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Thomas Spence, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in California

Thomas Spence

Individual therapy

Rula verifies every provider’s credentials and conducts regular quality reviews

LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Thomas Spence, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

All Rula providers are licensed and hold a master’s or doctorate degree required for practice.

Available virtually|CA
Specialties
Anxiety
Coping Skills
Job Stress
Self Esteem
Stress
Style
Responsive
Attuned
Curious

Hi there, I'm Thomas!

I work with individuals and couples who may feel stuck in patterns shaped by trauma, anxiety, relationship stress, betrayal, life transitions, or disconnection from themselves or others.

My focus

Many come to therapy wanting to heal past wounds, improve communication, rebuild trust, strengthen emotional connection, and better understand how their mind and body respond to stress. I help clients move forward by creating a safe, supportive space to process experiences, build insight, and develop lasting tools for healing and growth.

My approach

My approach is holistic, evidence-based, and tailored to each client’s needs. I integrate EMDR, somatic therapy, Gottman Method Couples Therapy, hypnotherapy, and trauma-focused interventions to support healing, improve emotional regulation, strengthen relationships, and help clients create meaningful and lasting change.

Expertise

Focus populations

Educators
Sex Worker
Sex-Positive/Kink
Body Positivity
Gay
Intersex
LGBTQIA+
Lesbian
Non-Binary
Open Relationships/Non-Monogamy
Police/Fire/First Responders
Queer
+ 12 more

Therapy types

  • Couples Therapy
  • Individual Therapy

Ages served

  • Adults

Practice

Accepted insurance providers

  • Aetna
  • Allegiance
  • Allied
  • Arlo (Cigna)
  • Centivo

Languages spoken

English

Sessions

60 minutes
Virtual sessions

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