How to find the right therapist in Virginia

When choosing a therapist in Virginia, it's best to reflect on what you’re looking for and ask yourself which of the following criteria are most important to you: Do they accept your insurance? Do you need a therapist who specializes in a specific mental health concern such as depression, anxiety, or trauma? Are you looking for someone to work with you individually? Or are you looking for someone to support you as a couple or family? Would you be more comfortable partnering with a therapist of a certain race, gender expression, sexual orientation, religious, or cultural background?

Can I use my insurance?

Yes! Therapists on the Rula platform are in-network with most major insurance plans. Rula patients typically pay $15 per session, although your individual cost may vary based on your insurance benefits and deductible. We’ll work with your insurance to confirm your estimated per-session cost before your first appointment. Ready to get started? Click here to browse available therapists who accept your insurance.

How do I know if therapy is right for me?

There’s no right or wrong reason to start therapy. Whether you’re seeking help navigating a life transition or managing symptoms of anxiety or depression, therapy is an effective treatment for many types of concerns – all you need is an open mind and a general sense of what you’d like to explore with a therapist. Still unsure? Head to our blog to learn more.

How soon can I meet with a therapist?

Therapists in Rula’s network are available to meet as soon as tomorrow. Click here to explore therapists and book your first session in minutes.

What should I consider when choosing a therapist?

It depends on your personal preferences and goals. Whether you’re seeking a therapist who specializes in certain mental health conditions, shares your ethnic background, or is available to meet at your preferred time – Rula makes it easy to search and filter by what matters most to you. If you don’t feel like your first choice was a match, don’t worry – we’ll help you switch to a different therapist in our network. Check out our blog post for more pointers on finding your best-fit therapist.

How do I know if I need therapy or psychiatry?

If you’re experiencing severe symptoms that interfere with your daily functioning, you may want to consider starting with a psychiatric provider who can assess your needs and prescribe medication if deemed necessary. If your symptoms are mild or moderate, therapy may be a better starting point. No matter where you begin your journey – your provider will work with you to develop a personalized treatment plan that’s based on your individual needs and concerns. Still unsure? Visit our blog to learn more about the differences.

Does Rula offer in-person appointments?

Currently, Rula offers in-person therapy in some states. For those living in other states, there are many benefits to online therapy!

Can Rula help me find a therapist?

Absolutely. Rula’s network of 10,000+ licensed providers represent more than 80 clinical specialties and a diverse range of backgrounds – making it easier to find the care you need. Once you provide us with some basic information, we’ll generate a curated list of in-network therapists who are licensed in your state and accepting new patients. From there, you can filter by what matters most to you and explore individual biographies until you find a match. Ready to get started?

What types of care can I access through Rula?

Providers in Rula’s network specialize in individual therapy, couples therapy, family therapy, and psychiatric care (i.e., medication management).

Who is eligible to access care through Rula?

Individuals aged 5 and older are eligible to receive care in any state where Rula is available.

How will I meet with my therapist?

Rula specializes in online therapy – giving you the flexibility to meet with your therapist from wherever you’re most comfortable. We’ll send you an appointment reminder containing a secure link to your scheduled Zoom session approximately 24 hours before your session.

Connect with Therapists who accept United Medical Resources (UMR) in Virginia

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30+ therapists who accept UMR

Quality care comes first at Rula

We regularly review providers to ensure quality

30+ therapists who accept UMR

Zalene Burleson

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LPC

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Zalene Burleson, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Zalene has a Master of Science (MS) in Art Therapy and Counceling from Eastern Virginia Medical School.

Chesapeake, VA

Specialties

Grief

Addiction

Life Transitions

Substance Use

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Exploratory

Candid

Collaborative

I help people find their way through tough times, whether you're grappling with trauma, navigating addiction, facing a major life transition, or struggling with the loss of a loved one. I believe in your inherent strengths and use a humanistic approach, integrating art-making if you choose, to empower you to create positive change.

