Mary O'Connor

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Mary O'connor, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in California

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) in CA More info Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists, LMFTs, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Accepting patients

Licensed in CA

Accepts insurance

Hi there, I'm Mary!

I'm Mary O'Connor, a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist who has had the joy of being able to work with families. I love the work I do and have over 30 years of experience working with couples, families, and individuals. I have been privileged to turn around and use my excellent training from Chapman University to train intern therapists and run a nonprofit for families in crisis. These men and women are now successful therapists themselves. Today my goal is to help you find your way out of situations that are troubling you, with compassion and good humor.

My approach

I have seen great success with using the cognitive behavioral theory along with looking at any trauma-related past experiences that are blocking your way to moving forward.

My focus

I enjoy working with couples and individuals who are looking for better-coping mechanisms than what they are using today. Small changes make for greater results, clients tell me. If you are sad, angry, grieving, struggling, or anxious, then we can look at those issues. Willingness on your part is the key.

My communication style

I have been told by my clients that they feel comfortable with me and supported. I like to meet you where you are at and look at the most important goals you have to work on.

My journey to mental healthcare

I learned I had a knack for listening to people and having them share things with me during my tenure as a graduate assistant in sociology conducting a study on grief and bereavement. I have loved my work as a therapist since I first started seeing my first clients. It is such a privilege to be invited into your life and work with you to uncover what has been bothering you and discover your strengths and weaknesses. I feel so lucky to have found a profession that fits me like a glove and makes me happy every day to go to work!

My goals for you

You may not be sure what your goals are initially; that is okay, we can explore together what hurts you and what you uncover to try to fix these problems.

My first session with you

In our first session, we'll go over your history and look at what you have gone through and where you want to go.

About Mary

Specialities

  • Addiction
  • Alcohol Use
  • Anger Management
  • Anxiety
  • Behavioral Issues
  • Codependency
  • Divorce
  • Domestic Violence
  • Infidelity
  • Job Stress
  • Life Coaching
  • Life Transitions
  • Parenting
  • Relapse Prevention
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self Esteem
  • Stress
  • Substance Use
  • Trauma and PTSD
  • Child Abuse or Neglect

Methods

  • Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
  • Client Centered Therapy
  • Coaching
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Cognitive Processing (CPT)
  • Compassion Focused
  • Complicated Grief Therapy (CGT)
  • Couples Therapy
  • Culturally Sensitive
  • Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
  • Family Systems
  • Family Therapy
  • Grief Therapy
  • Holistic
  • Humanistic
  • Interpersonal
  • Mindfulness-Based
  • Motivational Interviewing
  • Narrative
  • Rational Emotive Behavior (REBT)
  • Relational
  • Solution Focused
  • Strength-Based
  • Structural Family Therapy
  • Supportive
  • Trauma Focused

Practice

License

  • Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) More info Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists, LMFTs, are mental health professionals trained in family systems who can diagnose and treat mental health issues and substance misuse with psychotherapy and counseling.

Accepted insurance providers

  • Aetna, Cigna, Optum, Anthem, MHN, Kaiser Permanente (Southern Ca), Tricare West, and Blue Shield of CA

Languages spoken

  • English

Experience

  • 39 years of experience

Education

  • Master in Counseling (MC) - Chapman University (1984)

Session Information

  • Video session
  • 60 minutes

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No slots on Thursday, May 09.

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Morning

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No slots on Sunday, May 12.

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Afternoon

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Morning

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Afternoon

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No slots on Thursday, May 16.

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No slots on Friday, May 17.

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Morning

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No slots on Sunday, May 19.

The soonest day with availability is

Afternoon

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Morning

All times are shown in Pacific Time (PT)

Afternoon

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No slots on Thursday, May 23.

The soonest day with availability is

Morning

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Morning

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No slots on Sunday, May 26.

The soonest day with availability is

Afternoon

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Morning

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Afternoon

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No slots on Thursday, May 30.

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No slots on Friday, May 31.

The soonest day with availability is

Morning

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No slots on Sunday, Jun 02.

The soonest day with availability is

Morning

Afternoon

All times are shown in Pacific Time (PT)

Morning

All times are shown in Pacific Time (PT)

No slots on Wednesday, Jun 05.

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  • Video session
  • 55 minutes
  • Covered by Aetna, Cigna, Optum, Anthem, MHN, Kaiser Permanente (Southern Ca), Tricare West, and Blue Shield of CA Session cost depends on your insurance, most people pay $5-40 per session after meeting their deductible. There aren't any fees for using Rula.

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