriday, Apr 24th

Available virtually

Milov Sonnier

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW

•

8+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Milov Sonnier, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Milov has a Masters of Social Work from Norfolk State University.

Yorktown, VA

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Life Transitions

Style

Outcome-oriented

Gentle

Collaborative

I specialize in women's issues, trauma, PTSD, thought disorders, stress, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, and more. I use integrative approaches to help my clients make progress and to begin to feel better.

“Milov has helped me connect aspects of my life and has guided me through difficult moments. She is very easy to talk to and frequently poses questions or observations that I hadn’t considered before. Finding the right therapist can be challenging and I feel so lucky that I found one as wonderful as her”

Next appointmentFriday, May 1st

Available virtually

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Exploring online therapy for grief

Grief and its impact on life

Grief is a natural response to loss, often felt deeply when we lose someone or something important to us. It can manifest in various ways, including sadness, anger, confusion, and a sense of isolation. Grief can significantly impact daily life, affecting one’s ability to function in personal and professional settings. Navigating through grief is a deeply personal process and can be critical for emotional healing and moving forward.

The importance of therapy for grief

Engaging with a grief therapist can be helpful for those struggling with loss. Therapists specializing in grief can provide support and understanding, helping you to process complex emotions and cope with the pain of loss. Therapy can offer a safe space to explore feelings of grief, learn to adjust to life after loss, and develop strategies for healing and finding a new sense of normalcy.

Effective therapeutic approaches for grief

Various therapeutic methods can be effective in supporting people through grief:

Advantages of online therapy for grief

Online grief therapy offers several practical benefits. It can be accessible and convenient, allowing you to connect with therapists from the comfort and privacy of your own home, providing a secure space to openly discuss and process your feelings during such a sensitive and personal time. The sessions are flexible and can be scheduled according to your needs, accommodating the unpredictable nature of grief.

Tips for choosing the right grief therapist

FAQs about grief therapy and therapists

When to seek a grief therapist?

Consider seeking a grief therapist if your grief feels overwhelming, is affecting your ability to carry on with daily activities, or if you're struggling to move forward. Common signs include persistent sadness, inability to enjoy life, or feeling stuck in your grief. Therapy can provide a guided pathway through the grieving process, helping you to cope with the loss and a renewed sense of purpose.

What is the typical duration of therapy for grief?

The length of grief therapy varies for each person, depending on the nature of the loss and personal coping mechanisms. Some may find short-term therapy beneficial, while others might engage in longer-term support. Grief therapy is often flexible, with the therapist adapting to your changing needs over time.

What to expect in your first grief therapy session?

In the first session, you'll likely share your story of loss and discuss how it’s impacting your life. Your therapist should listen empathetically, ask questions, and work toward establishing a supportive and understanding relationship. This session sets the foundation for your grief therapy journey.

How to find a qualified therapist for grief?

A qualified therapist for grief should have specialized training in grief counseling or therapy. Look for therapists with experience in dealing with your specific situation, and credentials in therapies you’d like to explore.

Does insurance cover grief therapy sessions?

Insurance coverage for grief therapy can vary. After you've booked your first session, Rula verifies your insurance coverage and follows up with a cost estimate, including any required copayments.

Can grief therapy be conducted online?

Yes, grief therapy can be effectively conducted online. It offers a flexible and accessible option, allowing you to receive support in a setting that feels most comfortable for you, especially during a time of mourning. Therapy techniques can be adapted for virtual sessions, ensuring you receive care tailored to your needs and recovery journey.

Connect with Therapists who accept Anthem in Virginia

Quality care comes first at Rula

Quality care comes first at Rula

Sarah Taylor

shannon fowler

Lynette Jacob

Robert Phillips

Christina Urcinas

Laura Stanzione

Karyn Nicolai

Jennifer Erickson

Richard Swaine

Eleanor Lampell

Reba James

Melissa Douglas

Amelia Jacokes

Alimatu Mustapha-Palmer

Milov Sonnier

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Hundreds of thousands of patients have found affordable, in-network mental health care with Rula

Insurance

$15 / session

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15,000+

Match

98%

Progress

93%

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