Next appointmentThursday, Apr 23rd

Available virtually

Violetta Battle

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LCSW

•

32+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Violetta Battle, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Violetta has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from University of Maryland.

Virginia

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Family Conflict

Self Esteem

Stress

Style

Outcome-oriented

Gentle

Motivational

I help individuals navigate relationship difficulties, family conflicts, caregiving challenges, anxiety, depression, and self-esteem issues. My goal is to support you through life's challenges with warmth and understanding.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Shareela Allen

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Shareela Allen, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Shareela has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from California State University, San Bernardino.

Virginia

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Life Transitions

Relationship Issues

Self Esteem

Style

Outcome-oriented

Candid

Collaborative

I specialize in helping individuals navigate life transitions, anxiety, depression, narcissism, codependency, people-pleasing, and trauma. My approach is client-centered and collaborative, tailored to your specific needs and goals.

Next appointmentWednesday, Apr 29th

Available virtually

Nahtanha Marler

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LPC

•

2+ years

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Nahtanha Marler, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Nahtanha has a Master of Science (MS) in Licensed Professional Clinical Counseling from Grand Canyon University.

Virginia

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

LGBTQIA+

Self Esteem

Style

Responsive

Warm

Collaborative

I am passionate about providing inclusive therapy, affirming and accessible to all. As someone who was diagnosed with ADHD in childhood, I bring both professional expertise and personal understanding to my work. This lived experience allows me to connect deeply with clients navigating ADHD and related challenges.

“Natahna has been really supportive with my son. I enjoy listening to how she interacts with him.”

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 21st

Available virtually

Irene Ervin Bullock

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Irene Ervin Bullock, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Irene has a Master of Science (MS) from Columbia University.

Richmond, VA

Specialties

Grief

Aging

Life Transitions

Spirituality

Stress

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Directive

Spiritual

Curious

Emotions like anger, sadness, or worry can feel overwhelming when life becomes uncertain. In therapy, I can help clients uncover what's beneath those feelings and find peace through understanding, compassion, and faith. I work with Veterans, older adults, and individuals facing trauma, life transitions, or spiritual challenges.

Next appointmentSunday, Apr 26th

Available virtually

Alexa Casey

LCP

•

31+ years

Licensed Clinical Psychologists (LCPs), like Alexa Casey, hold a doctoral degree and are trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Alexa has a Doctor of Psychology (PSYD) from Wright State University and a Master's in Counseling (MC) from Eastern Michigan University.

Christiansburg, VA

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Family Conflict

Life Transitions

Style

Exploratory

Candid

Collaborative

I'm very approachable, but I am very task and process-oriented in treatment. I am a systems thinker. In my opinion, therapy provides support and tools, and I appreciate being present with it all.

Next appointmentMonday, Apr 27th

Available virtually

Eleanor Lampell

LPC

•

17+ years

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Eleanor Lampell, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Eleanor has a Master of Science (MS) from Eastern Virginia Medical School.

Norfolk, VA

Specialties

Grief

ADHD

Anxiety

Depression

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Exploratory

Candid

Collaborative

I specialize in helping adults and teens navigate anxiety, depression, AD/HD, grief and loss, trauma, and life transitions. Through a holistic approach integrating traditional therapy with creative art therapy, I offer a unique way to explore and process emotions in a safe, non-judgmental space.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 21st

Available virtually

Tasha Burnette

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LPC

•

4+ years

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Tasha Burnette, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Tasha has a Masters of Arts (MA) in Counseling from Liberty University.

Virginia

Specialties

Grief

Addiction

Anxiety

Depression

LGBTQIA+

Style

Exploratory

Attuned

Affirming

We all experience periods in our lives in which we may not have all the answers or make the right choices. At times, we may also feel that no one can understand or relate to us due to our individual differences. My diverse background and resiliency have assisted in my ability to relate to individuals regardless of their socioeconomic status.

Next appointmentWednesday, May 13th

Available virtually

Stephen Schill

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Stephen Schill, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Stephen has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from California State University, Long Beach.

Virginia

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Directive

Spiritual

Collaborative

Anxiety, depression, fear, anger, and grief don't have to define you or determine your future. I help people examine, understand, and overcome thoughts and emotions that might be holding them back from the lives they want to live. Therapy with me is rooted in God's truth as revealed by Jesus Christ.

Next appointmentTuesday, Apr 28th

Available virtually

Jennifer Erickson

Recognized for high quality patient care

LPC

•

8+ years

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Jennifer Erickson, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Jennifer has a Doctor of Philosophy (PHD) in Health Psychology from Walden University and a Master of Science (MS) in Mental Health Counseling from Walden University.

Virginia

Specialties

Grief

ADHD

Alcohol Use

Anxiety

Style

Outcome-oriented

Attuned

Empowering

I help clients navigate anxiety, panic disorder, adult ADHD, chronic illness, relationship challenges, weight management, stress, and women's issues. My therapeutic approach integrates evidence-based methodologies to provide comprehensive and individualized care tailored to your unique needs.

Next appointmentTomorrow

Available virtually

Reba James

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCSW

•

7+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Reba James, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Reba has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Virginia Commonwealth University.

Richmond, VA

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Developmental Disorders

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Exploratory

Warm

Curious

I provide a safe, non-judgmental space where you can explore your emotions, develop healthy coping strategies, and build resilience. I work collaboratively with clients to help them discover their strengths, improve their wellness, and achieve their goals.

Next appointmentThursday, Apr 30th

Available virtually

Yang Jiang

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LMFT

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3+ years

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs), like Yang Jiang, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Yang has a Master's in Marital and Family Therapy from University of San Diego.

Virginia

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Codependency

Depression

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Insightful

Candid

Empowering

I specialize in helping clients break out of codependency and being stuck in repetitive cycles of behavior by addressing self-sabotage, low self-esteem, and developing self-sufficiency.

Next appointmentThursday, Apr 23rd

Available virtually

Christina Urcinas

Recognized for high quality patient care

LCP

•

9+ years

Licensed Clinical Psychologists (LCPs), like Christina Urcinas, hold a doctoral degree and are trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Christina has a Master of Arts in General Psychology from New York University and a Doctoral Program in Clinical Psychology from University of Maryland College Park.

Fairfax, VA

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Mood Disorders

Stress

Style

Responsive

Candid

Collaborative

I specialize in helping adults navigate life transitions, mood concerns, and anxiety using Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. My work focuses on creating meaningful change for those feeling stuck or overwhelmed by life's challenges.

“Dr. Urcinas has helped me in more significant ways than any therapist before. Her work is hard, but if you are willing to put in the time and effort, it brings such positive change.”

Next appointmentWednesday, May 6th

Available virtually

Tammie Bodner

Patients consistently give high satisfaction ratings

LCSW

•

4+ years

Licensed Clinical Social Workers (LCSWs), like Tammie Bodner, are social workers trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Tammie has a Master of Social Work (MSW) from University of Michigan School of Social Work.

Virginia

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Sexual Abuse

Style

Responsive

Warm

Collaborative

Even when you’re feeling lost and alone, there’s always a next first step — and we can take it together. My name is Tammie, and I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with over 20 years of experience in clinical and medical settings. I specialize in treating trauma, complicated grief, anxiety, and depression, and in navigating life’s transitions.

“She is a wonderful listener and has provided me with insights about myself and how to get better. She listens without judgement and is very encouraging.”

Next appointmentMonday, Apr 27th

Available virtually

Ramfis Marquez-Castillo

Many new patients continue care with this provider

LPC

•

12+ years

Licensed Professional Counselors (LPCs), like Ramfis Marquez-Castillo, are mental health professionals trained to diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Ramfis has a Doctor of Philosophy (PHD) in Clinical Psychology from Walden University.

Bristow, VA

Specialties

Grief

Anxiety

Depression

Mood Disorders

Stress

Trauma and PTSD

Style

Exploratory

Attuned

Curious

I’m an LPC with over 20 years of experience. I’m here to support you in finding balance and clarity in your life, helping you uncover your strengths and work toward your personal goals. We’ll explore ways to manage life’s challenges together, whether you’re dealing with stress, anxiety, or simply looking to improve your overall well-being.

Next appointmentTuesday, May 5th

Available virtually

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Exploring online therapy for grief

Grief and its impact on life

Grief is a natural response to loss, often felt deeply when we lose someone or something important to us. It can manifest in various ways, including sadness, anger, confusion, and a sense of isolation. Grief can significantly impact daily life, affecting one’s ability to function in personal and professional settings. Navigating through grief is a deeply personal process and can be critical for emotional healing and moving forward.

The importance of therapy for grief

Engaging with a grief therapist can be helpful for those struggling with loss. Therapists specializing in grief can provide support and understanding, helping you to process complex emotions and cope with the pain of loss. Therapy can offer a safe space to explore feelings of grief, learn to adjust to life after loss, and develop strategies for healing and finding a new sense of normalcy.

Effective therapeutic approaches for grief

Various therapeutic methods can be effective in supporting people through grief:

Advantages of online therapy for grief

Online grief therapy offers several practical benefits. It can be accessible and convenient, allowing you to connect with therapists from the comfort and privacy of your own home, providing a secure space to openly discuss and process your feelings during such a sensitive and personal time. The sessions are flexible and can be scheduled according to your needs, accommodating the unpredictable nature of grief.

Tips for choosing the right grief therapist

FAQs about grief therapy and therapists

When to seek a grief therapist?

Consider seeking a grief therapist if your grief feels overwhelming, is affecting your ability to carry on with daily activities, or if you're struggling to move forward. Common signs include persistent sadness, inability to enjoy life, or feeling stuck in your grief. Therapy can provide a guided pathway through the grieving process, helping you to cope with the loss and a renewed sense of purpose.

What is the typical duration of therapy for grief?

The length of grief therapy varies for each person, depending on the nature of the loss and personal coping mechanisms. Some may find short-term therapy beneficial, while others might engage in longer-term support. Grief therapy is often flexible, with the therapist adapting to your changing needs over time.

What to expect in your first grief therapy session?

In the first session, you'll likely share your story of loss and discuss how it’s impacting your life. Your therapist should listen empathetically, ask questions, and work toward establishing a supportive and understanding relationship. This session sets the foundation for your grief therapy journey.

How to find a qualified therapist for grief?

A qualified therapist for grief should have specialized training in grief counseling or therapy. Look for therapists with experience in dealing with your specific situation, and credentials in therapies you’d like to explore.

Does insurance cover grief therapy sessions?

Insurance coverage for grief therapy can vary. After you've booked your first session, Rula verifies your insurance coverage and follows up with a cost estimate, including any required copayments.

Can grief therapy be conducted online?

Yes, grief therapy can be effectively conducted online. It offers a flexible and accessible option, allowing you to receive support in a setting that feels most comfortable for you, especially during a time of mourning. Therapy techniques can be adapted for virtual sessions, ensuring you receive care tailored to your needs and recovery journey.

Connect with Therapists who accept United Medical Resources (UMR) in Virginia

Quality care comes first at Rula

Quality care comes first at Rula

Zalene Burleson

Violetta Battle

Shareela Allen

Nahtanha Marler

Irene Ervin Bullock

Alexa Casey

Eleanor Lampell

Tasha Burnette

Stephen Schill

Jennifer Erickson

Reba James

Yang Jiang

Christina Urcinas

Tammie Bodner

Ramfis Marquez-Castillo

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$15 / session

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15,000+

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98%

Progress

93%

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